How to Control and Dominate Women

Some men hate it when the woman they are dating suddenly takes control and becomes the dominant one in the relationship. Unfortunately, if you want to find out how to control and dominate women at this point, then this means that you have already fallen into this kind of trap. But don’t worry, for has got your back. Continue reading. 🙂

Unfortunately, when women take control of a relationship, they tend to make every decision and automatically assume that the men that they are dating will follow those decisions without question. You may get infatuated by dominant females and get your judgment clouded by your infatuation. You’ll realize later on that these women are actually insulting and heartless.

Ideally, you shouldn’t allow women to dominate you at all when it comes to the world of dating, period (it doesn’t matter whether you’re only starting to know her, or if you’re already dating her for years). Instead, you should make them see that you wear the pants and that they can never take that control away from you. Here’s how you can do that with ease…


If you realize that you’re already completely dominated by the woman that you are currently dating, skip the rest of this article and go here directly. You need something more potent!

Stop Asking For Permission!

Woman in complete control and dominationWhen men get attracted to a woman, they tend to fall into this phase where they constantly ask her for permission before doing anything. This is completely natural because you want to please her and make her happy. Unfortunately, asking for permission all the time will degrade your image in the eyes of women and they will end up respecting you less because of it.

From now on, try to stand firm and always make your own decisions – however big or small. Don’t second-guess yourself or ask women for their opinions, either. You don’t want to be involved in her mind games. This way, you can prove that you can take control of your own life and your relationship, and don’t need her to do those things for you.

Flex Those (Emotional) Muscles

The pro SIBG seducer makes all of the decisions in life and learn how to lead instead of following others most of the time. Be strong enough to stick to the decisions that you make. And here comes the kicker. IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOUR DECISIONS TURN OUT TO BE RIGHT OR WRONG.

Seducing a woman takes a lot of heart and a lot of strength, not just physical, but more importantly, emotional. Have a strong backbone and avoid asking for too much advice from other people just to justify your choices.

Say A Firm “No”.

On that note, you have to learn how to say “no” to women more often. If you want to get out from under her trap and stop her domination over you, you have to say “no” every once in a while (or more frequently if you want).

If you don’t, then she will automatically assume that you are easy to control and she will completely lose respect for you after that. It’s a lost cause when you’ve reached that stage.

Two babes

Once you lose her respect it’s pretty much game over for you.

Challenge Yourself

Every man has his own set of weaknesses (yes, even masters of the universe like Arnold). What you have to do is learn how to challenge yourself, so that women won’t be able to take advantage of those weaknesses once they start to date you. Learn to respect and appreciate yourself as a whole and take pride in who you are while you’re at it. After all, nobody can dominate you without your consent.

I will be lynched by feministas when I say this, but I don’t care. The truth is: women only choose to dominate men who complain about their weaknesses, who always seek for female approval, who are tentative about whatever they do, and who constantly talk about what they lack in life. So, take a stand and always be decisive from now on. This way, you will be able to control and dominate women at all times.

Use Fractionation

Many guys turn up at our doorstep with one common problem – that they have been pussywhipped by the women that they are dating. When they are already in the “damage zone” then they are in drastic need for quick fixes, and most of the time we get them to go through what we call the ultimate “SIBG shock therapy” and learn the fractionation technique.

And of course, fractionation is not for everybody, and we are mindful of the fact that there are psychos out there who misuse this technique to harm women. More details are in the link below, but IF YOU HAVE ILL INTENTIONS AGAINST WOMEN THEN DO NOT CLICK IT. We cannot be responsible with what you choose to do with this information. Thank you for understanding.

picture of a red hot thing

Watch Fractionation Video

If you have any questions, enter your comments below, or email me directly at If the email bounces, it means that I am overwhelmed with requests and will not be able to answer you. I keep my inbox small at only 10Mb in order to keep sane!

Matt Ganz SIBG


  1. Excellent. I love!

  2. James Malike says:

    This is absolutely repulsive – ‘this way, you will be able to dominate and control women at all times’? The person who wrote this sounds like a member of the Taliban, the kind of person who would stone a woman to death for marrying one of her own choice. Woman are not pet dogs, and it is crossing a line to write an article about dominating them. In Oman, the showers have blinds, so the men can watch their wives bathe. Once again, repulsive. I am absolutely disgusted that this is being publicly shown on the internet, and will file a complaint on this website and others, in order to remove information of such sexual bigotry.

