How To Control A Woman’s Mind And Make Her Love You

Control Kesia's mind and make her fall in love with you!Alright, Justin McKinsey here, and I am standing in for Matthew for this exclusive mini-guide on, well, mind control :). It may seem strange, but lots of our new members to the Baltimore Lair ask us about our infamous “How To Use Mind Control On Women” guide which got shared around in the underground seduction lairs for a long, long time (since 2002 to be exact).

So, here’s a short summary of that guide.

Before anything, here’s a disclaimer. We have edited (OK, deleted) some of the original content because it’s just too controversial to be published online like this.

Learn fractionation to make her want you!Matt still sends out the guide (and other good stuff like the Masterclass on Fractionation) – I thought that’s pretty risky but hey, he’s the leader of the Baltimore Lair for the reason that he has got balls. 😉

OK, with that out of the way, now here’s what you need about Mind Control on women…

A lot of men (at least, the newbies who come thronging our lair after the short feature on CNN in April) seem to think that some women out there are completely out of their league… just because they are downright gorgeous.

However, while these men believe that they will never be able to win these gorgeous women over, the truth is that this is definitely not the case. Ask Matt. Or Derek Rake. Or even me. 😉

Well, here’s the truth…

The fact is that any man can get any woman that they want if they know what to do. I’m serious.

Women Mind ControlHow?

Well, here’s the answer: they just need to use certain psychology tactics to help them re-structure and re-shape women’s thought processes.

You see, by influencing a woman’s thoughts, you can influence her feelings and actions. Pretty straightforward, isn’t it?

With the right psychology techniques, you can make women see you in a different light and in the process, become more attractive in their eyes. And guess what, you’re going to learn about these very same techniques in this guide. Strap on your seat belts! 🙂

How to control a woman's mind using covert psychology

This One Tip Alone Will Make Or Break Your Seduction Success

Before we start, there’s one very important thing that you must know when you’re learning a new seduction technique…

You’ve got to understand that discovering about a new tactic is only half of the battle – in order to truly benefit from the new knowledge that you have acquired, you’ll have to put it into practice. Knowledge without practice is pretty much useless.

The problem with reading about new techniques from blogs ( or elsewhere) is that it’s easy to completely forget about the things that you have learned as you jump from one blog to the next.

Regretfully, most guys who have stumbled upon this guide today will probably forget what they’ve read soon enough, much less putting the knowledge into good use for their own benefit. Sad, but true. I hope you won’t be one of those guys.

To help you take action, I’ve prepared a downloadable Action Checklist which contains everything inside this guide in a simple, step-by-step format. With the Action Checklist, you won’t have to wreck your brain trying to remember if you’ve forgotten anything important before you use this technique on a woman you want to seduce. Cool, isn’t it?

What’s more: there’s also a bonus technique which I will only share inside the Action Checklist (and not in this guide) – it’s simply too controversial to be exposed publicly like this.

To download the Action Checklist, simply click on this link below –

Free Action Checklist Download

Download  the “How To Control A Woman” SIBG Action Checklist (click here). This 11-page PDF contains everything you need to know from this article summarized in a handy step-by-step format as well as EXTRA examples of Implanted Commands not found in this guide.

There’s one minor catch though… once you’ve finished downloading the Action Checklist PDF, kindly refrain from sharing the download with anyone else. You see, this material is strictly a controlled item, and whoever who wants it will need to come here to request it. Thank you for understanding.

Done with the download? Great… now let’s move on! 🙂

Mind Control vs Pickup Artist Tomfoolery

What you’re going to find here in this guide (and elsewhere on is markedly different from what you’d expect from “Pickup Artist” (PUA) blogs.

So no, we won’t be discussing about “pickup lines” or “opener routines” or “peacocking” or any kind of Pickup Artist gibberish. Instead, we will go deep into the understanding of the female psyche, and more importantly, how to exploit the weaknesses in the female psychology for our benefit.

Excited yet? I sure hope you are. 🙂

If you’re unfamiliar with the use of Mind Control in seduction, I highly recommend that you watch this online Masterclass conducted by Derek Rake (enter your best email address below) –



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It will blow your mind – I can guarantee you. Once you’ve understood the basic concepts of Mind Control (covered in the online Masterclass), you’ll realize just how easy this game can be, and you’ll laugh at how ineffective Pickup Artist crap can be.

Go on – watch the Masterclass. We’ll wait for you to come back. 🙂

How To Control A Woman (In Three Simple Steps)

Step One: Take Your Power Back

Let’s face it. Like it or hate it, in this day and age, women hold all of the power in a relationship by default.

