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The SIBG Formula On Getting An Ex-Girlfriend Back

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Do you want to learn how to get an ex back because you can’t seem to get rid of the heartbreak and pain that you are currently feeling from your breakup? Have you already tried to convince your ex to get back together with you, but she refuses to budge?

Most adults have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives, and a lot of them just move on from it. However, if you aren’t ready to admit defeat or play the victim and are actually willing to put in some effort in getting your ex back, then read on.

The Truth

The truth is that most breakups are reversible. You just need to know which steps to take. That’s right. No matter why you might have broken up, you can reverse things. You just need to learn how to bottle up your feelings for now; otherwise, you could end up making a big mistake and lose your ex forever because of it.

Another thing that you need to do is ask yourself why you want to get back together with your ex. Try to figure out what you really want for yourself and for your future relationship, as well. Do you really love your ex? If so, then keep those feelings bottled up and avoid doing anything impulsive or irrational. It wouldn’t be smart to do anything desperate, either – and that includes giving in to techniques that involve manipulation and guilt.

Acceptance

Now, this might sound harsh, but you have to accept that your relationship is currently over. Before thinking of getting her back, accept that you have just broken up. You also have to keep in mind that anything that you do right now can make or break your chances of getting your ex back. So, if you simply accept your ex’s decision to break up for now, she will know that you care and that you still respect her despite everything – and that would definitely be a bonus point in the right direction!

After accepting the decision, you may want to lay low and mull things over on your own for a while. Figure out why you broke up in the first place. While you may not have the power to go back and change the past, you can still learn from any mistakes that you might have done or, at the very least, grow from whatever it is that happened between the two of you.

If you need peer support, and you are in the Baltimore area, join our lair (contact details at the bottom).

Things to Avoid

Some breakups happen because of a single event, behavior or action that the other person simply wasn’t able to handle anymore. Regardless of what the reason behind your breakup might be, though, you have to find out what the specifics are, so that you can deal with it later on. While doing all of these things may get your ex back, you may want to learn how to keep your new relationship intact this time around, too. If this is the case, then here are some of the things that you need to avoid like the plague:

Whether your ex is the one who can't stop texting, remember that you should stop talking for now.
Whether your ex is the one who can’t stop texting, remember that you should stop talking for now.

1. Contacting Your Ex.

Whether your ex is the one who won’t stop texting, emailing or calling you; or if you are the culprit behind your current communication levels, you need to stop talking to each other for now. Even if you want nothing more than to make sure your ex stays in your life, so that she won’t slip away from your grasp; you have to let her fly free for a while. After all, nobody likes a needy and desperate ex – and that includes your ex.

2. Releasing Your Emotions.

You have to let your emotions calm down while staying away from your ex. While staying away from her, dwell on your past relationship and – as mentioned earlier – think about why you failed as a couple. Make sure you are very honest when it comes to this, though, so you can learn from your mistakes properly.

3. Keeping Your Pride Up.

You need to stop being so proud and just let your ex go, regardless of why you broke up in the first place. Stop thinking about her altogether, if possible. Believe it or not, your nonchalance will help you win your ex back again later on. In the meantime, learn how to meet other women – click here for the corresponding guide on SIBG. Most importantly, re-learn all your seduction techniques – especially flirting.

You might be down in the dumps right now, but you should know that love is hardly ever the reason behind bad breakups. So, if you play your cards just right and behave correctly, you should have no trouble getting your ex back in no time. All you have to do is follow the aforementioned steps and you will be all good to go. Good luck!

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Getting Her To Love You – An SIBG Primer Seduction Guide

By Shogun Method team 7 Comments

Face it: it is hard to learn how to get a girl to love you. No matter what other “seduction gurus” say. It’s friggin’ hard.

Yes, it has always been hard for most guys to do, but the truth is that it doesn’t have to be. In all honesty, most guys only have a hard time because they go into the game believing that it will be hard. As such, they tend to overlook the easy and effective ways on winning a girl over.

If you have been into the dating scene for quite a while, you know that getting a girl to fall in love with you comes in steps. It starts with meeting women, then seducing them to like you. And both of them are completely different from having her fall in love with you.

