How To Get Women To Chase You (Role Reversal Strategies)

Dianne Lee at SIGB.comWhether we admit it or not, every man wants to be chased by women.

I mean, wouldn’t it be good it we can just sit back and let women come to us? That would be heavenly, wouldn’t it?

Let’s face it – guys are expected to “chase” by default. Why not challenge this assumption for a change?

Guys who are in the game long enough will know that it’s entirely possible to make a girl do all the chasing. It’s true!

Not many guys know this, but some women actually prefer to chase than to be chased. In other words, females are not really as “passive” as the society makes them out to be.

When a girl gets controlled and dominated by a man, she has no choice but to chase especially when she gets ignored by the man. That’s how the female psyche works!

To learn how to make a girl chase you, learn the following six “Role Reversal” strategies and you’ll soon be way ahead of the game. Read on…

How To Make Girls Chase You – Six (6) Killer “Role Reversal” Tips You Must Know

Tip #1: Keep Her Hungry

Here’s a nifty trick to try…

Tell the woman that you are after that there are three things that you love about her.

When she asks what those three things are, tell her what two of them are, but keep mum about the last one. If you want, you can drop her some hints to keep her wanting more, but never actually reveal what that third thing is.

Heck, it would be even better if the truth is that there isn’t a third thing at all! 🙂

Use Shogun Method to learn how to make her want you now!Key lesson: keep her hungry so that she comes chasing after you.

Extra credit – learn the “Rollercoastering” technique inside the Shogun Method – it will help you craft more of these “keep her hungry” stories you can use to continually captivate a woman’s attention. Highly recommended.

Tip #2: Ignore Her Calls

No matter how much you might like this woman, you have to learn to ignore her calls every once in a while.

Learn how to make her chase you(Trust me… nothing screws with a woman’s mind more than being ignored!)

How to ignore a girl (without pissing her off)?

Good question. 🙂

Here’s the foolproof strategy –

  1. When she calls, ignore it.
  2. Text (not call) her in 30-45 minutes, asking “what’s up”. Be brief, and don’t explain yourself.

Don’t be afraid to push it a little too “far” once in a while. It will work amazingly well, trust me on this.

Tip #3: Bust Her Chops

Bust her chops and tease her from time to time.

The more you “piss her off”, the more compelled she will be to chase you. I know it sounds weird, but that’s how the woman’s mind is wired.

Here’s an easy way to do this…

When you go on a movie date with her, try to find a character that has similar traits as her.

Then, after the movie, playfully tell her how much she resembled that character. If she asks you how, just give a sly smile instead of replying.

This will definitely get her thinking about you more often than not.

  • “Why is he seeing me like that character?”
  • “Is that a good thing or a bad thing?”
  • “Does he hate the character or love it?”

All these questions will race across her mind and will make her uncomfortable. (In psychology circles, this is called “cognitive dissonance“).

She won’t be able to sit still until she gets those questions answered, and guess what… she will need to chase you to get those answers to resolve the conflict in her mind.

Pretty sneaky!

It's kinda hard to ignore a girl like this!

Tip #4: Pull Back (Physically)

This is probably the hardest thing you will ever have to do… don’t say I didn’t warn you. 🙂

Let’s say you’re, ahem, escalating physically with her.

She starts kissing you, and things get hot and heavy…

… but you suddenly back off and tell her that you want to take things a little slower.

However, as with all of the other tips above, don’t tell her why you backed off and decided to take it slow. (See where we are going here?)

This is sure to drive her nuts and take her for a loop. However, it will also make her run after you day and night until you finally give in to her advances.

And when that moment will be is completely up to you. 🙂

Tip #5: “It’s All Your Fault”

Of course, a famous “Role Reversal” technique is to blame her for making you attracted to her.

Everything is covered in this excellent video below –

Pretty effective!

Tip #6: Control Her Mind Advanced

This last tip is also the most effective (and advanced). If you want to know the absolute best way to make a woman chase you, then this is it.

The strongest “Role Reversal” method is one which involves the use of “mind hacking” techniques used by underground master seducers. Using these techniques, a guy can “access” a woman’s mind covertly and plant ideas inside her head.

Learn fractionation to make her want you!Some have denounced these techniques as “immoral” because they can be used to manipulate women in deceptive ways. That’s somewhat true, but morality issues is not my concern.

One of such techniques, Fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love in as little as 15 minutes from start till finish. Pretty amazing!

Using Fractionation, you’ll be telling her stories which will bring her through an emotional roller coaster. As a result, she will feel emotionally addicted to you, forcing her to chase you.

To learn how to use this technique to compel a woman to chase you, sign up for the Masterclass below:


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Matt Ganz SIBG

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  1. If you want a girl, act like a boy. If you want a woman, act like a man. While ignoring her once in a while can sometimes be effective, ignoring her all the time is going to kill her feelings for you. Be careful not to make her feel worthless, or completely invaluable to you; why should she chase you, if you treat her like a doormat?

    • This comment might mean something if it did not come from a delusional female!

      • Honeybee says:

        What an idiot you are Jonny. Isn’t it the females you’re sitting here trying to figure out how to manipulate? She just gave you advice on what works for a female. Maybe it’s the best advice of all … because it comes from a FEMALE! I’ve been at the end of these techniuqes, the DO work, but the downside is, you half resent the man for playing them on you when you figure it out. And any man who uses this level of domination and control, is ultimately doomed. Great for short-term results, if you’re a hollow. psychopathic prick. Useless for anything else.

