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Art of Seduction Texting – SIBG™ Guide On How To Text Her

By Shogun Method team 59 Comments

Did you finally get the cell phone number of the woman that you have been eyeing for a while? Are you on top of the world, but aren’t exactly sure how to phrase your first text to her in order to convince her to go out on a date with you in the end? Of course, you don’t want to ruin anything, right?

In this exclusive SIBG.com, you’ll learn five tips that can help you increase your chances of getting that woman to go out with you – just by seducing her through text.

Make no mistake: your smartphone is a potent seduction tool. In fact, one of the very first things that our new Baltimore Seduction Lair members learn is to how to master the art of texting. It’s that important!

Before you start, you’ll have to understand this one thing:

Given the amount of information in this guide, it’s quite easy to miss out on some important details which may cause you to fail down the line…

To help you out, I’ve prepared a (free) Action Checklist which you can download and print. Before you write a text to her, just leaf through this Action Checklist just to see if you’ve not missed out on anything important. Easy, right?

Free Action Checklist Download

Download the “How To Text A Woman” Action Checklist here. This 11-page Checklist contains everything in this guide summarized on easy-to-follow step-by-step format PLUS examples of texts not found in here in this article.

There’s one minor catch though – once you’ve downloaded the Action Checklist, kindly avoid sharing it with anyone else. It’s for you, and you only, OK?

Let’s start! 🙂

Using Mind Control In Texting

What you’ll find here (and elsewhere in SIBG.com) can be quite different from the other “seduction” blogs out there. (In fact, we have nothing in common with what’s known as Pickup Artists or PUAs).

Lisa Amber @SIBG.comHere’s what make us different –

We are huge proponents of using Mind Control in order to attract women.

This means that we do not do “Pickup Artist” stuff like dressing outlandishly (i.e. “peacocking”) or spouting pickup routines or openers on strange women. Instead, we go about ten levels deeper into the realm of female psychology in order to exploit their emotional vulnerabilities to our benefit.

And as you can imagine, this is hardly politically correct, and indeed, we have been attacked by the mainstream media (cough, Huffington Post, cough) for the longest time for our allegedly misogynistic views.

But of course, we don’t give a fuck. (And if you want to be successful with women, you should also learn not to give a fuck.)

Understand this –

Much of this material are rooted in Mind Control, and therefore it will be useful for you to get a basic understanding of how Mind Control works in seduction.

So, before you continue with the rest of this guide, first watch this online Masterclass on Mind Control conducted by Derek Rake –

Derek Rake is the founder of Shogun Method, possibly the world’s first Mind Control Seduction system ever to achieve international recognition. (Sidenote – read the Shogun Method review – it will give you an overview from a layman’s perspective.)

Seriously, go watch the Masterclass. You want the absolute best when it comes to dating and seduction knowledge, right?

Don’t worry – we can wait for you to come back. 🙂

SIBG’s Ultimate Guide To Texting – Five Tips On How To Text Her

  • Tip #1: Just Text Her Already!

There is absolutely no reason why you should overthink things or wait too long before texting a woman that you like. In fact, if a woman gives you her phone number, there will only be one reason behind it: she wants you to get in touch with her, right?

So, what are you waiting for? Remember that it’s not like you need all the right, perfect words to make her your girlfriend in an instant. Just get in touch with her, pronto! 😉

How to text a girl

Make sure you keep your text message short and sweet, though. A simple text won’t just let her know that you are thinking about her and her well-being, but it will require her to respond as well.

But caution: your first text is often the most important simply because if it sucks, then it’s practically game over for you. Therefore, you must always get this right, the first time!

To make sure that I don’t mess it up, I like to “embed” certain hypnotic phrases in my first text: it’s something that I learned from Derek Rake when I studied under him for a couple of years. I’ll tell you more about this later, but it involves using this technique called “fractionation”.

Fractionation is one of the ten “forbidden hypnotic patterns” which is often used by the experts to build emotional rapport quickly with a woman. It works well both face-to-face and over text. To find out how Fractionation works, click here for a guide.

  • Tip #2: Make Her Miss You.

Once you have started texting each other for a while, you can start to lay low eventually and stop replying to all of her texts.

This means that, if you aren’t too interested in her latest text, then don’t reply to it. Just lay low for the day and try texting her again the next day (or in two days) as if nothing had ever happened.

I know this may sound somewhat risky to you, but then again, there’s no gain if there’s no risk. Do it!

Extra credit: Use “Implanted Commands” in your texts in order to plant ideas in her mind covertly and control her emotions. See Page 6 of the free Action Checklist.

