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SIBG On How to Make a Woman Like You

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Playful Couple — Everyone needs someone.

No matter how manly a man may seem, he will always need some love in his life. Even loners want to find someone special who can truly understand them – and that’s the truth. Unfortunately, knowing how to start a relationship with a woman isn’t exactly easy. So, if you have no idea how to make a woman like you or even how to approach a woman to begin with, before reading the Flirting 101 just make sure you read to the end of this article.

Easy ways to make her like you !

If you currently feel like you cannot control the way that women see you, then you need to open your eyes and face the truth that you can make women attracted to you. After getting a girl’s number, you just need to follow the three tips below. Believe it or not, it’s as easy as that!

Tip Number One: Do not buy her off. Contrary to popular belief, buying a woman drink after drink after drink and showering her with gifts will not help out your cause at all. While women do like getting free stuff, this plan might backfire if they end up feeling like you are buying them off or pressuring them to date you because of how much money you spent on them.
Make friends and socialite.
Tip Number Two: Work on your social proof. When women see men having fun at a party, in general, they immediately assume that those men are fun to be with overall. So, if you want to catch a woman’s attention the next time you are out, take things up a notch and start talking to more people and laughing with them. Besides, women tend to feel much more comfortable hanging out and talking to men after seeing them successfully making other women laugh before them. So, if you want to make women like you, you need to work on your social proof and show them that you are a socially accepted human being, in general.
Tip Number Three: Make yourself scarce. Before you even read what this tip has to say, you should know that being too available to women will do much more harm than good in this department. Just think about all of the times you begged for a woman’s phone number. You probably never got their number in the end, did you?

This is simply the way that women think. If you watch women when they are shopping, you will instantly come to notice that they tend to be much more attracted to expensive brands that they can hardly afford and actually steer completely clear from the items that are cheap and easily available to them. This is basically just because items that are more available look far less valuable in women’s eyes.
So, if you meet a woman at a bar and she asks you how often you go there, don’t admit that you practically hang out there everyday. Say that you only go there once a week, control and dominate women just make her go crazy over you. This will pressure her into finding other ways to connect with you and turn things over in your favor. Alternatively, you can also tease her and bust her chops like this.

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SIBG Guide To Getting A Girl’s Number

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

If you want to learn how to get a girl’s number, the first thing you have to do is learn how to build rapport. If you don’t, you won’t be able to conquer a woman’s heart and reach your end goal at all.

Impress her with this easy steps!

Best way is to build your rapport first with the combination of the best way to chat with women. To learn how to build rapport with a girl, just follow these easy steps:

Let Her Talk. Maintain eye contact with every girl that you talk to and listen to everything that she has to say. Take in all of her words and react accordingly. The important thing here would be to let her talk as much as she wants to, though; otherwise, she won’t feel any rapport from you at all. If she doesn’t seem to like to talk much, then watch out for signs that signal towards her interests and pay close attention to what she says with her gestures and eyes instead of her words. See this article from Jezebel.com.
Listen Actively. Pay close attention to all of the conversations that you touch on in your conversations, so that you can expand on them later on. Paying attention will also help you come up with relevant and interesting questions once your conversations seem to die down. – Expound on Any Similarities. Whenever a girl shares a story, you will most probably be able to relate to it because of something similar that you have experienced before or would be interested in doing yourself in the future. Believe it or not, this will build rapport with her and can, in turn, help you get her number. If she talks about a trip that she enjoyed, for example, and you listen, react and share a similar experience with her in an excited and passionate way; she will automatically start feeling more comfortable around you and feel like she has known you for a long time, even if you have just met.
Ask for her number.
Actually Ask For Her Number. Naturally, the final results will only come to fruition after you ask a girl for her number. This shouldn’t be a problem if you effectively built rapport with her beforehand, though. If you are worried about how you should ask for the number, then use the previous tip and bring it up when she mentions something that you are interested in. If she mentions trekking, for example, say “We should trek together sometime.” Sometimes, the girl might even bring this up herself and when she does, you can ask for her digits right away.

So, if you really want to learn how to get a girl’s number, get rid of all of the preconceived notions in your head that have been placed in their from other guys and useless movie scenarios. Aside from feeling attracted to you, girls have to be comfortable in your presence before they will give you their numbers, make a girl go crazy over you! The only difficult part is developing that comfort and bringing some confidence into the mix at the same time. If you stay true to yourself and follow the tips above, though, you shouldn’t have much trouble getting your dream girl’s number in no time.

