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How To Pick Up Girls (The Ultimate SIBG® Guide On The Art Of The Pickup)

January 2, 2020 By Shogun Method team 6 Comments

Do you want to know how to pick a girl like Johannes Dower up?You know what? The fact that many guys try to learn how to pick up girls from those so-called “Pickup Artists” (PUAs) really amuse me to no end.

Why?

Well, for one, I know for a fact that these “Pickup Artist” tricks are pretty darn useless.

Most of the newbies who come up to us at the Baltimore Lair would tell us these awfully similar sob stories:

“I tried using pickup line which I learned from a Pickup Artist on this girl. She looked at me as if I was this monster freak from Men In Black.”

Alien from Men In Black

Or, this:

“I used this opener to approach this woman. She told me that I should stop reading Pickup Artist books!”

How about this?

“I walked up to this girl, and before I could say anything, she asked me to bugger off.”

Kinda sad, don’t you think? Well…

Now if you’re thinking that this article is yet another “how to pick up girls” guide which litters the Internet, then, well, you will be surprised (in a good way, of course.)

The information contained in this guide will be brand new to most people. Indeed, many of the techniques in this article have not been seen elsewhere before.

Couple cycling

The strategies that I am going to share with you here is derived from the (surprisingly little-known) Shogun Method by Derek Rake.

(Shogun Method is pretty much the de facto “how to pick up girls” book that we issue to everyone here at the Seduction Initiatives Baltimore Group.)

The good news is that I’ve obtained Derek’s permission to share a sampling of his work in this guide. (Thanks, Derek!)

More on the Shogun Method later… for now, let’s talk about what you want to know.

  • Do you want to know how to pick up women quickly?

  • Do you wish to acquire the ability to pick girls up anywhere you go: at the bar, club, on the streets, at the gym, in college, and online (say, on Facebook)?

  • Have you been frustrated by lame “Pickup Artist” tricks, fake openers and impotent pickup lines?

  • Are you sick and tired of getting rejected by women?

  • Do you want to know what really works so that you can get the results you want without the disappointment and heartache?

Well, if you’ve answered YES to one (or all!) of the questions below, then be prepared for a ride for a lifetime…

… because if you do exactly what I tell you to do now, you will soon be armed with the most extraordinarily potent pickup abilities that you’ll ever need for a lifetime.

Say goodbye to lightweight “Pickup Artist” stuff because you’re ready to take your game to the next level.

With this knowledge, you’ll be punching well above your weight.

Before anything, though, I’ve gotta be entirely honest with you…

Remember!

There are no “magical” pickup lines or openers that will “guarantee 100% success” in all situations.

(Don’t get duped. Anyone who tries to sell you a magic, “cure all” pill is trying to scam you, plain and simple.)

Therefore, you won’t be learning any plain vanilla pickup lines or run-off-the-mill “opener routines” here.

Instead, you will uncover some deep insights on female psychology and understand how to exploit a woman’s weaknesses to make her fall in love with you.

(Don’t let that scare you… once you’re done reading, you’ll be amazed at how easy this stuff really is.)

A Word of Caution!

This “How To Pick Up Women” guide is quite lengthy… and yet it’s important for you to read it all the way through (if you’re serious about getting better with women.)

As you continue to read further, you’ll understand exactly why this guide is somewhat long-ish. You see, there’s a method to my apparent madness… I’ll let you know why soon enough.

Use the jump links below to help you navigate later… but for now, understand that it’s absolutely crucial for you to read the entire guide in sequence (or it won’t make much sense to you.) OK?

Let’s go! 🙂

Table of Contents

  • 1 Why “Pickup Artists” Are Bad For Your (Dating) Health
  • 2 “She Laughed Like A Hyena When I Told Her I Loved Her”
  • 3 My Break Point (And Moment Of Enlightenment)
  • 4 Shogun Method vs Pickup Artists – The Battle Royale
    • 4.1 The Ultimate Key To Seduction
  • 5 How To Pick Up Women (By Manipulating Them)
    • 5.1
  • 6 Concealing of Intentions: The Art of The Indirect Pickup
    • 6.1
    • 6.2 Wanting to get an ex-girlfriend back?
  • 7 The Biggest Flaw In Her Mind You Want To Exploit
  • 8 How To Pick Her Up: Keep Her “HOT”!
  • 9 How To Keep Her “HOT” Using Intrigue Stories
    • 9.1
    • 9.2 The BFDTC Formula
  • 10 The Multiple Sub-Plot Technique
  • 11 Avoid This Potential Pitfall!
  • 12 Bonus Third Tactic: The “Nuclear Bomb” of Mind Control
    • 12.1 Fractionation
  • 13 Disclaimer (our lawyers made us write this!) –
  • 14 Frequently Asked Questions About Picking Up Women
    • 14.1 Q: How do I pick up a woman quickly? Say, in a couple of minutes?
    • 14.2 Q: How to pick up women at a bar or club?
    • 14.3 Q: How do I pick up women at the gym?
    • 14.4 Q: How to pick up girls online, or on Facebook in particular?
    • 14.5 Q: How to pick up girls at work?
    • 14.6 Q: What’s a good “how to pick up girls” book?

Why “Pickup Artists” Are Bad For Your (Dating) Health

Most guys think that they could just learn some magical pickup lines which they could use to make women fall in love at will.

Of course, that’s not how it works. Not by a long mile.

We’ll talk more about why “Pickup Artist” stuff is necessarily bad for your love life later…

…but for now, you must understand the following.

