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How To Attract Women With Body Language

August 30, 2016 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz Leave a Comment

As the experts say, up to 90% of all communications is non-verbal. This is especially true when it comes to talking to women. Trust me, because I know this from experience. I found that I could talk gibberish and if I use this one special body language technique that I use, the woman will end up liking me.

This technique is known as Mirroring. According to Derek Rake, it’s the single most effective body language technique in the arsenal of the Mind Control seducer. It’s devastatingly effective because of this reason:

“A woman’s brain cannot consciously filter out non-verbal information which suggests familiarity.”

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What this means is that if you come across as “familiar” to a woman, she won’t be able to reject the suggestions that you’re going to make to her. It’s a flaw in a woman’s mind which gets exploited by Derek Rake’s students and people who know Mind Control in general.

You “mirror” your target by copying her behavior – hand gestures, facial expressions and body movements. By replicating your target’s non-verbal signals, you’re sending familiarity signals to her subconscious.

Mirroring works well as a rapport building technique because it is perceived outside the boundaries of conscious awareness. When newbies do it incorrectly, the target becomes aware that they are deliberately parroting her, and she could well feel insulted. You must always be aware of the danger of getting “found out” – she may think that you are mocking her.

Here’s how you can avoid this particularly deadly pitfall of getting found out: by following the Three Seconds Rule. You should mimic a particular behavior or gesture that you notice only three seconds after you have first noticed that behavior. This will make what you are doing less obvious to her.

Apart from her gestures, you should also mirror her mood.

For example, if she seems to be a little down, don’t say, “What are you worrying about? Let’s go have a drink and forget all your problems!” If she is in a foul mood, she expects you to empathize with her.

Match her mood, and then say with a sympathetic smile, “I feel terrible. If there’s anything I can do to make you feel better, let me know, okay?”

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Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

December 3, 2015 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 10 Comments

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style. 🙂

Be Different.

guy in red — Research says that women get attracted to men in red. Won’t hurt to try!

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable. If you need help and you want a fresh pair of eyes to look and evaluate your appearance, contact me or Matthew (email matt@sibg.com).

be her friend — If you build enough emotional rapport with her,then it will be easier for you to seduce her.

Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

Remember – if you do not get enough face time with her then you won’t be able to attract her. Let that sink in a little.

One of the best ways to develop emotional rapport is to use this hypnosis technique called fractionation. Click here for a free download.

Once you win her over in the friend department, you can then start flirting with her a little bit and finally show her your true intentions. And if you think this girl is someone you want to have a serious relationship with, then becoming friends with her will also make it easier for you to make her fall in love with you.

Talk (Hypnotically).

On that note, always make it a point to approach the girl that you are eyeing and talk to her before she makes the first move. Girls love it when guys make the first move, and it would help a lot if you already have interesting subjects to talk about to make her smile and keep her entertained. Also, at the same time, weave some fractionation-laden lines into your conversation threads in order to build emotional rapport above (see the previous point).

We at SIBG.com likes Colin Simone’s Conversational Seduction philosophy, and follows it to the brim (it’s part of the new lair member’s initiation program – apart from Derek Rake’s programs). Google it!

Be Bruce Wayne.

A lot of girls would prefer to date guys who have their own lives outside of the dating game. So, if you show a girl that you preoccupy yourself with a ton of other things during your free time, then she can rest assured that you aren’t clingy and won’t demand too much of her time. This will also show her that you are mature and independent, and that you have personal goals that you do not plan to give up for her.

Socialize.

Most girls are very social, so it would help you a lot if you are a social being, too, especially if you want to impress a girl somehow. If you show a girl that you are social, then she will know that she will never get bored around you if you ever do end up going out. Don’t be shy to meet her friends or family when you start dating, either. This will definitely score you major brownie points with her.

How to make her like you - SIBG method — Once you know some covert lines then you can master any conversation with a woman when you pick her up

Use Covert Psychology Techniques.

