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How To Manipulate A Woman – Using Reverse Psychology Tactics

January 13, 2016 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

The topic of using mind control to “manipulate” women has always been controversial even here at the relatively forward-thinking SIBG.com. For those who are opposed to these “dark arts” of seduction remember that everyone is being manipulated to a certain degree every day through the mass media. It all depends on your intentions – any seduction technique or trick can be deemed as “evil” if you’ve got malicious intent towards women. It’s really as simple as that.

How To Manipulate A Woman’s Mind

Here’s some “mind manipulation” techniques inside this funky YouTube video which you will enjoy –

Highly recommended stuff. Of course, also refer to our previous guide on the same topic which you can check out here.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

December 3, 2015 By Shogun Method team 10 Comments

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented  tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style. 🙂

  • Be Different.

guy in red
Research says that women get attracted to men in red. Won’t hurt to try!

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

  • Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable. If you need help and you want a fresh pair of eyes to look and evaluate your appearance, contact me or Matthew (email matt@sibg.com).

be her friend
If you build enough emotional rapport with her,then it will be easier for you to seduce her.

  • Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

Remember – if you do not get enough face time with her then you won’t be able to attract her. Let that sink in a little.

One of the best ways to develop emotional rapport is to use this hypnosis technique called fractionation. Click here for a free download.

Once you win her over in the friend department, you can then start flirting with her a little bit and finally show her your true intentions. And if you think this girl is someone you want to have a serious relationship with, then becoming friends with her will also make it easier for you to make her fall in love with you.

  • Talk (Hypnotically).

On that note, always make it a point to approach the girl that you are eyeing and talk to her before she makes the first move. Girls love it when guys make the first move, and it would help a lot if you already have interesting subjects to talk about to make her smile and keep her entertained. Also, at the same time, weave some fractionation-laden lines into your conversation threads in order to build emotional rapport above (see the previous point).

We at SIBG.com likes Colin Simone’s Conversational Seduction philosophy, and follows it to the brim (it’s part of the new lair member’s initiation program – apart from Derek Rake’s programs). Google it!

  • Be Bruce Wayne.

A lot of girls would prefer to date guys who have their own lives outside of the dating game. So, if you show a girl that you preoccupy yourself with a ton of other things during your free time, then she can rest assured that you aren’t clingy and won’t demand too much of her time. This will also show her that you are mature and independent, and that you  have personal goals that you do not plan to give up for her.

  • Socialize.

Most girls are very social, so it would help you a lot if you are a social being, too, especially if you want to impress a girl somehow. If you show a girl that you are social, then she will know that she will never get bored around you if you ever do end up going out. Don’t be shy to meet her friends or family when you start dating, either. This will definitely score you major brownie points with her.

How to make her like you - SIBG method
Once you know some covert lines then you can master any conversation with a woman when you pick her up

  • Use Covert Psychology Techniques.

Many guys (and competing seduction lairs) hate us for this, but we have absolutely no qualms about using what are seen as “underhanded” tactics to seduce women. With an arsenal of what’s known as “forbidden” patterns derived from underground hypnosis and persuasion knowledge. With this knowledge, we can step into any situation with quiet confidence that we can attract any woman we want, anywhere. What would you do with this power?

check this out

Covert Psychology Tactic Video

I am able to sleep at night despite using these techniques simply because I have no ill intentions towards women. Women are happier when they are attracted to me because I show them a good time.

On the other hand, if you have bad intentions towards women, and want to use these techniques to hurt women, then don’t click on the link above. Also, my lawyers have asked me to make this clear: you are responsible for your own actions from the knowledge that I share above. Don’t blame me if you get stuck in a bad situation where a woman gets super clingy and starts calling you every hour.

Thank you for understanding. :)For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

How To Seduce A Married Woman

June 16, 2015 By Shogun Method team 1 Comment

Here’s the bottom line – don’t do it. While we here at SIBG is partial to techniques such as the Boyfriend Destroyer, we never condone using our techniques to break up marriages. Why? It’s because it’s despicable. When a woman is still choosing her partner, everything is fair game. However, when she commits herself in a long-term relationship then it quickly escalates into a moral issue.