If you’ve not been successful with women, I want you to know that it’s not your fault.

Really.

You see, given the huge amount of fake information out there on the topic of picking up and seducing women, it’s just too easy to be duped.

Black bikini womanMake no mistake about it… “Pickup Artists” (PUAs) and Dating Gurus sell tens of millions worth of books, courses and seminars each year.

It’s a pretty lucrative business!

So it’s quite understandable why these shysters would resort to high pressure sales pitches making some rather fantastic claims about “magical pickup lines” (which, of course, don’t exist.)

You may have stumbled upon these “Pickup Artist” websites which are dime a dozen on the Internet these days.

And if you’ve tried to use any of those “Pickup Artist” tricks, you would have realized that they are as bogus as a prince from Nigeria seeking to move his billions into your bank account.

Now if the barrage of (mis)information and conflicting advice has left you confused, jaded and discouraged, then relax.

Let me destroy the smokescreen so that things finally become crystal clear to you.

Before that, however, you’ve got to first de-clutter your mind.

Do this for me. If you’re still preoccupied with using “Pickup Artist” gibberish then you’ve got to stop. They ain’t gonna do you any good…

Instead, I’ll show you what really works, minus the usual bull crap.

We will set out to do what seems to be out of reach for most guys: to pick any woman up smoothly in the matter of minutes.

And we are going to accomplish this with Mind Control and skillful manipulation, not some “Pickup Artist” trickery.

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“She Laughed Like A Hyena When I Told Her I Loved Her”

Before anything, I gotta confess though…

I was once piss poor at women.

Throughout my childhood, I was a loner. Completely devoid of any social skills whatsoever, life was tough… at school, at home, everywhere.

I was quiet, reserved, and seemed to be content doing my own thing at my little corner.

To others, I was a weirdo who didn’t seem to want to make friends…

…and yet deep inside, I was absolutely dying to be liked. The problem was that I just didn’t know how to make others like me.

I probably could count my number of friends on one hand. And as you could have guessed, none of them were girls.

Needless to say, I had lived (and endured) a lonely childhood.

This problem stuck with me all the way to college.

I had gone to the University of Baltimore (UB) which was known as a top “party school” in entire Maryland… and yet my social life was as dry as a camel’s toe (ha ha).

The “everything goes” reputation of the college meant that everybody got laid… and amazingly, so did I.

In fact, it was there at UB where I had met my first girlfriend Charlotte. She was a psychology major just like me.

(Yes, Charlotte was her real name. Frankly, I don’t give a crap if she finds out about this article or not.)

Now looking back, I think she hooked up with me so that I would be a guinea pig for her to play mind games on.

Sick, I know. And yet I think it’s true!

Charlotte was not hot by any standard. Hell, no.

So she had a face which was somewhat pretty (with a striking similarity with Jessica Alba, especially after you had a couple of vodka shots). Alas… she was extra chubby at all the wrong places.

Charlotte the HippoOK, OK, I’m just being charitable. Without masking my words: she was as fat as an overgrown hippo with a serious eating disorder.

And that’s not all. She had an extra pinky on her left hand which felt kinda yucky sometimes when she touched me. Shudder.

Still, despite all that, I bent over backwards to accommodate her…

Why? Well, it’s because I felt that if I had lost her, I won’t get another girlfriend in this lifetime.

You could say that I was as desperate as the proverbial 40 year old virgin.

She was only too eager to exploit this weakness of mine. So she would play mind games on me like a big fat bully she was.

Sometimes, she would make me jump through hoops… just because she could.

Case in point: she would get me to skip classes and drive her around Baltimore with her girl friends… to meet other guys.

And when I refused, she would play victim by lamenting that she had made a “mistake” with choosing me as her boyfriend.

Crying baby! Boo hoo!She once cried loudly at the university cafe in front of everybody while I squirmed in my seat in front of her. (She made me look as if I was bullying her.)

She would withhold sex whenever she felt like punishing me.

She would compliment other guys openly in front of her friends and family… plainly to embarrass me.

She would say things like “Mr so-and-so is so handsome and muscular. I bet he’s great in bed”… implying that I was anything but.

She would stop taking my calls and delay responding to my texts for no apparent reason at all.

She was indeed a Bitch, with a capital “B“.

Of course, nothing I ever did could ever please her…

…even when I had confessed my feelings for her one time. (I thought by telling her that I “loved” her, she would treat me better.)

I even told her that I wanted to marry her after we finished college. (WTF, I know.)

And her response to my proposal?

Make her your emotional slave using Shogun Method

She stared at me blankly for about five seconds.

5…4…3…2…1…

Then, she started laughing. And her insulting chuckles shortly gave way to a series of bizarre, animalistic howls.

Like a hyena’s mating call in the wild.

Middle fingerMy stomach started to turn. I never felt such a revolting feeling before, honest to God.

Long story short: after graduation, we didn’t marry.

Why? Because she dumped me and moved to California.

So, why am I telling you my sob story?

Well, for one, I don’t need your pity.

If anything, I was grateful for the entire “Charlotte” episode…

…because if I wasn’t pussywhipped by her, I wouldn’t be where I am today.

Fast forward till now:

Hugh Hefner

I don’t claim to rival Hugh Hefner in terms of the ability to chase tail, but I can hold my own.

For now, I’m pretty happy with the two beautiful women I have in my life, Suzanna and Leigh, who love me for who I am.

(Yes, those are their real names.)