    • Tanaka Tarugarira says:

      Excellent information, I like it. To those who think otherwise, lol that’s your own way of thinking & l respect that!
      I’d urge the SIBG team to ignore the critics. As from me, a loyal and grateful fan, good job well done.

      # thumbs up 😉

      • SouthernBeast says:

        I just stumbled upon this website while doing a Google search and I loved every minute of reading the website. The great thing is that it attracts more haters every day, which is a good thing (because free advertisement). Haters are gonna hate, but they also do something else and spread the message to their friends and their friend’s friends.

      • bongstar420 says:

        So its cool if I manipulate you for my own ulterior motives?

    • What you said is disgusting. It makes me sick to see men talk the way you do. People like you belong in the same category as fast food and reality shows. I don’t know if you’re American, but those are a few symtoms of America along with men losing their manhood. Men give women far too much control and being the dominate one in the relationship brings balance. Life is balance. It’s yin and yang. Not yin and yin. Doesn’t have a thing to do with bathing in Oman or Taliban. I don’t condone treating a person like a pet, but birds sing, lions roar, and a man needs to be a man. I hope to god, you don’t spread your cancerous way of thinking to future generations. Not everything is 100% fair for women yet, but they don’t need your “white knight” BS. At least give them the respect to decide if they wan’t a dominate man or not. Ask most women and you’ll find your answer quick. if they don’t…it’s 2014 and there are other options. But don’t disrespect women like they can’t make their own decisions. This article did nothing to disrespect women. However, your comments did.

      • Thank you, @Trevor. Well said.

      • bongstar420 says:

        Evolution might ruin your desire to dominate little girls…then again, it might not

      • I am a young women and love everything this website is saying. All women want a man to take charge and lead. I’m 26 years old and wish men and women knew their role in life, and not let social media make women believe they are men and have some men believe they are women. Give your your girl/wife rules she long for them

        • You’re 26, and stupid. You have no aim, and want someone to make your life easier by telling you what to do. Grow up, little girl.

        • Speak for yourself. I am a dominant woman and I would be absolutely furious with a man thinking he makes the rules because that’s how “traditional” relationships. I absolutely do NOT long for a man making rules for me. I live for a submissive man listening to me. The complete opposite of what you’re saying, trying to speak for all woman. Keep your thoughts to yourself if you’re going to try to misinform men that all women crave to be dominated.

          • *drops mic*

          • How foolish is it for the weaker vessel (weaker sex) to want to dominate the stronger sex?
            “To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” Genesis 3:16 (First book in the Bible)

            I would advise you fools not to question your Creator’s plans.

          • If that were true, who’s the lucky submissive nice guy who got to go with you for meeting your criteria?

      • Stop whining you wimp!

      • Trevor falls under the pussy whipped category

    • U r definitely The guy who is controlled by female like a dog

      • Luciaschroeder says:

        And *you’re the type of ass that thinks women are below men. Shut your cum trap.

        • Remove this ignorant woman’s comments.

        • Dude or dudette, we didn’t make the rules. Men are the dominate species because God made us that way. The truth is, women want it that way. It’s the candy ass liberals who are making society week, people aren’t all equal, and there are only two genders!
          Get over it!

    • James, people like you are bigots too. You expect everyone to think exactly the way you think, because any other way is wrong and sick. You’re a fascist dictator and you don’t even know it.

    • So, how’s that removal request coming?

    • Chill out Francis.

    • So then why come to this website dickhead, Take your white knight crap somewhere else your obviously taking what the article was about to another level. I bet you didn’t even read it.

    • Some women like to be dominated, moron!

    • lisa Vandenberg says:

      You will never be lucky enough to truly be loved, cared for and respected by a woman because she lives YOU. Just make sure your pockets are deep, you’re young as and in shape. Because only a man whose dick is as long as big as his pinky has to feel like he can get away with treating wom r n like this. Youll get what you deserve. She’ll find some adorable hot young buff cute guy who knows how tobkaugh and enjoy some fun with her. But honey trust me, these girl ads are way ahead of your BS. Do you really think young beautiful women want to hear what you really have to say…..nope! What about sleeping with you, you’re not any good in the sack. That’s what her boy toys for….dumbass. Get a clue!

