How to Attract a Girl Who Already Has a Boyfriend

Do you want to learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend? Are you convinced that you don’t want to back down from this one because she is totally worth it? Here are some methods that you can use to steal that girl away before her boyfriend even realizes what hit him and his relationship.

– Be Every Girl’s Dream Guy.

If you can show a girl that you are perfect in every way, she will start fantasizing about you every day. Fortunately, this isn’t too hard to do. All that you have to do is get her to feel butterflies in her stomach whenever she is around you and make her heart skip a beat every time that she sees you. You might want to take things slow when it comes to this, though. Take your time reading and mastering her body language and then look for certain signs of interest whenever she is around before you make your next move. These are all subtle ways on how make a woman love you by controlling her mind. A kiss on the cheek or a shy smile are some signs that a girl is interested in you, for example; so make sure you take advantage of those things whenever you can.


 – Never Look Away From Her.

Whenever you talk to her, make sure you lock your eyes onto hers. Eye contact happens to be very powerful in this particular game and you should be able to charm her through it in no time. Eye contact definitely is a huge part in the flirting game. Not only will she feel like you don’t have eyes for anybody else but her, but she will also end up feeling much more important to you overall. Make sure you let her know that you are interested in finding out about her, as well. This will definitely lure her in and attract her towards you more and more.

 – Pile On the Compliments.

Let’s face it: when people are in relationships, they end up taking certain things for granted because they feel secure where they are. This means that her boyfriend has probably forgotten to compliment her on a daily basis by now. If you don’t believe me, try reading SIBG’s previous post and find out what women want, and trust me– compliments will get you far. By complimenting her yourself, you can therefore show her how much you value her and how much better you are than her current boyfriend in that respect.

 – Understand Her Completely.

Attracting a woman, according to this Yahoo! Voices article, can be made easy. But it’s a different story if she already is attached to someone else. So now what? Here’s a thought– female minds do not work the same way that male minds do. So, make sure you play around with her mind until you completely win her over. Listen to her whenever she speaks and pay close attention to the little details that she shares, for instance. Remember: if a girl can speak her mind around a guy, she will tend to feel more comfortable around him overall.

Don’t forget to make her laugh, either. This will ease up any tension that might still exist between you and make her feel happy whenever she is around you. Stay cool, too, and don’t make it too obvious that you are planning to steal her away from her current flame. These are just some of the most effective tips on how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend.

 – Use Fractionation.

This is the grand-daddy of all “covert” seduction techniques, and if used properly, it will bestow upon you the superpowers to seduce any woman away from her boyfriend. And as you can probably imagine, it’s super controversial because it has got the power to break up otherwise perfectly happy relationships.

Fractionation is the original hypnotic seduction tactic which is perhaps the most sought after especially given its elusive status. To find out more about Fractionation, click on this link below.

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  1. There are no methods defined on how to impress a girl. But yes you need to toil hard for the one you want to impress. For impressing a girl the one thing you need to do is just be who you are not who you can .

  2. l liked a girl who is actually very close to her boyfriend
    like she’s going out on a date with that guy everday…
    don’t know how to tell her or attract.her towards me….
    eager to have a serious relation with her but doesn’t understand how to express in front of her

    plzz help…!!

    • Then make a plan that the girl would not be able to go with him. Like involve her in projects, solving maths etc. if not then try to may a way to make the boy friend your friend and make him to understand that the girl is good or bad first. Then you have to say wrong news about the girl that for example- She loves any another person behind you and making use of you. By this make a stage between them that they don’t want to see each others face forever. All the Best.

    • How would you feel if there was a guy who were after your girlfriend? There are lots of other single girls, you know.

  3. Jeff Neason says:

    attract any girl who have already bf just try to wear RX attraction cologne spray that is help to attract girls.

  4. Ken Akutason says:

    My friend,s girl friend was the first girl i wooed but unfurtunitely i didnt win her, so after some months i found out that my best friend is dating her but honestly i still love her,, please what should i do?

  5. Maxwell Richman says:

    I met this girl a few days ago who lives in the city but comes out to where i live every weekend. I met her when i saw her sitting all alone at night and walked up to her with a few of my friends and said hello and was asking what her name was and where she is from and then i went out and said do you have a boyfriend, she said no i don’t. So the next day i met up with her because she gave me her snapchat and we messaged each other and hung out until she had to go back to the city. Two of my friends were there one boy and girl. The girl walked with her and after a while later on she told her that she thought that i was cute. I also thought she was cute thats why i like her. But now when I go straight forward and say i heard from my friend that you said I was cute she said, yes I did say that but I am in a complicated relationship right now with this boy. So I was really mad cause I like her a lot and do not want to let her go so quickly so please can I have some advice anything would help thanks.

  6. she kept saying I av a boyfriend already. help pls.

  7. she kept saying I av a boyfriend already. help

    • Victor you should back off for a little bit then if your the type of guy who will do anything to get her find her boyfriend and were something like a ski mask and talk some sense into him till he give up the girl. But make sure she is not there and don’t mention your name!!!


    She keeps saying “i am somebody’s” but she is always in my mind! so what shud i do? help plz!

    • Dude, back off for a while. If she isn’t interested and you keep using the same strategy, she will just end up hating you.

  9. I fucked her but she left with her boyfriend and act like nothing happened. She is addicted to me but her relationship is so perfect that she doesn’t wanna end it. You just gotta throw in confidence and smile. You’ll need to dress nice too and good hygiene.

    • Well, you’re doing it wrong. You made her like this, and even if you got her then she will probably be addicted to an other guy. She has done it once, she can do it twice.

  10. A question this girl I like has a mom who seems to dislike every guy her daughter sees and will not let her speak her own mind and told me to back off what should i do

  11. Justin sterling says:

    This helps a lot thanks. But do i fight her boyfriend or no.