  • Tip #3: Use Emoticons or Emojis to Your Advantage.

Regardless of how playful and funny you may in real life, it may be hard to convey that playfulness and that humor through text. What you might not realize, though, is that you can use different emoticons to help you out when it comes to this.

Be creative and try inventing some of your own emoticons while you’re at it, so she can ask you about them and know exactly what message you are trying to convey to her each time.

Nice girl
She’ll wait for your text… when she becomes addicted to you!

  • Tip #4: Practice Perfect Timing.

Believe it or not, timing every text before sending it would be vital in this department.

Additionally, if she takes five minutes to reply to one of your texts, for example, you should try and time your response to five minutes after her texts, too. Ideally, you should take your time most of the time and keep her guessing if you will ever respond or not. This is sure to drive her crazy, agree?

Now, while it may be true that perfect timing can definitely help you out when seducing a woman through text, there are other things that you will need to do, too.

Try to keep busy, for instance, and meet other women on the side (read this handy guide if you need help). If you keep busy, then you won’t worry too much about whether a woman is texting you or not, right? You will just enjoy the journey overall. 🙂

Use texting to hack into her mind!

  • Tip #5: Use Implanted Commands.

Implanted Commands are Mind Control lines which are used to plant ideas inside a woman’s mind without her knowing. Usually used in verbal communications, Implanted Commands also work tremendously well over text (with some modifications).

For some sample Implanted Command lines which you can “copy and paste” and use over text, watch this YouTube video –

  • Tip #6: Use Fractionation.

Earlier in this guide I had mentioned about using Fractionation over text. I have reserved this technique to the end because if you’ve read this far, you deserve this. 🙂

While most acknowledge the power of Fractionation when used in face-to-face situations, some are downright skeptical on whether the technique could be used effectively over text.

Here’s the good news:

We have tested this over 1,000 interactions with women, and the answer is a resounding YES. Women seem to be wired the same way everywhere, and it seems that they respond to “embedded hypnotic commands” rather well too when delivered over text.

This means that we recommend using Fractionation over text (and also through email and Facebook messages if you are wondering). Now if you are still unfamiliar with the technique, download this free guide here –

check this out

▶ ▶ SIBG Guide To Fractionation ◀ ◀

It’s required reading (and watching) for all the members in the Baltimore Seduction Lair. Go check it out and you’ll know why.

Matt Ganz SIBG

-Matthew Ganz, founder, Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG.com)

PS: If you’ve got any questions regarding this guide, just leave me a message below and I will email you back. 🙂

How To Seduce A Woman From Another Man

By Shogun Method team 14 Comments

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Before you learn how to seduce a woman from another man, you need to know one thing: this isn’t the best thing for every man to do. In fact, some people might frown upon the practice of stealing another man’s woman altogether.

However, if you are pretty open-minded and simply cannot imagine your life without this woman in your life, then you can learn how to attract her in order to seduce her and steal her from under that man’s eyes here. Keep reading.

The first thing that you need to do is focus on her current boyfriend’s weaknesses. A lot of men out there try to focus on their opponent’s strengths and do their best to outdo them, but that really wouldn’t be a good strategy. After all, if her boyfriend is good at something, then he might be really good at it. If you try to beat him at something that he’s already great at, then you might just fail and end up looking like a try-hard while you’re at it.

To avoid this, what you have to do instead is find out what his weaknesses are, especially in terms of their relationship. No man is perfect, after all, so find out what he is lacking and what he cannot give her. Of course, this will involve taking a closer look at their relationship and delving into your dream girl’s mind, but it will definitely be worth all of the torture in the end if you can get some information out of it.

At this point: if you’re still not that well-versed in the art of the pickup, click here.

Listening Skills Are Imperative To Your Success

A lot of men tend to suck at listening to women’s needs or just listening to them in conversations for that matter. So, if you realize that her boyfriend isn’t giving her the deep emotional bond that every woman craves, then you can get right in there and steal her from him with ease.

What you basically have to do is concentrate on any of his weaknesses and give her what he can’t. Women constantly compare men with their boyfriends, so this is sure to work in your favor if you do it right. Just make sure you do it subtly and make sure she doesn’t know what you are up to; otherwise, she might just avoid you altogether.

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This is actually very important to note because you shouldn’t be blunt about this when you are eyeing to approach a woman who already has a boyfriend. Regardless of how great you think you are or how confident you might, telling her straight up that you like her will make her disappear from your sight right away.

