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How To Meet Women – The SIBG Way

November 21, 2016 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

If you are too shy to meet women on your own, then the tips in this article can definitely help you out. This is the However, you will need to be very careful when following these tips because doing them wrongly can result in major disappointments on your part.

These techniques have been widely practiced within the confines of the “SIBG Seduction Lair” here in Baltimore, but its applicability is universal – so it doesn’t matter if you’re in Baltimore, New York, the Cotswolds or Hong Kong. In fact, we have received many success stories from our seduction brothers across the world from as far as Singapore and Tokyo.

How To Meet Women – SIBG Style

Learn how to meet women like this! — Meeting high quality women is not an impossibility – you just need to know what to do at the right time.

Know Where to Look (The Best Places To Meet Women)

Clubs and bars would be some great places to meet women, but they aren’t always the best ones if you are looking for something more serious. If you are after nothing but a quick hookup, then bars and clubs can give you exactly what you need.

However, if you are a beginner in the world of dating or want to find something more serious, then you will need to sharpen your eyes and your skills, and turn to other environments to meet women, such as:

Girl in a college... rather seductive! — Clubs aren’t only the places you’ll meet beautiful women. Campuses are good for meeting young, intelligent women on the lookout for quality guys like you. 🙂

Supermarkets
Coffee shops
Parks
Bus stations
Colleges

Try Out Online Websites

This may sound controversial to you, but dating websites are actually very effective at helping men meet women nowadays. The best part is that they are extremely convenient since you won’t have to leave home to meet new women. Plus, you can look for women who share the same interests with you with ease. Just be careful that you don’t get scammed by fake websites or profiles that are only there to take your money from you. If you can’t decide which one to try, you might want to see The Telegraph’s 20 most useful dating websites.

Don’t Lower Your Standards

Regardless of where you decide to look for women to date, you should never lower your standards, no matter what. If you believe that you are good enough for any woman that you meet, then she will believe it, too. If you keep thinking that you will never be able to attract women, on the other hand, women will steer clear from you because of your lack of confidence. Women happen to love confident men who know what they want and who can command conversations and situations without an ounce of anxiety.

Make the Plans

Having said that, women also prefer their men to take charge and make any necessary plans. If you are just starting to see someone, though, then make sure you choose public places to meet her in, so that she will stay comfortable in your presence. Some good places to meet would include coffee shops, gyms and bars. Just make sure that the place is respectable and presentable, and she will love your choice either way.

Always Look Good

If you want to meet women and have them react favorably towards you, then you will need to take care of your appearance and maintain that appearance at all times. Wearing nice clothes would be vital, as well, but make sure you don’t overdo things. Just make sure you always look good, no matter where you go, because you can never know when you will meet the girl of your dreams. And when you do, make her fall in love using this SIBG guide.

Learn How To Meet Women From Other Guys

Let’s face it: nobody is perfect. As such, it wouldn’t hurt to get some advice from other men or just observe men and see what works for them. It would also be advisable to try out all sorts of methods in attracting women until you find what works best for you.

Work the Social Scene

If you want to meet as many women as possible, then go out there and work the social scene. If you decide to go clubbing, then hang out in the more open areas where you can meet more people with ease. By taking charge and by being socially aggressive, you can actually meet more women, dance with them, talk to them and eventually get them to go out with you. Timing is of the utmost essence here, too. Ideally, you shouldn’t go to places too early since you will only end up getting burned out too early in the night. Besides, more people will be there the later you go – remember that.

Shrug Off Rejection

Rejection is something that you will never be able to get rid of, no matter what, so just embrace it when it happens. Besides, rejection doesn’t necessarily mean that you are doing something wrong. Some women may already be spoken for, while others may just not be interested in men, in general. Think about it. As you can see, there are many ways to meet women and date them. Just make sure you follow the aforementioned tips in order to ensure that you score a date or two with the ones that you are interested in.

Good luck!

Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

December 3, 2015 By Shogun Method team 10 Comments

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style. 🙂

Be Different.

guy in red — Research says that women get attracted to men in red. Won’t hurt to try!

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable. If you need help and you want a fresh pair of eyes to look and evaluate your appearance, contact me or Matthew (email matt@sibg.com).

be her friend — If you build enough emotional rapport with her,then it will be easier for you to seduce her.

Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

Remember – if you do not get enough face time with her then you won’t be able to attract her. Let that sink in a little.

One of the best ways to develop emotional rapport is to use this hypnosis technique called fractionation. Click here for a free download.

Once you win her over in the friend department, you can then start flirting with her a little bit and finally show her your true intentions. And if you think this girl is someone you want to have a serious relationship with, then becoming friends with her will also make it easier for you to make her fall in love with you.

Talk (Hypnotically).

On that note, always make it a point to approach the girl that you are eyeing and talk to her before she makes the first move. Girls love it when guys make the first move, and it would help a lot if you already have interesting subjects to talk about to make her smile and keep her entertained. Also, at the same time, weave some fractionation-laden lines into your conversation threads in order to build emotional rapport above (see the previous point).

We at SIBG.com likes Colin Simone’s Conversational Seduction philosophy, and follows it to the brim (it’s part of the new lair member’s initiation program – apart from Derek Rake’s programs). Google it!

Be Bruce Wayne.

A lot of girls would prefer to date guys who have their own lives outside of the dating game. So, if you show a girl that you preoccupy yourself with a ton of other things during your free time, then she can rest assured that you aren’t clingy and won’t demand too much of her time. This will also show her that you are mature and independent, and that you have personal goals that you do not plan to give up for her.

Socialize.

Most girls are very social, so it would help you a lot if you are a social being, too, especially if you want to impress a girl somehow. If you show a girl that you are social, then she will know that she will never get bored around you if you ever do end up going out. Don’t be shy to meet her friends or family when you start dating, either. This will definitely score you major brownie points with her.

How to make her like you - SIBG method — Once you know some covert lines then you can master any conversation with a woman when you pick her up

Use Covert Psychology Techniques.

Many guys (and competing seduction lairs) hate us for this, but we have absolutely no qualms about using what are seen as “underhanded” tactics to seduce women. With an arsenal of what’s known as “forbidden” patterns derived from underground hypnosis and persuasion knowledge. With this knowledge, we can step into any situation with quiet confidence that we can attract any woman we want, anywhere. What would you do with this power?

Covert Psychology Tactic Video

I am able to sleep at night despite using these techniques simply because I have no ill intentions towards women. Women are happier when they are attracted to me because I show them a good time.

On the other hand, if you have bad intentions towards women, and want to use these techniques to hurt women, then don’t click on the link above. Also, my lawyers have asked me to make this clear: you are responsible for your own actions from the knowledge that I share above. Don’t blame me if you get stuck in a bad situation where a woman gets super clingy and starts calling you every hour.

Thank you for understanding. :)For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

How to Start a Conversation with a Girl

October 7, 2013 By Shogun Method team 4 Comments

A lot of guys dread learning how to start a conversation with a girl, mostly because they are self-conscious or shy. Still, talking to girls is a social exercise that every guy has to learn. Fortunately, you can learn how to do this flawlessly, just by following the tips in this article.

Annoy Her. Although you never want to start a downright argument with a girl, annoying her a little bit can bring out her passionate opinions and bring about some interesting conversations. The topics that you choose to talk about will generally depend on how brave you’re feeling at the time of the conversation. It might be best to start with the basics, though, like her favorite celebrity, book or movie. Then, shake your head at her answers and laugh a little to yourself to annoy her. This actually works!
Ask for Her Opinion. Everybody has some sort of opinion about everything in life. This fact is what makes opinions such great conversation starters to begin with. If you have no idea what to ask, try coordinating your question with where you are. If you are at a supermarket, for example, ask her about her thoughts on quinoa or acai berries. Not only will this work as a great icebreaker, but if she is a health nut, then you are sure to impress her, as well.
Ask for her opinion.
Ask for Relationship Advice. If you want to get a feel for what this girl is like when it comes to relationships, but don’t want to sound threatening in any way, try asking her for relationship advice instead. Naturally, you shouldn’t make it sound like you are the one who is having relationship trouble, though. Tell her you are asking for a friend instead. Manipulate her and once you get her to talk to you, you can find out more about her feelings on relationships without being threatening or too personal. Again, everybody has some sort of opinion about everything in life. However, when you ask a girl for advice on something, she will also feel valuable and helpful at the same time.
Use a Sneaky Opening Line. Most guys use pickup lines when they approach a girl. Well, how about standing out from the rest and using a completely different line to start a conversation instead? Once you spot the girl that you like, try leaning towards the bartender and saying something like, ” I think every girl secretly likes it, to be honest.” The bartender will probably move away after that and if she is even a little interested in you, she is sure to take the bait and take the opportunity to ask what you were talking about. The best part about this tactic is that you will be sure the girl is interested in you before you try to take things further to begin with.

