Welcome to Seduction Initiatives™ (S.I.) – Baltimore Chapter

This website is the online presence of the Baltimore chapter of the Seduction Initiatives™ project. We are what the mainstream media call a “seduction lair” (Wikipedia description can be found here), and we congregate weekly here on Calvin Street to discuss the application of the techniques of what Mystery calls “Venusian Arts”. We dedicate our lives to the pursuit of women – and generating attraction is our specialty. Collectively we have around 200 years of experience in dating, and currently our membership roster consists of about 27 motivated men (and three wing girls). We were founded in 2001 by –

  • Matt “Cougar Hunter” Ganz (current chairman) – Baltimore native
  • Richard Lee (sergeant-at-arms)
  • Raul “Fat Head & Shoulders” Asthana (coordinator 1 – food) – hails from India; worked in Singapore
  • Kurt Kersey (coordinator 2 – events)
  • Damon Lee (law advisor) – JD from Michigan

Membership is by invitation only. Find out more if you are eligible to join by sending an email to join@sibg.com. If your email bounces, it means that we are not accepting new members at the moment. Please try again later.

The Need For A Seduction Lair

Think of it as a “male support group“. We are here to help you get better at the art of dating and seducing women. Every guy deserves to have good, healthy relationships with the ladies. We are also “white hat”, which means that you will be learning mainly natural seduction techniques which are also emotionally healthy. Note that we also sometimes incorporate techniques from hypnosis such as fractionation and “push pull” for extra efficacy. If you are against the usage of these techniques then kindly exit this website immediately.

You Won’t Find Pictures Of Sexy Women Here

Unlike other “seduction blogs” out there, we do not objectify women with unappropriate pictures. We are not a porn site. On the other hand, we promote the usage of healthy and non-deceptive relationship techniques (although some of these can be seen as amoral to some).

SIBG’s External Relations

We rarely talk to the media because we want to keep our information as private as possible; however, you are welcome to use our Mini Guides which we also use internally – especially to newbies who are getting into the Game for the first time; for example, check out this guide on meeting women. Even though we AVOID talking to the media, we can’t help it when TV stations, radio channels, newspapers and magazines pick up information from this site and do an independent review. The reviews on SIBG are NOT solicited, and have not been compensated in any way.

We also encourage newbies to do background reading consisting of these books and resources –

  • “The Game” by Neil Strauss – a classic
  • “Mystery Method” by Mystery
  • Derek Rake’s programs (Google it)
  • October Man Sequence by IN10SE – could be out of print
  • Real Social Dynamics – video recordings of workshops

 We typically also recommend David DeAngelo’s programs as well as “localized” content such as PUA Training, Love Systems and the Asian Rake.

Matt Ganz SIBG

Matt “Cougar Hunter” Ganz

PS: If you need to get in touch, send an email to contact@sibg.com and we will reply within 24 hours. IMPORTANT NOTE: If the email bounces, it means that we have been overwhelmed by requests, and as such we won’t be accepting communication from non-members. Thank you for understanding.

Comments

  1. I have a friend girl then she already has a suiter then we are only friends. how to get her lust ?

  2. i have this pretty girl in school and i dont know how to approach and take some moves to win her…how can i possibly do it?

  3. i would like to learn your techniques sir
    because of this girl

  4. Philips caleb says:

    I don’t have all the whole time in this world to wait.i so much need to watch this videos.i want to be like you matt

  5. Am so confuse in front of a woman, i don’t even know the right word to use. Can u help me?

  6. single Dad says:

    I would love for you to teach me some of your techniques, because I want to get back my girlfriend who left me and our 1 year old baby girl and 3 year old son for another guy…

    I need your help…..

  7. If the girl I like walks with you without you really asking or suggesting
    it is that a
    sign? I mean I will be talking with her as we walk to her next class then
    once we are their she doesn’t peel off to go to the class or stop talking
    and say bye, so I just continue to walk around with her, at the same time
    there is a silent period and so I sit at a bench and she just stands next
    to me and listens to me and responds to my questions and comments, but
    completely forgets what she is or was supposed to be doing, so I reminder
    her and so I walk her back to her class but then she says bye before we get
    there and walks over to her friends. Is she just fuckin with me or am I not
    reading the signs? If so what do I do next?? Today I gave her her space and
    didn’t talk to her today but was in the same place as her sometimes, so I
    try not to notice or look at her but out of the corner of my eye I see her
    look back hearing my voice. I am confused on what to do next I mean I have
    looked at this site and done these techniques before but that was years
    ago, I had completely forgotten about this site until now. So i am here
    asking for help what do I do, Preferably Matt.

    Thanks, Ethan

  8. Here is an amazing story. This all took place over 45 days. I broke my rules and tolerated a girl standing me up (last minute cancellation) for our second date, why, because the first date went very well. So, unsurprisingly she saw that as an invitation to do it again, which of course, she did. And then like a true idiot guy in search of sex I tolerated it. I’m also ashamed to say that I let then let it happen a third time. I just kept on saying to myself, I’m getting closer, and I’ve already got so much time invested in these useless phone calls where all I do is listen and agree that I might as well stick around. The sex after all is just around the corner. Well, then the second date actually happens, and two hours into it she asks me if I would mind if she left with another guy who had already shown up to where we were at. It seems she called him to make this arrangement. o I’m thinking, are you f…ing serious? Apparently she was. So I let them go on there way without protest. And (other than me being utterly played) here is the truly funny part, she said she really hopes that her and I can get together again soon. So, a lesson to all guys, when the BS starts, stop it quickly because it will just get worse, women love head games and will get away with whatever they can. So, if you stand up for your self-respect you may lose your investment in the situation entirely, however you will not be throwing your valuable time into a worthless situation.

