Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz

How To Control A Woman’s Mind And Make Her Love You

February 4, 2020 By Shogun Method team

Alright, Justin McKinsey here, and I am standing in for Matthew for this exclusive mini-guide on, well, mind control :). It may seem strange, but lots of our new members to the Baltimore Lair ask us about our infamous “How To Use Mind Control On Women” guide which got shared around in the underground seduction lairs for a long, long time (since 2002 to be exact).

So, here’s a short summary of that guide.

Before anything, here’s a disclaimer. We have edited (OK, deleted) some of the original content because it’s just too controversial to be published online like this.

$Learn fractionation to make her want you!$ Matt still sends out the guide (and other good stuff like the Masterclass on Fractionation) – I thought that’s pretty risky but hey, he’s the leader of the Baltimore Lair for the reason that he has got balls. 😉

OK, with that out of the way, now here’s what you need about Mind Control on women…

A lot of men (at least, the newbies who come thronging our lair after the short feature on CNN in April) seem to think that some women out there are completely out of their league… just because they are downright gorgeous.

However, while these men believe that they will never be able to win these gorgeous women over, the truth is that this is definitely not the case. Ask Matt. Or Derek Rake. Or even me. 😉

Well, here’s the truth…

The fact is that any man can get any woman that they want if they know what to do. I’m serious.

How?

Well, here’s the answer: they just need to use certain psychology tactics to help them re-structure and re-shape women’s thought processes.

You see, by influencing a woman’s thoughts, you can influence her feelings and actions. Pretty straightforward, isn’t it?

With the right psychology techniques, you can make women see you in a different light and in the process, become more attractive in their eyes. And guess what, you’re going to learn about these very same techniques in this guide. Strap on your seat belts! 🙂

How to control a woman's mind using covert psychology

Table of Contents

1 This One Tip Alone Will Make Or Break Your Seduction Success
2 Mind Control vs Pickup Artist Tomfoolery
3 How To Control A Woman (In Three Simple Steps)
4 How To Use Fractionation In Seduction (Free Masterclass)

This One Tip Alone Will Make Or Break Your Seduction Success

Before we start, there’s one very important thing that you must know when you’re learning a new seduction technique…

You’ve got to understand that discovering about a new tactic is only half of the battle – in order to truly benefit from the new knowledge that you have acquired, you’ll have to put it into practice. Knowledge without practice is pretty much useless.

The problem with reading about new techniques from blogs (SIBG.com or elsewhere) is that it’s easy to completely forget about the things that you have learned as you jump from one blog to the next.

Regretfully, most guys who have stumbled upon this guide today will probably forget what they’ve read soon enough, much less putting the knowledge into good use for their own benefit. Sad, but true. I hope you won’t be one of those guys.

To help you take action, I’ve prepared a downloadable Action Checklist which contains everything inside this guide in a simple, step-by-step format. With the Action Checklist, you won’t have to wreck your brain trying to remember if you’ve forgotten anything important before you use this technique on a woman you want to seduce. Cool, isn’t it?

What’s more: there’s also a bonus technique which I will only share inside the Action Checklist (and not in this guide) – it’s simply too controversial to be exposed publicly like this.

To download the Action Checklist, simply click on this link below –

Free Action Checklist Download

Download the “How To Control A Woman” SIBG Action Checklist (click here). This 11-page PDF contains everything you need to know from this article summarized in a handy step-by-step format as well as EXTRA examples of Implanted Commands not found in this guide.

There’s one minor catch though… once you’ve finished downloading the Action Checklist PDF, kindly refrain from sharing the download with anyone else. You see, this material is strictly a controlled item, and whoever who wants it will need to come here to request it. Thank you for understanding.

Done with the download? Great… now let’s move on! 🙂

Mind Control vs Pickup Artist Tomfoolery

What you’re going to find here in this guide (and elsewhere on SIBG.com) is markedly different from what you’d expect from “Pickup Artist” (PUA) blogs.

So no, we won’t be discussing about “pickup lines” or “opener routines” or “peacocking” or any kind of Pickup Artist gibberish. Instead, we will go deep into the understanding of the female psyche, and more importantly, how to exploit the weaknesses in the female psychology for our benefit.

Excited yet? I sure hope you are. 🙂

If you’re unfamiliar with the use of Mind Control in seduction, I highly recommend that you watch this online Masterclass conducted by Derek Rake (enter your best email address below) –

It will blow your mind – I can guarantee you. Once you’ve understood the basic concepts of Mind Control (covered in the online Masterclass), you’ll realize just how easy this game can be, and you’ll laugh at how ineffective Pickup Artist crap can be.

Go on – watch the Masterclass. We’ll wait for you to come back. 🙂

How To Control A Woman (In Three Simple Steps)

Step One: Take Your Power Back

Let’s face it. Like it or hate it, in this day and age, women hold all of the power in a relationship by default.

This is especially true in the beginning of any relationship when men are very vulnerable.

Have you experienced this before? Once a woman realizes that a man likes her, she starts to behave differently.

She wants to be put on a pedestal.

She makes you jump through multiple hoops just because she can.

Her needs come before yours.

And guess what? Once you have surrendered the power to her, it’s often beyond the point of no return.

Fancy getting pussywhipped? Nobody does.

So here’s the key to keeping the power to yourself: be subtle and indifferent at all times.

Keep some distance between the two of you, for starters, and avoid showering her with too many compliments. And don’t be afraid to call her out on her bullshit.

Remember that it is entirely alright to continue to flirt with her, However, don’t make it seem like you are trying too hard into getting her to like you back. Act as if you don’t really care.

Make sense?

I know… it’s just so easy to make the mistake of lapsing especially when she seems to be responding well to your indifference. Be careful: she will lose interest in you and might even start to disrespect you once you lose all of your power.

Step Two: Take Control Of Her Thoughts

Once your power in the relationship is intact, you need to start taking control of her thoughts using Mind Control techniques.

Some may frown on using these “covert” tactics because they may seem to be rather insidious, and to some, amoral.

Morality is none of my concern. It’s my job here to show you what works. Whether something is “right” or “wrong” – I’ll leave that to you. 🙂

These tactics are so effective that they can successfully hack into the female mind and get women to fall for you in no time. The good news is that even beginners won’t have any trouble learning these tactics because they can be so easy (once you know exactly what to do.)

One of these Mind Control techniques which you can use to control her thoughts are Implanted Commands. Originally developed by Derek Rake inside the Shogun Method, these are the keywords and phrases that you tell a woman that will help you plant ideas inside her mind subconsciously.

Here’s how Implanted Commands work…

You’ll make a suggestion to her which will automatically accepted because she won’t be noticing it consciously, making it outright impossible for her to reject your suggestion.

Interesting, isn’t it?

To learn how you can use Implanted Commands to quickly seize control of a woman’s thoughts (and subsequently her emotions), watch this video –

https://youtu.be/-DXCLN9IsbI

For more examples of Implanted Commands you can use, refer to Pages 6 and 7 of the Action Checklist (download here if you haven’t done so already.)

Done with the video? Great. Now let’s go to the third and final step…

Step Three: Use Fractionation On Her

In a nutshell, Fractionation refers to a very effective hypnosis tactic that is both fast and easy to use. In just 15 minutes, this tactic can re-program a woman’s feelings and make her depend on you for all of her positive emotions.

Exciting, isn’t it?

Before you use this technique, however, you have to be super careful… since you could unintentionally turn women into stalkers if you do it wrongly. Trust me: it’s no fun having to deal with a woman who’d come knocking on your door at 3am at night just because you didn’t reply her text (personal experience!)

Also, agree with me that you won’t abuse this tactic to intentionally hurt women. (Very important!)

With all that out of the way…

Derek Rake (the originator of the technique) has developed an online Masterclass on how to use Fractionation to seduce women initially to share with the rest of the Baltimore Seduction Lair members a few years ago.

Unfortunately a recording of the Masterclass has been spread BEYOND the lair, and as a result, Matt has decided to keep it within the members of the lair (and those who join Derek Rake’s mailing list).

For more information click this link below –

How To Use Fractionation In Seduction (Free Masterclass)

If this link is dead, it means that we have decided to take it off. Truth is that this stuff can be misused to harm women’s psyche, and we NEVER recommend using Mind Control tactics by AMATEURS on women. If you have any intentions to use this to harm women, DO NOT CLICK ON THE LINK.

Respectfully yours,

Justin McKinsey, SIBG.com senior member

How To Make A Woman Want You (Congruency + Implanted Commands)

February 4, 2020 By Shogun Method team

Just last week a newbie joined us here at the Baltimore Seduction Lair, and the first question he asked was, “Matthew, how do I make a woman want me? To be honest, I’m pretty desperate at this stage, and I’ll do almost anything.”

Indeed, any guy will easily admit that he wants to learn how to make women want him more each day, not less…

Makes sense, right?