On the other hand, it is my belief that seduction techniques are essentially amoral, and for this reason the Baltimore Seduction Lair has made it a point NOT to censor any information and blank out any particular piece of knowledge pertaining to any aspect of seduction.

This may not be know to a lot of people, but the seduction community as a whole is notorious for withholding knowledge from leaking out to the mass public. I have known some older members who were pissed at Neil Strauss for outing the community in his expose of sorts The Game back in September 2005. We can’t really blame them – the truth is that the less people know about the techniques we use the better!

Fractionation: Ye Shall Not Leak This Technique

Many eons ago a particularly smart member of the community started to adapt the knowledge of hypnosis and covert psychology into seduction; this can be considered as the point of origin of all Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) based seduction frameworks today, including (but not limited to) Speed Seduction, the October Man Sequence and the Dark Rake Method.

One such hypnosis technique which was developed into a major seduction tactic was fractionation. When the technique debuted in the seduction community, users of the technique reported massive success in the field with some getting kisses within 15 minutes of interaction. The “elders” of the community then stepped in and made a pact not to teach the technique because it tended to bring more harm than good. Indeed, using fractionation (originally a hypnosis technique) in seduction is akin to bringing a nuclear bomb to a gunfight.

While most Gurus seemed to abide by this gentleman’s agreement, it was just a matter of time before this technique leaked out to the public. It all started when Neil Strauss cryptically mentioned the existence of a technique known as the October Man Sequence. Invented by a member of the seduction community with the moniker Twotimer, as its namesake would suggest, it involved making a woman fall completely in love by “installing” a new sexual identity. The core of the technique was modeled after fractionation.

The Dark Rake Method by Derek Rake is fractionation with a twist; it has been redesigned to be primarily a seduction technique (other variations are simply hypnosis techniques with application in seduction).

Using Fractionation To Seduce Married Women

Caveat: the information contained below is included here in the spirit of full disclosure. We shall not be held responsible for the troubles that you may cause if you decide to act on the information below. As our lawyers have asked us to say, the information is provided for entertainment purpose only, and you are responsible for any action that you may take resulting from attaining this information. With that said, this is by far the most powerful “how to seduce women” information out there in the world today, bar none.

The core of Boyfriend Destroyer techniques (which are incidentally also based on fractionation) is around these few steps:-

  1. Identify the boyfriend’s “chink in the armor” – his weakness, her cause of dissatisfaction with him, etc.
  2. Using fractionation, AMPLIFY that weakness.
  3. Subtly project yourself as the ideal boyfriend for her using anchoring and auto-suggestion (NLP techniques).

The truth is that when a woman is married, step (1) above gets amazingly trivial; indeed, when a woman starts to live in with a man then she will find even more causes for dissatisfaction when compared to, say, their dating phase.

What this means is that it’s even EASIER to use Boyfriend Destroyer techniques on a married woman than a woman with boyfriend. There are more hot buttons to push, and if you play your cards right then your hit rates will shoot up the roof.

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

Things To Text A Girl

June 16, 2015 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Coming soon – the SIBG method on seduction texting!For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone (By Playing Mind Games On Her!)

June 16, 2015 By Shogun Method team Leave a Comment

Alright, I won’t mince my words here. Apart from getting dumped, getting friend-zoned is probably the worst thing that can ever happen to a guy. It’s no joke at all.

I know this because I’ve been through it. During my younger days as a guy who was totally clueless about dating, I would get friend-zoned by women left, right and center. It was horrible.

You see, I had no problems meeting and chatting up women at all. They would get all chummy when we’d hang out and have lots of fun together.

However, things would always turn to shit whenever I asked a woman to be my girlfriend because I would hear this dreaded line:

“Let’s just be friends.”

Seriously, whenever I hear that I feel like poking my eyes with a large fork.

