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SIBG On How to Make a Woman Like You

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Playful Couple
Everyone needs someone.

No matter how manly a man may seem, he will always need some love in his life. Even loners want to find someone special who can truly understand them – and that’s the truth. Unfortunately, knowing how to start a relationship with a woman isn’t exactly easy. So, if you have no idea how to make a woman like you or even how to approach a woman to begin with, before reading the Flirting 101 just make sure you read to the end of this article.

Easy ways to make her like you !

If you currently feel like you cannot control the way that women see you, then you need to open your eyes and face the truth that you can make women attracted to you. After getting a girl’s number, you just need to follow the three tips below. Believe it or not, it’s as easy as that!

  • Tip Number One: Do not buy her off. Contrary to popular belief, buying a woman drink after drink after drink and showering her with gifts will not help out your cause at all. While women do like getting free stuff, this plan might backfire if they end up feeling like you are buying them off or pressuring them to date you because of how much money you spent on them.

    Socialite
    Make friends and socialite.
  • Tip Number Two: Work on your social proof. When women see men having fun at a party, in general, they immediately assume that those men are fun to be with overall. So, if you want to catch a woman’s attention the next time you are out, take things up a notch and start talking to more people and laughing with them. Besides, women tend to feel much more comfortable hanging out and talking to men after seeing them successfully making other women laugh before them. So, if you want to make women like you, you need to work on your social proof and show them that you are a socially accepted human being, in general.
  • Tip Number Three: Make yourself scarce. Before you even read what this tip has to say, you should know that being too available to women will do much more harm than good in this department. Just think about all of the times you begged for a woman’s phone number. You probably never got their number in the end, did you?

huggingThis is simply the way that women think. If you watch women when they are shopping, you will instantly come to notice that they tend to be much more attracted to expensive brands that they can hardly afford and actually steer completely clear from the items that are cheap and easily available to them. This is basically just because items that are more available look far less valuable in women’s eyes.
So, if you meet a woman at a bar and she asks you how often you go there, don’t admit that you practically hang out there everyday. Say that you only go there once a week, control and dominate women just make her go crazy over you. This will pressure her into finding other ways to connect with you and turn things over in your favor. Alternatively, you can also tease her and bust her chops like this.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG Guide To Getting A Girl’s Number

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

If you want to learn how to get a girl’s number, the first thing you have to do is learn how to build rapport. If you don’t, you won’t be able to conquer a woman’s heart and reach your end goal at all.

girl texting
Get her number.

Impress her with this easy steps!

Best way is to build your rapport first with the combination of the best way to chat with women. To learn how to build rapport with a girl, just follow these easy steps:

  • Let Her Talk. Maintain eye contact with every girl that you talk to and listen to everything that she has to say. Take in all of her words and react accordingly. The important thing here would be to let her talk as much as she wants to, though; otherwise, she won’t feel any rapport from you at all. If she doesn’t seem to like to talk much, then watch out for signs that signal towards her interests and pay close attention to what she says with her gestures and eyes instead of her words. See this article from Jezebel.com.
  • Listen Actively. Pay close attention to all of the conversations that you touch on in your conversations, so that you can expand on them later on. Paying attention will also help you come up with relevant and interesting questions once your conversations seem to die down. – Expound on Any Similarities. Whenever a girl shares a story, you will most probably be able to relate to it because of something similar that you have experienced before or would be interested in doing yourself in the future. Believe it or not, this will build rapport with her and can, in turn, help you get her number. If she talks about a trip that she enjoyed, for example, and you listen, react and share a similar experience with her in an excited and passionate way; she will automatically start feeling more comfortable around you and feel like she has known you for a long time, even if you have just met.

    get her number
    Ask for her number.
  • Actually Ask For Her Number. Naturally, the final results will only come to fruition after you ask a girl for her number. This shouldn’t be a problem if you effectively built rapport with her beforehand, though. If you are worried about how you should ask for the number, then use the previous tip and bring it up when she mentions something that you are interested in. If she mentions trekking, for example, say “We should trek together sometime.” Sometimes, the girl might even bring this up herself and when she does, you can ask for her digits right away.