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How to Pick Up Girls at the Bar

July 23, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

When at a bar, picking up girls is a completely different ball game compared to picking them up at coffee shops or while walking on the streets. You need to understand that there are significant differences when it comes to this, like meeting their eyes first since the music can be quite loud.

Here is a step-by-step guide to help you out:

Begin with Eye Contact

Before even approaching a girl at the bar, you have to meet her eyes until she sees you looking her way. When your eyes meet, smile and look away. This is the first step to show her that you find her interesting. If she finds you interesting, as well, she should smile back or do something flirty, like play with her hair. This is actually the first way to flirt. Watch out for these signs before making your next move.

Make Your Approach

Around ten seconds after smiling at herc, approach her or at least get closer to her somehow. Don’t rush to her side, though. Just slowly move towards her in a confident and slightly cocky manner. Don’t forget to keep a smile on your face while you do this, and don’t just walk up to her without looking away from her eyes, either. This might make her feel threatened.

Ideally, you should come in from the side. If she is with a group of other people, she might not notice you too much, so speak up and mention that you can’t stay for long. This will make her want to make the most of her time with you.

Win Her Friends Over

Girls are hardly ever alone at the bar, so there are very high chances that she is with a group of other people. If this is the case, try to win the entire group over. If there are guys in the group, introduce yourself to them. Then, try to figure out if any of the guys is her boyfriend. If there seems to be a “Queen Bee” in the group, make sure you become her friend, too. Check out other ways to win her over here.

Steal Her Away

If you've win everyone over, ask her friends if you could 'borrow' her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well. — If you’ve win everyone over, ask her friends if you could ‘borrow’ her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well.

After winning everybody over, you have to try and get your target away from them. Use a line like “I’d like to borrow your friend for a few minutes. Is that okay? I promise to bring her back.”

Another tactic is to invite the entire group to move elsewhere. Since you invited them, you will have to sit down first. Once that happens, you shouldn’t have any trouble getting her phone number or asking her to go somewhere else to talk.

Believe it or not, all of the aforementioned tactics can really change how a girl sees you. You just have to make sure that you follow the guide to a tee and constantly try to take things to a whole new level every time you try it out. Through some basic trial and error and more research online, you should soon come up with a flawless guide that will help you get the results that you want in no time!

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Good Questions to Ask a Girl

July 23, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Introduction from Matthew (matt@sibg.com): I have asked Patrick Forest (our guest instructor from Australia) to talk about the questions to ask a woman when seducing her online. Now these are also useful in face-to-face situations: just adapt!

The following article has been transcribed from a talk given by Patrick Forest to Baltimore Seduction Lair in March. Patrick is an all-time hustler and seducer with a head full of hair even at 40!

So look here, my SIBG.com brothers. If you are interested in trying out online dating, then you need to know that it isn’t just about filling your profile page with little details and pictures about yourself. You will also have to learn how to interact with girls well. As such, you might want to learn some good questions to ask a girl online before actually asking her out.

Naturally, you will also need to keep in mind that the ultimate key to succeeding in online dating is to create attraction with a girl as soon as possible. Fortunately, girls are emotional creatures, so all you have to do is make an impact on their emotions and ask the right questions in order to get them to like you.

For online dating to be a success, you have to ask the RIGHT questions.

Here’s online dating 101. Before you try to win a girl over, though, you have to decide what kind of girl you want to meet online first. There wouldn’t be any point in running after all of them because girls won’t find that attractive. Since there are so many girls to choose for online, though, the best way to go about it would be to ask several girls certain questions that will tell you more about them. Make sure you have fun while you do this, though, so you can successfully create attraction while finding out more about each girl’s personality.

Question Number One: What do you do on weekends?

This question is pretty self-explanatory and you can change it as needed. If the girl’s profile page already mentions what she does on weekends, for example, you can ask her something about her favorite activities instead. The best thing about this question is that it is safe, but can still be a fun way to find some things that you have in common with a girl. It serves as a great icebreaker, too.

