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How To Seduce A Woman From Another Man

June 9, 2017 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 14 Comments

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Before you learn how to seduce a woman from another man, you need to know one thing: this isn’t the best thing for every man to do. In fact, some people might frown upon the practice of stealing another man’s woman altogether.

However, if you are pretty open-minded and simply cannot imagine your life without this woman in your life, then you can learn how to attract her in order to seduce her and steal her from under that man’s eyes here. Keep reading.

The first thing that you need to do is focus on her current boyfriend’s weaknesses. A lot of men out there try to focus on their opponent’s strengths and do their best to outdo them, but that really wouldn’t be a good strategy. After all, if her boyfriend is good at something, then he might be really good at it. If you try to beat him at something that he’s already great at, then you might just fail and end up looking like a try-hard while you’re at it.

To avoid this, what you have to do instead is find out what his weaknesses are, especially in terms of their relationship. No man is perfect, after all, so find out what he is lacking and what he cannot give her. Of course, this will involve taking a closer look at their relationship and delving into your dream girl’s mind, but it will definitely be worth all of the torture in the end if you can get some information out of it.

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Listening Skills Are Imperative To Your Success

A lot of men tend to suck at listening to women’s needs or just listening to them in conversations for that matter. So, if you realize that her boyfriend isn’t giving her the deep emotional bond that every woman craves, then you can get right in there and steal her from him with ease.

What you basically have to do is concentrate on any of his weaknesses and give her what he can’t. Women constantly compare men with their boyfriends, so this is sure to work in your favor if you do it right. Just make sure you do it subtly and make sure she doesn’t know what you are up to; otherwise, she might just avoid you altogether.

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This is actually very important to note because you shouldn’t be blunt about this when you are eyeing to approach a woman who already has a boyfriend. Regardless of how great you think you are or how confident you might, telling her straight up that you like her will make her disappear from your sight right away.

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Putting Her In The Driving Seat

The truth is women don’t like being put in a moral position, in general, and they don’t like making difficult decisions, either. If you do force her into making a decision, then she is sure to choose the easier and more comfortable position: the one she is currently in. So, go for the more subtle process of winning her over instead. You definitely won’t regret it!

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How To Meet Women – The SIBG Way

November 21, 2016 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz Leave a Comment

If you are too shy to meet women on your own, then the tips in this article can definitely help you out. This is the However, you will need to be very careful when following these tips because doing them wrongly can result in major disappointments on your part.

These techniques have been widely practiced within the confines of the “SIBG Seduction Lair” here in Baltimore, but its applicability is universal – so it doesn’t matter if you’re in Baltimore, New York, the Cotswolds or Hong Kong. In fact, we have received many success stories from our seduction brothers across the world from as far as Singapore and Tokyo.

How To Meet Women – SIBG Style

Learn how to meet women like this! — Meeting high quality women is not an impossibility – you just need to know what to do at the right time.

Know Where to Look (The Best Places To Meet Women)

Clubs and bars would be some great places to meet women, but they aren’t always the best ones if you are looking for something more serious. If you are after nothing but a quick hookup, then bars and clubs can give you exactly what you need.

However, if you are a beginner in the world of dating or want to find something more serious, then you will need to sharpen your eyes and your skills, and turn to other environments to meet women, such as:

Girl in a college... rather seductive! — Clubs aren’t only the places you’ll meet beautiful women. Campuses are good for meeting young, intelligent women on the lookout for quality guys like you. 🙂

Supermarkets
Coffee shops
Parks
Bus stations
Colleges

Try Out Online Websites

This may sound controversial to you, but dating websites are actually very effective at helping men meet women nowadays. The best part is that they are extremely convenient since you won’t have to leave home to meet new women. Plus, you can look for women who share the same interests with you with ease. Just be careful that you don’t get scammed by fake websites or profiles that are only there to take your money from you. If you can’t decide which one to try, you might want to see The Telegraph’s 20 most useful dating websites.

Don’t Lower Your Standards

Regardless of where you decide to look for women to date, you should never lower your standards, no matter what. If you believe that you are good enough for any woman that you meet, then she will believe it, too. If you keep thinking that you will never be able to attract women, on the other hand, women will steer clear from you because of your lack of confidence. Women happen to love confident men who know what they want and who can command conversations and situations without an ounce of anxiety.