If you are absolutely determined to win over the girl of your dreams, though, then you need to learn about forbidden psychology and how to use techniques of forbidden psychology to win your dream girl over. Forbidden psychology has actually been causing quite a stir in the dating world lately because of the “forbidden” word. Everyone knows that the forbidden fruit tastes great, right? Well, it should because it really works!

Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn't have to be.
Getting a girl to fall in love is hard. But it doesn’t have to be.

In a nutshell, forbidden psychology refers to a collective principle that involves persuasion, hypnosis and psychology. Although it is a closely guarded secret, a lot of guys now learn about it to successfully attract the girls that they like.

Forbidden Psychology…?

Here are several forbidden psychology techniques that you can use to get any girl to fall for you:

  • Practice Mind Manipulation.

One easy and effective way to win over a girl would be to go through her mind. That’s right. Dominating the thoughts of a girl can bring about incredibly successful results in the dating game. All that you have to do is use contradictory responses to mess up a girl’s head and derail her initial repulsive reactions.

  • Create Mind Confusion.

Mind confusion literally involves messing with a girl’s mind and her thoughts. Unlike mind manipulation, though, it doesn’t involve complete mind control; just mere mind confusion. Basically, if you keep confusing a girl, thoughts of you will start to invade her mind and create a subconscious obsession with you in it. You should alternate the attracted feelings to the reserved feelings when it comes to this, too, so that you can really confuse her. A shrewd technique like this will give you might better chances of winning a girl over with mind confusion.

Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.
Create a permanent presence in her mind so she thinks about you wherever she goes.

  • Create a Permanent Presence.

Another forbidden psychology technique involves creating a permanent presence in a girl’s mind. If you get this technique right, you should be able to make a girl think about you wherever she goes. If you succeed at doing this, that girl will also develop an instant attachment to you, which is great because you won’t have to do much work at all after that. The attraction and desire will just come on their own.

  • Stare into Her Eyes.

Just like in regular hypnosis, you can attract a girl by staring into her eyes and make her feel like you are boring into her soul by doing so. This may be a bit tricky when it comes to forbidden psychology because some girls find it rude when guys stare for too long. However, if you are having a deep conversation, you should be able to captivate her into focusing on you, too. If you do, then you can easily make her feel at ease with your staring, make her feel closer to you because of it and eventually even make her obsessed with you, too.

  • Incorporate Reverse Psychology Techniques.

Forbidden psychology techniques will work even better when used in conjunction with reverse psychology techniques. Have you ever noticed that women don’t usually say what they feel, but the exact opposite? That’s because women are into reverse psychology. And admit it, reverse psychology is effective! So, if you ever find yourself argon or fighting with a girl, give up and take her side every once in a while. Although this would entail giving up on a fight even when you are certain that you are right, you can make her think that she will always get her way if you do end up going out. If you think long and hard about it, this really is just a small price to pay to get a girl to fall for you.

Caution

Keep in mind that all of the unconventional psychology techniques mentioned above need to be used with the utmost caution, though. Generally speaking, any kind of psychology technique could be dangerous if overused and may even backfire if used in the wrong way.

A final note…

The good news is that seducing girls through psychology is always effective and successful if done right and in moderation. This is because girls are practically hardwired to listen to their hearts instead of their minds. So, if you follow the aforementioned techniques to a tee, you can get any girl of your choice to fall in love with you in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG’S Tips on: How to Get a Girlfriend

By Shogun Method team 6 Comments

A lot of guys wonder how they can get a girlfriend. For some reason, a lot of guys worry at the mere thought of approaching a girl, let alone dating one and becoming their boyfriend. A lot of the time, guys become so anxious and stressed that they lose all of their confidence and end up failing when trying to show girls how they really feel.

Fortunately, there are various steps that guys can follow to win over the girl of their dreams. For starters, they have to remain true to themselves to see if the girl will actually love them for them. Secondly, they will need to get their timing right. And thirdly, they will need to be as honest as possible all throughout the journey. Here are more steps that you need to follow to get yourself a girlfriend:-

SIBG’s Guide For Finding A Girlfriend

  • Prepare yourself for the challenge.

You need to prepare yourself for the challenge of getting a girlfriend before even trying to get one. This means that you have to build up your self-confidence in order to be able to approach your potential girlfriend because girls find confidence utterly sexy. This plays a key important role if you want to seduce a woman. This means that you have to take control of every situation when she is around, as well.