Watch this video for killer boyfriend destroyer tactics –

Putting Her In The Driving Seat

The truth is women don’t like being put in a moral position, in general, and they don’t like making difficult decisions, either. If you do force her into making a decision, then she is sure to choose the easier and more comfortable position: the one she is currently in. So, go for the more subtle process of winning her over instead. You definitely won’t regret it!

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

How To Take Back Control In A Relationship

By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

OK, so here’s the deal, buddy…

If you’re having problems with your woman, then feel assured that you’re not alone. We’ve all been there before! Relationship problems are only to be expected because of one very simple thing… women naturally have lots of emotional and psychological problems which spill over to us guys, no matter whether we like it or not!

There’s some good news, however. Because these problems are so common, there are proven solutions that other guys have come up with that you can readily use in your own situation.

So, if you want to take back control in your relationship, this short video may just be the most important couple of minutes that you’re going to spend watching this year.

Are you excited yet? Good! 🙂 Let’s go!

Check this vide0 :-

No Risk, No Gain

I gotta warn you though… the tactic I am going to share with you here can seem to be a little risky.

Take back control over her!Indeed, if you’re having minor problems with your girlfriend then the tactic I am going to share with can seem to be overkill. In that case, opt for something like our Seduction 101 techniques instead.

However, if your relationship is going to the pits and your girlfriend or wife has been pussywhipping you like a little wimp then what I am going to share with you will turn things around for you.

Here’s how the tactic works. In order to regain the power and dominance in your relationship, you’ve got to use this tactic called the “Fake Dump” on your woman.

You might have already guessed from the name of the tactic but I’m going to describe it to you anyhow.

In order to make her compliant to you and your wishes, you’ll threaten to dump her.

Now do you see why this is risky? If you overdo it, you might just push her over the brink and beyond the point of no return…

However, if you know to do exactly then your risk of screwing up is pretty much minimal. So, I’d encourage you to give it a try. After all, you stand to gain so much if you succeed (think of eternal control and domination over your woman!).

I do have to put out this disclaimer however; whatever you choose to do with this knowledge is entirely your responsibility.

Agree?

OK, great!

“Fake Dump” In Three Simple Steps

Here’s how the “Fake Dump” method works in three simple steps. The first step is to go completely cold towards her.

This means that without prior warning, you abruptly change your behavior to be completely nonchalant to her.

Start answering her questions with simple “yes” or “no” responses. At times, ignore her altogether.

This will piss her off, and depending how much of a control freak she is, she might go completely ballistic. When this happens, hang in there because that’s a good sign of progress. On the other hand, you should be concerned if she doesn’t care that you’ve turned cold towards her.

The second step is to tell her that you need some time “away” from her. Convey this message to her via a text message. Expect her to go from angry to batshit insane. Again, this is normal.

Ignore all her desperate calls and messages to you for at least 24 hours. She will want to see you to dish things out, face-to-face. Then, after 24 hours, pretend to “agree” to her request, and arrange a meeting at somewhere quiet.

NOTE: It’s important to take the “24 hour” breather because it takes one full day for a woman’s anger and confusion to turn into sheer desperation.

Remember that when she’s desperate, you’ll be able to exploit her emotional vulnerability to your advantage.

When you see her face-to-face, she’ll be at the brink of a mental breakdown and in desperation, she would do anything to end her misery. Of course, it’s tempted to just “give in” and end her ordeal there and then…

That, my friend, would be one bad, bad mistake. Once you give in, she would revert back to the controlling bitch she once was, and from then onward, you would be pussywhipped for life.

Don’t do it!

Instead, you should strengthen your resolve and finish off what you’ve started. Seal the deal with the third and the final step: use the legendary Fractionation on her!

Of course, Fractionation is the cornerstone of what SIBG.com teaches, and if you’re not familiar with it, attend the online Masterclass by going here. Remember to put in your best email address so that we can email you the link to the Masterclass.

Best of luck!

Matt Ganz SIBG

How To Take Back Control Of Your Marriage

By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Here’s something very important that I’d like to point out. The method that I am going to suggest here may not be suitable for everybody. In fact, it can be overkill in most cases!

Before you continue, this is what you need to know. If you’re having trivial problems in your marriage, there’s absolutely no need to resort to the kind of technique that I am going to show you in this short article.

You’ll understand exactly why as you learn this technique below. Anyhow, just keep an open mind and see what I’ve got to share with you.

And if you decide to use this technique, you must promise to do so at your own risk. We simply cannot be responsible in any way for the actions that you choose to take from learning this technique.

Promise?