In fact, the desire to learn how to make her want you is probably deeply ingrained in your male psyche, no matter what you try to do to resist it. So here’s the bottom line: it’s inside your male psyche! Don’t fight it! 😉

Learn how to make a woman want you... and more!

The sad reality is that the vast majority of men in today’s day and age have lots of trouble creating and maintaining attraction with the women that they want to be with.

Common complaints that we hear from guys who seek our help here at the Baltimore Lair include:

I like her, but she doesn’t like me back.
She friend-zoned me.
She plays mind games with me.
No matter what I do, she doesn’t seem to be attracted to me.
She dumped me for another guy.

Any of these sound familiar to you? Well, if they are, you’re not alone.

This kind of saddens me because grieving over these problems is hardly necessary… especially when you’re going to find out what you’re going to learn next in this exclusive SIBG.com guide.

Before You Start…

Before you start, there’s something that you absolutely must know, and it is this –

This “How To Make Her Want You” guide is quite comprehensive and rich in details. If you follow the instructions closely in this guide, success with women will be yours: there’s no question about that!

Here lies the kicker though…

Given how detailed this guide is, remembering EVERYTHING you’ve read here can be quite tricky – especially if you aren’t going to take lots of notes as you learn these awesome techniques…

Don’t worry, for I’ve got your back. 🙂

You see, I’ve originally developed a PDF document containing an Action Checklist for the use of SIBG lair members based on this guide. The good news is that you can now download this same PDF, and for free!

Before you use these techniques on a woman, just leaf through this beautiful 14-page PDF and check off everything you need – this way you won’t forget any important details. Easy, right?

Download this PDF here:

Free Action Checklist Download

Download the “How To Make A Woman Want You” SIBG Action Checklist which contains every technique in this guide in step-by-step format PLUS a new tactic not found in this guide.

Once you’ve downloaded the Action Checklist, promise me that you won’t share it with anyone, alright? (If any of your friends want to find out more about the Action Checklist, point them to this page.)

Now with that out of the way… let’s start! Are you ready?

Let’s go! 🙂

Guide Overview: What You’re Going To Learn

Before anything, let’s get a broad overview of what you’re going to find in this exclusive SIBG.com guide, alright?

You’re going to find out about some pretty cutting edge information about dating and seducing women – it’s high chance that you’ve never seen anything like this anywhere else. I can pretty much guarantee that!

Much later, you’ll learn an advanced technique like Fractionation to immediately hack into her mind and make her want you like how a fat boy desires a greasy hamburger with a side of fries…

…but as with everything here in SIBG.com, we recommend working your way up from the foundations so that you have firm grip on what really works.

Indeed, resorting to a hardcore seduction technique like Fractionation to make a woman like you without covering the basics first is like learning to run before first learning how to walk.

So let’s do things right, and dive into the basics first, shall we?

Table of Contents

1 How To Make Her Want You: The Foundations
2 How To Make A Woman Like You: By Hacking Her Mind
- 2.1 ▶ ▶ The Fractionation Technique (Online Masterclass) ◀ ◀
3 Frequently Asked Questions

How To Make Her Want You: The Foundations

New joiners of the Baltimore Seduction Lair receive what we call the Foundations which contains the three “quick win” techniques that any guy can use to immediately see improvement in their dating lives.

(A summary of the Foundations course can be found inside the Action Checklist PDF download.)

So what we are sharing here are three “quick win” techniques that can help you make a woman want you in a sexual (i.e non-platonic) manner and turn her on… so that she sees you as boyfriend material.

Let’s dig in, shall we?

Technique #1: Congruency

Now this might sound strange, but many guys fail to act like real men when in the presence of women.

Here’s what I mean…

Steph Lee, a hottie at SIBG! What they tend to do the most is do everything in their power to befriend women, not realizing that by doing so, they lose their masculine edge and fail at sexually attracting them. This, my dear amigo, is a bad, bad mistake.

OK, don’t get me wrong now…

There is absolutely nothing wrong about having things in common with a woman and being able to relate to one’s feminine side of the personality.

However, you should never lose your manly edge since that is what will actually make women sexually attracted to you in the long run.

Makes sense?

In short: being a congruent man is a first step to seduction success. Don’t worry – we will whip you into shape in no time at all. 🙂 Continue reading!

Technique #2: Use Implanted Commands

Implanted Commands are tools used by female Mind Control seducers (like Derek Rake) to influence a woman’s subconscious to make her want a man.

Simply put, an Implanted Command is a phrase in a sentence which if spoken on its own, it would be a “direct” command.

Enough of theory now. Let’s look at some examples now, shall we?

Here’s the structure of a sample Implanted Command which you can use today:

Implanted Command structure example

“Sure, I can tell you that <Implanted Command>, but I won’t.”

Some examples (the Implanted Command is in bold):

“Sure, I can tell you that I am the one you’re looking for, but I won’t.”
“Sure, I can tell you that your boyfriend is a jerk and you should dump him today, but I won’t.”
“Sure, I can tell you that you’ve always wanted me to be your boyfriend, but I won’t.”

Quite simple, right?

Here’s how an Implanted Command works:

An Implanted Command gets automatically accepted by a woman because it works on her subconscious, completely bypassing her rational mind.

In other words, it “sneaks” under her conscious mind and as such, she won’t be able to reject the suggestion.

Astonishing, isn’t it?

There’s something you need to be careful about when using Implanted Commands though…

You can use Implanted Commands to make a woman have sexual feelings for you – that’s for sure.

Pretty in white

However, guys who are not skilled at using Implanted Commands make one particular mistake whenever they try to talk dirty to a woman, and it is this…

You see, instead of using the right Implanted Commands that will arouse her and fire up her imagination, they end up using the wrong ones and sounding like they want to be part of an adult movie – and a bad one at that!

For example: never say something like “Sure, I can tell you that licking my lollipop is an orgasmic experience, but I won’t.” and not expect to be kicked in, well, your lollipops. *grin*

With experience, you will know which words are acceptable in an Implanted Command and which ones aren’t first, so that you can arouse the woman that you are with instead of turning her off and looking like a complete jerk.

The trick here is to be subtle and under the radar: remember, the best kind of seduction is covert in nature.

And when you’re virtually undetectable in your seduction, it’ll make it way harder for her conscious mind to reject you. Does that make sense?

Even better: learn the full Implanted Commands technique inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method (there’s a list of 44 “pick and use” Implanted Commands as well as the pitfalls to avoid – highly recommended.)

For another Implanted Command structure that you can use to (sneakily!) plant an idea inside a woman’s mind, see Page 9 of the Action Checklist – click here.

Technique #3: Non-Verbal Attraction

A lot of guys who come up to the Baltimore Seduction Lair for the first time mistakenly believe that they know exactly how body language works and how to use it right in order to attract women.

If you currently aren’t getting the positive results that you have been hoping for in the dating game, then you probably have some space for improvements either way.

So here’s the deal: if you constantly portray the right body language to a woman, you shouldn’t have any trouble making her sexually attracted to you on a very primal level.

(Indeed, with the right non-verbal technique, you can pretty much control and manipulate her mind at will. It’s pretty fascinating!)

The Fractionation Technique Needless to say, the topic of body language seduction has been covered quite extensively, here at SIBG.com and elsewhere. Given the breadth of this topic, it is indeed quite impossible to be covered completely in this short guide.

However, here’s a shortcut “Non-Verbal Attraction” technique which you can use immediately: mirror her. This means that you should copy her movements as she talks to you.

There is a pitfall that you should be aware though. If you come across as too obvious, she might feel as if you’re mocking her.

Here’s how to avoid that pitfall: wait for THREE (3) SECONDS before you mirror her particular movement. This way, you’ll completely slip under the radar as you continue to work on her subconscious.

And once you’ve done this correctly, this is what happens –

She will feel that she has built an emotional rapport with you, and will feel comfortable even as you escalate physically with her.

Pretty awesome, right?

What’s more: mirroring is part of the Mind Control philosophy of seduction (which is markedly different from “Pickup Artist” or PUA style of seduction.)

And guess what –

The truth is that the easiest (and quickest) way to build emotional rapport with a woman is to use Mind Control on her. And the good news is that this knowledge is readily available to you, right here and right now.

Once you’ve mastered the art of using Mind Control on women, what kind of opportunities would be available to you? Just imagine!

For a free online Masterclass on how to use Mind Control to dominate women, enter your email address below –

Give it a go: I can wait. 🙂

How To Make A Woman Like You: By Hacking Her Mind

Many of our members are eager to use more powerful techniques in order to cut the chase and quickly dominate women. We usually advise men to work on the basic stuff first however.

With that said, we do have access to “mind hacking” techniques which would give any guy the “seduction superpowers” to quickly hack into a woman’s mind and make her feel instant attraction.