        • I dunno… perhaps when you start calling them “women” instead of “females,” they’ll be more receptive to your advances. Role reversal: Would you want anything to do with a woman who called men “males?” I rest my case.

          • Female or woman, wtf is the difference? You will pander to women by arguing semantics like a knight in shining armor? Pitiful!

          • bongstar420 says:

            Honeybee is a female

            And I’d love a lady to call men males. She would almost certainly be an INTJ

          • Dude, ure an idiot and I doubt you’re really a man. What’s the opposite of male? What about man? So, what’s wrong in saying male or woman if it’s not meant to be derogatory?

      • Konnect Life says:

        You are absolutely right. Anyone with common sense would know that if you need advice on women, go to the type of men that women are mostly attracted to and get advice from those men who are good with women instead of going to women who say they want one thing but repetitively chase and give themselves to the things they complain about.

        It’s just common sense.

        Why would you take advice from someone who claims to want a “nice guy” and all the good stuff but only goes after the kind of people they claim to hate while completely ignoring the type of guys they claim to want?

        If you wanted to learn how to hunt deer, would you go to the deer, or the hunter?

        The type of men who are good with women obviously know what women want. This is why they get women and not the foolish guy who sits there, gets advice from and listens to what women tell him they want.

        • Ding ding ding! We have a winner. I agree 100% and I couldn’t have said it better myself. Why is that so? I have experienced and witnessed this all time and time again. This is why I must dismiss what women say when it comes to relationships and what they say they want. In general go by what people do, not the bullshit they say.

        • bongstar420 says:

          Any strategic success is unlikely to be shared but with the very few. It would poison the well and they would be left to fend on basic qualities again.

          • Matt "Cougar Hunter" Ganz says:

            These strategies work on a primal level – they will continue to work even when women “know” about it.

  2. Yeahhh…this would have worked on me til 13…now I’m in my 20s…this would have the opposite effect of what you’re thinking. The first time a guy I might like ignores my calls, I’m already looking for the next one. I mean, why waste your time on an unknown quantity? You can only be an enigma if you show her constant intense interest when you’re around BUT you also have a very busy life other than her with your own friends and personal interests…that…will drive her a bit nuts…she’ll want to unfold every part of you including your clothes.

  3. Every single one of these websites gives contradictory advice, but SIBG is the most consistent and honest. 100% legit.

    • And women lie & get defensive! As we can see.

      • Let me put on my shocked face, Jonny! Of course…. like I said, go by what people do, not what they say. Most of the time those people are even trying to convince themselves! LOL!

  4. True. When you ignore them, they come running after you.

  5. Dickface says:

    Sort of strange, how men essentially hate women but so desperately trying to get into their pants! 🙂

    • Women hate men more but women want to squeeze every single fucking thing out of them; including marriage & kids.

  6. Women are full of shit and I agree with the guys!

    I’ve seen myself make a twat out of myself on many an occasion by showing I give too much of a fuck and they batted me around like a tennis ball.

    Change the game, once I’d had enough and started to ignore them the bahaviour polarity changed almost immediately and it was almost stalker like with some women

  7. I just spent several really great days with a nice woman whom I know from high school. She recently told me that she had a crush on me in high school. I revealed to her that the crush was mutual. We have both since gone to college, gotten married, started careers, had kids, etc…

    We are both also in dead end marriages and we are getting out of them.

    She has tried to save her marriage and I have tried to save mine and we have come to the realization that we need to face facts, make our splits and move on. Neither of us wishes to jump into another relationship right away; however, the three days we spent together was so effortless, fun and we will definitely see each other again. We had so much fun hanging out, sharing laughs and great conversations, delicious food and the beach.

    Aside from one really passionate kiss and a lot of hugs, we didn’t go further than that. We are several states away from each other and this is going to be a marathon versus a fifty yard dash. We are so alike in some ways yet we have our differences. Where one of us is lacking, the other fills it in. She will be a little aloof at times and then, I will get a text or a call from her and just hearing her voice makes me so unbelievably happy. I don’t overcommunicate with her and she doesn’t do it either.

    Before we headed to the airport for her to catch her flight, I told her, “I think that you know how I feel about you.” She is sometimes VERY shy, but she said that she knows. About a half hour later, when I got out of the car and got her bag for her, we hugged and kissed one last time. While we were hugging, I told her that I loved her; I just kind of blurted it out. She said back, “I love you too.”

  8. This is depressing. I’ve been the nice guy all my life. Literally everyone I know knows I’m the nice guy. So I cannot afford to be the dick, cause the instant my personality or behavior changes everyone would be on my ass about it. It is a lose lose unless you were born a dick. Ladies like intrigue and mystery while I’m the most boring person on the planet. Watching and reading all this arguing isn’t exactly helping.

  9. True story. Oh, and a woman here.

    I had a crush on a guy in my gym, I talked to him a few times, he seems to know I like him and started to play games. It’s a huge turnoff… but I couldn’t turn my attention away from him strangely. Maybe he was using some of the things you mentioned here, I don’t know.

    Life is stressful enough, and I wish guys don’t play mind games. But I have to admit that these tactics will work (not all, but MOST women are vulnerable to them. Trust me, I know). If a guy I like starts playing mind games like this I will TRY to move on. I wish they would just snap their fingers and release me.

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