Just last week I met up with a mentee of mine (let’s call him John) who writhed to me, “Matt, I’ve been played.” He then complained about the frequent mind games that his woman played on him, and how he got driven to the edge of his sanity from these mind games.
I empathized with John because I was in a similar position many years ago… way before I founded the Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG.com) of course.
Over the years, I’ve come to this one very important realization – regardless of whether a man is just dating around or is in a serious relationship with a woman –
A man needs to know how to beat a woman’s mind games if he doesn’t want to be stepped over by women all his life.
The sad fact is that women play mind games all the time when they want to get men to do things that they want or need. Often, they make men jump through hoops just to feel validated and powerful.
Fortunately in some cases, they use methods that are piss easy to spot: like playing hard-to-get or just blatantly using you. These should be treated as red flags that you should always try to spot.
So the bottom line is this: you should never fall prey to a woman’s mind games under any circumstance.
And in this guide, we’ll show you how to do just that.
You’ll discover how to regain all your power back in the relationship, and save yourself from any potential embarrassment from getting pussywhipped by your woman.
Trust me: there’s nothing worse than getting controlled and dominated by a woman in a relationship!
Want to find out what the most common female mind games are and how you can beat them with ease? Keep reading…
Before You Start…
Before you continue with this article, there’s one important thing that you must know, and it is this…
Most of the time when you read an article online, you’ll probably just breeze through the content without taking any concrete action from it.
I want you to know that it’s NOT your fault. Most content that you find online is not that “actionable” anyway, right?
This SIBG guide, however, is different. It has concrete, step-by-step action steps for you to take in order to improve your skills.
After all, let’s not kid ourselves here. “Learning” without applying what you have learned is pretty darn useless, isn’t it?
To help you apply the things that you’re going to learn here in this guide, I’ve developed a beautiful Action Checklist for you to download and use.
In the Action Checklist (downloadable in PDF format), you’ll find everything in this guide in clear, step-by-step format which you can use to immediately use dating life to see quick, positive results in your dating life. Cool, right?
To download the Action Checklist, click on this link below.
In the Action Checklist, there’s also an extra bonus tactic which is not found in this article. Check it out!
As I’ve originally developed this Action Checklist for the members of the Baltimore Seduction Lair only, kindly avoid sharing it with anyone else, alright?
After you’ve downloaded the Action Checklist, continue with the rest of this guide, OK?
Using Mind Control To Beat A Woman’s Mind Games
Let’s quickly cut to the chase and get into the gist of this guide:
There’s only one way to beat a woman’s mind games, and it is this: use Mind Control on her.
Of course, not many will agree with me for two major reasons – (1) that Mind Control is “immoral”, and (2) that it could potentially damage a woman’s psyche if used irresponsibly.
My response to that is pretty simple:
- Your “morality” is none of my business. My job is to tell you what works, not what’s deemed to be morally acceptable by the society.
- It’s up to you to control the “damage” that you will inflict on a woman. As with any weapon or tool, it’s up to the you to use it for good, or for harm.
Therefore, if you have no moral objections to using Mind Control, and you’ll promise to use the techniques responsibly, then the path in front of you is clear.
Learn the foundations of Mind Control in this online Masterclass by Derek Rake, the founder of Shogun Method (possibly the best known Mind Control seduction system on the planet). Enter your email address here –
Seriously, watch the Masterclass. It changed my entire perspective on dating and seducing women for the better, and it had shaped me into what I am today, no freakin’ joke.
When you’re done with the Masterclass, continue below…
The Game of Jealousy
Here are some surefire signs that you are being played:
- She talks with other men in front of you and openly flirts with them
- She praises other men in front of you and others (especially among her friends and family members)
- She comments on highly inappropriate things about other men (“he must be great in bed!”)
Yes, women pull that kind of crap all the time.
Have you wondered why?
Simple, really. She will intentionally try to make you jealous because she knows that you will end up trying harder to impress her when you do so.