Imagine having these “seduction superpowers” for yourself… feels exciting, doesn’t it?

We are, however, hesitant to share this knowledge with anyone because it can be dangerous if it falls into the hands of irresponsible people.

(There are guys who are out to seek revenge on women who had previously hurt them… and I don’t want them to access this knowledge.)

You can hack into her mind and make her want you if you know how to. — Fractionation is not for everybody…!

One of these “mind hack” techniques, Fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love in as little as fifteen (15) minutes from start till finish. Because of its effectiveness, I usually don’t share it with newbies for fear of abuse or misuse.

So, if you do want to learn this technique, you must promise me that you won’t use this technique to hurt women. Also, here’s some lawyer-speak to cover our ass: once you continue below, you agree to absolve SIBG.com from any liability – what you do with the technique is entirely up to you, and is your responsibility.

Click on this link below ONLY if you agree with the above conditions. Thank you for understanding.

▶ ▶ The Fractionation Technique (Online Masterclass) ◀ ◀

Final note from me: use Fractionation to seduce women like a champ… but remember to act responsibly. I know I sound like a broken record, but please, please, please don’t use it to hurt women.

Matt Ganz SIBG

-Matthew “Cougar Hunter” Ganz, founder, Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG.com)

PS: We have received a score of emails from our readers with more questions… so we have compiled a list of Frequently Asked Questions section below. Check it out!

Frequently Asked Questions

How to make a girl want to dump her boyfriend for you?

What you want are Boyfriend Destroyer techniques. As you can imagine, Boyfriend Destroyer tactics can be pretty troublesome. For one, you’ll piss the boyfriend off (we’ve had reports of our members getting assaulted by angry boyfriends for using these techniques on their women!).

You’ll probably make mortal enemies out of those guys.

What happens next is usually quite predictable. They (the jilted boyfriends) would then seek to fight back by Googling for information (just like what you did.) Understandable, right?

When they do that, they might just stumble upon this article (like you did), which could well lead them to Boyfriend Destroyer techniques (like what you have used on them.) God forbid, they might even start learning the Shogun Method.

And when that happens, there’s really no stopping them to use Shogun Method / Fractionation / Boyfriend Destroyer on your woman!

Don’t get me wrong: I am not discouraging you from using Boyfriend Destroyers in any way.

If you want to do it – just do it with your eyes wide open, OK? That is all. 🙂

How to make her want you more than a friend?

Ah, the age-old “friend zone” question!

First of all, you’ve got to realize that all “she treats me as a friend” problem stems from one thing:

“Contextual Rapport”

It’s the kind of rapport that is strictly platonic. Of course, this is counter-productive if you want to be seen as a potential romantic partner (not a friend).

So, to break “Contextual Rapport”, here’s what to do:

You’ve got to snap out of it and avoid situations where both of you would spend time previously as friends.

For example, if you’ve been hanging out with each other as “friends”, stop doing that.

At the same time, try working the jealousy angle – hint that you’re going out with another girl.

Observe her reaction to that – and if you’ve broken Contextual Rapport then you should see some hints of jealousy in her. Continue to build on that.

Also, consider using Fractionation on her – it’s a proven Contextual Rapport breaker and will get you out of the friend zone in no time.

How to make her want you, long distance?

Tough, tough, tough.

The truth is that you’ll need a slew of long distance strategies through texting, Facebook messaging, emailing and calls… not easy.

And at the same time, pray hard that nobody uses Boyfriend Destroyer techniques on her because while you’re away, she’ll be particularly, well, vulnerable.

You can, however, “inoculate” her from advances from other guys, and at the same time use hypnosis on her in order for her to stay loyal. It’s impossible for me to describe everything inside this guide – the best way is to use Shogun Method on her.

How to make her want you back after break up?

In two simple steps! 🙂

The first step is to disarm her. Pretend to “agree” with her that breaking up is the best thing to do, and you’d also like to move on.

Be careful though…

It’s also important NOT to display any anger or resentment. Instead, try your best to be indifferent. (I know this is easier said than done, but it’s absolutely CRUCIAL for your success.)

Your (non) reaction will fire off questions in her mind, and also make her doubt herself and her decision to leave you. She will even start second-guessing herself…

At the same time, she’ll be ready to engage you more because subconsciously, she feels compelled to “figure you out”.

So far, so good, right?

And when this happens, take the second step and seal the deal.

Use Fractionation on her.

By making her go through an emotional roller coaster, you’ll “force” her to recall the best times that you’ve spent together.

With Fractionation, you’ll trigger her past memories with you when she was happy (which then makes her miss you.)

Breakups are tough… make no mistake about it. And yet, we have perfected this two-step strategy and helped thousands of guys get back with their ex-girlfriends. It works like gangbusters… if you know exactly what to do.

Learn Fractionation by watching this online Masterclass.

Do it!

How To Pick Up Girls (The Ultimate SIBG® Guide On The Art Of The Pickup)

January 2, 2020 By Shogun Method team 6 Comments

You know what? The fact that many guys try to learn how to pick up girls from those so-called “Pickup Artists” (PUAs) really amuse me to no end.

Why?

Well, for one, I know for a fact that these “Pickup Artist” tricks are pretty darn useless.

Most of the newbies who come up to us at the Baltimore Lair would tell us these awfully similar sob stories:

“I tried using pickup line which I learned from a Pickup Artist on this girl. She looked at me as if I was this monster freak from Men In Black.”

Alien from Men In Black

Or, this:

“I used this opener to approach this woman. She told me that I should stop reading Pickup Artist books!”

How about this?

“I walked up to this girl, and before I could say anything, she asked me to bugger off.”

Kinda sad, don’t you think? Well…

Now if you’re thinking that this article is yet another “how to pick up girls” guide which litters the Internet, then, well, you will be surprised (in a good way, of course.)

The information contained in this guide will be brand new to most people. Indeed, many of the techniques in this article have not been seen elsewhere before.

Couple cycling

The strategies that I am going to share with you here is derived from the (surprisingly little-known) Shogun Method by Derek Rake.

(Shogun Method is pretty much the de facto “how to pick up girls” book that we issue to everyone here at the Seduction Initiatives Baltimore Group.)

The good news is that I’ve obtained Derek’s permission to share a sampling of his work in this guide. (Thanks, Derek!)

More on the Shogun Method later… for now, let’s talk about what you want to know.

Do you want to know how to pick up women quickly?
Do you wish to acquire the ability to pick girls up anywhere you go: at the bar, club, on the streets, at the gym, in college, and online (say, on Facebook)?
Have you been frustrated by lame “Pickup Artist” tricks, fake openers and impotent pickup lines?
Are you sick and tired of getting rejected by women?
Do you want to know what really works so that you can get the results you want without the disappointment and heartache?

Well, if you’ve answered YES to one (or all!) of the questions below, then be prepared for a ride for a lifetime…

… because if you do exactly what I tell you to do now, you will soon be armed with the most extraordinarily potent pickup abilities that you’ll ever need for a lifetime.

Say goodbye to lightweight “Pickup Artist” stuff because you’re ready to take your game to the next level.

With this knowledge, you’ll be punching well above your weight.

Before anything, though, I’ve gotta be entirely honest with you…

Remember!

There are no “magical” pickup lines or openers that will “guarantee 100% success” in all situations.

(Don’t get duped. Anyone who tries to sell you a magic, “cure all” pill is trying to scam you, plain and simple.)

Therefore, you won’t be learning any plain vanilla pickup lines or run-off-the-mill “opener routines” here.

Instead, you will uncover some deep insights on female psychology and understand how to exploit a woman’s weaknesses to make her fall in love with you.

(Don’t let that scare you… once you’re done reading, you’ll be amazed at how easy this stuff really is.)

A Word of Caution!

This “How To Pick Up Women” guide is quite lengthy… and yet it’s important for you to read it all the way through (if you’re serious about getting better with women.)

As you continue to read further, you’ll understand exactly why this guide is somewhat long-ish. You see, there’s a method to my apparent madness… I’ll let you know why soon enough.

Use the jump links below to help you navigate later… but for now, understand that it’s absolutely crucial for you to read the entire guide in sequence (or it won’t make much sense to you.) OK?

Let’s go! 🙂

Table of Contents

1 Why “Pickup Artists” Are Bad For Your (Dating) Health
2 “She Laughed Like A Hyena When I Told Her I Loved Her”
3 My Break Point (And Moment Of Enlightenment)
4 Shogun Method vs Pickup Artists – The Battle Royale
- 4.1 The Ultimate Key To Seduction
5 How To Pick Up Women (By Manipulating Them)
- 5.1
6 Concealing of Intentions: The Art of The Indirect Pickup
- 6.1
- 6.2 Wanting to get an ex-girlfriend back?
7 The Biggest Flaw In Her Mind You Want To Exploit
8 How To Pick Her Up: Keep Her “HOT”!
9 How To Keep Her “HOT” Using Intrigue Stories
- 9.1
- 9.2 The BFDTC Formula
10 The Multiple Sub-Plot Technique
11 Avoid This Potential Pitfall!
12 Bonus Third Tactic: The “Nuclear Bomb” of Mind Control
- 12.1 Fractionation
13 Disclaimer (our lawyers made us write this!) –
14 Frequently Asked Questions About Picking Up Women

Why “Pickup Artists” Are Bad For Your (Dating) Health

Most guys think that they could just learn some magical pickup lines which they could use to make women fall in love at will.

