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How To Meet Women – The SIBG Way

November 21, 2016 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

If you are too shy to meet women on your own, then the tips in this article can definitely help you out. This is the However, you will need to be very careful when following these tips because doing them wrongly can result in major disappointments on your part.

These techniques have been widely practiced within the confines of the “SIBG Seduction Lair” here in Baltimore, but its applicability is universal – so it doesn’t matter if you’re in Baltimore, New York, the Cotswolds or Hong Kong. In fact, we have received many success stories from our seduction brothers across the world from as far as Singapore and Tokyo.

How To Meet Women – SIBG Style

Learn how to meet women like this! — Meeting high quality women is not an impossibility – you just need to know what to do at the right time.

Know Where to Look (The Best Places To Meet Women)

Clubs and bars would be some great places to meet women, but they aren’t always the best ones if you are looking for something more serious. If you are after nothing but a quick hookup, then bars and clubs can give you exactly what you need.

However, if you are a beginner in the world of dating or want to find something more serious, then you will need to sharpen your eyes and your skills, and turn to other environments to meet women, such as:

Girl in a college... rather seductive! — Clubs aren’t only the places you’ll meet beautiful women. Campuses are good for meeting young, intelligent women on the lookout for quality guys like you. 🙂

Supermarkets
Coffee shops
Parks
Bus stations
Colleges

Try Out Online Websites

This may sound controversial to you, but dating websites are actually very effective at helping men meet women nowadays. The best part is that they are extremely convenient since you won’t have to leave home to meet new women. Plus, you can look for women who share the same interests with you with ease. Just be careful that you don’t get scammed by fake websites or profiles that are only there to take your money from you. If you can’t decide which one to try, you might want to see The Telegraph’s 20 most useful dating websites.

Don’t Lower Your Standards

Regardless of where you decide to look for women to date, you should never lower your standards, no matter what. If you believe that you are good enough for any woman that you meet, then she will believe it, too. If you keep thinking that you will never be able to attract women, on the other hand, women will steer clear from you because of your lack of confidence. Women happen to love confident men who know what they want and who can command conversations and situations without an ounce of anxiety.

Make the Plans

Having said that, women also prefer their men to take charge and make any necessary plans. If you are just starting to see someone, though, then make sure you choose public places to meet her in, so that she will stay comfortable in your presence. Some good places to meet would include coffee shops, gyms and bars. Just make sure that the place is respectable and presentable, and she will love your choice either way.

Always Look Good

If you want to meet women and have them react favorably towards you, then you will need to take care of your appearance and maintain that appearance at all times. Wearing nice clothes would be vital, as well, but make sure you don’t overdo things. Just make sure you always look good, no matter where you go, because you can never know when you will meet the girl of your dreams. And when you do, make her fall in love using this SIBG guide.

Learn How To Meet Women From Other Guys

Let’s face it: nobody is perfect. As such, it wouldn’t hurt to get some advice from other men or just observe men and see what works for them. It would also be advisable to try out all sorts of methods in attracting women until you find what works best for you.

Work the Social Scene

If you want to meet as many women as possible, then go out there and work the social scene. If you decide to go clubbing, then hang out in the more open areas where you can meet more people with ease. By taking charge and by being socially aggressive, you can actually meet more women, dance with them, talk to them and eventually get them to go out with you. Timing is of the utmost essence here, too. Ideally, you shouldn’t go to places too early since you will only end up getting burned out too early in the night. Besides, more people will be there the later you go – remember that.

Shrug Off Rejection

Rejection is something that you will never be able to get rid of, no matter what, so just embrace it when it happens. Besides, rejection doesn’t necessarily mean that you are doing something wrong. Some women may already be spoken for, while others may just not be interested in men, in general. Think about it. As you can see, there are many ways to meet women and date them. Just make sure you follow the aforementioned tips in order to ensure that you score a date or two with the ones that you are interested in.

Good luck!

How to Pick Up Girls at the Bar

July 23, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

When at a bar, picking up girls is a completely different ball game compared to picking them up at coffee shops or while walking on the streets. You need to understand that there are significant differences when it comes to this, like meeting their eyes first since the music can be quite loud.