  9. Please how may I become a part of this lair?

  10. i must learn theses techniques to not only get better with women but to better myself, i find it shameful and frustrating not having the skills to talk to females i find attractive. i’m sick of being like this, i don’t live far from baltimore.

  11. Someone Random says:

    What are the requirements to join this sites and become a member?

  12. Hi,

    There is a particular girl at my high school back home who I have a particular attraction to. I have not made any kind of move all year long, just sort of playing it cool. She happens to be the point guard for the women’s basketball team, while I am a shooting guard for the men’s team, so I saw quite a bit of her during basketball season.

    Also, her older brother is a really good friend of mine. That part is a bit awkward, but I haven’t said anything as of yet, and since he is going off to college next year, I figured I could let time work its magic.

    That said, I don’t want to just let the entire thing go. On Valentine’s Day, I left a rose on top of her viola case after school, and she does not yet know its source. That is about as much as I’ve done.

    If you could give me some advice as to how to go about achieving a meaningful relationship with this one particular girl, I would be a very happy camper.

    I’m down for any psychological, physical, mental, emotional tactics so long as it is ethical and does not demean the girl in question.

    There is a dance coming up in the next little while and since I go to a very small high school, while people do ask one another to the dance, I was wondering whether I should a) ask her to the dance, or b) given the fact that her brother is still at the school, whether I should go alone and let the dance take care of things.

    Also, with that in mind, any “dance” rules/tactics would be good to be reminded of.

    I read the bit about to letting the girl in question know that you’d be willing to drop everything for her, and that having your own priorities is very important. Both of us are very busy people.

    One thing that sets me apart from some other guys is that I have a particular aversion to obsessive texting, Snapchat, Instagram, Tinder, Twitter, and other social media sites. I don’t know if that counts as a plus or a minus but I figured it was worth mentioning.

    Thought I would try and reach out to you guys.

    Best,
    MJP

  13. Hello, this message is being addressed to SIBG. My name is Vira, I am a 29 year old single male and I in fact, have always been single throughout my entire life. For this reason, I have struggled with serious episodes of depression. As a direct result, I at one point, turned to substance abuse. I am no longer abusing substances, however, depression is still prominent in my life. I don’t know how to interact with women, and desperately need your guidance. You are my last resort. Please help, as I have not a single bad intention to harm anyone with the techniques you reveal. Any help would be so greatly appreciated. Thanks so much and God bless you…

  14. Ive been confused for a long time now and i want some experts’ opinion on the matter. Approx 2 months ago i met a girl and spent the whole day with her, asked for her number and kept in touch. Because of both our schedules, we didn’t get to meet each other, but kept talking via whatsapp and calls. We decided to meet two weeks ago and we did. Getting together wasnt easy but i still did, and we had a great time hanging out for approx 6 hours in the night, which ended up kissing (lots) She told me she’s happy i made it to her and its a shame were not living closer to each other. I considered that night a success. The next day however, she started ignoring my calls and messages, and i have no clue why. All the signs showed me that she’s intrested, and Im just extremely confused about it now.

    • look the possibilities are A she is using mind games with you. B she has found another man. C you did something to upset her like flirting with another without even knowing. D she got a new number. E be aware this is the most unlikely but she has hurt her self really badly and is in hospital but she would have called you so yeah but if you do see her again treat her like your queen but don’t be to needy ok.

  15. Cobrantula says:

    Hi Everyone,
    I tried emailing and everything got bounced back. I’m 35 I’m less than a year into pickup and I want to improve. So far I’ve done over 100 daygame approaches. I want to get into nightgame, but I would like some wings to show me what I need to work on. I have no problem going out alone, but I am at the point where I can see the benefit of a wing. Cheers.

    Cobrantula

  16. hi. i’m 23 years old, fat, single since the day i was born, and if you ask me how i am, i’m just hangin’ in there with all the depression, frustration, and stress in life. i knew i needed help when i graduated high school and still don’t have a girlfriend. no one was there to support or guide me or boost my confidence i’m a single child, my mom and dad are overseas and haven’t seen them for almost a decade, atleast we can still bond through skype or facebook. i really hate when my mom asks if i have a girlfriend, all i could do is just lie, i know that they know that i’m lying, i just don’t want their pity. i’m scared i’m gonna be alone all my life, i just need someone to love and love me back. i need your guidance.

    -ROSS

  17. Anthony Roberts says:

    I want to join the website

  18. Is this place still active? Baltimore can’t be *that* small of a city. If anyone here still wants to want to partner up, email me. From there I’ll give you my real email address. I check it about once a week, so please be patient.

    • Hey Dan,

      I am new to Baltimore. I am looking for a wingman in Baltimore to play games. My skill level is very basic. I can open up pretty smooth but still working on my games.

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