Nice graphic of a girl... but she's not naked

  • Use covert hypnosis.

We’ll cut the crap and jump straight to the chase. We arm our newbies (new joiners of the Baltimore Seduction Lair) with a shortcut technique that will give them the “superpowers” to attract women in the shortest time possible. Covert hypnosis techniques (also known as the female psychology loopholes) are super useful in making women fall in love quickly. The grand-daddy of all covert hypnosis techniques, fractionation, is perhaps the easiest to use, but one of the most effective “forbidden seduction pattern”, ever.

To learn more about fractionation and how you can use it to seduce women in less than 10 minutes, click here.

  • Pay attention to your grooming.

Good grooming happens to be an important part in improving your overall physical appearance. Girls hate guys who have bad breath and bad odor, in general. Because of this, you need to pay more attention to your looks if you want to impress girls and look more confident in their eyes.

  • Create social proof.

Ask her these questionsIn a nutshell, social proof refers to the social hints that you give to other people. If you constantly surround yourself with gorgeous girls, for example, you can make your dream girl think that you are the type of guy that every girls wants. In meeting women, you’d most likely to get noticed if you are accompanied by women. This will, in turn, make her want you, as well.

Creating social proof (real or fake) is something that members of the Baltimore Seduction Lair talk about often during our debriefings every Saturday. (Email me at matt@sibg.com if you are in town, and want to join)

Having said that, it would therefore be vital for you to talk to as many gorgeous girls as possible, especially if the girl that you are actually eyeing is around to see you work your magic. Once she thinks that you are in high demand, she will start running after you herself. After all, girls love competitions and challenges, so this will definitely work well in your favor.

  • Look into online dating.

If you are convinced that the traditional methods of dating will simply never work out for you, then today is your lucky day because there are other uncommon strategies that you can look into to get a girlfriend nowadays, as well, such as online dating.

SIBG.comA lot of guys actually go online to look for girlfriends nowadays because they do not need to worry about social proof or pay attention to their grooming until they actually have to meet the girls that they like. The best part is that there are various dating websites available on the World Wide Web nowadays that accommodates all sorts of people’s needs. In fact, there is no doubt that online dating has solved a lot of dating problems for guys within the past few years. And if you need a guide, we recommend Derek Rake’s Online Dating Playbook (or known as ODP in the inner circles of seduction).

And don’t forget that SIBG.com is a deep knowledge base from which you can learn from. 🙂

  • Make yourself look good online.

If you decide to look into online dating, then you will need to know how to make yourself look good online. Derek Rake talks a lot about this inside the Online Dating Playbook program. This means that you have to create an attractive profile that like-minded girls will be interested in enough to talk to you. This would also involve posting nice profile pictures of yourself and making time to talk to the girls that you meet. This will ensure that you know her inside and out before you fully commit to her. Ideally, you should try out video chatting with the girls that you like before you meet them in person, as well.

  • Know where to take her.

Whether you meet a girl online or offline, where you take her on the first date would be absolutely important. The chances of flirting is about to increase if you know where to take her. Your best bet in this department would be to take her somewhere public. This will help you avoid the temptation of going too far on your first date. Above all things, you need to be confident, sincere and honest at all times. If you aren’t, then you could screw things up later down the road if you end up going out again and again.

  • Ask for another date.

If your first date goes well, don’t forget to let her know that you had a good time and that you would love to see her again. This will score you major brownie points with her and make her think about you more, too – win, win!

SIBG woman
With covert hypnosis, you’ll be able to make quality women fall in love with you.

  • Use covert hypnosis – again!

We have covered this above, and re-stating this because of how important it is. Many guys give up on seduction because there is a learning curve – it does not have to be so difficult! One of the shortcuts that a guy can use is fractionation – a covert psychology tactic that is reputedly enable a man to seduce any woman in 10 minutes from start till finish:-

picture of a red hot thing

Fractionation in Seduction (Free Video)

But make no mistake about it – there will be work required; you cannot expect to just watch a video and immediately seduce Angelina Jolie into your arms. But learning fractionation is a good start because you’ll see good results with phone numbers and kisses. 🙂

Go get ’em!

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