      • SouthernBeast says:

        I’m not sure if you’re speaking English or Ebonics, but I’ll give you some hope and choose the former. It’s common that unhappy women come to this website and attack it with overwhelming (and predictable) irrational behaviors, but at least have your grammar legible enough to be able to receive the hate letter when read. In other words, you just went full retard. Never go full retard. It’s hard enough to comprehend stupidity, but when you write Ebonics and go full retard, that’s a whole other level of wow.

        • Marcus Renod says:

          Looooool @SouthernBeast
          SPOT ON, SPOT ON! Lisa, I understand unique and different parts of the world have a particular tendency of using their own versions of slang, but while we converse over the Internet may you refrain from using such abbreviations. I also understand that you have strong feelings that oppose the topics covered in this article, but as you know we do have the right to express our opinions without being discriminated against for them. Please, do us all a favor and return to your boring life as a single woman who attempts to dominate and control every man she has a chance at dating. Go on with treating him unfairly and forcing him to assist and complete your every desire.. Because according to you and every other fembot, men were created for the sole enjoyment and entertainment of all women on earth and thereof. Do me a favor Lisa… KYS 🙂

      • bongstar420 says:

        Its funny you think their looks makes a difference in what they want to hear…

        what about old ugly women?

        The same douchenozzel

        And most women are attracted to dominance in some way…because evolutionary, dominance gets her and her offspring fed at the expense of a competitor.

        The question is this: do you have the objective status to back up the image you constructed in her mind?

    • Stryder says:

      So we know who the article’s talking about now! LOL!

      You don’t like it don’t read it. Find a man who will bend over backwards for you while you sleep with one of his friends. 😉

    • Dude, even women know that dating is a power struggle and a game. They want us to dominate them. They will test you to see if you can handle them. In every relationship somebody wears the pants. Make sure if you’re a guy, its you.

    • James. Chill out. Women Like to be dominated. It’s a Fact

      • Sick of Stupid Men says:

        @Dsk71 –

        No… and HELL NO! Women do not like to be dominated. James is right on. We are ALL created equal. Did your Dad taught you wrong? I wonder where these morons come from.

        Guys, grow up…you are watching porn, degrading women and thinking women are like that. NO, in fact it’s against the law. Divorce rates are high because of your backward ways of thinking. Women like guys to open the doors for them, only to be nice, and NOT to be controlled, freaks!

    • Tiff Heath says:

      Agreed. Dominant men in the world are not where humans need to go to make the world a better place. The only reason some women put up with that crap is because they’ve been brainwashed for centuries by the conservative christian agenda. Evolve, people. I can say wholeheartedly that if a man is in my life trying to dominate at all costs he is getting the boot! Men need to learn to submit, not plow forward like unthinking heathens.

      • sszorin says:

        If a man in your life “tries to dominate you” then he gets the boot? And when you want to dominate him then should he give you the boot then? Hypocrite!

    • Big Dick Brody says:

      Shut up. You just wanna complain because men are outsmarting women.

    • Idiot, you can’t comprehend a simple article.

    • Thank you, James for having a brain.

      I agree with everything you said.

      As a woman, I actually find the kind of ” little men” to be extremely repulsive. They are so weak because a person who tries to dominate another is just an insecure wuss who is trying to feel better about himself.

      Women are not your objects or toys, you retard. And they don’t owe you or little men like you anything. Sure, there are some women out there who are happy being doormats to losers like you, but those women are either brain washed by stuff like the Shogun Method, are raised to not use their minds, or are put up with the likes of you because they are so desperate for a man and to be accepted that they prefer to take the easier way out and not have thoughts and opinions of their own.

      Women of character and brains don’t like to be dominated by men. Period.

