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SIBG Guide To The Approach

October 3, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

girl reading
How to approach her.

There are a lot of ways on how to approach a girl that you like. You just need to follow certain rules. Once you learn how to win a girl over with ease, you can save a lot of energy, money and time in the long run. Here are some guaranteed ways on how to approach any girl that you like and make her fall for you in no time. See this article also from Duniamagazine.

  • Flirt, flirt, flirt. If you want to succeed at attracting girls, you need to keep flirting with them whenever you can. Tease them and make fun of them, manipulate them, and then once you bring their self-discipline and sense of humor together, you will start to look like a challenge and successfully intrigue them into liking you and make her crazy for you.

    Flirty guy
    Flirt with her.
  • Act like you couldn’t care less. The majority of gorgeous girls out there are so used to having guys run after them already. So, if you act like you couldn’t care less, girls will usually try harder to grab your attention. In fact, not caring will make girls go crazy about you and will ensure that they will want to stay by your side at all times.
  • Be a gentleman. Being a gentleman is probably the easiest way to get a girl to like you. In fact, the more of a gentleman that you seem to a girl, the better you will look in her eyes, in general.
  • Be unpredictable. Girls love anticipation, drama and excitement, so do not do anything that girls will be able to predict. Instead, do completely unpredictable things that will keep the excitement between you intact for a long time.
  • Flaunt your sense of humor. Another great way to attract a girl would be by displaying a good sense of humor. Laughter can easily create a strong connection and can ensure that conversations always run smoothly. So conquer her heart, if you want to win a girl over with ease, then this would be the best way to impress her and make her think you are funny and interesting. Besides, making girls laugh will make them feel great and will, in turn, make them see you in a positive light.

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Make her smile and laugh.

 

  • Be casual in your approach. When you approach a girl, you should never look desperate or needy nor should you treat a girl like she is already your girlfriend. Take things slow and just be cool. Wait for the girl to move things along and onto the next level. If you do this, she will end up respecting you more.
  • Care about your looks. Girls care about how guys look and act. If you seem to be in control of every aspect of your life, in that you pay meticulous attention to the way your hair is styled or what kind of clothes you wear, then learning how to approach a girl and attract her should be easier for you than for others.
  • Pay attention to details. On that note, you should care about how a girl looks, as well. If you show her that you pay attention to even the smallest details, like a change in her hairstyle, she will appreciate you more.

You can also view this article from gq.com.For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG On How to Make a Woman Like You

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Playful Couple
Everyone needs someone.

No matter how manly a man may seem, he will always need some love in his life. Even loners want to find someone special who can truly understand them – and that’s the truth. Unfortunately, knowing how to start a relationship with a woman isn’t exactly easy. So, if you have no idea how to make a woman like you or even how to approach a woman to begin with, before reading the Flirting 101 just make sure you read to the end of this article.

Easy ways to make her like you !

If you currently feel like you cannot control the way that women see you, then you need to open your eyes and face the truth that you can make women attracted to you. After getting a girl’s number, you just need to follow the three tips below. Believe it or not, it’s as easy as that!

  • Tip Number One: Do not buy her off. Contrary to popular belief, buying a woman drink after drink after drink and showering her with gifts will not help out your cause at all. While women do like getting free stuff, this plan might backfire if they end up feeling like you are buying them off or pressuring them to date you because of how much money you spent on them.

    Socialite
    Make friends and socialite.
  • Tip Number Two: Work on your social proof. When women see men having fun at a party, in general, they immediately assume that those men are fun to be with overall. So, if you want to catch a woman’s attention the next time you are out, take things up a notch and start talking to more people and laughing with them. Besides, women tend to feel much more comfortable hanging out and talking to men after seeing them successfully making other women laugh before them. So, if you want to make women like you, you need to work on your social proof and show them that you are a socially accepted human being, in general.
  • Tip Number Three: Make yourself scarce. Before you even read what this tip has to say, you should know that being too available to women will do much more harm than good in this department. Just think about all of the times you begged for a woman’s phone number. You probably never got their number in the end, did you?

huggingThis is simply the way that women think. If you watch women when they are shopping, you will instantly come to notice that they tend to be much more attracted to expensive brands that they can hardly afford and actually steer completely clear from the items that are cheap and easily available to them. This is basically just because items that are more available look far less valuable in women’s eyes.
So, if you meet a woman at a bar and she asks you how often you go there, don’t admit that you practically hang out there everyday. Say that you only go there once a week, control and dominate women just make her go crazy over you. This will pressure her into finding other ways to connect with you and turn things over in your favor. Alternatively, you can also tease her and bust her chops like this.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

SIBG Guide To Getting A Girl’s Number

October 2, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

If you want to learn how to get a girl’s number, the first thing you have to do is learn how to build rapport. If you don’t, you won’t be able to conquer a woman’s heart and reach your end goal at all.

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Get her number.

Impress her with this easy steps!