Of course, that’s not how it works. Not by a long mile.

We’ll talk more about why “Pickup Artist” stuff is necessarily bad for your love life later…

…but for now, you must understand the following.

If you’ve not been successful with women, I want you to know that it’s not your fault.

Really.

You see, given the huge amount of fake information out there on the topic of picking up and seducing women, it’s just too easy to be duped.

Black bikini woman Make no mistake about it… “Pickup Artists” (PUAs) and Dating Gurus sell tens of millions worth of books, courses and seminars each year.

It’s a pretty lucrative business!

So it’s quite understandable why these shysters would resort to high pressure sales pitches making some rather fantastic claims about “magical pickup lines” (which, of course, don’t exist.)

You may have stumbled upon these “Pickup Artist” websites which are dime a dozen on the Internet these days.

And if you’ve tried to use any of those “Pickup Artist” tricks, you would have realized that they are as bogus as a prince from Nigeria seeking to move his billions into your bank account.

Now if the barrage of (mis)information and conflicting advice has left you confused, jaded and discouraged, then relax.

Let me destroy the smokescreen so that things finally become crystal clear to you.

Before that, however, you’ve got to first de-clutter your mind.

Do this for me. If you’re still preoccupied with using “Pickup Artist” gibberish then you’ve got to stop. They ain’t gonna do you any good…

Instead, I’ll show you what really works, minus the usual bull crap.

We will set out to do what seems to be out of reach for most guys: to pick any woman up smoothly in the matter of minutes.

And we are going to accomplish this with Mind Control and skillful manipulation, not some “Pickup Artist” trickery.

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“She Laughed Like A Hyena When I Told Her I Loved Her”

Before anything, I gotta confess though…

I was once piss poor at women.

Throughout my childhood, I was a loner. Completely devoid of any social skills whatsoever, life was tough… at school, at home, everywhere.

I was quiet, reserved, and seemed to be content doing my own thing at my little corner.

To others, I was a weirdo who didn’t seem to want to make friends…

…and yet deep inside, I was absolutely dying to be liked. The problem was that I just didn’t know how to make others like me.

I probably could count my number of friends on one hand. And as you could have guessed, none of them were girls.

Needless to say, I had lived (and endured) a lonely childhood.

This problem stuck with me all the way to college.

I had gone to the University of Baltimore (UB) which was known as a top “party school” in entire Maryland… and yet my social life was as dry as a camel’s toe (ha ha).

The “everything goes” reputation of the college meant that everybody got laid… and amazingly, so did I.

In fact, it was there at UB where I had met my first girlfriend Charlotte. She was a psychology major just like me.

(Yes, Charlotte was her real name. Frankly, I don’t give a crap if she finds out about this article or not.)

Now looking back, I think she hooked up with me so that I would be a guinea pig for her to play mind games on.

Sick, I know. And yet I think it’s true!

Charlotte was not hot by any standard. Hell, no.

So she had a face which was somewhat pretty (with a striking similarity with Jessica Alba, especially after you had a couple of vodka shots). Alas… she was extra chubby at all the wrong places.

Charlotte the Hippo OK, OK, I’m just being charitable. Without masking my words: she was as fat as an overgrown hippo with a serious eating disorder.

And that’s not all. She had an extra pinky on her left hand which felt kinda yucky sometimes when she touched me. Shudder.

Still, despite all that, I bent over backwards to accommodate her…

Why? Well, it’s because I felt that if I had lost her, I won’t get another girlfriend in this lifetime.

You could say that I was as desperate as the proverbial 40 year old virgin.

She was only too eager to exploit this weakness of mine. So she would play mind games on me like a big fat bully she was.

Sometimes, she would make me jump through hoops… just because she could.

Case in point: she would get me to skip classes and drive her around Baltimore with her girl friends… to meet other guys.

And when I refused, she would play victim by lamenting that she had made a “mistake” with choosing me as her boyfriend.

Crying baby! Boo hoo! She once cried loudly at the university cafe in front of everybody while I squirmed in my seat in front of her. (She made me look as if I was bullying her.)

She would withhold sex whenever she felt like punishing me.

She would compliment other guys openly in front of her friends and family… plainly to embarrass me.

She would say things like “Mr so-and-so is so handsome and muscular. I bet he’s great in bed”… implying that I was anything but.

She would stop taking my calls and delay responding to my texts for no apparent reason at all.

She was indeed a Bitch, with a capital “B“.

Of course, nothing I ever did could ever please her…

…even when I had confessed my feelings for her one time. (I thought by telling her that I “loved” her, she would treat me better.)

I even told her that I wanted to marry her after we finished college. (WTF, I know.)

And her response to my proposal?

She stared at me blankly for about five seconds.

5…4…3…2…1…

Then, she started laughing. And her insulting chuckles shortly gave way to a series of bizarre, animalistic howls.

Like a hyena’s mating call in the wild.

Middle finger My stomach started to turn. I never felt such a revolting feeling before, honest to God.

Long story short: after graduation, we didn’t marry.

Why? Because she dumped me and moved to California.

So, why am I telling you my sob story?

Well, for one, I don’t need your pity.

If anything, I was grateful for the entire “Charlotte” episode…

…because if I wasn’t pussywhipped by her, I wouldn’t be where I am today.

Fast forward till now:

Hugh Hefner

I don’t claim to rival Hugh Hefner in terms of the ability to chase tail, but I can hold my own.

For now, I’m pretty happy with the two beautiful women I have in my life, Suzanna and Leigh, who love me for who I am.

(Yes, those are their real names.)

Now, I’d like to think I’ve got my problems with women completely sorted out…

…after all, guys won’t come up to me for advice if I knew jack about this stuff, would they?

I’m proud to say that to date, we have helped more than 10,000+ men achieve what they desire out of their love lives via face-to-face coaching here out of Calvin Street, Baltimore (and hundreds of thousands more through SIBG.com.)

So, what happened which completely transformed my life (for the better)?

Continue reading… because the same thing is about to happen to you.

My Break Point (And Moment Of Enlightenment)

Every man has his break point.

I’m guessing that you may have reached yours.

You see, that’s why this guide is so lengthy. By now, those who are looking for quick fixes and magical “pickup lines” would have already gone elsewhere.

You’re still here, which means that you’re dead serious about wanting to be good with women.

You’re not here to learn “how to pick up girls” just for a quick lay this weekend. You’re not looking for a shortcut.

Instead, you could well desire something which is more powerful and profound…

…like the ability to exert complete control and domination over women.

Pretty lady holding a bouquet (That was what I had desperately wanted when I reached my own break point.)

When Charlotte mocked me with a hyena-like howl after I confessed my feelings to her, I knew I had to get my problems with women sorted out quickly.

And that was when I pretty much consumed every single piece of dating and seduction advice I could find.

So, for about a year, I did nothing but to learn the art of picking up women… mainly through “Pickup Artist” material (because that was all I could find.)

Blogs, books, online courses, and even week-long seminars… I devoured ’em all.

Soon, I became a walking encyclopedia for all things pickup. I could name all the famous “Pickup Artists” and their “best” pickup lines, flirting tactics, openers and routines.

And yet as you could have guessed, my dating life didn’t get much better either. In fact, it became worse.

Whenever I tried to use a “Pickup Artist” line on a woman, she would either zone out or become totally indifferent. Heck, some even turn outright hostile.

(The worst thing that happened to me was when a girl poured a Martini over my head for some lame pickup line I tried to use on her. I had to run out of the bar because everyone was laughing at me… including my wingman.)

Frustrated Matt Ganz! That was when I realized just how incredibly bogus those “Pickup Artists” were, and I fell deeper into depression.

Horrible times.

Truthfully, there and then, I was ready to give up.

Out of frustration, I wrote a long post on a popular “Pickup Artist” forum about quitting dating and resign myself to the fact that I was going to live a lonely life forever.

Minutes after publishing that rant at the forum, a private message (PM) came from someone I didn’t know.

The message contained only two cryptic words:

“Shogun Method”

That, my friend, was the moment of my enlightenment.

Shogun Method vs Pickup Artists – The Battle Royale

At first glance, the Shogun Method seemed to be yet another one of those Pickup Artist bag of tricks.

Well, then let me assure this: it’s not.

