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Why Girls Like Bad Boys – And What You Can Do About It

January 7, 2014 By Shogun Method team 16 Comments

Girls choosing bad boys over nice guys happens all the time. – whether in college, in movies, in books or pretty much everywhere. Bad boys, after all, are also everywhere coming in all sizes, shape and oozing with sex appeal. If you’re a nice guy who finished last or lost a girl to a bad guy, below are some theories why women have an incurable aficionado on bad guys.

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Why Girls Like Bad Boys – And What You Can Do About It

stockxpertcom_id401190_size1>>>>>> The Thrill of the Chase
Going after what you want is always thrilling. But what’s even more exciting is going after someone who doesn’t really want to be chased, caught or understood. That’s how it is with bad guys. Women love men who are mysterious or needs figuring out. And in order to use this thrill to your advantage, sometimes you need to leave women guessing. If you like her, try not to wear it on your sleeves. Instead afford her the chance to also win you over by putting on your mysterious side from time to time. A sure way on How to Get Inside a Woman’s Mind.

>>>>>> A Chance to Tame Him
Another element of the infamous “bad guy” appeal is the chance to tame one. Women, in her natural mother’s instincts fashion, have a need to transform bad guys into nice ones. In a way, this makes them feel empowered, fulfilled or simply in control. It feeds their inner womanhood which is why men should challenge women once in a while. Be a rebel but definitely not a criminal. Be dangerous but not to a point that will instill fear in her. In essence, let them bring out the best in you, allowing them to tame your wild ways and become a real man in the process.

>>>>>> Oozing MasculinityiStock_000008701262XLarge
Bad guys almost always win over nice guys because they’re oozing with masculinity and palpable sex appeal. It’s the fearlessness exuding in bad guys that hook women up. Most women are attracted to tough, dangerous and strong guys because it means they can’t be pushed over or manipulated. When you can stand up against her demands and bad ways, it only means you’re able to handle her when necessary. In order to portray a certain level of fearlessness, you need to show your girl you are man enough to protect or stand up against her.

>>>>>> Renowned for Commitment Issues
Synonymous with bad guys are lack of commitment or unavailability. For women who has the same fears, bad guys are too sexy to resist. Since women know they won’t commit, there is no need to deal with feelings of falling in and out of love. It also means good news for girls who are only ready for short-term flings or hook-ups at the moment. At the end of the day, however, even bad guys or bad girls for that matter also secretly desire to be loved. What you can do is gauge the opposite sex’s commitment issues and start from there.

Whether you like it or not, bad guys will always hold a dear place in women’s hearts. There’s just something in them that causes women to fall head over heels in love with. But that doesn’t mean nice guys should become bad guys in order to win over the girl of your dreams. What you can do is strike a balance. Always be the person that you really are while making sure to also infuse some rebellious hints of your bad boy persona. If there’s something good in each one, there’s also the bad side which you can use to your favor.

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-Matt

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Interesting First Date Ideas

January 7, 2014 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

While the usual movie and dinner combo still works, there are interesting first date ideas that work better. A girl likes it a lot when a guy makes an effort to spice things up. It sets you up for greater chances of getting another date and it makes you unlike most guys. That makes you ahead of most guys and a good first date can be your gauge if the relationship is worth pursuing. Here are some date ideas from Cosmopolitan.

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Ideas for your first date.

Making an effort is definitely a plus, but you don’t have to try too hard either. You don’t need to do something grand to impress her. Instead, find out what interests her and set-up your date around that knowledge so she’ll know that you’re paying attention.

Interesting First Date Ideas

What to do on your first date?
What to do on your first date?

“Run Together.” A lot of women love to run and if your girl is the type, invite her to run together. It’s casual, relaxed and definitely comfortable. It’s also a common ground for both you which means it could lead to more running dates in the future.
 
“Whip Up a Picnic.” If you’re anywhere near a park or you know a nice romantic spot somewhere, opt for the old-fashioned way of wooing a girl. Bring a blanket, pick something from a restaurant and charm her with your excellent conversational skills.

