How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend

Vanna is taken, but you can destroy her boyfriend and make her yours!Do you want to learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend? If you are, then, well, you’re at the right place!

Let’s face it – worthwhile women don’t usually stay single for long, and for good reason. Well, if you’re only looking to attract single women, then you’ll probably end up with nobody…

First things first, though.

I am going to share with you some pretty killer (and devastatingly effective!) Boyfriend Destroyer techniques in this short article. These tactics, however, can indeed be somewhat risky…

For one, you’re definitely going to piss off her boyfriend big-time. I’ve had cases where angry guys would turn up at my doorstep at 3am with baseball bats (no joke.)

I’ve also been in situations where guys would beg (yes, beg) me to stop stealing their girlfriends. One even tried to bribe me (with a $50 bill!) to leave his girlfriend alone.

Yep, throughout the years, I’ve pretty much seen it all.

In this article, I’m gonna share with you what I know. With these methods, you’ll be able to steal that girl away before her boyfriend even realizes what hit him and his relationship. (Yes, it is pretty covert!)

Let’s get on it!

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How To Seduce A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend: In Three (3) Simple Steps

Step #1: Make Her Imagine The Perfect Guy

The first thing you need to do is to make her imagine the “Perfect” guy.

Of course, no guy is perfect, but you want her to picture the imaginary “Perfect Boyfriend” inside her mind.

Boyfriend Destroyer TacticsWhy do you want to do this? Well, quite simple, really.

You want her boyfriend to look like shit next to this imaginary “Perfect Boyfriend”. This is how you can destroy him completely.

Pretty insidious, isn’t it?

It’s darn effective: that I can tell you for sure. 🙂

So far, so good. How do you create the picture of the “Perfect Boyfriend” in her mind then?

Simple – just ask her: “Imagine you can be with anyone in the world, anyone. Picture him now in your mind. How would he look like? How would be behave? How would he make you feel?”

Get her to describe that picture as vivid as possible.

The more “real” the picture is, the better this will work for you.

Once this is done, continue with the next step…

Step #2: Make Her Compare Her Boyfriend To The Perfect Guy

Now this is where it gets really interesting, so pay attention!

In this step, you’ll make her compare her boyfriend with the vivid “Perfect Guy” imagery that she has in her mind. Guess what: he will always FALL SHORT of the impossibly high standards that she has set with the “Perfect Guy”.

Let’s use an example. Maybe in Step #1 above, she says: “My perfect guy takes time to talk to me and understand me completely. I am his top priority. He will want to spend time with me willingly, ahead of everything else.”

That, my friend, is gold. 🙂

Next time you talk to her, you can make her compare her boyfriend (let’s call him Dick) to the “Perfect Guy” about this attribute:

“Dick seems to be so busy with other priorities. I’m sure that even though he can’t spend time with you sometimes, he tries his best to try to understand you.”

See what I did there?

  • I re-use her own phrases, and NEGATE them.
  • I don’t talk shit about Dick. (Very important! You don’t want to badmouth him)
  • I make her come to her own conclusions without telling her outright: “Dick is not the Perfect Guy”.


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Step #3: Finish Him By Using Fractionation

If you done steps 1 and 2 above, then her attraction to her boyfriend will start to wobble… right in front of your very eyes.

Do it a couple of times, and you’ll see her starting fights with him. At this point, the relationship will start to crumble. Good for you, bad for him. 🙂

However, don’t take things for granted, because if you miss this final step, then she will soon run back into his arms. When this happens, her love for him may be stronger than ever.

Have no mercy!

So how do you destroy him for good then?

Simple… use this technique called Fractionation.

Known as the grand-daddy of all “covert” seduction techniques, if used properly, Fractionation will bestow upon you the superpowers to seduce any woman away from her boyfriend.

Use it as the “Endgame” of sorts, and take it to the point of no return. The boyfriend will be destroyed for good, and the very thought of the boyfriend will probably make the girl puke.

It’s no joke!

And as you can probably imagine, Fractionation is super controversial because it has got the power to break up otherwise perfectly happy relationships (especially when combined with Steps #1 and #2 above.)

Learn fractionation to make her want you!The best way to learn how you can make Fractionation work for you is to attend this online Masterclass taught by Derek Rake (the dating coach who first used the Fractionation technique in dating and seducing women.) All new members are required to watch and learn from this Masterclass, and for the first time, it’s made available to the general public.

Click on this button below to find out if you qualify for the Fractionation Masterclass –

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At that page, you’ll be asked to enter your email address (so that we can send you the link to the online Masterclass). If the enrollment is full, then you’ll receive an automated message.

We have to take the Masterclass offline from time to time when we get overwhelmed with requests. Thank you for understanding.