This is the single worst problem, no freakin’ joke.

A lot of guys are terrified of learning how to start a conversation with a girl. However, it really doesn’t need to be a scary process how can you make a woman like you if you won’t take the first step? Just follow the aforementioned tips and you should be able to get the ball rolling in no time! Specifically, if you’re looking on a pickup rampage this weekend (or if you’re looking to pick a woman up at work), read this guide.

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SIBG Guide On How to Ask a Girl Out On A Date

May 28, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Some guys find it extremely hard to ask a girl out. To others, it is something that just comes naturally. Of course, there are cases where everything just depends on the girl that is being asked, as well. Either way, though, any guy can ask a girl out, whether they do it through a text message or in person. The key merely lies in asking the girl in a way that will get her to agree to your request. Naturally, rejections are inevitable sometimes; but the way that you ask a girl really can make a difference a lot of the time.

To Plan or Not to Plan

This may sound difficult, but the expert seducer doesn’t plan things out too much. In fact, a lot of the time, it would be highly advisable not to plan things out at all. That’s what we do here in Baltimore. 🙂

While some details are important to know before asking a girl out, planning things out too much may make things seem unnatural and may cause confusion if the girl doesn’t follow the script that you had planned in your head. It would really be ideal to just go with the flow when it comes to this.

One of the things that you do need to think about beforehand, though, is where you will be taking her on the date. At the very least, you should already have some ideas in mind before you approach her. Girls generally hate hearing the words, “I don’t know” when asking guys where they will be going on a date. So, try to find out a bit more about the girl beforehand and plan it out. If she seems sporty, plan out something adventurous. If she seems more of an indoorsy type, then invite her to the movies. The most important thing, though would be to know exactly where you want to take her before asking her out. One of our lair members started this forum thread for date ideas in Baltimore – you might find it useful. And if you’re of the mature demographic then find more ideas here.

If you are having trouble figuring out what kind of girl she is for now, then stay safe and suggest something casual and fun. Remember: if you keep things simple and just aim to get to know her better during the date and nothing else, then your chances of getting her to go out with you will be much higher. And if you can’t tell whether she likes you or not, then this isn’t the right time to flirt with her. Watch a movie, go bowling or have some coffee together on your first date. You can even bring your friends if you want to ease the pressure while getting to know her. If things end up going well, then you can start planning some alone time with her in the future.

It would also be important to remember that not all girls are fond of nervous guys, which is why it would be best to ask a girl out at a time when you are feeling calm and collected. At the very least, you should seem at ease when you ask her out and don’t just jump the gun when you do it, either. Start with some small talk, laugh and smile when appropriate, and then casually say, “We should go out sometime.” when the time is right. Don’t forget to look straight into her eyes and smile when you deliver that line, either. Also, try not to anticipate a positive response. It would be best to be ready for anything, so that you won’t have any trouble dealing with rejection in case you end up disappointed. (Remember: the best way to pick up girls is to keep them in “HOT” mode.)

If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.

There are times where an opportunity to ask a girl out may present itself out of nowhere. If this happens, then you will need to act on the opportunity that is given to you right away. It would be important to make sure that you are presentable when you ask her out, though. Make sure you smell good, too, so that she warms up to the idea of going out with you and wants to get closer to you. The reasons why you want to go out with her in the first place is because you want her to like you. Make sure you look good, as well, so that the thought of spending hours on a date with you will be more appealing to her. Popping some breath mints wouldn’t hurt, either. If she hints through text, then ask her through text the nicest way possible.

Her Verdict!