“Enjoy Early Morning.” Crazy schedule and you can’t decide on a time? Don’t fret. You can always ask her to join you for a morning meal. Pick a nice place with good food and a nice view of the sunrise. You might be surprised how it will work out beautifully. It’s calm, refreshing and so much easier to be yourself.  This is 100% Killer Ways To Make a Woman Want You.

“Hit the Drive-In.” Instead of heading to a moviehouse, give her a movie experience she won’t forget. Take her for a ride and find a drive-in where you can enjoy a nice time under the stars. Even if it’s not the latest movie out there, the drive-in is a sure way to spice things up.

“Go Hiking.” If your date is game, exploring the outdoors through hiking is an excellent idea for a first date. With just you and her amidst the lusciousness of nature, it’s easier to talk, bond and enjoy each other’s company.

Go on vacation.
Go on a vacation.

“Fly High.” if you’ve got the funds and you really want to woo her, rent a chopper and enjoy a new experience together. A night time flight is definitely romantic and without a doubt impressive. Not many gust can pull it off and while it’s expensive, you’re one first date she won’t forget for a long time.

“Be Tourists.” Once in a while, it’s nice to be a tourist in your own place. But what’s even nicer is to do it with a girl you like. Pick a tourist spot in the area and make it your first date setting. Make sure the spot is one you both haven’t been to yet to make it more special.

When planning a memorable first date, do not settle for the usual. Think of something different, unique and interesting to stick in to her mind. Of course, it has to be something that fit her personality and interests but ultimately, the goal is share a first date experience that will allow you to connect with her.

Keep updated, always visit SIBG!

-Matt

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How To Talk To A Woman (Conversational Attraction Techniques)

November 4, 2013 By Shogun Method team 3 Comments

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How to talk to her.

If you tend to have trouble talking to girls that you find attractive, then it is high time to find a way to become better at it and become more comfortable talking to them. Sometimes, men who feel awkward talking to women stop themselves from approaching women altogether because of the awkwardness. This then results in them not being able to get to know women better or take them out on dates.

Simply put, you won’t really know how to pick up girls until you really master the art of having meaningful conversations – with the females or the males!

If you are sick of going through that yourself day in and day out, then you need to find some easy way to talk to women and make your life better. If dating is difficult for you right now, you should know that it doesn’t need to be that way. Here are several tips on how to talk to a woman and help you get better at doing so in no time.

Do not fill your conversations with too many compliments.

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Don’t over use compliments.

A ton of men out there tend to resort to compliments whenever they run out of words to say when talking to a woman. Other men do it because they want to make sure that women know they are interested in them. Unfortunately, compliments don’t really say much or do much in terms of helping you out with women. So, compliments aside, you have to talk about other things with her, as well.

If you don’t do anything but tell her how beautiful she is, you will merely blend in with the rest of the desperate men out there and fail at making a lasting and positive impression on the woman that you like. Remember: you probably aren’t the only man who thinks she is attractive. In fact, chances are that most men find her attractive to. This means that compliments won’t be anything new to her at all.

Do not focus too much on the fact that you find her attractive.

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Enjoy the date with her.

On that note, you shouldn’t focus on how attractive she is overall. The minute you start thinking too much about how gorgeous or how great it is, the more unnecessary pressure you will put yourself in. In order to avoid this, you have to trick your mind into thinking that she really isn’t that gorgeous or great, after all. Once the pressure is off the table, you will instantly have a much easier time talking to any woman that you want.

Look for things that you might have in common.

Of course, it wouldn’t hurt to look for things that you might have in common. As a matter of fact, this would be one of the best ways to get her to give you her phone number and convince her to go on a date with you. Remember: when a woman realizes that you share a lot of common interests, she will instantly want to spend more time with you in order to talk about those interests. So, do your research and try to figure out what you can talk to and share together. And of course, if you know some mind manipulation techniques then all the better!

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How To Seduce A Girl Online – SIBG Online Attraction Tactics

November 4, 2013 By Shogun Method team 2 Comments

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Met her online. What to do next?

If there were one place in the world where you can let loose and just be yourself and actually get girls to fall for you, that place would be the Internet. This is actually the reason why so many guys have taken to the World Wide Web to try their luck at meeting, attract and seducing girls nowadays. The best news is that a lot of them end up succeeding at this endeavor.

