Why Girls Like Bad Boys – And What You Can Do About It

Girls choosing bad boys over nice guys happens all the time. – whether in college, in movies, in books or pretty much everywhere. Bad boys, after all, are also everywhere coming in all sizes, shape and oozing with sex appeal. If you’re a nice guy who finished last or lost a girl to a bad guy, below are some theories why women have an incurable aficionado on bad guys.


Why Girls Like Bad Boys – And What You Can Do About It

stockxpertcom_id401190_size1>>>>>> The Thrill of the Chase
Going after what you want is always thrilling. But what’s even more exciting is going after someone who doesn’t really want to be chased, caught or understood. That’s how it is with bad guys. Women love men who are mysterious or needs figuring out. And in order to use this thrill to your advantage, sometimes you need to leave women guessing. If you like her, try not to wear it on your sleeves. Instead afford her the chance to also win you over by putting on your mysterious side from time to time. A sure way on How to Get Inside a Woman’s Mind.

>>>>>> A Chance to Tame Him
Another element of the infamous “bad guy” appeal is the chance to tame one. Women, in her natural mother’s instincts fashion, have a need to transform bad guys into nice ones. In a way, this makes them feel empowered, fulfilled or simply in control. It feeds their inner womanhood which is why men should challenge women once in a while. Be a rebel but definitely not a criminal. Be dangerous but not to a point that will instill fear in her. In essence, let them bring out the best in you, allowing them to tame your wild ways and become a real man in the process.

>>>>>> Oozing MasculinityiStock_000008701262XLarge
Bad guys almost always win over nice guys because they’re oozing with masculinity and palpable sex appeal. It’s the fearlessness exuding in bad guys that hook women up. Most women are attracted to tough, dangerous and strong guys because it means they can’t be pushed over or manipulated. When you can stand up against her demands and bad ways, it only means you’re able to handle her when necessary. In order to portray a certain level of fearlessness, you need to show your girl you are man enough to protect or stand up against her.

>>>>>> Renowned for Commitment Issues
Synonymous with bad guys are lack of commitment or unavailability. For women who has the same fears, bad guys are too sexy to resist. Since women know they won’t commit, there is no need to deal with feelings of falling in and out of love. It also means good news for girls who are only ready for short-term flings or hook-ups at the moment. At the end of the day, however, even bad guys or bad girls for that matter also secretly desire to be loved. What you can do is gauge the opposite sex’s commitment issues and start from there.

Whether you like it or not, bad guys will always hold a dear place in women’s hearts. There’s just something in them that causes women to fall head over heels in love with. But that doesn’t mean nice guys should become bad guys in order to win over the girl of your dreams. What you can do is strike a balance. Always be the person that you really are while making sure to also infuse some rebellious hints of your bad boy persona. If there’s something good in each one, there’s also the bad side which you can use to your favor.

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  1. While I´m here, there´s something important you are missing, and I think is the unspoken truth about why girls like bad boys.
    Girls love to feel special. Nice guys usually fail to make them feel special, because nice guys are nice to everyone. Bad boys don´t care about anyone (or so we believe) so knowing that this guy, who doesn´t want a girlfriend, who doesn´t take any girl seriously is into you, is a chance to feel special. If he is super rude to everyone, and is just slightly nice to this ONE girl, that makes her feel special.
    It´s similar the “chance to tame him” thing, but the underlying motive for that is feeling special. A regular guy has to do a bunch of things to make you feel like you are important and special, because he has been respectful to pretty much everyone. A bad boy just doesn´t have to be a complete jerk (and when he is, she will forgive him, because “he is not always like that” and because “he´s not like that when it´s just the two of us”. Knowing that she gets to see this secret guy that nobody else know is attractive to women.
    If you are a nice guy, and don´t want to play around with her, but she is into bad boys, make her feel special in a different way. Use your own super powers to beat the bad guy. in this case, she´s the one who is mistaken, and that´s why sometimes it takes 8 years for a nice guy to convince her that he´s not “just being nice” with her. (even if it seems obvious, but remember, she expects you to be nice, so it´s not special if you are nice, if she only reaches out to you when she´s losing you, offer something you don´t give to anyone else. If you are always the listener when she talks, maybe next time, you can share something with her, that is deep and interesting, don´t make a big deal about it, just let her notice that there is more to you than just “the nice guy” who listens after bad guys break her heart.

  2. Mike Sweeney says

    From: Michael J. Sweeney (msweeney1258@hotmail.com)
    Sent: Tue 4/22/14 4:34 PM
    To: matt@sibg.com (matt@sibg.com)

    Hey Matt Gantz

    I am an almost 56 yr old white male who lives in Crofton MD. I have a very deep interest in what your group can do to improve my odds at surviving the “dating game.”

    I came out of two back to back relationships with women, the first was 5 yrs older than me and second was 7 yrs younger (both tied me up for last 6 yrs ). I have not been able to nail even as much as a date the last yr and 1/2.

    I am physically fit and appear relatively younger than my chronological age. I’d prefer to date women in their 30’s and 40’s but once they find out I am 55-56 they treat me as if I am some sort of a bad joke

    What fuctional male wants a menopausal woman 55 – 65. I surely don’t.

    Any advice ?

    P.S. I don’t want to throw wads of cash around to prove my success even though I could — because then the 30s – 40’s would only accept me as their “sugar-daddy” (attracted to my wealth — not me )


  3. I am married now but gave up on women earlier in life. I realized that I would never get a girlfriend and accepted the truth. I realized that competing against the bad boy was impossible. He was a superior competitor and I acknowledged that. Giving up on women gave me a great feeling of peace. When I saw an attractive woman with a scumbag, I used to get upset. After I gave up on women, I didn’t care. I realized the attractive woman and the scumbag really did belong together. Ironically, after I totally gave up on women, I started to get female attention and dates. When I cared about them, they couldn’t run away fast enough.

  4. Never be the nice guy. Always be the gentleman. Gentleman own the banks and run the governments.

  5. There is nothing you can do about it since most women these days are very stupid.

  6. So you say that I should show her kitten, and then kill it in front of her? Or punch her in the face? Not nice at all. So if women like bad guys, then stuff like that should work theoretically.

  7. They like the trash when their young. When they get older THEN they want the nice guy who goes to church. I have not forgotten what I saw growing up. I reject the female trash everytime in church. It was Eve who caused all of our problems in the first place! Let them dream of a nice guy now, because this nice guy can live without them. They gave their virginity to trash. Why would the nice guy want them now? I guess they will have to go back to their old trashy boyfriends. Because this nice guy can live without them!!!

  8. Informatories says

    I am physically fit and appear relatively younger than my chronological age. I’d prefer to date women in their 30’s and 40’s but once they find out I am 55-56 they treat me as if I am some sort of a bad joke

  9. I noticed I fall for the girls that fall for the bad boys it seems. Ironically they have the nicest personalities! I hear the guy who says that once they hear his age they treat you differently. I’m 28, and when a girl 20-24 hears my age they sometimes change the way they treat me.

  10. I like two guys.. one is sweet kid and one is a bad boy. I like both alot but I think I prefer the bad boy – because he was the the first guy who told me that I was beautiful. 😉

    The second guy does too but I like the bad boy too much at this point! On the other hand, the sweet guy also does much for me, and so I don’t know what to do. 🙁

  11. An Honest Answer says

    Very Ignorant women will go with these Losers which is real Fact. A Perfect match anyway.

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