Now, I’d like to think I’ve got my problems with women completely sorted out…

…after all, guys won’t come up to me for advice if I knew jack about this stuff, would they?

I’m proud to say that to date, we have helped more than 10,000+ men achieve what they desire out of their love lives via face-to-face coaching here out of Calvin Street, Baltimore (and hundreds of thousands more through SIBG.com.)

So, what happened which completely transformed my life (for the better)?

Continue reading… because the same thing is about to happen to you.

My Break Point (And Moment Of Enlightenment)

Every man has his break point.

I’m guessing that you may have reached yours.

You see, that’s why this guide is so lengthy. By now, those who are looking for quick fixes and magical “pickup lines” would have already gone elsewhere.

You’re still here, which means that you’re dead serious about wanting to be good with women.

You’re not here to learn “how to pick up girls” just for a quick lay this weekend. You’re not looking for a shortcut.

Instead, you could well desire something which is more powerful and profound…

…like the ability to exert complete control and domination over women.

Pretty lady holding a bouquet(That was what I had desperately wanted when I reached my own break point.)

When Charlotte mocked me with a hyena-like howl after I confessed my feelings to her, I knew I had to get my problems with women sorted out quickly.

And that was when I pretty much consumed every single piece of dating and seduction advice I could find.

So, for about a year, I did nothing but to learn the art of picking up women… mainly through “Pickup Artist” material (because that was all I could find.)

Blogs, books, online courses, and even week-long seminars… I devoured ’em all.

Soon, I became a walking encyclopedia for all things pickup. I could name all the famous “Pickup Artists” and their “best” pickup lines, flirting tactics, openers and routines.

And yet as you could have guessed, my dating life didn’t get much better either. In fact, it became worse.

Whenever I tried to use a “Pickup Artist” line on a woman, she would either zone out or become totally indifferent. Heck, some even turn outright hostile.

(The worst thing that happened to me was when a girl poured a Martini over my head for some lame pickup line I tried to use on her. I had to run out of the bar because everyone was laughing at me… including my wingman.)

Frustrated Matt Ganz!That was when I realized just how incredibly bogus those “Pickup Artists” were, and I fell deeper into depression.

Horrible times.

Truthfully, there and then, I was ready to give up.

Out of frustration, I wrote a long post on a popular “Pickup Artist” forum about quitting dating and resign myself to the fact that I was going to live a lonely life forever.

Minutes after publishing that rant at the forum, a private message (PM) came from someone I didn’t know.

The message contained only two cryptic words:

“Shogun Method”

That, my friend, was the moment of my enlightenment.

Hack into her mind

Shogun Method vs Pickup Artists – The Battle Royale

At first glance, the Shogun Method seemed to be yet another one of those Pickup Artist bag of tricks.

Well, then let me assure this: it’s not.

If anything, the Shogun Method runs entirely opposite to what nearly every Pickup Artist teaches.

Let me show you what I mean.

Shogun Method delivering the knockout punch!


  • Pickup Artist (PUA): Your goal is to make a woman like you.

  • Shogun Method (SM): You don’t want a woman to merely “like” you. You want to emotionally enslave her so that she is yours forever.

  • PUA: You make a woman like you by making her happy.

  • SM: You make a woman emotionally addicted to you by forcing her to suffer through grief in addition to making her happy.

  • PUA: You want your dating life to be as smooth-running and trouble-free as possible.

  • SM: You must deliberately introduce “disasters” into your relationship in order to strengthen it.

  • PUA: You’ll appeal to a woman by “demonstrating high value”… usually by using pickup lines.

  • SM: You’ll appeal to a woman by covertly exploiting her deep psychological flaws, forcing her to lower down her inhibitions towards you.

  • PUA: You’ll use fancy pickup lines and lighthearted “openers” to entertain and amuse a woman so that she’ll sleep with you.

  • SM: You’ll use hard-hitting female mind control techniques like Fractionation and the Black Rose Sequence to make a woman go through an emotional rollercoaster so that she becomes completely enslaved to you.

  • PUA: Picking up women is a number’s game. You should therefore go on a rampage and approach as many women as you can.

  • SM: You will want to use Shogun Method on a small number of women you want to be with for the long term. (In fact, many use Shogun Method on only ONE woman they want to be in a long term relationship with.)

  • PUA: The best places to meet women are in the bars, clubs and other public places.

  • SM: You’ll do better if you use Shogun Method on a woman you already know.

In short, Shogun Method is not a “pickup” program. Important!

It goes deeper than that.

According to the master himself:-

A woman’s mind is flawed. The fastest way to seduce a woman is by directly manipulating these flaws.

Derek Rake

Pretty hardcore.

Upon investigating Derek’s work further, it suddenly became clear as day to me why I was failing with women…

My attempts at attracting women had been superficial at best. I was merely parroting and spewing out pickup lines without knowing what really ticks with a woman.

You see, a woman’s unconscious desires will always overpower her conscious ones. Remember this!

Pickup lines are meant to fulfill a woman’s conscious desires. (That’s why they are as useless as a pair of fine tits on a nun.)

Instead, Shogun Method is designed to meet a woman’s unconscious desires, and why it works so damn well.

So here lies the key to seduction…

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The Ultimate Key To Seduction

To seduce a woman, you’ll need to manipulate her by exploiting her unconscious desires.

Onwards!

How To Pick Up Women (By Manipulating Them)

Here’s a quote by Michael Ende, the famed German storyteller:

When it comes to controlling human beings there is no better instrument than lies. Because, you see, humans live by beliefs. And beliefs can be manipulated. The power to manipulate beliefs is the only thing that counts.