  3. Put her where she belongs if she tries to take advantage of you physically.

  4. Guy who posted above me is a crybaby.

    • Tiff Heath says:

      This is the mindset that clearly screams MEN ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN. Not taken into consideration that women are still being raped and blamed for it, all the derogatory cuss words are female based. This world gets more inhumane with this male dominating type thinking, you’re certainly not making the world a better place for others, just for your selfish greedy self.

  5. Katherine Grace says:

    The person above is right. I don’t know what type of world the writer of this How To article lives in, but this is the damn 21st century. Women can be what they want to be Submissive or Dominant. They are not items to be controlled over and they do have a mind of their own.

    • SouthernBeast says:

      You misunderstand the intention of the website, it’s to help men become more confident in attracting women and has nothing to do with oppressing a woman’s precious “rights.” It’s to teach men skills in the art of courtship and dating rituals. No one is controlling anyone, so I don’t know where you think women are being controlled. Women are free to react accordingly to how well a man seduces her, nothing more, nothing less. It’s a win-win situation for both parties.

  6. James you ignorant pussy, he isnt saying lets stone women to death its just a guide to getting respect from your woman in a relationship. Its a fact, women like dominant and decisive men and not a snivelling little pussy like you. Grow some balls and remember the minute she is calling the shots you are done for..

    • Absolutely agree with you. Women like and are attracted to domineering men. Fact of life. James is in a world of his own it seems…

      • bongstar420 says:

        I get a lot of guff for being too intellectually dominating…average dominate males fly off the hing just being around me

  7. Bro. You’re a legend.
    Thank you!

  8. Never say no to a woman. Let her walk all over you because she is a woman. You can’t do that or you’re abusive and a bad person.

    • bongstar420 says:

      The more laid she gets, the more she needs to hear no.

      Let her understand that you bang her because she has tits, not because she is otherwise valuable.


  9. Haven’t had this good a laugh in a long time. Mutual respect? Pshaw! Sharing and support? Fiddlesticks! LOL. Here is what you are missing gentlemen – there are women who will tolerate this kind of treatment, but they are the damaged ones. The real alpha-males can spot a weak male by this type of dominance, because it shows fear and insecurity and an ability to only dominate women of lesser emotional stability. An emotionally healthy woman would not stay in this type of relationship, and would find a partner whose needs she could consider because hers were also being met. But good luck with this, according to Darwin you will weed yourselves out eventually. I, for one, will now go polish the many time-saving devices purchased for me by the pussy-whipped men in my life. Heh-he-he – you guys are so funny.

  10. stop the chatter says:

    Wow! We have idiots posting and attacking this site for what is said. They called themselves Americans, association that with free speech. Yet! whenever someone speaks the hypocrite Dogs slander abuse and say only their point of view. Those are the one’s that closely resembles the group’s they call out. That is the type of control that has grown to this mutts. You should go back to the rock you crawled out from and stay there and die. So that the problems that have come upon society can be reverse and fixed hypocrite. Oh how is the website removal coming. Maybe you should join the millions of gay and lesbians and ban a site that talks man issues. Since your definitely not a man that deals with women.

    • The writer is a masculist, or Men’s Rights Activist.

      • SouthernBeast says:

        Actually you’re incorrect in your term “masculist,” since it’s an adjective, not a noun. The correct term is masculinist. Also, masculinist is not the same as men’s rights activism. You’re either misinformed or you’re purposely spreading disinformation. The definition of masculinist is an “advocate of male superiority or dominance.” Men’s rights activism is “a variety of groups and individuals who are concerned about what they consider to be issues of male disadvantage, discrimination and oppression.” As you can see, both are not one in the same. Also, your opinion of the writer is at best satire, since that’s not the true intention of the author of the website.

  11. stop the chatter says:

    By the way that was spoken by a alpha dog. No hold back not afraid to die mentally which punks can only state and not do. Not a alpha modified dog that only pleases. If I had to say it to your face I would and if you wanted to get froggy I would put you out of your misery. Shut up do you, and don’t worry about anyone else’s said.

  12. Ephesians 5:22-33
    22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

    25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

  13. A limp name slimback says:

    Women are bitches, period.

    • smiling on the inside says:

      This is great!
      Guys keep pretending to have control and ladies keep pretending to give control. This is what makes the world spin.