If anything, the Shogun Method runs entirely opposite to what nearly every Pickup Artist teaches.

Let me show you what I mean.

Shogun Method delivering the knockout punch!

Pickup Artist (PUA): Your goal is to make a woman like you.

Shogun Method (SM): You don’t want a woman to merely “like” you. You want to emotionally enslave her so that she is yours forever.

PUA: You make a woman like you by making her happy.

SM: You make a woman emotionally addicted to you by forcing her to suffer through grief in addition to making her happy.

PUA: You want your dating life to be as smooth-running and trouble-free as possible.

SM: You must deliberately introduce “disasters” into your relationship in order to strengthen it.

PUA: You’ll appeal to a woman by “demonstrating high value”… usually by using pickup lines.

SM: You’ll appeal to a woman by covertly exploiting her deep psychological flaws, forcing her to lower down her inhibitions towards you.

PUA: You’ll use fancy pickup lines and lighthearted “openers” to entertain and amuse a woman so that she’ll sleep with you.

SM: You’ll use hard-hitting female mind control techniques like Fractionation and the Black Rose Sequence to make a woman go through an emotional rollercoaster so that she becomes completely enslaved to you.

PUA: Picking up women is a number’s game. You should therefore go on a rampage and approach as many women as you can.

SM: You will want to use Shogun Method on a small number of women you want to be with for the long term. (In fact, many use Shogun Method on only ONE woman they want to be in a long term relationship with.)

PUA: The best places to meet women are in the bars, clubs and other public places.

SM: You’ll do better if you use Shogun Method on a woman you already know.

In short, Shogun Method is not a “pickup” program. Important!

It goes deeper than that.

According to the master himself:-

A woman’s mind is flawed. The fastest way to seduce a woman is by directly manipulating these flaws.
Derek Rake

Pretty hardcore.

Upon investigating Derek’s work further, it suddenly became clear as day to me why I was failing with women…

My attempts at attracting women had been superficial at best. I was merely parroting and spewing out pickup lines without knowing what really ticks with a woman.

You see, a woman’s unconscious desires will always overpower her conscious ones. Remember this!

Pickup lines are meant to fulfill a woman’s conscious desires. (That’s why they are as useless as a pair of fine tits on a nun.)

Instead, Shogun Method is designed to meet a woman’s unconscious desires, and why it works so damn well.

So here lies the key to seduction…

The Ultimate Key To Seduction

To seduce a woman, you’ll need to manipulate her by exploiting her unconscious desires.

Onwards!

How To Pick Up Women (By Manipulating Them)

Here’s a quote by Michael Ende, the famed German storyteller:

When it comes to controlling human beings there is no better instrument than lies. Because, you see, humans live by beliefs. And beliefs can be manipulated. The power to manipulate beliefs is the only thing that counts.
Michael Ende

As crazy as this sounds: every single human is a manipulator.

And I mean everyone. Your friends. Your family. Your neighbor. The milkman. Your dentist. Your favorite bartender. The President of the United States. 🙂

Why is this so?

The answer’s quite simple…

Manipulation ensures the continued existence of humankind.

We manipulate our situations (and the people around us) in order to continue to survive and thrive.

So how does this fit into dating and seducing women then?

Well, this is how –

If you want to make a woman fall in love with you, you must therefore manipulate her.

I know that sounds terribly un-politically correct, and yet it’s true.

Concealing of Intentions: The Art of The Indirect Pickup

Here’s yet another crucial difference between cookie cutter Pickup Artist tricks and the Shogun Method –

Pickup Artists are open books to women.

(Trust me – it’s pretty darn obvious to a woman that you’re trying to hit on her when you use a pickup line.)

On the other hand, Shogun Method is as covert as they come.

According to Derek Rake, you’re not supposed to be obvious when you’re hitting on women. He calls this the “Concealing of Intentions.”

In fact, this is why his methods are so frighteningly effective: women will never see you coming.

This makes complete sense, since if she cannot “detect” you trying to seduce her, it’s impossible for her to reject you.

The truth is that you simply can’t “persuade” or “reason” with a woman to make her like you. It’s an impossibility.

By nature, she is biologically and psychologically programmed to reject direct attempts to seduce her.

(And this is why Pickup Artist stuff works rather poorly. With a pickup line, you’re wearing your heart on your sleeve.)

To seduce a woman, you must conceal your intentions until the seduction is complete.
Derek Rake

Wanting to get an ex-girlfriend back?

The concept of “Concealing Your Intentions” is especially important for guys who want to get their ex-girlfriends or wives back. Declaring to an ex that “I want you back” is a surefire recipe for disaster. The Shogun Method way is to work covertly in the background, appearing as harmless as possible, while planting ideas in her mind that reconciliation is what she really wants.

Many Shogun Method students use it to get their ex-girlfriends back, but we are here to day to talk about how to pick up girls, so let’s jump into that right now. 🙂

The Biggest Flaw In Her Mind You Want To Exploit

How the female brain works can be boiled down into these two simple concepts:

Whenever a woman relies on her intuition (or emotions) to decide on things, she is said to be in “HOT” mode.
On the other hand, when she makes rational, calculated decisions (like, when she’s doing sums mentally while buying groceries), her brain is said to be in “COLD” mode.

Here’s a psychological flaw that exists inside every female brain:

It can’t get “HOT” and “COLD” at the same time.

Female Brain It’s just not possible.

The female mind is hard-wired in a way that only one of such state can exist at any given time.

So how is this useful to you then?

Well, pretty simple!

It means that you can easily pick up a woman and make her swoon over you if you can (covertly) force her brain to be in “HOT” mode constantly.

In other words, you want to stop her from turning into “COLD” mode where her rational thinking takes over.

(Rejections happen when the female brain turns “COLD”.)

On the other hand, by keeping her in “HOT” mode continuously, she’ll continue to be overrun by her emotions while the rational part of the brain switches off completely.

Get it?

How To Pick Her Up: Keep Her “HOT”!

So far, we’ve covered the following:

1. The female brain can get “HOT” or “COLD” at any one time, but not simultaneously.

To pick a woman up, keep her in “HOT” mode continuously and she’ll eventually fall for you, sooner or later.

Awesome!

Here’s what we need to figure out next: how do we accomplish (2) above, exactly?

How do we keep a woman in “HOT” mode continuously?

Well, here’s the answer:

Females get excited about things which are fresh, charming and unconventional.

Whenever the female brain sees something which is unusual (in an interesting way), it becomes engaged in the “HOT” state.

So, when you approach a woman to pick her up, for example, her brain falls into “HOT” mode instantly.

This is what her brain tells her:

“Who is he? What does he want from me?”

At that time, you’ll have her attention. But not for long.

Next, her female brain tries to size you up:

“Is he like the other guys who tried to hit on me? Or is he different?”

The moment her brain “decides” that you’re just like the gazillion of guys who tried to pick her up that evening, it’s effectively game over for you.

(That’s when her brain switches from “HOT” to “COLD”, see?)

She will disengage when she feels that she knows enough about you and your motivations.

In other words, her female brain has “solved” the puzzle in front of her (i.e. you), loses interest, and starts to look for a new puzzle to solve.

How To Keep Her “HOT” Using Intrigue Stories

Guys get rejected by women in “COLD” mode. This means that if you keep a woman in “HOT” mode, she won’t be able to reject you.

How do you do this then?

Well, here’s the answer:

You keep a woman “HOT” by telling her an Intrigue Story.

I’ll share with you how to develop Intrigue Stories shortly, but first, understand this…

Those who are skilled in this game are able to make up Intrigue Stories pretty much on the spot. However, that’s not necessary in most cases.

From my experience, guys can do well with only ONE personal story which has been prepared and tested in advance which can be used in every interaction with women.

This is the beauty of Intrigue Stories: if it works on one woman, it will work on another. Pretty awesome.

(This is why Intrigue Stories, or by extension, the Shogun Method works universally across all ages and types of women.)

So how do you craft a kick-butt Intrigue Story then?

Well, there’s a formula which you can use to come up with your own Intrigue Story, and it is this:

BFDTC Formula (Shogun Method)

The BFDTC Formula

- “B” stands for Brevity. The story has got to be simple to be told.

- “F” stands for Focus. You have got to be the central character of the story.

- “D” and “T” stands for Danger and Time Constraint respectively. You’ll need to perform a task in a short time window, or someone gets hurt.

Finally, “C” stands for Conflict. You are stuck in a sucky situation, or being threatened by an enemy.

(I remember “BFDTC” by this moniker – Boy Friend’s Dick Caught on Tape. Yes, I’m a weirdo.)

The most optimal Intrigue Stories have all five elements.

From experience, however, stories with at least three out of the five elements will do usually do well, especially when delivered properly.