Michael Ende

As crazy as this sounds: every single human is a manipulator.

And I mean everyone. Your friends. Your family. Your neighbor. The milkman. Your dentist. Your favorite bartender. The President of the United States. 🙂

Why is this so?

The answer’s quite simple…

Manipulation ensures the continued existence of humankind.

We manipulate our situations (and the people around us) in order to continue to survive and thrive.

So how does this fit into dating and seducing women then?

Well, this is how –

If you want to make a woman fall in love with you, you must therefore manipulate her.

I know that sounds terribly un-politically correct, and yet it’s true.

Concealing of Intentions: The Art of The Indirect Pickup

Here’s yet another crucial difference between cookie cutter Pickup Artist tricks and the Shogun Method –

Pickup Artists are open books to women.

(Trust me – it’s pretty darn obvious to a woman that you’re trying to hit on her when you use a pickup line.)

On the other hand, Shogun Method is as covert as they come.

According to Derek Rake, you’re not supposed to be obvious when you’re hitting on women. He calls this the “Concealing of Intentions.”

In fact, this is why his methods are so frighteningly effective: women will never see you coming.

This makes complete sense, since if she cannot “detect” you trying to seduce her, it’s impossible for her to reject you.

The truth is that you simply can’t “persuade” or “reason” with a woman to make her like you. It’s an impossibility.

By nature, she is biologically and psychologically programmed to reject direct attempts to seduce her.

(And this is why Pickup Artist stuff works rather poorly. With a pickup line, you’re wearing your heart on your sleeve.)

To seduce a woman, you must conceal your intentions until the seduction is complete.

Derek Rake

Wanting to get an ex-girlfriend back?

The concept of “Concealing Your Intentions” is especially important for guys who want to get their ex-girlfriends or wives back. Declaring to an ex that “I want you back” is a surefire recipe for disaster. The Shogun Method way is to work covertly in the background, appearing as harmless as possible, while planting ideas in her mind that reconciliation is what she really wants.

Many Shogun Method students use it to get their ex-girlfriends back, but we are here to day to talk about how to pick up girls, so let’s jump into that right now. 🙂

The Biggest Flaw In Her Mind You Want To Exploit

How the female brain works can be boiled down into these two simple concepts:

  1. Whenever a woman relies on her intuition (or emotions) to decide on things, she is said to be in “HOT” mode.
  2. On the other hand, when she makes rational, calculated decisions (like, when she’s doing sums mentally while buying groceries), her brain is said to be in “COLD” mode.

Here’s a psychological flaw that exists inside every female brain:

It can’t get “HOT” and “COLD” at the same time.

Female BrainIt’s just not possible.

The female mind is hard-wired in a way that only one of such state can exist at any given time.

So how is this useful to you then?

Well, pretty simple!

It means that you can easily pick up a woman and make her swoon over you if you can (covertly) force her brain to be in “HOT” mode constantly.

In other words, you want to stop her from turning into “COLD” mode where her rational thinking takes over.

(Rejections happen when the female brain turns “COLD”.)

On the other hand, by keeping her in “HOT” mode continuously, she’ll continue to be overrun by her emotions while the rational part of the brain switches off completely.

Get it?

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How To Pick Her Up: Keep Her “HOT”!

So far, we’ve covered the following:

    1. The female brain can get “HOT” or “COLD” at any one time, but not simultaneously.
  1. To pick a woman up, keep her in “HOT” mode continuously and she’ll eventually fall for you, sooner or later.

Awesome!

Here’s what we need to figure out next: how do we accomplish (2) above, exactly?

How do we keep a woman in “HOT” mode continuously?

Well, here’s the answer:

Females get excited about things which are fresh, charming and unconventional.

Whenever the female brain sees something which is unusual (in an interesting way), it becomes engaged in the “HOT” state.

So, when you approach a woman to pick her up, for example, her brain falls into “HOT” mode instantly.

This is what her brain tells her:

“Who is he? What does he want from me?”

At that time, you’ll have her attention. But not for long.

Next, her female brain tries to size you up:

“Is he like the other guys who tried to hit on me? Or is he different?”

The moment her brain “decides” that you’re just like the gazillion of guys who tried to pick her up that evening, it’s effectively game over for you.

(That’s when her brain switches from “HOT” to “COLD”, see?)

She will disengage when she feels that she knows enough about you and your motivations.

In other words, her female brain has “solved” the puzzle in front of her (i.e. you), loses interest, and starts to look for a new puzzle to solve.

How To Keep Her “HOT” Using Intrigue Stories

Guys get rejected by women in “COLD” mode. This means that if you keep a woman in “HOT” mode, she won’t be able to reject you.

How do you do this then?

Well, here’s the answer:

You keep a woman “HOT” by telling her an Intrigue Story.

I’ll share with you how to develop Intrigue Stories shortly, but first, understand this…

Those who are skilled in this game are able to make up Intrigue Stories pretty much on the spot. However, that’s not necessary in most cases.

From my experience, guys can do well with only ONE personal story which has been prepared and tested in advance which can be used in every interaction with women.

This is the beauty of Intrigue Stories: if it works on one woman, it will work on another. Pretty awesome.

(This is why Intrigue Stories, or by extension, the Shogun Method works universally across all ages and types of women.)

So how do you craft a kick-butt Intrigue Story then?