This is especially true in the beginning of any relationship when men are very vulnerable.

Have you experienced this before? Once a woman realizes that a man likes her, she starts to behave differently.

She wants to be put on a pedestal.

Crying baby! Boo hoo!She makes you jump through multiple hoops just because she can.

Her needs come before yours.

And guess what? Once you have surrendered the power to her, it’s often beyond the point of no return.

Fancy getting pussywhipped? Nobody does.

So here’s the key to keeping the power to yourself: be subtle and indifferent at all times.

Keep some distance between the two of you, for starters, and avoid showering her with too many compliments. And don’t be afraid to call her out on her bullshit.

Remember that it is entirely alright to continue to flirt with her, However, don’t make it seem like you are trying too hard into getting her to like you back. Act as if you don’t really care.

Make sense?

I know… it’s just so easy to make the mistake of lapsing especially when she seems to be responding well to your indifference. Be careful: she will lose interest in you and might even start to disrespect you once you lose all of your power.

Learn how to control her mind and make her surrender to you!

Step Two: Take Control Of Her Thoughts

Once your power in the relationship is intact, you need to start taking control of her thoughts using Mind Control techniques.

Some may frown on using these “covert” tactics because they may seem to be rather insidious, and to some, amoral.

Morality is none of my concern. It’s my job here to show you what works. Whether something is “right” or “wrong” – I’ll leave that to you. 🙂

These tactics are so effective that they can successfully hack into the female mind and get women to fall for you in no time. The good news is that even beginners won’t have any trouble learning these tactics because they can be so easy (once you know exactly what to do.)

One of these Mind Control techniques which you can use to control her thoughts are Implanted Commands. Originally developed by Derek Rake inside the Shogun Method, these are the keywords and phrases that you tell a woman that will help you plant ideas inside her mind subconsciously.

Here’s how Implanted Commands work…

You’ll make a suggestion to her which will automatically accepted because she won’t be noticing it consciously, making it outright impossible for her to reject your suggestion.

Interesting, isn’t it?

To learn how you can use Implanted Commands to quickly seize control of a woman’s thoughts (and subsequently her emotions), watch this video –

For more examples of Implanted Commands you can use, refer to Pages 6 and 7 of the Action Checklist (download here if you haven’t done so already.)

Done with the video? Great. Now let’s go to the third and final step…

Step Three: Use Fractionation On Her

In a nutshell, Fractionation refers to a very effective hypnosis tactic that is both fast and easy to use. In just 15 minutes, this tactic can re-program a woman’s feelings and make her depend on you for all of her positive emotions.

Exciting, isn’t it?

Beautiful Tammy Stevens!Before you use this technique, however, you have to be super careful… since you could unintentionally turn women into stalkers if you do it wrongly. Trust me: it’s no fun having to deal with a woman who’d come knocking on your door at 3am at night just because you didn’t reply her text (personal experience!)

Also, agree with me that you won’t abuse this tactic to intentionally hurt women. (Very important!)

With all that out of the way…

Derek Rake (the originator of the technique) has developed an online Masterclass on how to use Fractionation to seduce women initially to share with the rest of the Baltimore Seduction Lair members a few years ago.

Unfortunately a recording of the Masterclass has been spread BEYOND the lair, and as a result, Matt has decided to keep it within the members of the lair (and those who join Derek Rake’s mailing list).

For more information click this link below –

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How To Use Fractionation In Seduction (Free Masterclass)

If this link is dead, it means that we have decided to take it off. Truth is that this stuff can be misused to harm women’s psyche, and we NEVER recommend using Mind Control tactics by AMATEURS on women. If you have any intentions to use this to harm women, DO NOT CLICK ON THE LINK.

Respectfully yours,

Justin McKinsey, senior member


  1. Does this trick also work on feminine men? I am a straight man but I like feminine men. I am not gay but I am attracted to feminine features and behaviors that are displayed physically by a man. Also, how can I pretend that the man has a vagina? Thanks! Please help.

  2. anonymousfeeling says

    I had to unfortunately read this article to change myself. I consider myself almost a feminist (in the sense of purely respecting womenhood). I hate someone disrespecting women in various walks of life both in the west and the east. But what if a women feels that this belief is not ‘manly’ and considers it to be fake? What if all the love and respect i can give is not reciprocated? What if she behaves indifferently to every discussion of improving things? I have to change myself and act like my opposite and play these disgusting games.

  3. I have a better way! Girls complain they want a nice guy, but they only want the nice guy to pay for all of there materialistic items while they go out with the guys who treat them bad.