For example, inside the Shogun Method there are two delivery techniques which would take any Intrigue Story to the next level. These are “Cliffhanger” and “Rollercoastering” tactics which when used properly, it will get the female brain stuck on the “HOT” mode perpetually.

Powerful stuff!

The Multiple Sub-Plot Technique

Let’s now switch gears and talk about an “add on” technique which you can use on top of your Intrigue Story to capture a woman’s attention.

You see, a good Intrigue Story is never a straight line from beginning to its end.

Sexy in bikini For an Intrigue Story to be both realistic and captivating, it will need this storytelling device known as the “Sub Plot.”

Simply put, these are minor stories which are related to the “main plot” of the Intrigue Story.

They exist in order to “color” the Intrigue Story with conflict and drama.

You should be familiar with what Sub Plots are. Indeed, they are everywhere… from the TV shows and movies we watch and the novels we read.

Specifically in the art of picking up women, keeping a series of Sub Plots has only one objective:

To create the illusion that both of you have got a lot of things to say to each other.

That’s pretty much it!

You see, it’s never a good idea to talk a single topic to death.

Therefore, within the first 3-5 minutes, you want to create as many Sub Plots as you can.

This will give you enough opportunities to latch on another “fresh” topic to keep you going.

Now enough of theory… let’s look at a real life example!

To create Sub Plots, here’s what you do: break her sentences down in order to create new conversational topics.

For example, she might say to you:

“I’ve been working as a trainee teacher for six months.”

Breaking down that statement, here are some possible Sub Plots:

1. What’s the difference between a “trainee” teacher and a “real” teacher?

1. What was she doing before she became a trainee teacher?

1. Any interesting teacher stories? (Think Beverly Hills, 90210)

1. What she loves being a teacher?

1. What she hates being a teacher?

Do male teachers try to pick her up?

See how this works? Pretty simple, isn’t it?

Avoid This Potential Pitfall!

Once you know how to create Multiple Sub Plots, you won’t have shortage of things to talk to her.

With that technique, it’s really easy to come up with the questions to ask her in order to create continuous conversations.

However, here lies a potential pitfall…

You don’t want to “fire up” a long series of questions that will completely overwhelm her.

Why?

Well, when a woman feels overwhelm, it triggers her brain to go from “HOT” to “COLD”.

And as you’d remember from the previous section, rejections happen when the female brain is in “COLD” state.

Instead of shooting off one question after another, do this instead…

Try out ONE Sub Plot at a time. See if she takes it up.

Then, pursue the one or two Sub Plots that she is most interested to talk about.

This way, you’ll keep her in “HOT” mode until, well, she seduces herself for you!

how to pick up a woman

Bonus Third Tactic: The “Nuclear Bomb” of Mind Control

Let’s do a quick recap!

With Intrigue Stories and Multiple Sub Plots, you are already well ahead of most guys who are still using Pickup Artist style “openers” to approach women (shudder!).

With those two techniques, you’ll be able to keep the female brain in “HOT” mode which is great…

… but the war is not won yet!

You’ve caught her undivided attention, and she couldn’t stop talking to you…

… and what you need to do next is to grab this opportunity to seal the deal and make her fall in love with you!

To help you to just that, here’s the (bonus) third tactic on how to pick up women…

$Learn fractionation to make her want you!$ It’s a classic Mind Control technique called “Fractionation“.

For many years, this technique remains somewhat hidden, and for good reason.

To those who are familiar with it (or have seen its effects), they liken the use of Fractionation in picking up women to bringing a Nuclear Bomb to a gunfight.

Of course, that’s an exaggeration, but still, it illustrates just how powerful the technique is.

A master of Fractionation has the power beyond making a woman fall in love with him…

… indeed, if you’ve ever met a man who seems to be able to make women captivated and addicted to his presence, you should assume that there has been some “Fractionation action” going on.

It’s really quite impressive!

OK, so here’s the deal…

As you can see, this guide is already pretty lengthy as it stands…

…and as such, it’s quite impossible to talk about the entire Fractionation technique here.

(It’s not a shortcut or a magic pill. You’ll need to invest some time and effort to make it work for you.)

Anyway, here’s a super shortened version of the tactic:

Fractionation

You make a woman go through an emotional roller coaster by making her feel both happiness and sadness in equal measures.

With enough rounds of Fractionation, she will soon be emotionally addicted to you.

(Women find soap operas irresistible because of the Fractionation effect. It’s the same thing.)

And as you will see, Fractionation is a perfect compliment to the Intrigue Story and the Multiple Sub Plot techniques that you have already seen above.

Good stuff!

The world’s most complete guide on Fractionation is inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method.

In it, you will find sample scripts and routines on Fractionation you can use immediately on any woman you lay your eyes on.

There’s also a very informative (and entertaining!) video case study on how to structure and deliver your Fractionation lines.

Finally, there are also “One Sentence Fractionation” scripts which pack the entire Fractionation routine inside one (yes, just one) sentence!

To find out more about Fractionation and how you can use it to pick women up, here’s what you need to do. Click on this button below to watch a free Masterclass on Fractionation:

Fractionation

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In this Masterclass, you’ll discover how to use Fractionation (and other Mind Control tactics) to quickly make a woman succumb to your charms, and more.

Disclaimer (our lawyers made us write this!) –

Fractionation has been known to have somewhat negative effect on women if misused.

There has been recorded instances where some women were made to suffer from psychological damage by guys who used Fractionation unscrupulously on them.

This risk is very real.

That said, we can’t take responsibility for the actions you choose to take with the knowledge that get here.

As a final note…

Before you learn about using Fractionation, promise me that you won’t use it to harm women.

Remember: karma can be a real female dog!

Thank you for understanding.

Frequently Asked Questions About Picking Up Women

Q: How do I pick up a woman quickly? Say, in a couple of minutes?

Short answer: use Fractionation.

Think of it as the “minified” version of Shogun Method. You can use it to quickly make a woman go through an emotional roller coaster in a span of a couple of minutes to make her fall for you.

There’s even a One Sentence Fractionation technique you can use – and as it namesake suggests, it packs the entire punch of the Fractionation technique into one sentence. Pretty strong stuff!

The world’s most complete version of Fractionation (with examples, scripts and lines) is inside the “Quick Start” module of the Shogun Method.

Before that, you should watch a free Masterclass on Fractionation which you can access here.

Q: How to pick up women at a bar or club?

A two-step combination of using Intrigue Stories (to capture her attention), and then hit her with Fractionation to build attraction. Works amazingly well.

Q: How do I pick up women at the gym?

Lots of opportunities! You can use Intrigue Pings along these lines:

“Let me help you with these weights. BTW, you know you shouldn’t do that…”

“I’d probably regret asking you this, but…”

“Is that new Craig David that you’re listening to? Apparently there’s something about him that not a lot of people know…”

Q: How to pick up girls online, or on Facebook in particular?

Everything that we have covered here are applicable online.

By design, Intrigue Pings are short enough to be delivered through text as well as messaging through Facebook.

There are, however, two major disadvantages when it comes to picking up girls online:

1. The danger of being seen as a “texting” or “Facebook” buddy. Your goal, therefore, is to ask her out and spend more face time with her.

You won’t have the benefit of using body language to boost your Intrigue Pings. Therefore, your Intrigue Pings have got to be punchier than usual to solicit a response.

Q: How to pick up girls at work?

The danger of picking up women at your workplace is due to the fact that they are, well, your co-workers.

There’s this problem of “Contextual Rapport” – any existing rapport that you have with a female co-worker is confined to the office only.

Any other type of rapport apart from “Sexual Rapport” is useless, and in the case of “Contextual Rapport”, it can even be counterproductive.

To overcome this problem, you must stop interacting with her within the same “context”. In this case, this means that you stop seeing her at the office and talk about the usual (work) topics.

Strike up a conversation about things OUTSIDE work, and then follow up by asking her out so that you can engage her outside the work “context”.

In other words, don’t make a mistake of gaming her at the workplace. Get her out of the office first.

Q: What’s a good “how to pick up girls” book?

You should check out the Shogun Method, although it’s much less a “book” than a complete online course (in the form of PDFs, videos and audio files.)

Before you do that, remember to first watch this Masterclass:-

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Shogun Method is not for everybody, and once you watched the Masterclass, you’ll understand exactly why.

Matt Ganz SIBG

How To Make A Woman Miss You

September 24, 2017 By Shogun Method team 17 Comments

What you’re about to learn today is a trick which you can use to “force” a woman miss you.

This guide is written especially for you if any of the below describe your situation…

You want to make a woman miss you while you’re away
You’ve just had a fight with a woman, and you want her to think about you during the “cold shoulder” period
You want to make your girlfriend want you more by sticking in her mind
You’ve just broken up with your girlfriend, and you want her to miss you so that she comes crawling back
You want to learn how to make a woman think about you even when you’re not around her

In this guide, you’ll discover a nifty little trick that works on a woman’s psychology that will “short-circuit” her brain so that she keeps thinking about you everywhere she goes.