Well, there’s a formula which you can use to come up with your own Intrigue Story, and it is this:

BFDTC Formula (Shogun Method)

The BFDTC Formula

    • “B” stands for Brevity. The story has got to be simple to be told.
    • “F” stands for Focus. You have got to be the central character of the story.
    • “D” and “T” stands for Danger and Time Constraint respectively. You’ll need to perform a task in a short time window, or someone gets hurt.
  • Finally, “C” stands for Conflict. You are stuck in a sucky situation, or being threatened by an enemy.

(I remember “BFDTC” by this moniker – Boy Friend’s Dick Caught on Tape. Yes, I’m a weirdo.)

The most optimal Intrigue Stories have all five elements.

From experience, however, stories with at least three out of the five elements will do usually do well, especially when delivered properly.

For example, inside the Shogun Method there are two delivery techniques which would take any Intrigue Story to the next level. These are “Cliffhanger” and “Rollercoastering” tactics which when used properly, it will get the female brain stuck on the “HOT” mode perpetually.

Powerful stuff!

The Multiple Sub-Plot Technique

Let’s now switch gears and talk about an “add on” technique which you can use on top of your Intrigue Story to capture a woman’s attention.

You see, a good Intrigue Story is never a straight line from beginning to its end.

Sexy in bikiniFor an Intrigue Story to be both realistic and captivating, it will need this storytelling device known as the “Sub Plot.”

Simply put, these are minor stories which are related to the “main plot” of the Intrigue Story.

They exist in order to “color” the Intrigue Story with conflict and drama.

You should be familiar with what Sub Plots are. Indeed, they are everywhere… from the TV shows and movies we watch and the novels we read.

Specifically in the art of picking up women, keeping a series of Sub Plots has only one objective:

To create the illusion that both of you have got a lot of things to say to each other.

That’s pretty much it!

You see, it’s never a good idea to talk a single topic to death.

Therefore, within the first 3-5 minutes, you want to create as many Sub Plots as you can.

This will give you enough opportunities to latch on another “fresh” topic to keep you going.

Now enough of theory… let’s look at a real life example!

To create Sub Plots, here’s what you do: break her sentences down in order to create new conversational topics.

For example, she might say to you:

“I’ve been working as a trainee teacher for six months.”

Breaking down that statement, here are some possible Sub Plots:

    1. What’s the difference between a “trainee” teacher and a “real” teacher?
    1. What was she doing before she became a trainee teacher?
    1. Any interesting teacher stories? (Think Beverly Hills, 90210)
    1. What she loves being a teacher?
    1. What she hates being a teacher?
  1. Do male teachers try to pick her up?

See how this works? Pretty simple, isn’t it?

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Avoid This Potential Pitfall!

Once you know how to create Multiple Sub Plots, you won’t have shortage of things to talk to her.

With that technique, it’s really easy to come up with the questions to ask her in order to create continuous conversations.

However, here lies a potential pitfall…

You don’t want to “fire up” a long series of questions that will completely overwhelm her.

Why?

Well, when a woman feels overwhelm, it triggers her brain to go from “HOT” to “COLD”.

And as you’d remember from the previous section, rejections happen when the female brain is in “COLD” state.

Instead of shooting off one question after another, do this instead…

Try out ONE Sub Plot at a time. See if she takes it up.

Then, pursue the one or two Sub Plots that she is most interested to talk about.

This way, you’ll keep her in “HOT” mode until, well, she seduces herself for you!

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Bonus Third Tactic: The “Nuclear Bomb” of Mind Control

Let’s do a quick recap!

With Intrigue Stories and Multiple Sub Plots, you are already well ahead of most guys who are still using Pickup Artist style “openers” to approach women (shudder!).

With those two techniques, you’ll be able to keep the female brain in “HOT” mode which is great…

… but the war is not won yet!

You’ve caught her undivided attention, and she couldn’t stop talking to you…

… and what you need to do next is to grab this opportunity to seal the deal and make her fall in love with you!

To help you to just that, here’s the (bonus) third tactic on how to pick up women…

Learn fractionation to make her want you!It’s a classic Mind Control technique called “Fractionation“.

For many years, this technique remains somewhat hidden, and for good reason.

To those who are familiar with it (or have seen its effects), they liken the use of Fractionation in picking up women to bringing a Nuclear Bomb to a gunfight.

Of course, that’s an exaggeration, but still, it illustrates just how powerful the technique is.

A master of Fractionation has the power beyond making a woman fall in love with him…

… indeed, if you’ve ever met a man who seems to be able to make women captivated and addicted to his presence, you should assume that there has been some “Fractionation action” going on.

It’s really quite impressive!

OK, so here’s the deal…

As you can see, this guide is already pretty lengthy as it stands…

…and as such, it’s quite impossible to talk about the entire Fractionation technique here.

(It’s not a shortcut or a magic pill. You’ll need to invest some time and effort to make it work for you.)

Anyway, here’s a super shortened version of the tactic:

Fractionation

You make a woman go through an emotional roller coaster by making her feel both happiness and sadness in equal measures.

With enough rounds of Fractionation, she will soon be emotionally addicted to you.

(Women find soap operas irresistible because of the Fractionation effect. It’s the same thing.)

And as you will see, Fractionation is a perfect compliment to the Intrigue Story and the Multiple Sub Plot techniques that you have already seen above.

Good stuff!

The world’s most complete guide on Fractionation is inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method.

In it, you will find sample scripts and routines on Fractionation you can use immediately on any woman you lay your eyes on.

There’s also a very informative (and entertaining!) video case study on how to structure and deliver your Fractionation lines.

