A lot of guys want to learn how to pick up girls successfully. While there are some guys out there who don’t have any trouble doing so, the majority of them still can’t seem to get it right and just end up making complete fools of themselves every time that they try to approach one.
The truth is that it can be exciting and fun to pick up girls, though. I tell my fellow sargers in the Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG) the following points:-
Preparation is key.
Gorgeous girls are everywhere – remember that. This means that you could run into one anywhere, whether you are shopping, going for a jog in the park, working at the office, doing a bank transaction or even walking your dog.
Believe it or not, the best pickups actually happen when you least expect them to because girls don’t expect them to, either. As such, it would be vital for you to always be prepared with some small talk that could result in an exchange of phone numbers and, in return, a potential date.
We here at the Baltimore Seduction Lair do our best to equip our members with the necessary preparation before we let them loose on the streets of Baltimore. 🙂 If you’re thinking of joining us, then you should expect some rigorous preparation in the form of a seduction bootcamp (which includes talks from experts such as Derek Rake – more on this later).
Pickup lines aren’t helpful.
Although it would be important for you to always be prepared, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you should always have pickup lines ready for the occasion. They say that a pickup line is one of the best ways to flirt with a girl, but in fact– relying too much on pickup lines to attract girls means you will need to be prepared for is the slew of eye rolls that you are sure to get from the girls that you approach.
If you would rather avoid getting laughed at and rejected by girls when you ask them out, then ditch those stupid pickup lines and just focus on starting a casual conversation instead. If she takes the bait and keeps talking to you, then listen to everything that she has to say.
But of course, you will need some ammunition that will help you make that conversation as “casual” and harmless as possible. To do this, you will need to consciously build rapport with her with a variety of techniques – the best of the lot being fractionation (find out more about this technique here).
Respect is important.
When picking up a girl, respect would be of the utmost essence. By the way, being respectful to women is the key prerequisite to entry to the hallowed halls of the Baltimore Seduction Lair. 🙂
Since you might not know this girl very well yet, you will want to make sure that you only use polite language and only touch on subjects that won’t be deemed as offensive or crude. If you can do that, keep her interested, and make her smile and laugh while your conversation goes on all at the same time; then you are sure to succeed with your plans in the end.
Lies are never a good idea.
If you want to pick up a girl, then you should never lie to her to win her over.
Just be open about your overall intentions. If you aren’t looking for a long-term relationship and just want to have some fun, for example, then let her know that. This doesn’t mean that you should be completely blunt with her, though; just be honest. Seducing a woman should not go hand-in-hand with lies. In other words, don’t just tell her that you only want to sleep with her and nothing more.
Subtlety would still be helpful here, but make sure you are clear about your intentions in ways that won’t demean the girl that you are talking to.
Care about your looks.
This may sound superficial, but your looks will play a huge role in whether or not you will win a girl over.
After all, a person’s looks tends to reflect their overall attitude and personality. Besides, girls like looking at handsome guys, in general, so they are sure to entertain you more if you pay attention to your looks and your clothes, even when you are just out shopping for groceries.
WARNING: steer clear of wannabe seduction gurus who tell you that looks don’t matter. Hogwash. No self-respecting women will want to go out with a slob.
Rejection is a part of the game.
Even if you master all of the seduction techniques available here on SIBG.com, it is inevitable to still get rejected by a girl once in a while. A girl may already be spoken for, for instance, so you have to be ready for a blow like that when the time comes.
The hardest part of rejection is learning to accept it with grace and not to be ashamed of it. However, once you do, then nothing will stand in your way of picking up girls in the future anymore.
Regardless of what happens each time you try to pick up a girl, chalk it up to experience and do not give up, even if you are rejected more than entertained.
Grab every opportunity to meet women as much as possible. It would be very helpful to analyze all of your pickups, as well, to find certain flaws that you can fix as time goes by. By learning from your mistakes and by improving on your past attempts, you can actually improve your overall game and get much better at picking up girls in no time.
- Use covert “female psychology” tactics.
Let’s face it – dating is war. And to win, I am not too concerned with the “rights or wrongs” about using certain techniques. Many guys stand against using “female loophole” techniques, but I am fine with those tactics since I do not have the intention of harming women.
As such, I recommend that you use these techniques because if you don’t, your competitors will. On how to get started on using covert psychology techniques in seduction, click on this link below –
And as always, our lawyers have asked us to say this: you are responsible for your own actions, and so, don’t sue us if you find women stalking you. 😉
Now go get ’em!