Many guys (and competing seduction lairs) hate us for this, but we have absolutely no qualms about using what are seen as “underhanded” tactics to seduce women. With an arsenal of what’s known as “forbidden” patterns derived from underground hypnosis and persuasion knowledge. With this knowledge, we can step into any situation with quiet confidence that we can attract any woman we want, anywhere. What would you do with this power?

Covert Psychology Tactic Video

I am able to sleep at night despite using these techniques simply because I have no ill intentions towards women. Women are happier when they are attracted to me because I show them a good time.

On the other hand, if you have bad intentions towards women, and want to use these techniques to hurt women, then don’t click on the link above. Also, my lawyers have asked me to make this clear: you are responsible for your own actions from the knowledge that I share above. Don’t blame me if you get stuck in a bad situation where a woman gets super clingy and starts calling you every hour.

Thank you for understanding. :)For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Interesting First Date Ideas

January 7, 2014 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 1 Comment

While the usual movie and dinner combo still works, there are interesting first date ideas that work better. A girl likes it a lot when a guy makes an effort to spice things up. It sets you up for greater chances of getting another date and it makes you unlike most guys. That makes you ahead of most guys and a good first date can be your gauge if the relationship is worth pursuing. Here are some date ideas from Cosmopolitan.

Making an effort is definitely a plus, but you don’t have to try too hard either. You don’t need to do something grand to impress her. Instead, find out what interests her and set-up your date around that knowledge so she’ll know that you’re paying attention.

Interesting First Date Ideas

“Run Together.” A lot of women love to run and if your girl is the type, invite her to run together. It’s casual, relaxed and definitely comfortable. It’s also a common ground for both you which means it could lead to more running dates in the future.

“Whip Up a Picnic.” If you’re anywhere near a park or you know a nice romantic spot somewhere, opt for the old-fashioned way of wooing a girl. Bring a blanket, pick something from a restaurant and charm her with your excellent conversational skills.

“Enjoy Early Morning.” Crazy schedule and you can’t decide on a time? Don’t fret. You can always ask her to join you for a morning meal. Pick a nice place with good food and a nice view of the sunrise. You might be surprised how it will work out beautifully. It’s calm, refreshing and so much easier to be yourself. This is 100% Killer Ways To Make a Woman Want You.

“Hit the Drive-In.” Instead of heading to a moviehouse, give her a movie experience she won’t forget. Take her for a ride and find a drive-in where you can enjoy a nice time under the stars. Even if it’s not the latest movie out there, the drive-in is a sure way to spice things up.

“Go Hiking.” If your date is game, exploring the outdoors through hiking is an excellent idea for a first date. With just you and her amidst the lusciousness of nature, it’s easier to talk, bond and enjoy each other’s company.

“Fly High.” if you’ve got the funds and you really want to woo her, rent a chopper and enjoy a new experience together. A night time flight is definitely romantic and without a doubt impressive. Not many gust can pull it off and while it’s expensive, you’re one first date she won’t forget for a long time.

“Be Tourists.” Once in a while, it’s nice to be a tourist in your own place. But what’s even nicer is to do it with a girl you like. Pick a tourist spot in the area and make it your first date setting. Make sure the spot is one you both haven’t been to yet to make it more special.

When planning a memorable first date, do not settle for the usual. Think of something different, unique and interesting to stick in to her mind. Of course, it has to be something that fit her personality and interests but ultimately, the goal is share a first date experience that will allow you to connect with her.

Keep updated, always visit SIBG!

-Matt

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Online Dating Tips – SIBG Exclusive

October 4, 2013 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz 1 Comment

Are you done being single? Do you want to conquer a woman’s heart? Are you ready for another relationship? Are you too busy to go to clubs, bars and other possible places wherein you could meet someone special, though? If so, then you might want to look into online dating and see what it has to offer nowadays.

Several years ago, there was a stigma revolving around online dating sites and a lot of people were put off from joining them. Or, if they did end up joining them, they simply kept that fact to themselves.

Nowadays, however, there are a ton of reliable dating websites that you can choose from to make a woman like you, a lot of which even cater to certain needs, like ethnic preferences and age groups.