Best way is to build your rapport first with the combination of the best way to chat with women. To learn how to build rapport with a girl, just follow these easy steps:

  • Let Her Talk. Maintain eye contact with every girl that you talk to and listen to everything that she has to say. Take in all of her words and react accordingly. The important thing here would be to let her talk as much as she wants to, though; otherwise, she won’t feel any rapport from you at all. If she doesn’t seem to like to talk much, then watch out for signs that signal towards her interests and pay close attention to what she says with her gestures and eyes instead of her words. See this article from Jezebel.com.
  • Listen Actively. Pay close attention to all of the conversations that you touch on in your conversations, so that you can expand on them later on. Paying attention will also help you come up with relevant and interesting questions once your conversations seem to die down. – Expound on Any Similarities. Whenever a girl shares a story, you will most probably be able to relate to it because of something similar that you have experienced before or would be interested in doing yourself in the future. Believe it or not, this will build rapport with her and can, in turn, help you get her number. If she talks about a trip that she enjoyed, for example, and you listen, react and share a similar experience with her in an excited and passionate way; she will automatically start feeling more comfortable around you and feel like she has known you for a long time, even if you have just met.

    get her number
    Ask for her number.
  • Actually Ask For Her Number. Naturally, the final results will only come to fruition after you ask a girl for her number. This shouldn’t be a problem if you effectively built rapport with her beforehand, though. If you are worried about how you should ask for the number, then use the previous tip and bring it up when she mentions something that you are interested in. If she mentions trekking, for example, say “We should trek together sometime.” Sometimes, the girl might even bring this up herself and when she does, you can ask for her digits right away.

So, if you really want to learn how to get a girl’s number, get rid of all of the preconceived notions in your head that have been placed in their from other guys and useless movie scenarios. Aside from feeling attracted to you, girls have to be comfortable in your presence before they will give you their numbers, make a girl go crazy over you! The only difficult part is developing that comfort and bringing some confidence into the mix at the same time. If you stay true to yourself and follow the tips above, though, you shouldn’t have much trouble getting your dream girl’s number in no time.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

The SIBG Formula On Getting An Ex-Girlfriend Back

May 28, 2013 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Do you want to learn how to get an ex back because you can’t seem to get rid of the heartbreak and pain that you are currently feeling from your breakup? Have you already tried to convince your ex to get back together with you, but she refuses to budge?

Most adults have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives, and a lot of them just move on from it. However, if you aren’t ready to admit defeat or play the victim and are actually willing to put in some effort in getting your ex back, then read on.

The Truth

The truth is that most breakups are reversible. You just need to know which steps to take. That’s right. No matter why you might have broken up, you can reverse things. You just need to learn how to bottle up your feelings for now; otherwise, you could end up making a big mistake and lose your ex forever because of it.

Another thing that you need to do is ask yourself why you want to get back together with your ex. Try to figure out what you really want for yourself and for your future relationship, as well. Do you really love your ex? If so, then keep those feelings bottled up and avoid doing anything impulsive or irrational. It wouldn’t be smart to do anything desperate, either – and that includes giving in to techniques that involve manipulation and guilt.

Acceptance

Now, this might sound harsh, but you have to accept that your relationship is currently over. Before thinking of getting her back, accept that you have just broken up. You also have to keep in mind that anything that you do right now can make or break your chances of getting your ex back. So, if you simply accept your ex’s decision to break up for now, she will know that you care and that you still respect her despite everything – and that would definitely be a bonus point in the right direction!

After accepting the decision, you may want to lay low and mull things over on your own for a while. Figure out why you broke up in the first place. While you may not have the power to go back and change the past, you can still learn from any mistakes that you might have done or, at the very least, grow from whatever it is that happened between the two of you.

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Things to Avoid

Some breakups happen because of a single event, behavior or action that the other person simply wasn’t able to handle anymore. Regardless of what the reason behind your breakup might be, though, you have to find out what the specifics are, so that you can deal with it later on. While doing all of these things may get your ex back, you may want to learn how to keep your new relationship intact this time around, too. If this is the case, then here are some of the things that you need to avoid like the plague:

Whether your ex is the one who can't stop texting, remember that you should stop talking for now.
Whether your ex is the one who can’t stop texting, remember that you should stop talking for now.

1. Contacting Your Ex.

Whether your ex is the one who won’t stop texting, emailing or calling you; or if you are the culprit behind your current communication levels, you need to stop talking to each other for now. Even if you want nothing more than to make sure your ex stays in your life, so that she won’t slip away from your grasp; you have to let her fly free for a while. After all, nobody likes a needy and desperate ex – and that includes your ex.

2. Releasing Your Emotions.

You have to let your emotions calm down while staying away from your ex. While staying away from her, dwell on your past relationship and – as mentioned earlier – think about why you failed as a couple. Make sure you are very honest when it comes to this, though, so you can learn from your mistakes properly.

3. Keeping Your Pride Up.

You need to stop being so proud and just let your ex go, regardless of why you broke up in the first place. Stop thinking about her altogether, if possible. Believe it or not, your nonchalance will help you win your ex back again later on. In the meantime, learn how to meet other women – click here for the corresponding guide on SIBG. Most importantly, re-learn all your seduction techniques – especially flirting.

You might be down in the dumps right now, but you should know that love is hardly ever the reason behind bad breakups. So, if you play your cards just right and behave correctly, you should have no trouble getting your ex back in no time. All you have to do is follow the aforementioned steps and you will be all good to go. Good luck!

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

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