Powerful stuff.

Before we start, though, I’ll need you to know this…

What you’ll get here is entirely fresh, virginal information.

In other words, you won’t see the usual plain vanilla “dating tips” that you find almost everywhere else. You know, stuff like…

“Give her space!”

“If you love a woman, set her free!”

“Genuinely care about her!”

“Surprise her with flowers!”

“Be sensitive to her needs!”

Writing that almost made me want to puke.

Don’t get me wrong now. I’ve got absolutely nothing against being nice to women in general…

But as you already know, relationships are not all rainbows and butterflies all the time.

Indeed, for most couples, sooner or later, the proverbial shit will hit the fan.

The truth is that if you’ve always been playing “nice” with a woman, these things will start to happen…

Your woman starts playing mind games with you.

She begins to disrespect you.

She makes you jump through hoops… just to test you.

In short, here’s the “reward” for being nice to women – you get pussywhipped.

Sucks, I know.

Well, the truth is that things just don’t have to be like this at all. Seriously.

And if you’re thinking that there must be a way out… well, you’re right.

Keep reading. 🙂

Table of Contents

1 How To Make Her Miss You – By Manipulating Her Emotions
2 How To Make Her Want You More: By Making Her Suffer
3 How To Use Cult-Like Strategies To Control Her
4 How To Make Her Miss You By “Triggering” Shared Experiences
5 Win The Game By Exploiting This Loophole In Her Mind
6 How To Put A Woman Through An Emotional Roller Coaster (And Dominate Her)

How To Make Her Miss You – By Manipulating Her Emotions

Alright, I’ll get straight to the point here.

Here’s how you can stick in her mind and make her miss you while you’re away (or after a fight)…

You manipulate her emotions.

Forget everything you’ve read elsewhere. That’s the only thing that works, period.

How to make a woman miss you I’ll teach you how to “force” a woman to keep thinking about you every single day… whether she wants to or not.

She wouldn’t be able to control the thoughts of you that jump into her mind once every few minutes. She won’t have an option.

In other words, you’ll stubbornly stick inside her brain like a fat, hungry, juicy Amazonian leech.

Sounds good?

Before we go further, I need to warn you though:

What I teach can seen to be offensive to some.

For writing this guide, I’ve been called “disgusting”, “women-hating”, “unethical”, “a dick”, “male chauvinist pig” and a slew of unprintable insults.

To those people, they can fuck off and go read a Mills and Boon novel.

Make no mistake about it…

What you’re going to read below can seem a little cruel…

And you know what, the techniques that I teach can indeed be abused.

If misused, they can harm a woman emotionally and psychologically.

This is absolutely not a joke.

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I’ll admit this to you right now:

Some of my students have gone “rogue” and started to use my stuff to do some really bad things.

(I won’t tell you what those bad things are… but they really are abhorrent.)

And yet I’ve decided to continue teaching these tactics because of two reasons:

They work tremendously well, and I will do my clients a great disservice if I stop teaching them.
Just like anything else, one can use the tactics for good OR bad. Guys will have to be responsible for their own actions.

Still, it disturbs me whenever I hear anyone use my techniques to mess with women’s minds and abuse them, causing permanent emotional damage.

Therefore, before you continue, promise me this:

You should never use my material to harm women.

After all, why would you want a girlfriend who has been damaged emotionally, right? Think about it.

So, go ahead. Make the promise.

Done?

Great. Now, let’s start. 🙂

How To Make Her Want You More: By Making Her Suffer

My teachings about attracting women can sound rather crazy.

For example, the conventional “dating gurus” and (shudder) “Pickup Artists” teach their followers to make women happy…

Make her go through emotional hell I, on the other hand, teach my students to give women emotional hell.

Here’s what I teach my students:

“To force a woman to love you forever, you must make her suffer.”

To the layman, this may sound completely nutters. After all, aren’t women attracted to guys who make them feel happy, comfortable and appreciated?

Good question!

To answer it, you’ll need to have an understanding of how the female mind really works.

Women are attracted to pain.

(You read that right.)

Attraction to pain (or formally,”Sadomasochism”) has been studied for decades by eminent psychologists such as Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey and Carl Jung.

Carl Jung (1875 – 1961) : women have hidden addictions for drama and conflict

But let’s not geek out on science here. For now, it’s enough for you to understand just one thing:

Women are genetically “programmed” to derive pleasure from pain and torment.

Here’s how that is manifested in their daily lives…

They watch tearjerkers on TV just to bawl their eyes out. (It makes them feel good for some twisted reason.)

They read “Dear Abby” advice columns to relive the problems of other women in their own lives.

They deliberately create drama with their boyfriends or husbands just to add a little spice to their otherwise uneventful days.

See what I mean?

Even us guys are guilty of doing this sometimes if you think about it…

Since you’re already reading this far, I can guess that your girlfriend or wife may already be dragging you through an emotional turmoil of her own doing…

Does that make you love her any less?

If anything, your feelings for her gets intensified even more!

And guess what… you can turn the tables and do the SAME to her.

Bottom line: to “force” her to love you, you’ve got to grow some balls…

…and make her suffer.

Don’t take this lightly, though –

As you follow exactly what I tell you to do, one thing is certain to happen:

She will downright hate you.

Don’t worry… that’s not a bad thing. I’ll explain.

Strange this may sound, but at the same time, she’ll be quietly intrigued by the emotional roller coaster that you’re forcing her to take.

And then, magic happens.

I’ll show you how to completely flip this “hate” around and turn it into intense passion and love for you that will last a lifetime.

Continue reading!

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How To Use Cult-Like Strategies To Control Her

My mentor, Derek Rake (the founder of Shogun Method) once told me the story of him visiting a large country farm in Suzhou, rural China about 10 years ago.

“It was a group of about 100-odd men and women, gathering together to learn how to sharpen their intuition through meditation.”

“It had all the trappings of a cult… a charismatic leader, and odd routines that members had to follow, like what they can eat and drink.”

“They even had special greetings and unique handshakes as well as a bizarre initiation.”

“Even though it was supposed to be a boot camp on meditation, very little meditation was done. Instead, bulk of the time was spent carrying out the routines and rituals.”

“They would pray and offer incense to their deity together.”

“They would cook, eat and wash together.”

“They would walk on hot coals together.”

“I then asked the leader on what was going on, and why there was so little meditation.”

“The leader then answered: “Derek, the meditation is secondary. The bonding experience is more important.””

“At the end of the boot camp, the entire congregate gathered for one last time.”

“Each and every one talked about how the boot camp was a profoundly life-changing experience… and guess what, nobody talked about meditation at all.”

So what was happening there?

And more importantly, how is this relevant to you?

Simple, really. You can use a similar “cult-like” strategy to control and dominate a woman (or, as how Derek Rake puts it, “enslave” her.)

Lisa Amber @SIBG.com To enslave a woman, you don’t need to whisk her to a rural farm and brainwash her…

… you only have to deliberately create experiences which you share exclusively with her (good, or bad).

In fact, these “shared experiences” work even better if they are negative.

History shows that humans often bond by experiencing disasters and hardships together.

Strong friendships are formed fighting and surviving a war…

Football teams grow stronger from occasional losses and setbacks…

Family members become closer when one of them gets diagnosed with cancer….

The list goes on.

Now imagine small “disasters” happening between you and her. For example –

A picnic date at the park suddenly “interrupted” by a downpour, drenching both you and her while running for cover.

Or, a road trip to the countryside “marred” by a flat tire, getting you and her stranded in the middle of nowhere.

Sure, these “disturbances” seem particularly troublesome when they happen, and yet they are more memorable than, say, an uneventful movie date.

These negative Shared Experience work tremendously well because they exploit a female’s hidden need inside her psyche for excitement and drama.

(And as you’ll see later, this is also why a Mind Control seduction technique like Fractionation works wonders when used to manipulate a woman’s emotions. We’ll talk more about Fractionation later.)

So here’s what I want you to do now:

I want you to deliberately “craft” a series of “disasters” in her life in order to create these memorable Shared Experiences.

Throw the proverbial monkey wrench in the works.

If there’s no conflict, create one.

All in all, it’s pretty much a number’s game. The more compelling experiences you share with her, the more devoted she will be to you.

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How To Make Her Miss You By “Triggering” Shared Experiences

Let’s say things have suddenly taken a turn for the worse.

You might have fought bitterly with her. She might have even threatened to leave you.

After a couple of days, things have cooled down a little. You want to text her.

So, what do you say?

Anything that will make her recall a Shared Experience, of course.

Tying back to the two “disaster” examples in the last section, you can text her:

“Remember our drenched picnic at the Central Park?”

Or,

“Remember the Lake Shore Drive? Flat tires?”

These messages will make her think back to the times when you and her survived a disastrous event together.