Those days of continued failure with women have mercifully ended. Thanks to a man named Derek Rake, I finally understood why I looked more like an emotional tampon to a woman than a legitimate love juice provider.

Check this video  :-


Table of Contents

  • 1 Friend-Zoned? It’s Not Your Fault, Man
  • 2 Step 1: Apply Some Reverse Psychology
  • 3 Step #2: Do The Reverse Friend-Zone
  • 4 Step #3: Seal The Deal

Friend-Zoned? It’s Not Your Fault, Man

First, gotta understand this though…

If you’ve been friend-zoned by a woman, it’s not your fault.

Yous see, it’s just that there’s a flaw inside a woman’s mind which makes her categorize friendly men as, well, friends. She’s just wired that way.

So, to avoid being friend-zoned, you simply have to exploit this flaw so that she sees you as a potential lover instead.

How do you exploit this flaw in her mind then? Well, pretty simple… by playing mind games on her! And you do this in three simple steps.

The first step is NOT to freak out. Screaming “…but I want to have sex with you!!” ain’t gonna help. Keep calm and do what I’m going to tell you next.

Step 1: Apply Some Reverse Psychology

Tell her that you agree with her. Say something like, “Haha, what was I thinking? Yeah, being friends is probably better.”

Her guard will down immediately, and will cause her to think, “Wait, did he really mean it when he asked me to be his girlfriend?”

This will mess with her mind a little bit which is exactly what you want!

According to Derek Rake, the only way to get a woman to let her guard down is to make her confused. When she is not thinking straight, then it’s easy to bypass her “rejection filter” and make her fall in love with you.

Remember – confusion and misdirection is the key to winning the game of seduction.

Step #2: Do The Reverse Friend-Zone

The second step is to do the “Reverse Friend-Zone” on her. It’s pretty easy to do –

First of all, hang out with her less frequently. Learn to say NO to her requests although it’s tempting to go see her.

And when you’re with her, treat her like a guy friend.

Call her “bro” or “mate” or “fella”… so that she may start questioning her own femininity.

Next comes the killer move – ask her about her opinions about OTHER women (preferably someone that both of you know, or even better, someone she mildly despise or is jealous of.)

“Mandy’s pretty hot, isn’t she?”

“I heard Sarah is newly single. If she’s on the lookout for a new beau, I’ll be there!”

“I might just ask Julie out. What you think of that, bro?”

See what I’m getting at here?

Work the jealousy angle and you’ll find her starting to view you as a potential lover than just a friend.

If you do this right, she will change her demeanor with you, or even start getting a little pissed off with you. This is a good sign.

From experience: you simply can’t overdo this – keep turning the screw until she gets angry. Again, this is a good sign. You should only be worried if she is indifferent to you.

(As a sidenote: this is also a highly effective technique if you want to make a woman leave her boyfriend for you.)

And when she is pissed with you, then you’ll be ready to “seal the deal” with the ultimate Mind Control seduction technique which I am going to share with you next…

Step #3: Seal The Deal

The third and final step is to “seal the deal” and turn her from a friend to a girlfriend. And you’ll do this using a Mind Control technique called Fractionation.

With this technique, you’ll be making a woman go through an emotional roller coaster with a series of stories that you tell her. When you do this, you’ll be able to “access” her brain and plant thoughts in her mind (so that she thinks that she’s falling in love with you.)

This is similar to the “soap opera effect” that is utilized by the mass media to make women addicted to movies, TV shows and novels. You’ll use the same technique to make a woman feel emotionally addicted to you. When this happens, it will be impossible for her to quit you – because she’ll need you to survive just like she needs air to breathe and water to drink. It’s really that powerful!

Needless to say, Fractionation is a controversial technique, and indeed it has been (mis)used to hurt women emotionally and psychologically. Therefore, if you’d like to learn this technique, you must promise us that you’ll only use it for good, not for evil. This is important!

To attend the Fractionation Masterclass which is conducted online by Derek Rake, click here.

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