“Matthew, teach me how to seduce women into bed.”
I think I must have heard that request about a thousand times.
Admittedly, as a dating coach, it burns me out sometimes to hear that.
Why? Well, although like every other red-blooded guy, getting physical with a woman features pretty prominently in my mind. I mean, who am I kidding?
On the other hand, I remind myself that there’s really more to seduction than just getting laid.
I learned this from Derek Rake, the founder of the Shogun Method.
“You have now in your disposal one of the most intricate yet powerful ability to persuade and influence a woman. Getting her to have sex with you is trivial. You got to think bigger,” he told me.
I was pretty much taken aback with what he had told me. It was so different from the other seduction and dating gurus who would talk as if getting laid is the ultimate end point of seduction.
Guess what – it’s not.
Don’t get me wrong…
You can pretty much use everything you learn here at SIBG.com to make a woman hop into bed with you.
In fact, you can utilize some female mind control techniques to shortcut the process, hack into a woman’s mind and immediately pull her “erotic trigger” in order to make her feel hot for you. It’s as easy as 1-2-3.
What I want you to do is to take a step back and see the bigger picture… because you can do a whole lot more.
Trust me. I’ve been where you are at now.
Enslavement As The Seduction End Point
As Derek had said, sex is not the end point of seduction.
You want a woman to surrender to you completely… her heart and soul.
You want her to think of nobody else but you.
You want her to be with you, now and forever.
Sex is not a guarantee of those things. Physical intimacy is a passing thing. You’ll need more than that to make a woman captivated by you for the long run.
If you’ve see our “Seduction 101” guide (click here to read it – highly recommended), then you’ll already have the basics when it comes to attracting and seducing a woman.
Beyond that, you should be looking at Enslavement.
To clarify, this is not about physical Enslavement. If you have thoughts of constraining the movement of anyone forcefully against her will, you’re sick. Go get help.
Instead, we are talking about emotional Enslavement here. In other words, you want a woman to be “tied” to you emotionally.
When a woman is Enslaved to you emotionally, she will need you like she needs air to breathe.
You will put her under your control and domination, and guess what… she will only be too happy to have you lord over her.
It’s really not politically correct to talk about “Enslavement“, “Control” and “Domination” nowadays, but it’s true: this is the only way you can make her truly happy.
Trust me: she wants you to wear the pants in the relationship.
It’s your job to lead, and provide her with the comfort of security.
I hope I’ve convinced you to think beyond “getting a woman into bed” and start considering about the things that really matter.
Of course, you can choose to take another path and learn shallow “Pickup Artist” tricks that will get you laid this weekend.
If that’s the decision you’re going to make, then don’t be surprised if you end up with “shallow” short-lived victories.
For longer term success with women, choose the less taken path – click here.