Great. 🙂 Now, let’s start!

Watch this video :-

First of all, understand this. If you’re having problems in your marriage, you’re not alone.

Marriage problems are more like the norm these days. You’ll be hard-pressed to find a married couple which is completely devoid of conflict.

The good news is that because these problems are so common that there are already tried-and-tested solutions to them which you can easily use in your own situation.

What I am about to share with you is somewhat unconventional and indeed, it is a little risky.

The exciting thing is that we’ve tested this technique over and over and over again among the members in our private client group, and it never failed to give us the results that we wanted. It’s really that powerful!

Of course, your own results may vary, but pay attention and hear me out so that you can see if you can make it work in your situation, alright?

Here we go!

How To Take Control In Your Relationship: Use The “Faux Breakup” Tactic!

In order to regain control of your marriage and make your wife listen and obey you again, you’ve got to use this Mind Control technique called “Faux Breakup” on her.

As its namesake implies, you’ll fake a breakup threat until she behaves again. Like I said, this can be risky, but if you follow these steps closely then you’ll do fine.

Step #1: Go Cold

The first step is to slowly turn cold against her.

Don’t talk to her unless she talks to you first. And when she asks you about anything, reply with a one-word answer, or occasionally ignore her completely.

At all times, be as nonchalant as possible. And if she asks you if anything is wrong, just say: “Nothing.” Don’t elaborate even though it makes her (and you) uncomfortable.

If you do this correctly, she will first be pissed off, and then become concerned, and finally be driven completely nuts by your nonchalance.

You’re not done, of course. I want you to twist the knife by going away from her, and then text her:

“I want to take some time off.”

It’s important that you text instead of calling her. Upon seeing your text, expect her to try to call you frantically. Don’t be surprised if she goes completely nuts.

She will want to see you to “talk things over” and “sort things out”. For some reason, women like to talk shit out over everything. Ignore her completely. Trust me on this. Switch off your phone if necessary.

Step #2: Bait Her.

Then, take the second step. In 24 hours from the time you send her the “timeoff” text, send her another:

“OK, let’s meet.”

It’s important to do this in 24 hours and not earlier because you want her anger and confusion to turn to sheer desperation. It takes a woman one full day to turn from angry to desperate for some reason.

When she becomes desperate, you’ll reach the turning point in your marriage where you’ll be the one who is going to be the dominant partner. So, when you start receiving texts from her begging to see you then you know that you’re at the verge of winning the game!

So here’s what you need to do next…

Arrange a meeting at home where both of you can be on your own together. This is important because you’ll use a Mind Control technique on her that will seal the deal for you and turn her into a docile little kitten forever.

Continue reading…

Step #3: Seal The Deal With The “F” Technique!

When you see her, chances are that she will throw her into your arms and beg for you to stay. I must warn you NOT to fall into this trap because once you give in, you’ll never gain control in your marriage.

Don’t make that mistake!

Instead, take the third and final step to seal the deal… by using Fractionation on her.

If you’re familiar with Mind Control seduction techniques then you should already know how powerful it is to make a woman completely subservient to you…

… but if you’re not, then just know that with Fractionation, you’ll be able to access a woman’s mental and psychological vulnerabilities so that she becomes emotionally enslaved to you for life.

Here’s how Fractionation works in three simple steps:

  1. You make her feel happy by making her recall a past experience that made her feel happy.
  2. Similarly, you make her feel sad by making her recall a past experience that made her feel sad.
  3. Repeat the cycle.

What you’re doing is to make her go through an emotional roller coaster by getting her to feel both happiness and sadness repeatedly. This causes her emotions to be confused, making her vulnerable to suggestions that you make that will be accepted by her subconscious mind without question.

Once she is vulnerable, you’ll then get her to be emotionally addicted to you so that she will need you to survive like she needs air to breathe. When that happens, you will be putting her under your control and dominance for as long as you want!

Of course, Fractionation is more than what I’ve just described to you. For a free resource on how to use Fractionation and other Mind Control attraction techniques to make a woman subservient to you forever, click on this link below:

Mind Control Masterclass (Register Here)

Good luck!

How To Dominate A Woman (And Own Her Soul Completely)

By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Look, I gotta first put this disclaimer out. I am NOT a woman hater.

If anything, I’m women’s biggest fan. If not, why would I write so many articles teaching men how to make women want them, right? 😉

Now that I’ve convinced you that I’m not a misogynist, I’ll share with you a method with which you can dominate a woman and own her soul completely.

Here’s the fundamental truth about women…

In order to be truly happy in a relationship, women naturally want to be dominated.