What is the first thing to do

Use your laptop. — Use your laptop to look around for trusted site.

So, where should you start, then? Well, to be honest, the best thing to do would be to shop around. Aside from looking for a website that you like the look and feel of, you should take their subscription rules into consideration, as well. A lot of these websites will require a membership fee to sort out the people who are serious about online dating from those who aren’t. Some websites will require a fee for a one-week trial, which is great for beginners, while others will require monthly payments or annual payments.

Once you find a website that you like, it is time to take certain online dating tips into consideration. What should you write on your profile, for example? As daunting as this task may seem, there really is no need to fear the creation of dating profiles(read this article from Chicago now for guide. All it really is is a form of self-marketing. If you need help writing something about yourself to get a girl’s number, then get a friend to help you out if you must. The important thing is to make it interesting and funny without being dishonest. Dishonesty could bite you in the back later on down the line, after all.

Important things to know

It would be especially be important to be honest when talking about the things that you like to do. There is no point in writing that you love to skydive if the reality is that you are afraid of heights, for example. You should also be honest about your looks. If you aren’t, then you are merely setting yourself up for failure and discomfort in case your date wants to meet you later on. If you tell someone that you are tall, blonde and blue-eyed, then make sure that you really are. Read this article from GQ.

Ideally, you should only post recent photos of yourself on your profile. While there is nothing wrong with posting a photo that is a few months old, it wouldn’t be a good idea to post one that is already several years old. While you may think that you still look exactly the same, other people will most likely beg to differ. Also, try to post a picture of you smiling. This will make you look friendlier and much more approachable overall.

So there you have the most basic yet important online dating tips. Other than that, just trust your instincts and have fun!

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SIBG Humor Guide On How to Make Women Laugh

October 3, 2013 By Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz Leave a Comment

Try asking any woman out there what she looks for in a man or what makes them go crazy for a man, and most of them will mention a sense of humor. Truth be told, when learning how to make women laugh nothing is better or more effective out there than humor. Men who can make women laugh don’t just automatically look more attractive in their eyes, they end up standing out, as well. So, if you want to get into a woman’s mind yourself, then you need to learn how to make her laugh. After that, you won’t have any trouble getting her to fall for you and stay with you forever. You can see this interesting article from TeleGraph.

Women like to date men who make them chuckle due to evolutionary differences, claim scientists. -From one of the article from DailyMail

Once you can successfully make women laugh without even trying, you will know that you are already in an advanced level and will have practically no trouble at all getting into a woman’s mind, making her want to be around and make her miss you all the time.

Most men who already have a lot of experience in this department say that getting a woman to laugh is the only thing that they have ever had to learn to keep women by their side. This is because men who have this power always look happy and friendly, this why they always get women chase them and help to conquer a woman’s heart. Well, women don’t want to experience sad moments when they are with a man. This is why humor is such an effective way to getting women to fall for men to begin with.

Things to keep in mind to make her fall in love with you

Now, if you are starting to get a bad feeling in your gut because you know that you aren’t exactly a funny guy nor do you have the power to make people laugh when you want them to, then stop sulking! Humor can be learned. Plus, you will be able to use it to win women over and make them fall for you. You just need to learn the right skills and practice them on a regular basis. Here are a couple of tips to help you out.

Do not be predictable. Predictability and consistency are boring traits for a woman. As such, it would be best to take her off guard and surprise her every now and then. When it comes to humor, this basically means that you should throw some jokes her way when she least expects it or be funny at times when humor is needed the most.
Time things right. Of course, it is important to make sure that the mood, place and time is right before you start bringing on the humor, as well. If you are at a funeral, a joke might not be the best way to get people to feel better, for example. Also, women aren’t always in the mood for laughter, so make sure you look for cues on whether a woman is actually ready to laugh and hear your jokes before you try to lighten up the mood with it. Lastly, make sure you don’t try too hard. There is nothing attractive about a man who tries too hard to be something he’s not, after all.

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