    For years I was that nice guy and it got me nowhere. I started to act like an asshole and guess what, it works! Good luck!

    • Problem is I’m not an ass at all, quite the opposite. I also find this is my problem in getting girls to like me. However I have far too much respect to treat someone badly just to pull. It should be enough emotional attachment on top of the pleasure of being with one another intimately.

      Of course, Mind Control techniques like Fractionation / Shogun Method will give you a headstart.

  4. Hi guys,

    I’ve been searching the net for how to make a woman love you and I’ve come across your site a few times. And frankly I was doubtful on whether you’re for real… however, I don’t believe in shooting it down until you’ve tried it.

    Then, I watched the masterclass and took some notes and went to use the technique (fractionation) on this girl I already knew, and before anything, she STARTED TO ASK ME OUT. Mind blown.

    I’ll report back with more stuff later, but so far, so good. Thank you, Justin and gang.

    • About the same-ish experience here. My hit rate now is about 70%, which is really not bad (I used to bomb completely with women.)

      Do you have Facebook?

  5. i am a poor boy and my lover have stopped loving me because I don’t have money. So please somebody help me to get her to love me again. I will be always thankful for this.

    • bofa neez duts says

      Pimp her out and you always have love and money.

      On a serious note: stop being a cheapskate. If not, you deserve all the failures with women that hit you. Man up, boy.

  6. Anonymous says

    Seriously, just BE YOURSELF. I know women say it all the time, and that’s because it’s true. If she doesn’t like you for who you are, then it’s not meant to be. If you fake it, then you get married, and start acting like your real self, and she thinks you’re an asshole, she’s GOING TO LEAVE YOU. u can’t control a persons mind. They are people. Please. Just don’t do it. Not only will you hurt yourself, you’ll hurt the beautiful woman you love, and there is no chance you will get her back. please.

    • Matthew Ganz says

      Mentality of losers everywhere. Why knock something without trying it first?

    • I don’t think he ever loved me, but I was brainwashed and enslaved for 20 years by a master player who learned from pimps. I’m a smart woman so I finally started waking up to something not being right after about 16 years. I proceeded to ruin his life using a lot of his shit back on him that I had subconsciously learned how to do (this is how cycles of abuse are perpetuated). He ruined his own life, my life for 20 years, and our kids’ lives as well as traumatizing extended family and friends. It is never OK to control or dominate another human being. Free Will is an essential premise of our universe. No real love or happiness can come from this for either party. And if you use this on people you will self-destruct because your brain will become evil. In fact, choosing to use these tactics is an evil choice and will start you down the road to soul extinction! Please be kind, open, honest and vulnerable. Be romantic. Be yourself. It isn’t hard to get a good woman if you go after women who are in your actual league (similar in age, appearance, education, and class to you), if you genuinely like her, if you treat her well, listen to her, open up about what you are feeling, try not to be a douchebag, and don’t cheat on her, abuse her, raise your voice to her, or play mind games. True love is the only thing worth living for. Enslaving a woman does not get you true love.

      • Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz says

        Perhaps ironically, stories like these serve to prove that Shogun Method really works.

  7. Females are all humans just like males. My suggestion is that if we think about what we like for ourselves then we will have a firm idea about what she may like and then we would have to apply our knowledge. Psychology is natural in most of us, Even females use it and our job is to counteract. I have flirted with really beautiful girls and succeeded.

  8. This lady I’m in class with,initially introduced a guy to me as her boyfriend.later she told me she just used him as a cover to protect herself from men.we are really close and she gets so jealous when ladies approach me friendly. I proposed to her and she said she inky likes me as a brother but still doing strange things to me.I also now lied to her and introduced someone as ny girlfriend and she I jealous and saying I’m in a rush.does she really have feelings for me?

  9. SpoondiggerOU812 says

    Anyone, male or female, especially the women, who say or think, even for a minute that “being yourself” will work, you are full of s__t. Things move too fast in today’s world for anyone to take the time to give a flying you-know-what about what someone really is inside, it’s ALL about presentation, ALL of it, and a good part of that is ALL about, yeah, you guessed it $$$$! and you women who say it’s not, yeah, right, if the guy you know is interested in you looks like some regular Joe you wouldn’t give him a second look, but if your friend came up and said, “….oh, don’t you know? that’s so and so, he just invented the greatest widget and he has a house on both coasts” you’d be in a race with every other b__ch in earshot to drop your drawers! It’s true, it’s absolute. Now, you think any man should be ashamed to use these types of tactics?, pleeease!

