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Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz

How To Seduce A Woman With Touch

February 5, 2017 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Learn how to touch a woman and make her like you!

Want to know how to attract a woman by touching her? Well, for starters, don’t be a creep.

OK, jokes aside… there are indeed ways with which you can safely touch a girl without coming off as a pervert.

Indeed, touching (or “kinesthetics” in seduction terminology) is essential if you want to know how to seduce women easily. It’s indeed an important part of your dating and attraction toolkit!

First of all, there are some ground rules to obey when it comes to touching a woman:

  • It’s never a good idea to immediately touch a woman when you meet her for the first time (except for the obvious handshake.)
  • You want to build sufficient rapport with a woman first before attempting to touch her. See this guide if you need help.
  • You should start by touching a woman’s non-sexual areas (see the list below.)
  • Your primary method for seduction is conversational; touching is merely supplementary to this.

Woman’s non-sexual areas

(The list below is courtesy of Derek Rake and the Shogun Method which contains the Black Rose Sequence.)

  1. Hands
  2. Arms
  3. Elbows
  4. Shoulders
  5. Knees
  6. Hair

These are the “red” areas to avoid altogether: breasts, buttocks, crotch, inner thighs.

“Grey” areas: Neck, waist, thighs.

When you’re starting to talk to her, gently touch her in the non-sexual areas as listed above. This has got to be somewhat non-obvious – if you’re too forceful then she might feel as if you’re groping her. Not good.

Using Hypnosis In Addition To Touching

A great way to be covert when you’re touching her is to use mild hypnosis on her.

There are a couple of ways to do this. The easiest method is to use Fractionation on her.

Of course, if you’re already familiar with the rest of SIBG.com then you should already know that Fractionation is perhaps the most powerful hypnosis-based technique there is.

Here’s how Fractionation works:

  1. You first make a woman feel happy by eliciting her positive memories. Using certain “trigger words”, you make her remember the instances that make her feel especially joyful.
  2. Then, you make a woman feel sad by eliciting her negative memories. Again, using certain “trigger words”, you get her to recall instances which make her feel especially depressed.
  3. Repeat.

What you’re doing is to make her feel happy and sad in a continuous cycle, resulting in an emotional roller coaster.

And guess what? With enough happy-sad-happy cycles, she will soon fall in love with you. It’s as simple as that!

Why does that work?

Well, what you’re doing is to simulate the “soap opera” effect inside her mind. And as you already know, women are emotionally addicted to these soap operas…

… and you’re using the same technique to make a woman feel emotionally addicted to you!

Amazing, isn’t it?

For an online Masterclass on how to use Fractionation to create the “soap opera” effect inside a woman’s mind and get her to fall in love with you quickly, click here.

How To Seduce A Lady By Text Message

February 3, 2017 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

So you’ve finally gotten the digits of this babe that you’ve been eyeing for some time. Well, congratulations.

Let me assure you that the euphoria will soon stop… because you’ll start to wonder this one thing –

  • What should you text her to make her like you?
  • What are you going to say to convince her to agree to date you?
  • How are you not going to screw it all up?

I don’t blame you for being cautious. But don’t worry for your pals here at SIBG.com has got your back. 🙂

How to text a girl (SIBG.com style!)

Learning how to seduce a woman through text is quite easy if you know how. That’s exactly what you’re going to learn here today.

Let’s get to it!

Texting 101

First things first. You gotta know the main reason you want to text a girl: for you to know a girl better.

Remember: in the game of love and seduction, knowledge is power! Think of texting as another way for you to find out what makes a girl tick.

Use Shogun Method to learn how to seduce an attached woman(If you are familiar with Derek Rake’s Shogun Method, you already know that eliciting a woman’s values is an important step in seduction. Using texting, you will have another opportunity to communicate and understand a woman’s values.)

Also, understand that women typically respond differently over text than say, face-to-face.

There are many reasons for this, but for now, just note that this is entirely normal behavior. In fact, this is a fact that you can exploit to your advantage: we’ll show you how in this guide.

Caution!

Now I gotta warn you…

Your first text to her is the most important, and will make or break your seduction.

The reason is simple really: if it doesn’t work, then it will be all over for you. Therefore, it’s imperative for you to hit the ball out of the park the first time.

Worried already? Don’t be.

It turns out that there is a simple solution for this, and here it is –

Use Fractionation.

Of course, if you’ve already read our famous guide on how to control a woman then you should already know what this technique is.

(If you’ve not, click here to read the guide and come back.)

Simply infuse your first text with elements of Fractionation and then come back.

Obeying The 1 Second / 1 Day Rule

The most common question that we get when it comes to texting is this:

“Matthew, when is the best time to text a girl?”

Well, here’s the answer:

Be unpredictable.

For one text conversation, reply her immediately (“1 Second Rule”). Then, for another, take your sweet time to reply her (“1 Day Rule”).

You’ll see that this is a variation of Fractionation that you’ve already come across above.