Matt Ganz SIBG

PS: We have received lots of questions about how to seduce married women using the same three steps in this guide. The truth is that these also work on married women, but we do have to make an exception for this because we are not in the business of breaking up marriages. So, what you do with this information is your own responsibility.

PPS: Got questions? Leave them below. 🙂


  1. Peter Sone says

    I love a girl at my class. Turns out she likes my best friend. How do I get her to like me without ruining my relationship with the guy. Please help me!

    • If your best friend doesn’t like her, than you have to explain the situation with your friend so he doesn’t get upset over her if you ask her out. Also find a way to spend more time with the girl. Show her that you want to be with her by talking to her a lot more than her friends would. Eventually, she will see you more charmingly. Then you ask her out.

  2. I’ve fallen for this girl on Facebook. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I wanted to meet her but I didn’t know how to go about doing that without coming off as a creeper since I didn’t know her before. I have been told not to do that because since I didn’t know her outside of Facebook, that is exactly how I would come across to her and I could potentially be reported as a stalker.

    I did finally meet her, but not before she started a relationship two months prior to that and when I did meet her, he was there. Unfortunately they ate still together going on five months now. The guy comes off as a real douche. He has “single” on his Facebook status, but she is infatuated with him. I want to try to win her over before she either marries him or gets pregnant by him.

    Besides, every girl I ever wanted either had a boyfriend or just didn’t want me. The only girls I ever got were the girls I wasn’t really interested in. Please help.

  3. i really love this girl,when i met her the first time in her house,the first question she asked me was,*do you have a girlfriend?*i asked her why,she said because i have not seen any girl coming into your house,she was my neighbor ,we became friends for a week and i told her how i felt about her and she told me she loves me too but she has a boyfriend ,we were together for sometime and she went for holidays after she finished her exams,she visited me and we were so in love,but i realized she is still seeing the other guy,i told her i will let go so she could be with the guy,she pleaded and said she loved me so much,after sometime again i still noticed it,even though she was showing me love and introduced me to her best friend,but it was difficult because she had dated that guy for 2 years and they were in the same class ,we dated for 3 months ,we never had sex because i respected her and only wanted sex,when she is fully mind.The other guy lived in another town far from where she lives and she was not too far from where i was living,as time goes on i showed her so much love and care ,we text everyday ,but it came a time when i ask her to visit me,she would not and it pained me so much and i will be very rude on phone,she begged me when i did that saying its very difficult to leave their home because she is very busy at home and her parents wont let her,i was rude one night and the next morning she texted me saying she has discovered that we don’t understand each other and that she is letting go of the relationship so i can find another girl who will always be there and take care of me,i was shocked and i spoke to her best friend,her best friend advised me to let her be and that she is too glued to the other guy ,the best friend said she loves me but the thing is she cant date two boys ,i called her and we spoke and when i asked her,if she wants me to forget about her,she said she is not saying so but we can be friend but if i want to forget about her then fine.

    I love her so much and want her back. Please, what should I do?

  4. I’m recently separated and have been seeing this girl on and off for two weeks. She has a boyfriend. I fetched her from the airport the other night, she said she missed me, and she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. While together, we were as per usual giggling, laughing and teasing.

    I didn’t know how we got into discussing this but she asked me what I wanted out of what we had: did I want myself to be her “other” boyfriend, or did I want her to be my mistress. She said she’s not comfortable thinking that people might get hurt. She said she might need time to think where I stand.

    But the fun and teasing continued after that. I’d normally kiss her lips before dropping her off and she would normally text me not to do that again, but it still happens every time anyway. That night we kissed with her eyes closed, longer and passionately, then bade goodbye.
    I did not contact her since then thinking she needed space. It’s been two days that I haven’t heard from her.

    I know this is messed up but please advise.

    • All’s fair in love and war. Use the dream guy technique on her, and end it with fractionation. Her boyfriend won’t know what hit her!

      For good measure, use Shogun Method also so that he’s done for good!

  5. Maxwell Richman says

    I met this girl a few days ago who lives in the city but comes out to where i live every weekend. I met her when i saw her sitting all alone at night and walked up to her with a few of my friends and said hello and was asking what her name was and where she is from and then i went out and said do you have a boyfriend, she said no i don’t. So the next day i met up with her because she gave me her snapchat and we messaged each other and hung out until she had to go back to the city. Two of my friends were there one boy and girl. The girl walked with her and after a while later on she told her that she thought that i was cute. I also thought she was cute thats why i like her. But now when I go straight forward and say i heard from my friend that you said I was cute she said, yes I did say that but I am in a complicated relationship right now with this boy. So at first I was really mad, and then i did the “perfect guy” thing on her and guess what, her boyfriend got dropped like a hot potato. DARN, IT WORKED… so thanks a bunch

  6. Justin Sterling says

    This helps a lot, thanks. But do I fight her boyfriend or not?