Finally, there are also “One Sentence Fractionation” scripts which pack the entire Fractionation routine inside one (yes, just one) sentence!

To find out more about Fractionation and how you can use it to pick women up, here’s what you need to do. Click on this button below to watch a free Masterclass on Fractionation:

Fractionation

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In this Masterclass, you’ll discover how to use Fractionation (and other Mind Control tactics) to quickly make a woman succumb to your charms, and more.

Disclaimer (our lawyers made us write this!) –

Fractionation has been known to have somewhat negative effect on women if misused.

There has been recorded instances where some women were made to suffer from psychological damage by guys who used Fractionation unscrupulously on them.

This risk is very real.

That said, we can’t take responsibility for the actions you choose to take with the knowledge that get here.

As a final note…

Before you learn about using Fractionation, promise me that you won’t use it to harm women.

Remember: karma can be a real female dog!

Thank you for understanding.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Picking Up Women

Q: How do I pick up a woman quickly? Say, in a couple of minutes?

Short answer: use Fractionation.

Use Shogun Method to learn how to make her want you now!Think of it as the “minified” version of Shogun Method. You can use it to quickly make a woman go through an emotional roller coaster in a span of a couple of minutes to make her fall for you.

There’s even a One Sentence Fractionation technique you can use – and as it namesake suggests, it packs the entire punch of the Fractionation technique into one sentence. Pretty strong stuff!

https://sibg.com/videos/how-to-pick-up-girls-using-one-sentence-fractionation.mp4

The world’s most complete version of Fractionation (with examples, scripts and lines) is inside the “Quick Start” module of the Shogun Method.

Before that, you should watch a free Masterclass on Fractionation which you can access here.

Q: How to pick up women at a bar or club?

A two-step combination of using Intrigue Stories (to capture her attention), and then hit her with Fractionation to build attraction. Works amazingly well.

Q: How do I pick up women at the gym?

Lots of opportunities! You can use Intrigue Pings along these lines:

“Let me help you with these weights. BTW, you know you shouldn’t do that…”

“I’d probably regret asking you this, but…”

“Is that new Craig David that you’re listening to? Apparently there’s something about him that not a lot of people know…”

Q: How to pick up girls online, or on Facebook in particular?

Everything that we have covered here are applicable online.

By design, Intrigue Pings are short enough to be delivered through text as well as messaging through Facebook.

There are, however, two major disadvantages when it comes to picking up girls online:

    1. The danger of being seen as a “texting” or “Facebook” buddy. Your goal, therefore, is to ask her out and spend more face time with her.
  1. You won’t have the benefit of using body language to boost your Intrigue Pings. Therefore, your Intrigue Pings have got to be punchier than usual to solicit a response.

Q: How to pick up girls at work?

The danger of picking up women at your workplace is due to the fact that they are, well, your co-workers.

There’s this problem of “Contextual Rapport” – any existing rapport that you have with a female co-worker is confined to the office only.

Any other type of rapport apart from “Sexual Rapport” is useless, and in the case of “Contextual Rapport”, it can even be counterproductive.

To overcome this problem, you must stop interacting with her within the same “context”. In this case, this means that you stop seeing her at the office and talk about the usual (work) topics.

Strike up a conversation about things OUTSIDE work, and then follow up by asking her out so that you can engage her outside the work “context”.

In other words, don’t make a mistake of gaming her at the workplace. Get her out of the office first.

Q: What’s a good “how to pick up girls” book?

You should check out the Shogun Method, although it’s much less a “book” than a complete online course (in the form of PDFs, videos and audio files.)

Before you do that, remember to first watch this Masterclass:-

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Shogun Method is not for everybody, and once you watched the Masterclass, you’ll understand exactly why.

Matt Ganz SIBG

Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

December 3, 2015 By Shogun Method team 10 Comments

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented  tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style. 🙂

  • Be Different.

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Research says that women get attracted to men in red. Won’t hurt to try!

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

  • Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable. If you need help and you want a fresh pair of eyes to look and evaluate your appearance, contact me or Matthew (email matt@sibg.com).

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If you build enough emotional rapport with her,then it will be easier for you to seduce her.

  • Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

Remember – if you do not get enough face time with her then you won’t be able to attract her. Let that sink in a little.

One of the best ways to develop emotional rapport is to use this hypnosis technique called fractionation. Click here for a free download.

Once you win her over in the friend department, you can then start flirting with her a little bit and finally show her your true intentions. And if you think this girl is someone you want to have a serious relationship with, then becoming friends with her will also make it easier for you to make her fall in love with you.

  • Talk (Hypnotically).

On that note, always make it a point to approach the girl that you are eyeing and talk to her before she makes the first move. Girls love it when guys make the first move, and it would help a lot if you already have interesting subjects to talk about to make her smile and keep her entertained. Also, at the same time, weave some fractionation-laden lines into your conversation threads in order to build emotional rapport above (see the previous point).

We at SIBG.com likes Colin Simone’s Conversational Seduction philosophy, and follows it to the brim (it’s part of the new lair member’s initiation program – apart from Derek Rake’s programs). Google it!

  • Be Bruce Wayne.

A lot of girls would prefer to date guys who have their own lives outside of the dating game. So, if you show a girl that you preoccupy yourself with a ton of other things during your free time, then she can rest assured that you aren’t clingy and won’t demand too much of her time. This will also show her that you are mature and independent, and that you  have personal goals that you do not plan to give up for her.

  • Socialize.