Make the Plans

Having said that, women also prefer their men to take charge and make any necessary plans. If you are just starting to see someone, though, then make sure you choose public places to meet her in, so that she will stay comfortable in your presence. Some good places to meet would include coffee shops, gyms and bars. Just make sure that the place is respectable and presentable, and she will love your choice either way.

Always Look Good

If you want to meet women and have them react favorably towards you, then you will need to take care of your appearance and maintain that appearance at all times. Wearing nice clothes would be vital, as well, but make sure you don’t overdo things. Just make sure you always look good, no matter where you go, because you can never know when you will meet the girl of your dreams. And when you do, make her fall in love using this SIBG guide.

Learn How To Meet Women From Other Guys

Let’s face it: nobody is perfect. As such, it wouldn’t hurt to get some advice from other men or just observe men and see what works for them. It would also be advisable to try out all sorts of methods in attracting women until you find what works best for you.

Work the Social Scene

If you want to meet as many women as possible, then go out there and work the social scene. If you decide to go clubbing, then hang out in the more open areas where you can meet more people with ease. By taking charge and by being socially aggressive, you can actually meet more women, dance with them, talk to them and eventually get them to go out with you. Timing is of the utmost essence here, too. Ideally, you shouldn’t go to places too early since you will only end up getting burned out too early in the night. Besides, more people will be there the later you go – remember that.

Shrug Off Rejection

Rejection is something that you will never be able to get rid of, no matter what, so just embrace it when it happens. Besides, rejection doesn’t necessarily mean that you are doing something wrong. Some women may already be spoken for, while others may just not be interested in men, in general. Think about it. As you can see, there are many ways to meet women and date them. Just make sure you follow the aforementioned tips in order to ensure that you score a date or two with the ones that you are interested in.

Good luck!

Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

December 3, 2015 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 10 Comments

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style. 🙂

Be Different.

guy in red — Research says that women get attracted to men in red. Won’t hurt to try!

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable. If you need help and you want a fresh pair of eyes to look and evaluate your appearance, contact me or Matthew (email matt@sibg.com).

be her friend — If you build enough emotional rapport with her,then it will be easier for you to seduce her.

Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

Remember – if you do not get enough face time with her then you won’t be able to attract her. Let that sink in a little.

One of the best ways to develop emotional rapport is to use this hypnosis technique called fractionation. Click here for a free download.

Once you win her over in the friend department, you can then start flirting with her a little bit and finally show her your true intentions. And if you think this girl is someone you want to have a serious relationship with, then becoming friends with her will also make it easier for you to make her fall in love with you.

Talk (Hypnotically).

On that note, always make it a point to approach the girl that you are eyeing and talk to her before she makes the first move. Girls love it when guys make the first move, and it would help a lot if you already have interesting subjects to talk about to make her smile and keep her entertained. Also, at the same time, weave some fractionation-laden lines into your conversation threads in order to build emotional rapport above (see the previous point).

We at SIBG.com likes Colin Simone’s Conversational Seduction philosophy, and follows it to the brim (it’s part of the new lair member’s initiation program – apart from Derek Rake’s programs). Google it!

Be Bruce Wayne.

A lot of girls would prefer to date guys who have their own lives outside of the dating game. So, if you show a girl that you preoccupy yourself with a ton of other things during your free time, then she can rest assured that you aren’t clingy and won’t demand too much of her time. This will also show her that you are mature and independent, and that you have personal goals that you do not plan to give up for her.

Socialize.

Most girls are very social, so it would help you a lot if you are a social being, too, especially if you want to impress a girl somehow. If you show a girl that you are social, then she will know that she will never get bored around you if you ever do end up going out. Don’t be shy to meet her friends or family when you start dating, either. This will definitely score you major brownie points with her.

How to make her like you - SIBG method — Once you know some covert lines then you can master any conversation with a woman when you pick her up

Use Covert Psychology Techniques.

Many guys (and competing seduction lairs) hate us for this, but we have absolutely no qualms about using what are seen as “underhanded” tactics to seduce women. With an arsenal of what’s known as “forbidden” patterns derived from underground hypnosis and persuasion knowledge. With this knowledge, we can step into any situation with quiet confidence that we can attract any woman we want, anywhere. What would you do with this power?

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I am able to sleep at night despite using these techniques simply because I have no ill intentions towards women. Women are happier when they are attracted to me because I show them a good time.

On the other hand, if you have bad intentions towards women, and want to use these techniques to hurt women, then don’t click on the link above. Also, my lawyers have asked me to make this clear: you are responsible for your own actions from the knowledge that I share above. Don’t blame me if you get stuck in a bad situation where a woman gets super clingy and starts calling you every hour.