  7. She kept saying to me that she has a boyfriend. Help

    • Rake Of The East says

      Who cares when you already know the boyfriend destroyer technique? Like Matt said… no mercy, baby!

  8. Enlightened One says

    Guys posting their problems here should just shut up and apply the three steps that Matt has given in the article. Why is it so hard? Really frustrating!

    1. Make her describe her dream guy.
    2. Make her boyfriend look like crap compared to the dream guy.
    3. Use Fractionation.

    There, summarized everything for you!

  9. Hi guys,

    Just sharing an experience.

    I met a girl who was my colleague for few months and she had a boyfriend for 7 years. I felt comfortable and happy when chatting with her. And I realized that I had fallen in love with her. But as I knew it was bad to break a relationship, but as time went by, I couldn’t control my feelings, trying hard for now. I think she was in a good relationship with her boyfriend.

    I grew a pair (haha) and then used the dream guy/ fractionation technique on her (over two weeks). Then they broke up. I felt a little guilty, but then I managed to get her.

    I might roast in hell for this (I’m a strict Catholic) but still… I’m really happy now with her. No regrets at all.

  10. I am a sophomore at University. I met this gal, a senior in high school and she is 4 years younger. She has a BF but seems to like me and wants me to do something. First time she gave me a gorgeous look, I shied away not cause I fear her but I had not made up my mind and didn’t feel comfortable if people around noticed. With time, I have fallen in love but I seem not to have made up my mind on whether to date her or No. I fear that she is much younger. She always gives me a sexy look but I seem to ignore. I do feel I hurt her. So, I decided to date her but she is making it difficult. She insists she has a BF and she usually states that she doesn’t trust me cos I am a big joker which is true. It’s not easy for most people to trust me cos I am always playing jokes. I have failed to find a way of winning her trust cos I messed up first time but it wasn’t deliberate, it’s just that I wasn’t ready and I respected the fact that she is much younger than me.
    What should I do?

    Please HELP. She really LIKES me(I believe)

    • Angler Fish says

      Age doesn’t matter 😉 You should build yourself up first and try to be more serious especially when you’re with her. Girls like dependable guys. Ah, learn Fractionation, too.

  11. The first two steps seem to be straightforward enough. Are there other Fractionation (step 3) resources apart from the masterclass?

  12. She kept saying to me that she has a boyfriend. Help

  13. She keeps saying “I am already somebody’s” but she is always on my mind! What should I do?

    • Harry Green says

      Dude, back off for a while. If she isn’t interested and you keep using the same strategy, she will just end up hating you.

      Like what the article said above, try something like Fractionation for a change.

  14. Alfred Lakhiani says

    l liked a girl who is actually very close to her boyfriend. Like she’s going out on a date with that guy everday… don’t know how to tell her or attract her.
    How do I start? Help!

    • Didn’t you read the article? Apply what you have learned. (1) Get her to imagine her dream guy, (2) Make the boyfriend look bad, (3) Use fractionation on her

      I tried it and it works. Get off your butt and do it

    • How would you feel if there was a guy who were after your girlfriend? There are lots of other single girls, you know.

  15. Kenneth Bricks says

    I got my girlfriend snatched by someone else, and then guess what? I took her back using these 3 steps. It’s not just for “stealing” women… it’s also for getting your ex back from the bastard who stole her from you.

    Just thought I’d add that.

    Ken Bricks from Minnesota

  16. Jeff Neason says

    Thank you. SIBG rocks

  17. OK, I’ll admit it. I lost my girlfriend to someone who used this on her. I knew it because that bastard CALLED ME UP TO GLOAT AND TOLD ME EVERYTHING.

    You’re a dick for teaching this to guys.

    While I’m at it, I’ll call out Derek Rake too, for producing something as harmful as Shogun Method.

    I hope your conscience will catch up with you one day.

    • Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz says

      Michael, relax.

      Like it or not, it’s a dog-eat-dog world out there. You’ll get your lunch eaten if you’re not on top of your game.

      Why not learn these techniques as self-defense? You’ll know how to fight back when another guy tries to use Fractionation or the Shogun Method on your woman next time.

  18. I’m a freshman at NYU. I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend who is a senior. I really like her. Please help me win her heart, because her boyfriend is about as mature as my 6 year old brother. Thank you.

  19. How can I use this in text formula?, then possibly to call my ex? She has a new BF now.

  20. A question! This girl I like has a mom who seems to dislike every guy her daughter sees. She will not let her speak her own mind and told me to back off. What should I do?

  21. I slept with her her but she left with her boyfriend and act like nothing happened. She is addicted to me but her relationship is so perfect that she doesn’t wanna end it. God, I’m messed up.

    • Well, you’re doing it wrong. You made her like this, and even if you got her then she will probably be addicted to other guy (maybe someone who has used shogun method on her?). She has done it once, she can do it twice.

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