  14. SouthernBeast says:

    Are they? If you believe all women your enemies, then the problem isn’t them, it’s you. The same concept applies when a female says “all men are jerks, unreliable, or some other subjective remark.”

  15. I’m a Dominant female and the only thing this article and the ‘alpha men’ here accomplished where to give me a great laugh. I love it when men think they run things. Men would have wiped themselves out by now if women didn’t exist. Women have control of everything, but we allow men to believe that they do. It’s the male ego–inflated and sensitive. And I love it. I also love making ‘alpha’ men my bitches, but that’s another post…

    • bongstar420 says:


      You confuse your pussy power with actual power. How do you accomplish your command without sex?

      • Strong Woman says:

        Women don’t need men for sex. And power comes from within, not from our pussies. The chicken industry knows the power of females. Kill all the asshole roosters who cock fight and try to dominate, and keep the valuable hens who lay eggs. Only one man in a crowd of women needed to keep the species alive. If more woman understood this power…. 😉

  16. All women like dominant and decisive men and not a weak, snivelling little pussy of a male. Always dominate your woman with a strong “NO” when she wants to do something that is wrong to your way of thinking. Then she will love, worship, and obey you!

    • bongstar420 says:

      I don’t see how declining something is an act of domination. Thats retarded

    • Strong Woman says:

      Lol. You’re funny. I obey NO man. But I also don’t try to control mine. How about a strong NO, I will NOT suck your duck tonight you pompous pig.

  17. Dominance is not respect........ says:

    Power or superiority over others is misuse of power in a relationship, it is not love, and Love is respect, and respect is love.
    If a man or woman believe they have the right (power) to control the person they are dating, it is an unhealthy relationship.
    Maybe men believe they should be in charge of the relationship, although being in charge does not mean misuse (abuse) of power. Any person in charge is liable to be required to give account, as of one’s actions or of the discharge of a duty or trust. Maybe they think unequal relationships are ideal.
    Dominance is not love, nor respect.
    A masculine male or feminine woman do not need to dominate to be respected, nor do they need to disown their true core masculinity or femininity to be respected.

    • This should have been the article. When a man tries to dominate me I lose all sexual attraction for him. When a man is submissive I am most attracted to him… When he treats me as his equal I consider him a practical long-term safe choice.

    • EO Lemons says:

      Love is nothing more than an emotion that reflects what one greatly desires, which means that demonstrating love to another is merely attempting to satisfy your own desires for the other. There is no other reason to love anyone or anything. To put it another way, you aren’t going to love someone or something you don’t desire, and you aren’t going to hate someone or something you desire. If two people love one another it means they do so “only” because each of them provides any number of things the other desires, to include the psychological characteristics of being dominant or submissive. Thereby, dominance is indeed love if a woman desires to be dominated, and will be one aspect of why she loves the man dominating her. Can a man even begin to demonstrate respect for a woman if he refuses to give her what she wants? Granted, domination can be carried too far, but aside from the legal limitations and repercussions corresponding to outright abuse, that too is in the eye of the beholder. You can’t proclaim your own subjective sentiments of morality, as so many on the internet do these days, as if they were objective truths. It doesn’t work that way.

  18. This is utter nonsense. People (male or female) who are spiritually connected with the universe, who are at peace within their soul, who truly accept ALL the cards life deals them will look upon this website created by silly humans and disregard it completely on the basis of its inane stupidity, bravado and egotistical standpoint. We mustn’t feed these maniacs’ logic.

  19. Interestin’

  20. How do you feel about your Mom, Sis, Daughter, Aunt and good friends that are female being treated in this manner? Remember that we all have loved ones that actually care about how others treat us. Think about it!

    • bongstar420 says:

      I think, not feel, that they are dimwits that are slaves to programming.

      …unable to understand themselves or what they actually want

  21. Women are not objects! So why should a man dominate a woman? Makes no sense.

    • EO Lemons says:

      And if the woman wants to be treated like an object, and wants to be dominated, you are already dominating her by claiming that she can’t make that choice or be this way. Sort of like the feminists who claim they are fighting for women to have a right to make their own decisions, until of course they make decisions that are not conducive to the feminist view of the world. You know like, heaven forbid, a woman who simply wants to be a housewife. Now there is the end of the world, let me tell ya. Yea, contradictions never make any sense.