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How To Talk To A Woman (Conversational Attraction Techniques)

November 4, 2013 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 3 Comments

If you tend to have trouble talking to girls that you find attractive, then it is high time to find a way to become better at it and become more comfortable talking to them. Sometimes, men who feel awkward talking to women stop themselves from approaching women altogether because of the awkwardness. This then results in them not being able to get to know women better or take them out on dates.

Simply put, you won’t really know how to pick up girls until you really master the art of having meaningful conversations – with the females or the males!

If you are sick of going through that yourself day in and day out, then you need to find some easy way to talk to women and make your life better. If dating is difficult for you right now, you should know that it doesn’t need to be that way. Here are several tips on how to talk to a woman and help you get better at doing so in no time.

Do not fill your conversations with too many compliments.

impress her — Don’t over use compliments.

A ton of men out there tend to resort to compliments whenever they run out of words to say when talking to a woman. Other men do it because they want to make sure that women know they are interested in them. Unfortunately, compliments don’t really say much or do much in terms of helping you out with women. So, compliments aside, you have to talk about other things with her, as well.

If you don’t do anything but tell her how beautiful she is, you will merely blend in with the rest of the desperate men out there and fail at making a lasting and positive impression on the woman that you like. Remember: you probably aren’t the only man who thinks she is attractive. In fact, chances are that most men find her attractive to. This means that compliments won’t be anything new to her at all.

Do not focus too much on the fact that you find her attractive.

On that note, you shouldn’t focus on how attractive she is overall. The minute you start thinking too much about how gorgeous or how great it is, the more unnecessary pressure you will put yourself in. In order to avoid this, you have to trick your mind into thinking that she really isn’t that gorgeous or great, after all. Once the pressure is off the table, you will instantly have a much easier time talking to any woman that you want.

Look for things that you might have in common.

Of course, it wouldn’t hurt to look for things that you might have in common. As a matter of fact, this would be one of the best ways to get her to give you her phone number and convince her to go on a date with you. Remember: when a woman realizes that you share a lot of common interests, she will instantly want to spend more time with you in order to talk about those interests. So, do your research and try to figure out what you can talk to and share together. And of course, if you know some mind manipulation techniques then all the better!

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Covert Seduction – How to Mess with Women’s Minds

November 1, 2013 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 7 Comments

Before anything else, you should know that women are professionals in the art of mind games. They will flirt with you, they will play hard-to-get, and they will get what they want out of it.

Interestingly enough, men don’t mess with women’s minds as they do with men’s minds. In fact, a lot of the time, they don’t get played at all. The good news is that this makes them vulnerable to mind games. This basically means that you can learn how to mess with women’s minds, confuse them to death and win them over in no time.

Try cold reading.

Approach any woman that you want and tell her that you can read her fortune for her. Most women will agree to this. If she does, then start stating general and random things that could apply to any woman out there or come up with things that you might have picked up from afar before you actually approached her. If you sound convincing enough, you will definitely make a good impression on her.

If you really want to succeed at this, then make sure you learn more about female body language before trying this tactic out to begin with. This would entail staying on track with your words, especially if you decide to read her fortune through her palm. Generally speaking, palm reading would be the best method to go for when it comes to this since you will be able to hold your hand while you’re at it. Light touches like that can easily help you connect with a woman much faster than usual. Plus, they could send shivers up her spine and build up even more attraction overall.

Try entering her mind.

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Believe it or not, several methods of hypnosis can help you make women emotionally addicted to you. You can try making a woman happy one minute and then making her sad the next. As long as you bring some drama into her life, though, you are sure to get in good with her.

Women actually love drama, so if you can make her feel like she is living a real-life soap opera, then she will invest her feelings into you much quicker. Once you succeed at doing this, you might even be able to get her to do anything that you want her to.

Try playing games.

Make jokes, laugh and tease the woman that you like to win her over. Even if some women pretend like they don’t like any type of childish behavior, the truth is that every woman enjoys being playful with a man. So, don’t be afraid to show off your playful side when you’re with a woman that you like.

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Besides, being playful is much better than being boring. In fact, being boring is probably the worst mistake that you could possibly commit in dating field. So, instead, aim to bring more fun and entertainment into her life. She is sure to find you interesting and definitely worth her while in the end if you do this.

Try to read my previous blog post too. Thanks 🙂

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