Here is a step-by-step guide to help you out:

Begin with Eye Contact

Before even approaching a girl at the bar, you have to meet her eyes until she sees you looking her way. When your eyes meet, smile and look away. This is the first step to show her that you find her interesting. If she finds you interesting, as well, she should smile back or do something flirty, like play with her hair. This is actually the first way to flirt. Watch out for these signs before making your next move.

Make Your Approach

Around ten seconds after smiling at herc, approach her or at least get closer to her somehow. Don’t rush to her side, though. Just slowly move towards her in a confident and slightly cocky manner. Don’t forget to keep a smile on your face while you do this, and don’t just walk up to her without looking away from her eyes, either. This might make her feel threatened.

Ideally, you should come in from the side. If she is with a group of other people, she might not notice you too much, so speak up and mention that you can’t stay for long. This will make her want to make the most of her time with you.

Win Her Friends Over

Girls are hardly ever alone at the bar, so there are very high chances that she is with a group of other people. If this is the case, try to win the entire group over. If there are guys in the group, introduce yourself to them. Then, try to figure out if any of the guys is her boyfriend. If there seems to be a “Queen Bee” in the group, make sure you become her friend, too. Check out other ways to win her over here.

Steal Her Away

If you've win everyone over, ask her friends if you could 'borrow' her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well. — If you’ve win everyone over, ask her friends if you could ‘borrow’ her and talk somewhere you could hear each other well.

After winning everybody over, you have to try and get your target away from them. Use a line like “I’d like to borrow your friend for a few minutes. Is that okay? I promise to bring her back.”

Another tactic is to invite the entire group to move elsewhere. Since you invited them, you will have to sit down first. Once that happens, you shouldn’t have any trouble getting her phone number or asking her to go somewhere else to talk.

Believe it or not, all of the aforementioned tactics can really change how a girl sees you. You just have to make sure that you follow the guide to a tee and constantly try to take things to a whole new level every time you try it out. Through some basic trial and error and more research online, you should soon come up with a flawless guide that will help you get the results that you want in no time!

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What Women Want

July 17, 2013 By Shogun Method team 2 Comments

A lot of men wonder what women want, but always get different answers thrown at them – if any at all. Unfortunately, since times tend to change, women tend to change, as well. Plus, every woman tends to be different, so there aren’t actually any specific traits that every woman would want in a man. Fortunately, there are some common traits out there that women might look for. Of course you would want her to like you the natural way. But there are traits you don’t have but could work on. If you have them, you can then make yourself look much more attractive in the eyes of today’s modern woman. Here’s what they are:

Being a Gentleman

Although most modern women are independent, they will still swoon for men who open doors for them, are respectful and are real gentlemen. Not because men fall in love at first sight doesn’t mean that women, too. So, if you respect women, in general, then you will instantly get brownie points for that.

Being Sensitive

sensitiveman — Women love spontaneity. Surprise her with gifts – big or small – and she will sure fall under your spell.

To melt a woman’s heart, it would help to be kind, considerate and a little spontaneous. Try giving her flowers on a random day, for example. As mentioned earlier, most modern women are independent, but they still enjoy getting pampered and surprised every now and then. So, if you make her feel special, she is sure to love you for it.

Being Mature

Since security and maturity are closely intertwined, a lot of women nowadays prefer dating older men. So, if you seem mature and responsible, women will think more highly of you.

Being Confident

Men who are sure of themselves, but aren’t too arrogant, would be frontrunners in women’s selection of people to date. This is because confident men look like they can deal with any obstacle that might come their way. Being confident is, in itself, a seduction technique. They also look like they can take care of anybody or anything – their women included.

Having the Power to Provide

provider — Women usually think long-term, so a man who could well provide for her is totally attractive.

Women tend to think in the long term. Since men have always had the role of providing for the family for as long as women can remember, knowing that a man will be able to provide for a family is one of the traits that women look for. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be rich in order to win a woman over. However, if you can show her that you are capable of taking care of her, then she will feel much safer around you and will become more attracted to you in the long run.