So, if you really want to learn how to get a girl’s number, get rid of all of the preconceived notions in your head that have been placed in their from other guys and useless movie scenarios. Aside from feeling attracted to you, girls have to be comfortable in your presence before they will give you their numbers, make a girl go crazy over you! The only difficult part is developing that comfort and bringing some confidence into the mix at the same time. If you stay true to yourself and follow the tips above, though, you shouldn’t have much trouble getting your dream girl’s number in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG Guide On How to Ask a Girl Out On A Date

May 28, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Some guys find it extremely hard to ask a girl out. To others, it is something that just comes naturally. Of course, there are cases where everything just depends on the girl that is being asked, as well. Either way, though, any guy can ask a girl out, whether they do it through a text message or in person. The key merely lies in asking the girl in a way that will get her to agree to your request. Naturally, rejections are inevitable sometimes; but the way that you ask a girl really can make a difference a lot of the time.

To Plan or Not to Plan

This may sound difficult, but the expert seducer doesn’t plan things out too much. In fact, a lot of the time, it would be highly advisable not to plan things out at all. That’s what we do here in Baltimore. 🙂

While some details are important to know before asking a girl out, planning things out too much may make things seem unnatural and may cause confusion if the girl doesn’t follow the script that you had planned in your head. It would really be ideal to just go with the flow when it comes to this.

  • One of the things that you do need to think about beforehand, though, is where you will be taking her on the date. At the very least, you should already have some ideas in mind before you approach her. Girls generally hate hearing the words, “I don’t know” when asking guys where they will be going on a date. So, try to find out a bit more about the girl beforehand and plan it out. If she seems sporty, plan out something adventurous. If she seems more of an indoorsy type, then invite her to the movies. The most important thing, though would be to know exactly where you want to take her before asking her out. One of our lair members started this forum thread for date ideas in Baltimore – you might find it useful. And if you’re of the mature demographic then find more ideas here.
  • If you are having trouble figuring out what kind of girl she is for now, then stay safe and suggest something casual and fun. Remember: if you keep things simple and just aim to get to know her better during the date and nothing else, then your chances of getting her to go out with you will be much higher. And if you can’t tell whether she likes you or not, then this isn’t the right time to flirt with her. Watch a movie, go bowling or have some coffee together on your first date. You can even bring your friends if you want to ease the pressure while getting to know her. If things end up going well, then you can start planning some alone time with her in the future.
  • It would also be important to remember that not all girls are fond of nervous guys, which is why it would be best to ask a girl out at a time when you are feeling calm and collected. At the very least, you should seem at ease when you ask her out and don’t just jump the gun when you do it, either. Start with some small talk, laugh and smile when appropriate, and then casually say, “We should go out sometime.” when the time is right. Don’t forget to look straight into her eyes and smile when you deliver that line, either. Also, try not to anticipate a positive response. It would be best to be ready for anything, so that you won’t have any trouble dealing with rejection in case you end up disappointed. (Remember: the best way to pick up girls is to keep them in “HOT” mode.)

If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.
If she hints through text, then you may ask her through text nicely.

  • There are times where an opportunity to ask a girl out may present itself out of nowhere. If this happens, then you will need to act on the opportunity that is given to you right away. It would be important to make sure that you are presentable when you ask her out, though. Make sure you smell good, too, so that she warms up to the idea of going out with you and wants to get closer to you. The reasons why you want to go out with her in the first place is because you want her to like you. Make sure you look good, as well, so that the thought of spending hours on a date with you will be more appealing to her. Popping some breath mints wouldn’t hurt, either. If she hints through text, then ask her through text the nicest way possible.

Her Verdict!