Your unpredictability will drive her crazy (in a good way), and will keep her thinking about you.

Awesome, isn’t it?

Dangers Of Texting

You gotta know this:

There’s a real danger when it comes to trying to seduce a woman through texting.

(If you’ve already read our Seduction 101 guide – How To Seduce A Woman, then you should already know what this pitfall is.)

The problem is guys spend too much time texting a girl, and not seeing her face-to-face.

And as a result, they develop “Contextual Rapport” with a girl, which is a real problem.

The girl then sees them as a “texting mate”, which is entirely counter productive to what they want. You see, that’s no different from being friend-zoned.

Therefore, you must see texting as a method to get a girl to see you face-to-face more often. That’s all. The truth is that you cannot seduce a woman entirely through texting.

It’s impossible.

The only way to attract a woman successfully is to seduce her in person (and with covert mind control techniques.) Don’t lose sight of that!

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For more covert seduction and mind control techniques on how to attract (and enslave!) a woman, click here for a free online Masterclass.

How To Attract A Married Woman

February 3, 2017 By Shogun Method team 2 Comments

Would you try to attract a married woman?

I personally won’t. Simply because there’s just so many fishes in the sea…

…but I understand that there are lots of guys out there who have no qualms at all about hitting on women with husbands.

Look: I am not here to judge.

Shogun Method / FractionationThe truth is that if you’ve seen the Boyfriend Destroyer techniques that I’ve shared with you here on this site (or elsewhere: this guide is pretty awesome), then you’ll understand that you can pretty much use the same techniques on married women.

It’s my job as the lead coach of SIBG.com and its lead curator to share with you these techniques. I am not an arbiter of anyone’s morality.

With that said, I do need to point out some inherent dangers of trying to seduce a woman who is already married…

For one, you don’t know what dangers her husband will pose to you.

Let’s face it – getting your wife snatched by another man is probably the most humiliating thing that will ever happen to you.

When guys face extreme humiliation, they often resort to violence.

So, if you try to use these techniques on a married woman, be prepared for its potential backlash.

Check this video:-

An SIBG.com member (let’s call him Jack) quipped:

“After reading your guide, I decided to use the techniques on this married coworker of mine whom I had fancied in ages. Long story short, one night her brutish husband, an Irish lout in his 50’s, came knocking on my door. Spewing vulgarities, he threatened to chop off my balls with a machete. I had to call 911.”

The danger is real.

So, I’d recommend that you do your homework (about the husband!) before you pull this shit off on a married woman, OK?

With that out of the way… let’s start!

(Note: if she is older than you, then you might want to read this first.)

How To Seduce A Married Woman (And Piss Off Her Husband Greatly)

She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah!

So you’ve got your eye on a married woman, and you want to seduce her into your arms, despite her husband. The good news is that it’s far easier to seduce a married woman than to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend. That might sound counter intuitive somewhat, but true.

You see, when a woman marries a man, she starts to see the REAL him – warts and all.

Reality often is far different from the “imagery” that a guy creates when he is dating a woman. When he marries her, he will let his guard down.

Use Shogun Method to learn how to seduce an attached womanOver time, she will discover more and more of his shortcomings which she will often try to tolerate.

Here lies the key to the ultimate “Husband Destroyer” technique –

What you want to do is to bring his shortcomings to the forefront, and exaggerate them in her mind so that she reaches her breaking point.

  1. Does he suck in bed?
  2. Is he a selfish lover?
  3. Has he turned boring after marriage?
  4. Is he less sensitive to her needs?
  5. Is he a bad father?
  6. Is he earning less than her?
  7. Does he leave the toilet seat up?

You want to find out about as many these shortcomings as possible, and make her recall them every time you talk to her.

Over time, her dissatisfaction with him will pile up, and one day, she would just completely snap.

Pretty vicious, I know. Hey, nobody told you it’s gonna be pretty. 🙂

Now how do you find out about those shortcomings then?

Simple answer: you put her on a mild hypnosis.

To do that – attend this online Masterclass by clicking here.

Good luck! (You’re gonna need that when her burly husband turns up at your door…)

Matt Ganz SIBG

How To Seduce Women Into Bed

February 3, 2017 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

“Matthew, teach me how to seduce women into bed.”

I think I must have heard that request about a thousand times.

Admittedly, as a dating coach, it burns me out sometimes to hear that.

Learn fractionation to make her want you!Why? Well, although like every other red-blooded guy, getting physical with a woman features pretty prominently in my mind. I mean, who am I kidding?

On the other hand, I remind myself that there’s really more to seduction than just getting laid.

I learned this from Derek Rake, the founder of the Shogun Method.

“You have now in your disposal one of the most intricate yet powerful ability to persuade and influence a woman. Getting her to have sex with you is trivial. You got to think bigger,” he told me.

I was pretty much taken aback with what he had told me. It was so different from the other seduction and dating gurus who would talk as if getting laid is the ultimate end point of seduction.

Guess what – it’s not.