  22. Smithfield100 says:

    Uh… I don’t think it means what you think it means… So is the author talking about dealing with specific female romantic partners who are controlling, who have control issues?
    Or is he talking about “how to control women”?
    He alludes to both, can’t tell if it’s accidental or intentional. I started reading the comments to get a better understanding as to which according to readers, and apparently there are A LOT of readers on here who are interpreting it as “How To Control and Dominate Women (or my partner)” in general, not “How to Deal with My Controlling Female Partner”.

    Which one does the author actually mean?

  23. Robbed Blind says:

    I would appreciate some tangible info from here on HOW exactly take control of an out of control relationship; because most women are batshit crazy ! Clearly, men have allowed women way too much power since the 50’s – when women respected their men. Their expectations are unrealistic. They want a tough guy…then she complains how he beats her. I lost EVERYTHING to a manipulative, gold-diggin’ whore (which is quite standard today). I’m not getting involved again, until i learn how to get the upper hand.

  24. GirlNextDoor says:

    What a bunch of crap I just read!

    I don’t mind a man wanting to take the lead or be the leader… but I do have a major problem when they try to control me. One guy had to learn the hard way when he walked out a restaurant 30 minutes after I arrived, and he had begged me to come. He walked out with an attitude as though he was going to teach me a thing or two, but I then got in my car 10 minutes later and drove HOME! His loss.

    Any man who does not respect, cherish and even love me for who I am, and does not respect boundaries is DONE! Sorry, guys.

    I am a hard working former single parent who is used to the nice things, but I had earned everything on my own, and there is no way a man is going to walk into my life and think he is taking over… just not happening!

    • RobustEntry says:

      Single parent? That says it all. Either you are not competent enough to find a suitable partner in the first place or you fucked it up with a good one. It says more about you, than about the people in your environment. Good luck being a mum and dad in one person. I’m sure your kid is going to end up with some issues as happens to so many these days where the state gives all these benefits to the “independent” single mums. You are not independent, you just shifted your dependence to a different entity. What a joke!

  25. Pinuel Basumatary says:

    I hope after reading this paragraph i might be able to dominate my wife who all times try to handle me and my things. Am ignoring the criticism comments mentioned above.

  26. Hanna13 says:

    The person who wrote this should be beheaded.
    One rotten apple creates more rotten apples.
    Creepy misogynists.
    Stay away from creeps like this.
    Don’t touch them don’t date them.
    They will end up killing you and their own kids out of some jealous fit of rage.

  27. Whoa; I’ve been looking for domination pointers “in the bedroom”, but this seems more like a lifestyle.
    My wife and I enjoy a happy partnership, where both of us ask permission for certain things because that’s the way any relationship should be. Neither of us is overly controlling, and our marriage is a happy and loving one. We enjoy changing up in the bedroom and are both in the midst of learning domination from our respected sides because we like to mix things up; I enjoy being tied to the bed posts as does she, and we both enjoy being in charge just as much-but these are bedroom activities only; our life together is a partnership through and through; not a power struggle.

    I’ve learned much from various domination “tips” from online resources, and this is the only website that has almost 100% bad female feedback; and I think readers and publishers need to take that into account.

    If anyone whom is reading this has also read the Fifty Shade’s of Grey series, then they would know the contrast between the two; domination can be sexy and invigorating, but overly dominating and controlling is a turn-off.

    I think the fact brought up of emotionally damaged females liking this lifestyle is correct; as this would lead to cuckqueaning which involves a great deal of humiliation to the woman. Maybe this would be a great article for the short-term fling, but all in all, there is no long-term relationship to be had in this day and age with this kind of mindset.

    Thank you for the quick read, but I will have forgotten this page ever existed five minutes after posting this comment.

  28. Happierthaneva! says:

    This only works for repressed women who are truly submissive underneath their dominant exterior. My wife was one of those women, and after years of being at each others’ throats, we have settled into a D/s type relationship. Some women are naturally dominant, and doing this kind of stuff to them will not end well, lol. This is why it’s good to discuss sexual preferences and fantasies with your SO.