  10. Ashley Marshall says

    I used to have HUGE MORALITY issues with these mind control techniques because they just seem to so wrong ethically. But I guess desperate times call for desperate measures… I used Fractionation and it worked really well for me (can’t speak for everyone though.)

    I like to think I’m a good person. If I use these techniques for my own benefit WITHOUT HURTING WOMEN then it’s fair game. My girlfriend, for now, is pretty happy with me.

    Bottom line: it worked for me – not sure about everyone else. And it’s really not as evil or insidious as some may think.

    Thank you.

  11. I think it’s not fair that guys take advantage of a woman and changes her thoughts or emotions. To me that’s like invading her mind and planting thoughts in her head.

    • Matthew Ganz says

      Dwight – it’s not up to you to say what’s “right” or “wrong”. What makes you an arbiter for morality?

      At least, go find out what Fractionation is before knocking it.

  12. Ya know, I used to think that this “mind control” thing is a hoax. And I thought that all a guy has to do is be confident in himself, be brave enough to ask the difficult questions, and show his feelings.

    I was wrong (got dumped by three women in a row.) Then I used this stuff and it all turned around for me. I’ve seen the light.

  13. Happy to report that I’ve used fractionation on my ex and she’s now back in my arms.

    Regards, Jimmy Pence from Florida

  14. Men can date married and taken women.

  15. Michael Dunbar says

    Want to give a shout out to Matt and crew. I have managed to get my ex back using the two steps above (and also with a massive dosage of Shogun Method techniques.) BIG UP!

  16. She’s really making me jump through hoops and give me shit tests every day. How to control a woman? I am getting driven out of my mind here. Please help.

    • All you can do is give the girl an opportunity to like you. If she doesn’t reciprocate, move on to bigger fish in the sea. A woman decides if she is going to have sex with you within the first couple of minutes meeting you. Truth!

      • Sam "Big Rod" says

        Except for the last part, you can definitely give her a chance to like you back but don’t try too hard. She’ll definitely make it clear that she likes you if she’s interested in you; just don’t blow it by acting as though you thirst for her and if she doesn’t show you that she’s interested, put your attention towards the things you like doing and she definitely will come around. Also, things are always easier when they choose you.

        Having said all that, go watch the masterclass. Seriously.

        EDIT: Found the link for ya –

      • No we don’t.

        • Have you not read the above? Go learn Fractionation. The Masterclass will give you a flying start. Go take some action, and get learning!

      • Not tellin says

        No, and you know what, I hate that jerks like you think that.

    • If she likes you she might make it obvious, or hide it as best as she could. She is usually scared that she will get turned down.

  17. This is very disturbing site about how to take advantage of women’s insecurity and their weaknesses!

    Most men who are interested in this site either are losers in their lives or insecure babies who has no real staff or balls to attract real women. I feel sorry for them because love is not about manipulating women.

    I’ve been through hell because some guy I dated decided to use this on me, and my mind was messed up for ages. He left me in the end for another woman, but he didn’t undo what he did on me with your techniques.

    Please, stop teaching this.

    • Matthew Ganz says

      Sarah: I understand where you’re coming from, but women are not the enemy.

      This stuff is powerful, no doubt, but like anything else (like guns and weaponry!), it’s morally neutral. I can’t control if guys use it to harm women.

      At least, watch the Masterclass before judging:

      It will open your eyes, trust me.

      • Men what do you really want? Well that will vary and what is the real intention here? I am going to assume without having any experience of taking this program that this is a program about influencing woman and not about finding real love.

        What I know about the male psychology is men want a challenge. So once you have her now what?

        Intrigue and rapport and seduction. That seems exciting…getting isolated doesn’t. Also knowing what I know about men is you will lose interest quickly if her world becomes about just you. This might attract woman who are hurting and feeling weak already. Why would you want her weakness? That is not attractive.

        What I know about men is you are attracted to confidence and her energy and you won’t see it if you isolate her. In fact you will not see her at all. Plus I know that looks is not enough to keep you interested.

        You will be missing out if you take her world away from her. I know that most men that care about woman and feel good about themselves….subconsciously you want to be her hero and know her and you won’t get that by controlling her life.

        Now in the bedroom some woman like control she would have to be a willing partner though.