Don’t get me wrong…

You can pretty much use everything you learn here at SIBG.com to make a woman hop into bed with you.

In fact, you can utilize some female mind control techniques to shortcut the process, hack into a woman’s mind and immediately pull her “erotic trigger” in order to make her feel hot for you. It’s as easy as 1-2-3.

What I want you to do is to take a step back and see the bigger picture… because you can do a whole lot more.

Trust me. I’ve been where you are at now.

Enslavement As The Seduction End Point

As Derek had said, sex is not the end point of seduction.

Learn how to seduce a woman into bed by enslaving herEnslavement is.

You want a woman to surrender to you completely… her heart and soul.

You want her to think of nobody else but you.

You want her to be with you, now and forever.

Sex is not a guarantee of those things. Physical intimacy is a passing thing. You’ll need more than that to make a woman captivated by you for the long run.

If you’ve see our “Seduction 101” guide (click here to read it – highly recommended), then you’ll already have the basics when it comes to attracting and seducing a woman.

Beyond that, you should be looking at Enslavement.

To clarify, this is not about physical Enslavement. If you have thoughts of constraining the movement of anyone forcefully against her will, you’re sick. Go get help.

Instead, we are talking about emotional Enslavement here. In other words, you want a woman to be “tied” to you emotionally.

When a woman is Enslaved to you emotionally, she will need you like she needs air to breathe.

You will put her under your control and domination, and guess what… she will only be too happy to have you lord over her.

It’s really not politically correct to talk about “Enslavement“, “Control” and “Domination” nowadays, but it’s true: this is the only way you can make her truly happy.

Trust me: she wants you to wear the pants in the relationship.

It’s your job to lead, and provide her with the comfort of security.

Use Shogun Method to learn how to make her want you now!I hope I’ve convinced you to think beyond “getting a woman into bed” and start considering about the things that really matter.

Of course, you can choose to take another path and learn shallow “Pickup Artist” tricks that will get you laid this weekend.

If that’s the decision you’re going to make, then don’t be surprised if you end up with “shallow” short-lived victories.

For longer term success with women, choose the less taken path – click here.

How To Attract A Woman Older Than You

February 2, 2017 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Seduce this cougar!OK, I gotta confess. I really dig older women.

People don’t call me “Cougar Hunter” for no reason, you know. 🙂

So, if you want to know how to attract an older woman, then you’re at the right place. I’ve honed my “cougar seduction” techniques for so many years now that I’m pretty much one of the ultimate masters at seducing older women.

Before you dive in, understand this –

A lot of what I share below assumes that you already have a basic understanding of SIBG-style school of seduction.

If you are already familiar with what we teach here at SIBG.com, you’ll appreciate just how different we are from, say, the random two-bit Pickup Artist cum Guru who peddle their worthless advice elsewhere on the web.

So, if you’re new to the art of seducing women the SIBG.com way, then be sure to check out our “must read” guide on Seduction 101: How To Seduce Women. Seriously, go read it first, and then come back here.

Ready? Let’s go!

How To Seduce A Cougar: The Basics

So you’ve developed a taste for older women. Well, I don’t blame you.

If you’ve not really considered dating women who are older than you, then I implore you to reconsider based on the following reasons…

  • They are experienced, and therefore less fickle-minded, especially when compared to a girl in her early 20’s
  • She’s likely to be more controlling and dominant (if that’s your cup of tea)
  • She’s more vulnerable to female mind control techniques (I’ll explain why later below in this article)
  • She can be more eager to please (especially when she thinks that you’re a great catch)
  • … and so on!

To seduce a cougar, you must first understand how a mature woman’s needs differ from, say, a teenage girl.

For example, a cougar…

  • … is far likelier to settle down than to date around
  • … has fewer instances of throwing random tantrums
  • … is usually more financially secure, and therefore won’t expect you to foot the bill all the time

The list goes on.

What you’ve got to understand is that if you’ve only been dating younger women, then not everything that you know about love and seduction is applicable to cougars.

Keep reading to learn the best ways to seduce a cougar and make her yours forever…

How To Enslave A Cougar!

From experience, the best way to seduce a cougar is to enslave her.

Now don’t get me wrong:

We are not talking about enslaving a woman in the physical sense. You want her to be your emotional slave instead.

And guess what… it’s really easy to enslave a cougar (emotionally). There’s a good reason for this – an older women usually have emotional baggage that you can exploit to your advantage.

Learn fractionation to make her want you!Before I share with you a technique to do just that, I gotta warn you:

It’s pretty easy to abuse this tactic and use it to hurt women emotionally. Indeed, psychopaths have been using this technique (or its variants) for malicious reasons.

Therefore, before you continue, I must ask you to promise this –

Do not use this knowledge to harm women.

Also, whatever you choose to do with this technique is your responsibility.

Agree?

Great!

Continue reading!

To learn more about how you can enslave a mature women, attend this online Masterclass – register here.

Enter your best email because the link to the Masterclass is emailed to you (if you qualify.)

Matt Ganz SIBG

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