Without a doubt, anything involving the fairer sex is quite challenging and as enjoyable as it can be at times, it can get quite frustrating, too. Going online to do so is much more fun, though, since there is practically no stress or pressure involved. If you want, you can even use the Internet as a training ground for meeting girls in real life. Plus, you might just end up meeting your dream girl there. If you have never tried online dating before, though, then here are several tips on how to seduce a girl online.

  • Flirt with Her.

As in real life, flirting with a girl online would be absolutely essential. It would also be essential to mix up your flirting techniques every now and then. Shower her with compliments one day, for example, and be a bit naughty the next. The most important part, though, would be to make her feel good, relaxed and comfortable whenever she chats with you. This will ensure that she enjoys getting to know you better and will get her excited about meeting you in person someday.

  • Have a Way with Words.

Pickup lines won’t work very well on the Internet. Instead, it would be best to know how to carry on good conversations and showcase your sense of humor at the same time. As with the aforementioned tip, having a way with words will get her excited about meeting you someday.

On the other hand, if you know how to pick up girls offline, then use the same techniques online and you’ll do well.

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Make her laugh.

  • Make Her Laugh.

On that note, having a sense of humor will also impress her a lot, especially if you have some killer wit up your sleeves. Girls love funny guys, after all; so make sure you showcase a strong, fun and memorable personality whenever you talk to a girl online.

  • Reserve the Best for Last.

When talking to a girl online, make sure that you don’t tell her every single thing about yourself right away. Keep a few things to yourself and intrigue her that way. Naturally, she will still expect you to share a bit of your background with her, though, but if you keep a few secrets, she will definitely look forward to talking to you more. Keep her guessing and have fun with it.

  • Actually Meet Her.

At the end of the day – after you have flirted and chatted with her and gotten to know her a little better – you have to ask her out. Keep in mind that this would be a huge step for online dating, though, so make sure you are ready for it before you pop the question.

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Covert Seduction – How to Mess with Women’s Minds

November 1, 2013 By Shogun Method team 7 Comments

iStock_000008701262XLargeBefore anything else, you should know that women are professionals in the art of mind games. They will flirt with you, they will play hard-to-get, and they will get what they want out of it.

Interestingly enough, men don’t mess with women’s minds as they do with men’s minds. In fact, a lot of the time, they don’t get played at all. The good news is that this makes them vulnerable to mind games. This basically means that you can learn how to mess with women’s minds, confuse them to death and win them over in no time.

  • Try cold reading.

Approach any woman that you want and tell her that you can read her fortune for her. Most women will agree to this. If she does, then start stating general and random things that could apply to any woman out there or come up with things that you might have picked up from afar before you actually approached her. If you sound convincing enough, you will definitely make a good impression on her.

If you really want to succeed at this, then make sure you learn more about female body language before trying this tactic out to begin with. This would entail staying on track with your words, especially if you decide to read her fortune through her palm. Generally speaking, palm reading would be the best method to go for when it comes to this since you will be able to hold your hand while you’re at it. Light touches like that can easily help you connect with a woman much faster than usual. Plus, they could send shivers up her spine and build up even more attraction overall.

  • Try entering her mind.

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Believe it or not, several methods of hypnosis can help you make women emotionally addicted to you. You can try making a woman happy one minute and then making her sad the next. As long as you bring some drama into her life, though, you are sure to get in good with her.

Women actually love drama, so if you can make her feel like she is living a real-life soap opera, then she will invest her feelings into you much quicker. Once you succeed at doing this, you might even be able to get her to do anything that you want her to.

  • Try playing games.

Make jokes, laugh and tease the woman that you like to win her over. Even if some women pretend like they don’t like any type of childish behavior, the truth is that every woman enjoys being playful with a man. So, don’t be afraid to show off your playful side when you’re with a woman that you like.

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Besides, being playful is much better than being boring. In fact, being boring is probably the worst mistake that you could possibly commit in dating field. So, instead, aim to bring more fun and entertainment into her life. She is sure to find you interesting and definitely worth her while in the end if you do this.

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