  12. Hey I am a junior in high school. I really like this girl (who is a sophomore in high school) but she has a boyfriend who is in middle school. I really like her please help me win her heart, because her boyfriend is about as mature as my 6 year old brother.

  13. Peter Sone says:

    I love a girl at my class. Turns out she likes my best friend. How do I get her to like me without ruining my relationship with the guy. Please help me!

    • If your best friend doesn’t like her, than you have to explain the situation with your friend so he doesn’t get upset over her if you ask her out. Also find a way to spend more time with the girl. Show her that you want to be with her by talking to her a lot more than her friends would. Eventually, she will see you more charmingly. Then you ask her out.

  14. Charlie says:

    I’ve fallen for this girl on Facebook. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I wanted to meet her but I didn’t know how to go about doing that without coming off as a creeper since I didn’t know her before. I have been told not to do that because since I didn’t know her outside of Facebook, that is exactly how I would come across to her and I could potentially be reported as a stalker.

    I did finally meet her, but not before she started a relationship two months prior to that and when I did meet her, he was there. Unfortunately they ate still together going on five months now. The guy comes off as a real douche. He has “single” on his Facebook status, but she is infatuated with him. I want to try to win her over before she either marries him or gets pregnant by him.

    Besides, every girl I ever wanted either had a boyfriend or just didn’t want me. The only girls I ever got were the girls I wasn’t really interested in. Please help.

  15. I am a sophomore at University. I met this gal, a senior in high school and she is 4 years younger. She has a BF but seems to like me and wants me to do sth. Firat time she gave me a gorgeous look, I shyed away not cause I fear her but I had not made up my mind and didn’t feel comfortable if people around noticed. With time, I have fallen in love but I seem not to have made up my mind on whether to date her or No. I fear that she is much younger. She always gives me a sexy look but I seem to ignore. I do feel I hurt her. So, I decided to date her but she is making it difficult. She insists she has a BF and she usually states that she doesn’t trust me cos I am a big joker which is true. It’s not easy for most people to trust me cos I am always playing jokes. I have failed to find a way of winning her trust cos I messed up first time but it wasn’t deliberate, it’s just that I wasn’t ready and I respected the fact that she is much younger than me.
    What should I do?!
    Please HELP. She really LIKES me(I believe)

    • Angler Fish says:

      Age doesn’t matter 😉 You should build yourself up first and try to be more serious especially when youre with her. Girls like dependable guys.

  16. i really love this girl,when i met her the first time in her house,the first question she asked me was,*do you have a girlfriend?*i asked her why,she said because i have not seen any girl coming into your house,she was my neighbor ,we became friends for a week and i told her how i felt about her and she told me she loves me too but she has a boyfriend ,we were together for sometime and she went for holidays after she finished her exams,she visited me and we were so in love,but i realized she is still seeing the other guy,i told her i will let go so she could be with the guy,she pleaded and said she loved me so much,after sometime again i still noticed it,even though she was showing me love and introduced me to her best friend,but it was difficult cuz she had dated that guy for 2 years and they were in the same class ,we dated for 3 months ,we never had sex because i respected her and only wanted sex,when she is fully mind.The other guy lived in another town far from where she lives and she was not too far from where i was living,as time goes on i showed her so much love and care ,we text everyday ,but it came a time when i ask her to visit me,she would not and it pained me so much and i will be very rude on phone,she begged me when i did that saying its very difficult to leave their home cuz she is very busy at home and her parents wont let her,i was rude one night and the next morning she texted me saying she has discovered that we don’t understand each other and that she is letting go of the relationship so i can find another girl who will always be there and take care of me,i was shocked and i spoke to her best friend,her best friend advised me to let her be and that she is too glued to the other guy ,the best friend said she loves me but the thing is she cant date two boys ,i called her and we spoke and when i asked her,if she wants me to forget about her,she said she is not saying so but we can be friend but if i want to forget about her then fine
    i love her so much and want her back ,please what should i do?

  17. Angler Fish says:

    This girl that I like has a boyfriend and theyve been together since highschool I was wondering if I still have a chance?

  18. Hi guys,

    Need some advice.

    I met a girl who is my colleague for few months and she has a boyfriend for 7 years. I feel comfortable and happy when chatting with her, be with her. And i realized that i had fallen in love with her. But as i know it is bad to break a relationship, but as time goes by, sometime i can’t control my feelings, trying hard for now. I think she is in a good relationship with her current boyfriend.

    I really want her as my girlfriend but whenever i think of her relationship for 7 years that makes me feel confused and sad. What should i do? Need some suggestions.

  19. I’m recently separated and have been seeing this girl on and off for two weeks. She has a boyfriend. I fetched her from the airport the other night, she said she missed me, and she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. While together, we were as per usual giggling, laughing and teasing.

    I didn’t know how we got into discussing this but she asked me what I wanted out of what we had: did I want myself to be her “other” boyfriend, or did I want her to be my mistress. She said she’s not comfortable thinking that people might get hurt. She said she might need time to think where I stand.

    But the fun and teasing continued after that. I’d normally kiss her lips before dropping her off and she would normally text me not to do that again, but it still happens every time anyway. That night we kissed with her eyes closed, longer and passionately, then bade goodbye.
    I did not contact her since then thinking she needed space. It’s been two days that I haven’t heard from her.

    I know this is messed up but please advise.

    • Since she has a boyfriend it would be smart to not see this girl anymore saying that if the boyfriend ever found out, it would probably end badly.

  20. I have a girlfriend that really likes me and I like her. But there is this other kid that also really likes her. I like her to the point where I can say that I love her but he only wants a prom date. He has threatened to day something to my girlfriend about me that isn’t true. Please help me. What should I do?

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