By triggering off a plethora of positive and negative emotions linked back to you, she will start to recall even more of other Shared Experiences.

These emotions will keep stacking on each other until they overwhelm her…

…during which she will start missing you.

See how it works now?

Anchoring is a Mind Control hypnosis technique Of course, if you’re familiar with Mind Control-based seduction techniques, you already know what I’m talking about here…

It’s an age-old hypnosis technique called Anchoring.

You’re using the text messages to trigger off an old Anchor that you’ve placed in her when you created the Shared Experiences with her.

Now if that sounds rather technical, don’t worry.

Like everything in Mind Control seduction, you don’t have to know WHY a technique works – as long as you know HOW to use it.

Onward…

Win The Game By Exploiting This Loophole In Her Mind

In the last section, I’ve introduced you to the Shared Experiences technique.

You’ve learned how you can use it to “trigger” off her past memories (using an Anchor) in order to get her to miss you.

So far, so good. 🙂

Next, I’m gonna load you up with another Mind Control technique which will take your game one notch upwards…

With it, you can put any woman under your control and dominance for as long as you want.

Beyond making a woman miss you, you’ll even “force” her come back to you willingly, and on her own.

Sounds cool? Well, let’s dig in then!

If you haven’t realized it already, women are 100% driven by their emotions.

What this means is that trying to persuade a woman logically to do anything is, well, kinda stupid.

You already know that in order to make a woman behave the way you want her to, you’ve got to manipulate her emotions.

The “Shared Experience” technique is one way to do it. But there’s another method which works on a woman’s emotions on a whole new level.

It turns out that there exists a “loophole” inside a woman’s mind that can be easily exploited if one knows how.

Think of this as a hidden back door to the female mind.

Let’s examine how this loophole works from a scientific point of view.

(Bear with me here just for a little while because it’s important for you to know this.)

When a woman rejects or dumps a man, her decision is through what scientists and psychologists call the “Critical Mind”.

This is the part of her brain which is calculative, rational and cold.

It’s her natural “defense” mechanism which protects her against unwanted advances from guys.

Therefore, in order to stop a woman from rejecting or dumping you, you’ll need to bypass this defense mechanism.

(In hypnosis circles, this is known as Bypassing The Critical Mind.)

And guess what?

It turns out that a woman’s Critical Mind can be easily bypassed if you make her through an emotional roller coaster with you.

Take through an emotional rollercoaster!

This is done simply by making her to experience both happiness and sadness together with you (hence the term “roller coaster”).

If what I’ve told you seems a little complicated, don’t worry, because I’m going to simplify it for you.

All you need to know is this –

To completely dominate a woman and make her subservient to you, she needs to go through an emotional roller coaster with you.

Simple enough?

Next, I’ll share with you a sneaky little trick that will do that for you, and more.

How To Put A Woman Through An Emotional Roller Coaster (And Dominate Her)

Here’s how you put her through an emotional roller coaster in order to dominate her:

You use this Mind Control technique called Fractionation.

Famously identified as the “grand daddy” of hypnosis-based seduction tactics, Fractionation is perhaps the best kept secret of the underground dating community in the recent times.

Master seducers have been known to use it to completely turn spunky, otherwise uncontrollable women into obedient little kittens in 15 minutes or less.

It’s really that powerful!

$Learn fractionation to make her want you!$ Below is a resource which you can use to learn Fractionation in its entirety. It’s a Masterclass taught by Derek Rake (who had single-handedly brought Fractionation to the limelight in the recent times.)

In this Masterclass, you’ll learn exactly what to do and say for it to work its magic.

I know you’re excited to get started, but before you continue, though, it’s my responsibility to warn you…

In some situations, Fractionation can be somewhat excessive. Indeed, under normal, everyday dating situations, you probably won’t need to use it at all.

In fact, using Fractionation merely to “seduce” a woman is like bringing a gun to a fist fight. It’s an overkill.

For example, if you’re only looking for a pickup line for you to use at the bar on a Saturday night, then it’s not for you. (Fractionation is not a pickup line.)

On the other hand, it’s the perfect solution for you if any of the below describes your situation:

You want your woman to be obedient to you, for as long as you wish.
You want to regain control, and be the dominant partner of your relationship.
She is on the verge of breaking up with you, and you want to stop that from happening.
There’s another guy who is after your woman, and you want to destroy him.
You’re sick of your woman playing mind games on you, and you want her to stop.

To learn how to use Fractionation on a woman (in order to completely dominate her), attend this online Masterclass by Derek Rake –

Watch Free Online Masterclass

If you qualify (and yes, we screen through all applicants), you will be emailed the link to the Masterclass. (So, make sure you put in your best email address, and check your spam folder.)

If you don’t receive the link, it means that we have taken the Masterclass offline, sorry.

Learn and use the technique… and then tell me your success stories!

Matt Ganz SIBG

How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

July 21, 2017 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Make no mistake, my friend: long distance relationships can be a real fucking hassle. I mean, who are we kidding? The struggles of being physically apart can really take its toll on your relationship. Your girlfriend might be on the other side of the country, so it’s not like she could just drive over to meet you, right?

To make shit worse, you probably don’t know what she’s up to most of the time. You also might have to navigate different time zones and different work hours, and that can really make communication a problem.

Sooner or later, it might come to the point where you start to wonder if your girlfriend is still thinking about you, or whether she is gradually forgetting that you even exist! No joke!

Of course, you love her and you want everything to work out fine. So do you want to know the secret to making a long distance relationship work?

Tell you what… I’ve got the perfect solution to make someone who is not physically with you think about you all the time, and that’s what I’m going to share with you in this video. You’re in for a real treat today!

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You see, just like you I was stuck with a long distance relationship when my then girlfriend Clarissa had to move to London to study for a Master’s degree in journalism. Of course, I was worried sick if she would dump me for a suave Englishman with a classy British accent.

I mean, how could a redneck like me compete with an Aston Martin driving, Martini drinking James Bond lookalike, right?

And so it took me awhile to research and ask around, but I eventually stumbled upon a technique created by a man named Derek Rake. Derek is the creator of the Shogun Method which is a dating advice program from men with a huge difference… instead of using the common “Pickup Artist” techniques on women, he advocates the use of Mind Control instead.

I’ll tell you more about Shogun Method later, but here’s what he told me regarding long distance relationships work in simple terms:

To make long distance relationships work, you must force your girlfriend to think about you constantly. In short, you want her to have you on her mind 24/7 so that there’s no chance she can forget about you.

So far, so good. What would you do then to make a woman think about you even when she is not physically with you?

The answer lies in this Mind Control technique called Future Projections.

Here’s how the technique works: it involves taking your girlfriend on an unrealistic fantasy journey in her mind so that she becomes more emotionally attached to you.

In other words, a Future Projection is an imagined dream which takes place between you and your girlfriend in the depths of her imagination.

For example, try telling her the following in a telephone conversation:

“You know what I’d love to do with you one day? I’d pick you up one morning… and take you to my vacation home… well, my castle… on the edge of a mountain… with an amazing view of the sea… and I’d give you your own room… you could decorate it however you liked… wall to wall pink, marble worktops… you name it….”

You’re describing an ideal fantasy to her, and you’re making yourself part of it. Your girlfriend will then equate you with her idea of perfection.

Finally, bring her back to reality with the following:

“We can even take you out to the forest nearby… and you could ride some of the unicorns there… and I’d be able to come back there any time I wanted… knowing I’d get to see you… and you could tell me all about the wondrous sights you’ve seen!”

These aren’t just limited to phone calls, either. Future Projections work just as good over text or in person, and the effects are always the same. She will associate you with her most compelling fantasies, making everyone else around her appear insignificant. As a result, she won’t be able to get you out of her head, so you won’t have to worry about her slipping away! Pretty awesome, right?

All in all, Future Projections are just an example of the techniques found in the Shogun Method. In fact, Future Projections can be used as part of a more complex manipulation pattern known as Fractionation.

On the other hand, Fractionation is a Mind Control technique which involves building rapport with a woman, breaking it, re-building it and breaking it again in quick succession. It is a lightning-fast way of getting a woman under your control. So, if you’d like a more powerful Mind Control technique that you can use to make a woman loyal to you even when she’s not physically with you, then learning Fractionation is a must.

There’s one thing that you must understand though, and it is this…

When used correctly, Fractionation can get a woman under your control, enslave her and make her fall in love with you far quicker than the usual “Pickup Artist” tricks. I have to warn you though that it is not possible to “undo” the effects of Fractionation. Once you have enslaved a woman using this technique, dumping her will cause irreparable damage to her psychology. Therefore, please use this technique responsibly and ethically.

To learn how you can use Shogun Method and Fractionation to manipulate a woman’s mind and enslave her to you emotionally, go to FractionationHypnosis.com or click on this link right now.