    My wife always acted dominant, and I just figured that was what she liked for years. However, when 50 shades came out, she started asking me about the movie and my thoughts on it. I, like the dumbass that I am lol, acted disgusted by it because I thought she was seeing if I agreed with this ‘horrible’ movie. Imagine my surprise when she actually told me she thought it was hot!

    Since then, we’ve had a great marriage. I was always more dominant tbh, but I just repressed it like she did her submissiveness. I was embarrassed to be seen as just another ‘dirty man’, and I always had the nice guy image. Tbh, I was carrying a lot of anger by repressing myself, and it came out in all kinds of ways that I’m not proud of. My wife was the same way. We both seemed to hate ourselves because we thought our true self was disgusting and gross. We no longer have hardly any fights, and I no longer look at porn (unless my wife is away or sick) due to the fact that my sex life is hotter than porn anyway. ;p

    Now, the issue I have with articles like this is how they assume there is a one-size-fits-all approach to sexuality. Yes, some or even most women might like this forcefulness and show of masculinity, but they don’t all like the same thing! Assuming women are some monolithic entity (like feminists assume men are) is a recipe for disaster. Just like some men love being a submissive, some women like to be the domme.

    The best idea is to discuss your fantasies with your SO, and please be patient with them! My wife still claims to not have any fantasies to me even after we’ve been doing this for a year now. It’s like she is embarrassed to be seen as a women who is a ‘slut’. I have learned her fantasies by experimenting, but she will not ever say them aloud to me. It’s very strange, but that’s what happens when we have a group of feminists (who probably have never seen the opposite nude up close unless it’s porn.) tell the rest of us what ‘women really want’.

  29. The person who wrote this is clearly a genius.

  30. Maleandlovingit says:

    The whole problem of this is revealed in the comments of the readers. There are 3 types of people on this board…1) angry men who at one point had a controlling and dominate female in their life who broke their spirit 🙁 2) women who are so called “feminists” i.e. “I am an insecure control freak” who have extreme ideals about male bashing revenge and 3) hurt women who have been taken advantage of by w man at one point and hate men with a seething passion at this point. It’s sad really, and I hope to god these 3 types never never never have offspring, they are not fit to be parents and not fit to create a family. Someone left a bible verse about 30 comments up and even if your not a bible believer, you should gleen from it because it screams with truth.

  31. Strong Woman says:

    Only a cowardly pig will dominate a woman, and only an insecure woman will dominate a man. It takes a real man and real woman in power, TOGETHER, with mutual respect to make a relationship work. And smart women worth her spit won’t put up will men’s bullshit. I know, I divorced two men who tried to dominate me. I had more balls than both of them combined. Finally married one who ‘gets it’ and he is strong, independent, makes his own decisions, and allows me to do the same. On decisions that effect both of us, we both compromise and meet in the middle. Good luck being alone with an empty-minded slave woman if that’s what you want. Because love never comes from a place of FEAR, and a woman who is respected is a woman who gives a man his freedom so long as he is trustworthy.

  32. I want to know how to keep my woman submissive and subservient to me.

  33. Many critics of this information don’t get it. If a man doesn’t influence and control, he just very well may end up being influenced and controlled, and this isn’t about having a Afghanistan Taliban mindset over his girlfriend, or wife or whatever. If you don’t exert control, or have the relationship where everything is suppose to be equal, you can easily lose your identity as a man. I recently saw a man carrying an infant, in a baby carrier that was strapped to his chest! I was repulsed by the sight, and actually felt sorry for him. Equality anyone? No thanks. The sexes aren’t equal, and never have been. Any man who thinks he can have an equal relationship with a woman, is looking at potential disaster. I’ve seen it too many times with men I knew who tried this, and they paid a high price for thinking this way by treating their women as so called equals.

  34. mike rose says:

    Well, so……has anyone of you people born after 1990 read the bible? Sure doesnt seem like it. Its in our genetics to be this way. Its biology. Get over it. We got too many men acting like women and women acting like men. The bible speaks truth. But it also told us women would decieve thier husbands i to submission. This is one of the signs of the end of days. Looks like lucifer is winning. Read the bible people. Lol

  35. Know your role and Shut your mouth!

Speak Your Mind