Most girls are very social, so it would help you a lot if you are a social being, too, especially if you want to impress a girl somehow. If you show a girl that you are social, then she will know that she will never get bored around you if you ever do end up going out. Don’t be shy to meet her friends or family when you start dating, either. This will definitely score you major brownie points with her.

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Once you know some covert lines then you can master any conversation with a woman when you pick her up

  • Use Covert Psychology Techniques.

Many guys (and competing seduction lairs) hate us for this, but we have absolutely no qualms about using what are seen as “underhanded” tactics to seduce women. With an arsenal of what’s known as “forbidden” patterns derived from underground hypnosis and persuasion knowledge. With this knowledge, we can step into any situation with quiet confidence that we can attract any woman we want, anywhere. What would you do with this power?

check this out

Covert Psychology Tactic Video

I am able to sleep at night despite using these techniques simply because I have no ill intentions towards women. Women are happier when they are attracted to me because I show them a good time.

On the other hand, if you have bad intentions towards women, and want to use these techniques to hurt women, then don’t click on the link above. Also, my lawyers have asked me to make this clear: you are responsible for your own actions from the knowledge that I share above. Don’t blame me if you get stuck in a bad situation where a woman gets super clingy and starts calling you every hour.

Thank you for understanding. :)For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

How to Pick Up Girls at the Bar

July 23, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

When at a bar, picking up girls is a completely different ball game compared to picking them up at coffee shops or while walking on the streets. You need to understand that there are significant differences when it comes to this, like meeting their eyes first since the music can be quite loud.

Here is a step-by-step guide to help you out:

Begin with Eye Contact

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Eye contact. If she smiles back after establishing eye contact, it means she’s also interested.

Before even approaching a girl at the bar, you have to meet her eyes until she sees you looking her way. When your eyes meet, smile and look away. This is the first step to show her that you find her interesting. If she finds you interesting, as well, she should smile back or do something flirty, like play with her hair. This is actually the first way to flirt. Watch out for these signs before making your next move.

Make Your Approach

Around ten seconds after smiling at herc, approach her or at least get closer to her somehow. Don’t rush to her side, though. Just slowly move towards her in a confident and slightly cocky manner. Don’t forget to keep a smile on your face while you do this, and don’t just walk up to her without looking away from her eyes, either. This might make her feel threatened.

Ideally, you should come in from the side. If she is with a group of other people, she might not notice you too much, so speak up and mention that you can’t stay for long. This will make her want to make the most of her time with you.

Win Her Friends Over

Girls are hardly ever alone at the bar, so there are very high chances that she is with a group of other people. If this is the case, try to win the entire group over. If there are guys in the group, introduce yourself to them. Then, try to figure out if any of the guys is her boyfriend. If there seems to be a “Queen Bee” in the group, make sure you become her friend, too. Check out other ways to win her over here.

Steal Her Away

If you've win everyone over, ask her friends if you could 'borrow' her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well.
If you’ve win everyone over, ask her friends if you could ‘borrow’ her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well.

After winning everybody over, you have to try and get your target away from them. Use a line like “I’d like to borrow your friend for a few minutes. Is that okay? I promise to bring her back.”

Another tactic is to invite the entire group to move elsewhere. Since you invited them, you will have to sit down first. Once that happens, you shouldn’t have any trouble getting her phone number or asking her to go somewhere else to talk.

Believe it or not, all of the aforementioned tactics can really change how a girl sees you. You just have to make sure that you follow the guide to a tee and constantly try to take things to a whole new level every time you try it out. Through some basic trial and error and more research online, you should soon come up with a flawless guide that will help you get the results that you want in no time!

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG Guide On How to Ask a Girl Out On A Date

May 28, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Some guys find it extremely hard to ask a girl out. To others, it is something that just comes naturally. Of course, there are cases where everything just depends on the girl that is being asked, as well. Either way, though, any guy can ask a girl out, whether they do it through a text message or in person. The key merely lies in asking the girl in a way that will get her to agree to your request. Naturally, rejections are inevitable sometimes; but the way that you ask a girl really can make a difference a lot of the time.

To Plan or Not to Plan

This may sound difficult, but the expert seducer doesn’t plan things out too much. In fact, a lot of the time, it would be highly advisable not to plan things out at all. That’s what we do here in Baltimore. 🙂

While some details are important to know before asking a girl out, planning things out too much may make things seem unnatural and may cause confusion if the girl doesn’t follow the script that you had planned in your head. It would really be ideal to just go with the flow when it comes to this.

  • One of the things that you do need to think about beforehand, though, is where you will be taking her on the date. At the very least, you should already have some ideas in mind before you approach her. Girls generally hate hearing the words, “I don’t know” when asking guys where they will be going on a date. So, try to find out a bit more about the girl beforehand and plan it out. If she seems sporty, plan out something adventurous. If she seems more of an indoorsy type, then invite her to the movies. The most important thing, though would be to know exactly where you want to take her before asking her out. One of our lair members started this forum thread for date ideas in Baltimore – you might find it useful. And if you’re of the mature demographic then find more ideas here.
  • If you are having trouble figuring out what kind of girl she is for now, then stay safe and suggest something casual and fun. Remember: if you keep things simple and just aim to get to know her better during the date and nothing else, then your chances of getting her to go out with you will be much higher. And if you can’t tell whether she likes you or not, then this isn’t the right time to flirt with her. Watch a movie, go bowling or have some coffee together on your first date. You can even bring your friends if you want to ease the pressure while getting to know her. If things end up going well, then you can start planning some alone time with her in the future.
  • It would also be important to remember that not all girls are fond of nervous guys, which is why it would be best to ask a girl out at a time when you are feeling calm and collected. At the very least, you should seem at ease when you ask her out and don’t just jump the gun when you do it, either. Start with some small talk, laugh and smile when appropriate, and then casually say, “We should go out sometime.” when the time is right. Don’t forget to look straight into her eyes and smile when you deliver that line, either. Also, try not to anticipate a positive response. It would be best to be ready for anything, so that you won’t have any trouble dealing with rejection in case you end up disappointed. (Remember: the best way to pick up girls is to keep them in “HOT” mode.)