        Anyways now I am on a quest to learn from this. Knowledge is power

  18. Fractionation / Shogun Method is where it’s at!

  19. Does this stuff work on getting a lesbian to sleep with a straight guy?

  20. anonymous says

    I want to convince my wife to take me back without question, we had a falling out and although she stayed with me for almost two years after she asked me to change, she finally told me to leave… It’s been about two months and she has already moved on, but I want another shot because I’m still in love with her and I believe that we can make it work… Please help…

    • Same situation here… but I managed to get her back. At first I was reluctant as hell (I mean, anyone can claim to do anything on the Internet these days), but I thought what the heck, I’d use Fractionation on her, and guess what – it worked.

      Give it a try. It won’t get any worse than where you’re at now, right?

    • Matt Ganz says

      Long story short – this is the best thing that you’ll do perhaps all year – watch this Masterclass –

  21. Jeff Blake says

    What do you do as the male if you lost your power in the relationship, and everything is starting to go bad?

  22. Why is my credit card declined?

  23. My English is bad (I am Romanian.) How do I learn this?

  24. I’m struggling to download the “Action Checklist”. Help me, Matt!

  25. Im really into Alexandra Daddario because her ***** are nice maybe i can just kill myself yeah

  26. I hate this page because I am a women and people attempting to “mind control”. If the guy has all the power right, why can’t the girl leave the relationship. We are not your servants to be dominated. Anyone thinking to use this site is heading in the wrong direction

  27. This is sickening. Just reading this caused me to cry because I have been mentally abused using these methods. This stuff should not be used at all. Just be yourself guys! If she doesn’t like you unless you use the mind control then she isn’t worth it! It may seem like it’s ao hard to find a beautiful woman who loves you… But just be patient please! Don’t use this on women.

    • Easier said than done a girl uses mind control too we all do some intentionally and unintentionally. If I see a girl I want bad I would do it its not my fault her dad was a jerk

    • Exactly….I’m a man.If you are her type there is no wrong that you can do unless you are a total azz. You can’t make every beautiful woman go to bed with you. not going to happen.

    • Thank you so much, AceSmooth and Hollywood. See, they are some of the only people on here who get it. AceSmooth is one of the guys who, if he acts like that, probably is going to get something

      • Speaking as someone who has used this technique (and also Derek Rake’s Shogun Method) – I agree that it’s not for everybody.

        Like a wise man once said: guns don’t kill people; people kill people! You can use Fractionation to harm women, sure, but you’ve got to be a real psychopath to even consider doing that. It’s not Derek or Matt’s fault that some guys use these techniques to harm or manipulate women.

        Having said that: if you’re a guy, and you’re not using these techniques, you can be darn sure that there’s someone out there using them and BEATING you. I might be one of them.

        Goodbye – I’m going off to spend time with my special woman whom I’ve enslaved: thank you SIBG, Matt, Justin and Derek.

  28. I can’t click because I am a psycho with many intentions to harm women .

    • bofa neez duts says

      Yeah, me too. But my bad intentions cause me to click anyway. My method is to lie my face off. Become the best liar you can be and you will always have women. Screw all the other bullshit because it’s all noise!

  29. This shit is great. Myself plus this system equals 700 women…. I read this stuff 8 yrs ago… I’m 29 now and I’m having so much fun, it’s great

  30. Keith Mills says

    I would like to know if it is possible for this woman to like me.

    You see, I met this woman and she came over to me and initiate a conversation, by introducing herself, etc.

    Our next meeting she was wearing a short skirt over a pair of tights, we were in a colour-stone-energy class. I was told by the tutor to lie on the floor on my back in order to perform some energy therapy on me. To my surprise the woman came over and virtually stepped over my head, I mean her feet were 2 or 3 centimetres from my head. My eyes were open and I saw her knickers. Does that make her cheap? She always stares at me but never smiled, could she be interested in me?

  31. Then there is this story of the author’s own friend who was going to be dumped by her boyfriend when she turned to the author as he always listened to her and her problems. Her condition was growing from bad to worse as she struggled with the very idea of herself; her puffy eyes proving that she had been crying for days, also she had these weight issues since teenage years and rejection at various levels had developed a sense of inferiority complex in her mindset bringing her to the verge of mental breakdown. To drag her out of the pain-the author gave her the secret formula which he hadn’t shared with many but with his own experience he was sure that it would work with her boyfriend. And after a few days what he saw was totally unbelievable as she was happy with a wide grin, looking better than ever before and told him that she was moving in with her boyfriend. This reaction of his friend struck an emotional chord with him as the formula he suggested worked really fast and with lots of accuracy. After that the author shared the formula with hundreds of women and every woman who consulted him reported back with successful and amazing results. The girls who didn’t used to get a call back after dating with various men –tables turned within days.

    TL;DR – this stuff also works for WOMEN.

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