Psychologically, women are programmed by nature to want to be led when it comes to love and relationships.  Women don’t want a subservient wimp as their partners.

Does that make sense to you?

Once you’ve dominated a woman and put her under your control, she will be a happier person, and better still, you’ll stop getting pussywhipped by her. So, you’re really killing two birds with one stone here.

Sounds great, right?

So, now let’s talk about how you can turn a woman from a ferocious lioness into a docile little kitten, shall we?

Before anything, forget about using stupid Pickup Artist tricks that only work on young, impressionable teenagers. In order to dominate a woman and completely make her subservient to you, you’ll need more powerful…

… like industrial strength Mind Control.

Check out this video :-

How To Dominate A Woman: By Exploiting Her “Hidden Addictions”

I’ll share with you one simple Mind Control technique which will make you powerful over women in a short while, but for now, let’s switch gears a bit and talk about the concept of “Hidden Addictions” inside a woman’s brain.

You see, the only way you can make a woman obey you completely is to exploit her emotional vulnerability. And it turns out that every woman is vulnerable emotionally in one specific way:

She has got a hidden addiction to drama and emotional rollercoasters.

Ever wondered why women seem to be attracted (and addicted) to soap operas, chick flicks and Mills & Boon romance novels?

The answer’s simple: those TV shows and books make the viewer or reader go through emotional trips consisting of ups and downs which happen in an unpredictable and irregular manner.

The good news is that you can replicate this effect and make a woman emotionally addicted to you using the same method. This means that all you need to do is to bring her through an emotional trip of ups and downs in an unpredictable and irregular manner.

Do you see what I am getting at here?

Here’s the exciting part, and so please pay attention!

Using a Mind Control technique called Fractionation, you can easily tell stories that will bring a woman through an emotional rollercoaster which then gets her addicted to you emotionally.

Control Her Mind And Emotions By Putting Her On A Rollercoaster

Here’s how Fractionation works…

The first step is to ask her about a past incident that made her feel especially happy. For example, you can ask her:

“Do you remember something that has happened in the past that made you feel especially happy?”

When she said yes, ask her to share with you the specifics, and more importantly, how she felt at that time. Get her to re-experience that memory and feel happy.

Then, immediately switch mode and ask her about a past incident that made her feel especially sad or depressed. For example, ask her:

“Do you remember something that has happened in the past that made you feel especially sad?”

Similarly, ask her about the specifics of that memory, and get her to re-experience that depressing incident.

Then, ask her about a happy or positive experience again. Rinse and repeat

See how simple it is?

With enough positive and negative cycles, she will soon start to develop an emotional connection to you, and her brain will soon be addicted to you – just like how she’s addicted to soap operas and chick flicks. It’s that easy!

Now do you see why a Mind Control technique like Fractionation works so well when compared to the lightweight Pickup Artist stuff?

Mind Control Is Not Child’s Play

I’ll make something clear: I did not invent Fractionation.

Most people think that Fractionation came from Derek Rake, but he himself had made it clear that it did not come from him (read this review about Derek Rake which I had written some time ago).

Fractionation in seduction is adapted from an age-old hypnosis technique which has been used regularly by hypnotherapists to make their clients fall into trance quickly.

(Using Fractionation, you’re essentially putting a woman into trance by making her go through an emotional roller coaster.)

On the downside, this technique can be abused because as you can see, it can pretty much mess a woman’s emotions up, and possibly damage it for the long term.

In fact, there was a time when some “rogue” students of Derek (and followers of his flagship program the Shogun Method) went on a rampage to use Fractionation indiscriminately on women, leaving behind a trail of messed up individuals with damaged psyche.

While I hope he continues to teach this technique (let’s face it – guys badly need the upperhand when it comes to dating), he has started being careful to who he gives access to this technique to.

Here’s some good news…

If you want to learn how to use Mind Control to dominate a woman and be completely subservient to you, watch this online Masterclass conducted by Derek himself –

Female Enslavement Masterclass (Apply Here)

On that page, you’ll need to enter your email address so that we can qualify you (yes, we keep a database of emails of known psychopaths based on their Facebook profiles!).

Then, go to your email inbox to see if there’s an invite. Remember also to check your Spam folder just in case the invite lands there.

If you don’t find the invite in a couple of minutes, it means that you’re not qualified, or we have taken the Masterclass offline. Thank you for understanding!

My best,

Matt Ganz SIBG

Click Here For A Free Fractionation Masterclass (Learn How To Enslave A Woman Emotionally!)