As you can see, asking a girl for a date really isn’t as difficult as most guys make it out to be. However, she may already make up her mind on whether she would want to go out with you or not before you even ask her the question. So, while the manner in which you ask her could sway her decision into a favorable one for you, success may hinge on her overall interest in you before you even ask her out. To boost her interest in you even before you ask her, read this little guide.

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Getting Her To Love You – An SIBG Primer Seduction Guide

May 27, 2013 By Shogun Method team 7 Comments

Face it: it is hard to learn how to get a girl to love you. No matter what other “seduction gurus” say. It’s friggin’ hard.

Yes, it has always been hard for most guys to do, but the truth is that it doesn’t have to be. In all honesty, most guys only have a hard time because they go into the game believing that it will be hard. As such, they tend to overlook the easy and effective ways on winning a girl over.

If you have been into the dating scene for quite a while, you know that getting a girl to fall in love with you comes in steps. It starts with meeting women, then seducing them to like you. And both of them are completely different from having her fall in love with you.

If you are absolutely determined to win over the girl of your dreams, though, then you need to learn about forbidden psychology and how to use techniques of forbidden psychology to win your dream girl over. Forbidden psychology has actually been causing quite a stir in the dating world lately because of the “forbidden” word. Everyone knows that the forbidden fruit tastes great, right? Well, it should because it really works!

Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn't have to be. — Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn’t have to be.

In a nutshell, forbidden psychology refers to a collective principle that involves persuasion, hypnosis and psychology. Although it is a closely guarded secret, a lot of guys now learn about it to successfully attract the girls that they like.

Forbidden Psychology…?

Here are several forbidden psychology techniques that you can use to get any girl to fall for you:

Practice Mind Manipulation.

One easy and effective way to win over a girl would be to go through her mind. That’s right. Dominating the thoughts of a girl can bring about incredibly successful results in the dating game. All that you have to do is use contradictory responses to mess up a girl’s head and derail her initial repulsive reactions.

Create Mind Confusion.

Mind confusion literally involves messing with a girl’s mind and her thoughts. Unlike mind manipulation, though, it doesn’t involve complete mind control; just mere mind confusion. Basically, if you keep confusing a girl, thoughts of you will start to invade her mind and create a subconscious obsession with you in it. You should alternate the attracted feelings to the reserved feelings when it comes to this, too, so that you can really confuse her. A shrewd technique like this will give you might better chances of winning a girl over with mind confusion.

Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.

Create a Permanent Presence.

Another forbidden psychology technique involves creating a permanent presence in a girl’s mind. If you get this technique right, you should be able to make a girl think about you wherever she goes. If you succeed at doing this, that girl will also develop an instant attachment to you, which is great because you won’t have to do much work at all after that. The attraction and desire will just come on their own.

Stare into Her Eyes.

Just like in regular hypnosis, you can attract a girl by staring into her eyes and make her feel like you are boring into her soul by doing so. This may be a bit tricky when it comes to forbidden psychology because some girls find it rude when guys stare for too long. However, if you are having a deep conversation, you should be able to captivate her into focusing on you, too. If you do, then you can easily make her feel at ease with your staring, make her feel closer to you because of it and eventually even make her obsessed with you, too.

Incorporate Reverse Psychology Techniques.

Forbidden psychology techniques will work even better when used in conjunction with reverse psychology techniques. Have you ever noticed that women don’t usually say what they feel, but the exact opposite? That’s because women are into reverse psychology. And admit it, reverse psychology is effective! So, if you ever find yourself argon or fighting with a girl, give up and take her side every once in a while. Although this would entail giving up on a fight even when you are certain that you are right, you can make her think that she will always get her way if you do end up going out. If you think long and hard about it, this really is just a small price to pay to get a girl to fall for you.

Caution

Keep in mind that all of the unconventional psychology techniques mentioned above need to be used with the utmost caution, though. Generally speaking, any kind of psychology technique could be dangerous if overused and may even backfire if used in the wrong way.

A final note…

The good news is that seducing girls through psychology is always effective and successful if done right and in moderation. This is because girls are practically hardwired to listen to their hearts instead of their minds. So, if you follow the aforementioned techniques to a tee, you can get any girl of your choice to fall in love with you in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.