(This is one of the reasons why she might start playing hard-to-get as well. Really fucked up if you think about it, right?)
The best way to beat this game is simple…
…don’t react to anything she says.
Regardless of how over-the-top her praises (to other men) might be, you shouldn’t show her that you are affected by them.
Keep a poker face, and stay stoic all the time.
Here’s the deal…
If you remain confident in your skin and show minimum reaction to what she says, she will eventually grow tired of her game (it’s just a matter of time before she gives up.)
And when that happens, she will realize that you aren’t affected by petty things like jealousy anymore.
Heck, she may even stop playing mind games altogether if she doesn’t get any response from you.
Remember… it’s all a ploy to get you to react to her. Beat her at her own game by being indifferent.
The Game of Disrespect
Every couple will go through a time where disrespect is the main problem.
(Indeed, this is one of the biggest sticking points of newbies who just joined the Baltimore Lair).
You see, when a relationship starts, everything is hunky dory. (Enjoy that while it lasts!)
However, every relationship will soon reach a stage where the woman would want to prove that she has the upper hand. This is the point where there will be a tussle for control and dominance in the relationship.
And when this happens, women want to prove that they still have the upper hand in the relationship.
So, what’s the best way to beat the Game of Disrespect then?
Simple, really – it would be to let her know that you value self-respect more than anything else. Yes, this means that she becomes secondary to your own self-respect.
And once you open her eyes to this simple fact, she is sure to drop the game and run back into your arms again. Why? Because then she will be afraid to lose you (but only if you play your cards right.)
So, if you want to learn how to beat a woman’s mind games, you either have to ignore her completely or be blunt with her.
Heck, you should even scare her a little bit if you can.
Remember: women only play these games because they are craving attention. If you stop giving them attention, the mind games will stop.
If you call her out with confidence, stand firm and show her that you won’t tolerate any of that nonsense, she is sure to stop the game altogether…
…or if you don’t, then the cycle will simply keep on going without end.
What if she doesn’t yield? Well, who fucking cares? Just tool up on your pickup and seduction techniques (read our legendary Art Of The Pickup guide) and you won’t be shortage of women throwing themselves at you. Truth!
Turning The Tables: Playing Mind Games On Her
Think about it: why not let a woman have a taste of her own medicine? After all, there’s nothing stopping you from playing mind games on her, right?
In fact, we have found that for guys who are stuck in the dreaded friend zone, playing mind games is the surest way to get out, bar none.
Watch this short YouTube video to find out how to get out of the friend zone using the “Reverse LJBF” tactic:
The word-for-word scripts can be found on pages 7 to 9 of the Action Checklist (download for free here.)
The Ultimate Cure-All
Through our experience of coaching men in the Baltimore Lair more the last 16 years, we have come to know this: a potent combination of Jealousy and Disrespect usually marks the end of the seducer.
Remember this because it’s utmost important!
When a woman starts to play mind games on you: it’s a sign that she’s taking control of the relationship. And that’s also the beginning of the end if you don’t solve the problem immediately.
It’s possible to recover, of course, but it’s a steep mountain to climb. Problems like women mind games are best nipped in the bud.
Take heart, however, because there’s a solution.
It’s not a “magic pill”, but if you do it correctly, women mind games will be a thing of the past. And if you do things correctly, she will completely transform into a docile little kitten yearning for your control and domination.
This solution is Fractionation – which you may already know as the “grand daddy” of all Mind Control seduction techniques. Indeed, once you mastered this technique you will be able to know exactly what and how a woman thinks – and this is tremendous advantage to any seducer. It’s like having an X-Ray vision into the female mind.
We are, however, aware that the Fractionation technique can be horribly MISUSED (we have had a “rogue” SIBG.com member who created a legion of women stalking him), and as such, we would like to ask you to USE THE TECHNIQUE RESPONSIBLY.
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Finally remember: YOU GOTTA FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE!
-Matthew “Cougar Hunter” Ganz, founder, Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG.com)
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