As you can see, asking a girl for a date really isn’t as difficult as most guys make it out to be. However, she may already make up her mind on whether she would want to go out with you or not before you even ask her the question. So, while the manner in which you ask her could sway her decision into a favorable one for you, success may hinge on her overall interest in you before you even ask her out. To boost her interest in you even before you ask her, read this little guide.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Getting Her To Love You – An SIBG Primer Seduction Guide

May 27, 2013 By Shogun Method team 7 Comments

Face it: it is hard to learn how to get a girl to love you. No matter what other “seduction gurus” say. It’s friggin’ hard.

Yes, it has always been hard for most guys to do, but the truth is that it doesn’t have to be. In all honesty, most guys only have a hard time because they go into the game believing that it will be hard. As such, they tend to overlook the easy and effective ways on winning a girl over.

If you have been into the dating scene for quite a while, you know that getting a girl to fall in love with you comes in steps. It starts with meeting women, then seducing them to like you. And both of them are completely different from having her fall in love with you.

If you are absolutely determined to win over the girl of your dreams, though, then you need to learn about forbidden psychology and how to use techniques of forbidden psychology to win your dream girl over. Forbidden psychology has actually been causing quite a stir in the dating world lately because of the “forbidden” word. Everyone knows that the forbidden fruit tastes great, right? Well, it should because it really works!

Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn't have to be.
Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn’t have to be.

In a nutshell, forbidden psychology refers to a collective principle that involves persuasion, hypnosis and psychology. Although it is a closely guarded secret, a lot of guys now learn about it to successfully attract the girls that they like.

Forbidden Psychology…?

Here are several forbidden psychology techniques that you can use to get any girl to fall for you:

  • Practice Mind Manipulation.

One easy and effective way to win over a girl would be to go through her mind. That’s right. Dominating the thoughts of a girl can bring about incredibly successful results in the dating game. All that you have to do is use contradictory responses to mess up a girl’s head and derail her initial repulsive reactions.

  • Create Mind Confusion.

Mind confusion literally involves messing with a girl’s mind and her thoughts. Unlike mind manipulation, though, it doesn’t involve complete mind control; just mere mind confusion. Basically, if you keep confusing a girl, thoughts of you will start to invade her mind and create a subconscious obsession with you in it. You should alternate the attracted feelings to the reserved feelings when it comes to this, too, so that you can really confuse her. A shrewd technique like this will give you might better chances of winning a girl over with mind confusion.

Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.
Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.

  • Create a Permanent Presence.

Another forbidden psychology technique involves creating a permanent presence in a girl’s mind. If you get this technique right, you should be able to make a girl think about you wherever she goes. If you succeed at doing this, that girl will also develop an instant attachment to you, which is great because you won’t have to do much work at all after that. The attraction and desire will just come on their own.

  • Stare into Her Eyes.

Just like in regular hypnosis, you can attract a girl by staring into her eyes and make her feel like you are boring into her soul by doing so. This may be a bit tricky when it comes to forbidden psychology because some girls find it rude when guys stare for too long. However, if you are having a deep conversation, you should be able to captivate her into focusing on you, too. If you do, then you can easily make her feel at ease with your staring, make her feel closer to you because of it and eventually even make her obsessed with you, too.

  • Incorporate Reverse Psychology Techniques.

Forbidden psychology techniques will work even better when used in conjunction with reverse psychology techniques. Have you ever noticed that women don’t usually say what they feel, but the exact opposite? That’s because women are into reverse psychology. And admit it, reverse psychology is effective! So, if you ever find yourself argon or fighting with a girl, give up and take her side every once in a while. Although this would entail giving up on a fight even when you are certain that you are right, you can make her think that she will always get her way if you do end up going out. If you think long and hard about it, this really is just a small price to pay to get a girl to fall for you.

Caution

Keep in mind that all of the unconventional psychology techniques mentioned above need to be used with the utmost caution, though. Generally speaking, any kind of psychology technique could be dangerous if overused and may even backfire if used in the wrong way.

A final note…

The good news is that seducing girls through psychology is always effective and successful if done right and in moderation. This is because girls are practically hardwired to listen to their hearts instead of their minds. So, if you follow the aforementioned techniques to a tee, you can get any girl of your choice to fall in love with you in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

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