If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.
If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.

  • There are times where an opportunity to ask a girl out may present itself out of nowhere. If this happens, then you will need to act on the opportunity that is given to you right away. It would be important to make sure that you are presentable when you ask her out, though. Make sure you smell good, too, so that she warms up to the idea of going out with you and wants to get closer to you. The reasons why you want to go out with her in the first place is because you want her to like you. Make sure you look good, as well, so that the thought of spending hours on a date with you will be more appealing to her. Popping some breath mints wouldn’t hurt, either. If she hints through text, then ask her through text the nicest way possible.

Her Verdict!

As you can see, asking a girl for a date really isn’t as difficult as most guys make it out to be. However, she may already make up her mind on whether she would want to go out with you or not before you even ask her the question. So, while the manner in which you ask her could sway her decision into a favorable one for you, success may hinge on her overall interest in you before you even ask her out. To boost her interest in you even before you ask her, read this little guide.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Getting Her To Love You – An SIBG Primer Seduction Guide

May 27, 2013 By Shogun Method team 7 Comments

Face it: it is hard to learn how to get a girl to love you. No matter what other “seduction gurus” say. It’s friggin’ hard.

Yes, it has always been hard for most guys to do, but the truth is that it doesn’t have to be. In all honesty, most guys only have a hard time because they go into the game believing that it will be hard. As such, they tend to overlook the easy and effective ways on winning a girl over.

If you have been into the dating scene for quite a while, you know that getting a girl to fall in love with you comes in steps. It starts with meeting women, then seducing them to like you. And both of them are completely different from having her fall in love with you.

If you are absolutely determined to win over the girl of your dreams, though, then you need to learn about forbidden psychology and how to use techniques of forbidden psychology to win your dream girl over. Forbidden psychology has actually been causing quite a stir in the dating world lately because of the “forbidden” word. Everyone knows that the forbidden fruit tastes great, right? Well, it should because it really works!

Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn't have to be.
Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn’t have to be.

In a nutshell, forbidden psychology refers to a collective principle that involves persuasion, hypnosis and psychology. Although it is a closely guarded secret, a lot of guys now learn about it to successfully attract the girls that they like.

Forbidden Psychology…?

Here are several forbidden psychology techniques that you can use to get any girl to fall for you:

  • Practice Mind Manipulation.

One easy and effective way to win over a girl would be to go through her mind. That’s right. Dominating the thoughts of a girl can bring about incredibly successful results in the dating game. All that you have to do is use contradictory responses to mess up a girl’s head and derail her initial repulsive reactions.

  • Create Mind Confusion.

Mind confusion literally involves messing with a girl’s mind and her thoughts. Unlike mind manipulation, though, it doesn’t involve complete mind control; just mere mind confusion. Basically, if you keep confusing a girl, thoughts of you will start to invade her mind and create a subconscious obsession with you in it. You should alternate the attracted feelings to the reserved feelings when it comes to this, too, so that you can really confuse her. A shrewd technique like this will give you might better chances of winning a girl over with mind confusion.

Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.
Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.

  • Create a Permanent Presence.

Another forbidden psychology technique involves creating a permanent presence in a girl’s mind. If you get this technique right, you should be able to make a girl think about you wherever she goes. If you succeed at doing this, that girl will also develop an instant attachment to you, which is great because you won’t have to do much work at all after that. The attraction and desire will just come on their own.

  • Stare into Her Eyes.

Just like in regular hypnosis, you can attract a girl by staring into her eyes and make her feel like you are boring into her soul by doing so. This may be a bit tricky when it comes to forbidden psychology because some girls find it rude when guys stare for too long. However, if you are having a deep conversation, you should be able to captivate her into focusing on you, too. If you do, then you can easily make her feel at ease with your staring, make her feel closer to you because of it and eventually even make her obsessed with you, too.

  • Incorporate Reverse Psychology Techniques.

Forbidden psychology techniques will work even better when used in conjunction with reverse psychology techniques. Have you ever noticed that women don’t usually say what they feel, but the exact opposite? That’s because women are into reverse psychology. And admit it, reverse psychology is effective! So, if you ever find yourself argon or fighting with a girl, give up and take her side every once in a while. Although this would entail giving up on a fight even when you are certain that you are right, you can make her think that she will always get her way if you do end up going out. If you think long and hard about it, this really is just a small price to pay to get a girl to fall for you.

Caution

Keep in mind that all of the unconventional psychology techniques mentioned above need to be used with the utmost caution, though. Generally speaking, any kind of psychology technique could be dangerous if overused and may even backfire if used in the wrong way.

A final note…

The good news is that seducing girls through psychology is always effective and successful if done right and in moderation. This is because girls are practically hardwired to listen to their hearts instead of their minds. So, if you follow the aforementioned techniques to a tee, you can get any girl of your choice to fall in love with you in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

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