Question Number Two: Have you met any guys that you really don’t like online?

smartphone — **Ask her what she does on weekends. You might find out you have a lot more in common than you thought.**

Make sure you add some playfulness into the mix here, so you can start up some good banter as time goes by. Asking this question won’t just make you stand out from the other guys that girls meet online, but it will also show girls that you think differently, in general. This will, in turn, create attraction in no time.

Question Number Three: Do you enjoy online dating?

As usual, make sure you add some playfulness into the mix here because the whole point is to come up with interesting and fun conversations. Make sure you pay close heed to her answers, too, since you could learn a lot from her previous experiences in online dating this way. Plus, you will be able to find out more about what she likes and what she dislikes through her answers.

Don’t think that it’s just online dating. A study shows that the most successful marriages are from online dating. As mentioned earlier, these three questions aren’t exactly set in stone or anything, so you can change them up anytime, as needed. As a matter of fact, it would be best to change them according to your current situation and your overall personality. Besides, using canned questions and lines that don’t suit your style might just throw girls off – remember that.

Bonus Tip: Use Covert Hypnosis

Finally, when you ask a girl these questions, insert some hypnotic phrases in order to build and deepen the attraction. Now if you’re already a senior member of SIBG then you should already know these covert tricks at the back of your hand. Matt told me that you guys worship at the altar of Derek Rake, and I can personally attest to the effectiveness of Derek Rake’s techniques… in particular, fractionation.

But before you delve into that technique, know this – I am convinced that there is a conspiracy to STOP newbies or people outside the ‘circle’ to learn about fractionation. We can understand this; the fact is that the less people know this then it’s better for the rest of us.

Matt is concerned that some guys misuse this technique and use it to mistreat women. So, if you are out there to “take revenge” on women who have been rejecting you, then don’t learn fractionation. I am serious. Don’t.

Now if you are one of the “good guys” then check this out.

What Women Want

July 17, 2013 By Shogun Method team 2 Comments

A lot of men wonder what women want, but always get different answers thrown at them – if any at all. Unfortunately, since times tend to change, women tend to change, as well. Plus, every woman tends to be different, so there aren’t actually any specific traits that every woman would want in a man. Fortunately, there are some common traits out there that women might look for. Of course you would want her to like you the natural way. But there are traits you don’t have but could work on. If you have them, you can then make yourself look much more attractive in the eyes of today’s modern woman. Here’s what they are:

Being a Gentleman

Although most modern women are independent, they will still swoon for men who open doors for them, are respectful and are real gentlemen. Not because men fall in love at first sight doesn’t mean that women, too. So, if you respect women, in general, then you will instantly get brownie points for that.

Being Sensitive

sensitiveman — Women love spontaneity. Surprise her with gifts – big or small – and she will sure fall under your spell.

To melt a woman’s heart, it would help to be kind, considerate and a little spontaneous. Try giving her flowers on a random day, for example. As mentioned earlier, most modern women are independent, but they still enjoy getting pampered and surprised every now and then. So, if you make her feel special, she is sure to love you for it.

Being Mature

Since security and maturity are closely intertwined, a lot of women nowadays prefer dating older men. So, if you seem mature and responsible, women will think more highly of you.

Being Confident

Men who are sure of themselves, but aren’t too arrogant, would be frontrunners in women’s selection of people to date. This is because confident men look like they can deal with any obstacle that might come their way. Being confident is, in itself, a seduction technique. They also look like they can take care of anybody or anything – their women included.

Having the Power to Provide

provider — Women usually think long-term, so a man who could well provide for her is totally attractive.

Women tend to think in the long term. Since men have always had the role of providing for the family for as long as women can remember, knowing that a man will be able to provide for a family is one of the traits that women look for. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be rich in order to win a woman over. However, if you can show her that you are capable of taking care of her, then she will feel much safer around you and will become more attracted to you in the long run.

Looking Good

Although looks aren’t as important to women as they are to men, they still play a part in the list of traits that women look for in a man. Getting her to love you needs you to exert some effort.

Now, even if the traits here don’t sound anything like you, there is no need to feel bad. As long as you are willing to learn how to get these traits or know that you have the potential of inheriting them in the future, then you would be a prime candidate for women who are currently on the lookout for men that they can date, marry or just be in a relationship with. Besides, no matter what women want, love will find a way in the end, anyway. Just have faith.

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