Looking Good

Although looks aren’t as important to women as they are to men, they still play a part in the list of traits that women look for in a man. Getting her to love you needs you to exert some effort.

Now, even if the traits here don’t sound anything like you, there is no need to feel bad. As long as you are willing to learn how to get these traits or know that you have the potential of inheriting them in the future, then you would be a prime candidate for women who are currently on the lookout for men that they can date, marry or just be in a relationship with. Besides, no matter what women want, love will find a way in the end, anyway. Just have faith.

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SIBG Guide On How to Ask a Girl Out On A Date

May 28, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Some guys find it extremely hard to ask a girl out. To others, it is something that just comes naturally. Of course, there are cases where everything just depends on the girl that is being asked, as well. Either way, though, any guy can ask a girl out, whether they do it through a text message or in person. The key merely lies in asking the girl in a way that will get her to agree to your request. Naturally, rejections are inevitable sometimes; but the way that you ask a girl really can make a difference a lot of the time.

To Plan or Not to Plan

This may sound difficult, but the expert seducer doesn’t plan things out too much. In fact, a lot of the time, it would be highly advisable not to plan things out at all. That’s what we do here in Baltimore. 🙂

While some details are important to know before asking a girl out, planning things out too much may make things seem unnatural and may cause confusion if the girl doesn’t follow the script that you had planned in your head. It would really be ideal to just go with the flow when it comes to this.

One of the things that you do need to think about beforehand, though, is where you will be taking her on the date. At the very least, you should already have some ideas in mind before you approach her. Girls generally hate hearing the words, “I don’t know” when asking guys where they will be going on a date. So, try to find out a bit more about the girl beforehand and plan it out. If she seems sporty, plan out something adventurous. If she seems more of an indoorsy type, then invite her to the movies. The most important thing, though would be to know exactly where you want to take her before asking her out. One of our lair members started this forum thread for date ideas in Baltimore – you might find it useful. And if you’re of the mature demographic then find more ideas here.

If you are having trouble figuring out what kind of girl she is for now, then stay safe and suggest something casual and fun. Remember: if you keep things simple and just aim to get to know her better during the date and nothing else, then your chances of getting her to go out with you will be much higher. And if you can’t tell whether she likes you or not, then this isn’t the right time to flirt with her. Watch a movie, go bowling or have some coffee together on your first date. You can even bring your friends if you want to ease the pressure while getting to know her. If things end up going well, then you can start planning some alone time with her in the future.

It would also be important to remember that not all girls are fond of nervous guys, which is why it would be best to ask a girl out at a time when you are feeling calm and collected. At the very least, you should seem at ease when you ask her out and don’t just jump the gun when you do it, either. Start with some small talk, laugh and smile when appropriate, and then casually say, “We should go out sometime.” when the time is right. Don’t forget to look straight into her eyes and smile when you deliver that line, either. Also, try not to anticipate a positive response. It would be best to be ready for anything, so that you won’t have any trouble dealing with rejection in case you end up disappointed. (Remember: the best way to pick up girls is to keep them in “HOT” mode.)

If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.

There are times where an opportunity to ask a girl out may present itself out of nowhere. If this happens, then you will need to act on the opportunity that is given to you right away. It would be important to make sure that you are presentable when you ask her out, though. Make sure you smell good, too, so that she warms up to the idea of going out with you and wants to get closer to you. The reasons why you want to go out with her in the first place is because you want her to like you. Make sure you look good, as well, so that the thought of spending hours on a date with you will be more appealing to her. Popping some breath mints wouldn’t hurt, either. If she hints through text, then ask her through text the nicest way possible.

Her Verdict!

As you can see, asking a girl for a date really isn’t as difficult as most guys make it out to be. However, she may already make up her mind on whether she would want to go out with you or not before you even ask her the question. So, while the manner in which you ask her could sway her decision into a favorable one for you, success may hinge on her overall interest in you before you even ask her out. To boost her interest in you even before you ask her, read this little guide.

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