How To Attract A Woman By Pushing Her Away

The conventional wisdom says that it’s the guy’s job to chase, and the female’s job to push the guy away. That’s nonsense. As far as we are concerned, it’s the guy’s job to do both.

This is also how seduction based on Mind Control is different. “Pickup Artists” focus entirely on the chase, while Mind Control seducers both entice and repel in order to attract.
Enticement is never enough. When you have sufficiently enticed a woman, you need to push her away. Newbies often attempt to entice a woman too much – up to the point when she feels uncomfortable. You’ve got to know when you’ve generated enough interest in your target that you must start to repel her.

When you push her away, it immediately intensifies attraction. At the same time, it also makes her feel more comfortable as you’ve now stopped trying to get into her pants since you’re pushing her away. Her conscious self-defense mechanism temporarily eases (or shuts down altogether) to your advantage.

To repel a woman, you push her away using what we call “Devalidation”. Unlike other Mind Control techniques, when you Devalidate a woman, you’re working on her conscious mind. In other words, you want her to consciously KNOW and FEEL that you are deliberately pushing her away.

One way to Devalidate a woman is to send her Mixed Signals. When you’re trying to attract a woman, it’s natural to project interest, but it also will make her guard go up because you’re essentially trying to get something out of her.

To negate this possibly harmful effect, you can Devalidate her by sending out “Mixed Signals” with this verbal structure:

“<Positive Emotion> + <Negative Emotion>”

Here are some examples.

“I kinda like you. But I’m not really sure…”

“Wow, I’m impressed. So far, I mean. In the next five minutes you may say something silly and completely ruin it.”

You may hug her, and then immediately push her away and say: “That’s just like hugging my little sister.”

You can hold her hand, and say, “We can do this, but don’t get any funny ideas.”

There are two more ways to Devalidate a woman: namely via Negative Body Language and through the “Break Point”. These techniques are found inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method which is a seduction system based on cutting-edge Mind Control and deep persuasion.

When used correctly, Mind Control techniques can get a woman to fall in love far quicker than the usual Pickup Artist tricks. These remain somewhat hidden in the underground until they have been exposed to the mainstream recently.

For more on how you can use Mind Control techniques to manipulate a woman’s mind and make her fall in love with you:

Watch this video below –

For more (rather insidious!) mind control seduction techniques on how to manipulate (and emotionally enslave) a woman, click here.


  1. Wolfgang Sprung Jr. says

    I believe this may work, but it should not be played too far. Many women have played hard to get with and they went way over the top with it and not even one of them got me in the end.

  2. Whatever says

    You are single-handedly responsible for ending thousands of potentially great relationships before they even begin. This works no doubt, but why spread this information?

    I met an amazing guy recently who started pulling this hot and cold crap on me! I’m in top physical shape and get hit on constantly by men. But somehow he stuck into my mind like a leech. Even as I know my worth and the minute I noticed he was pulling this crap I just couldn’t quit him. I tried to chase him and I can’t move on. I really liked this guy, but these are red flags that would have repelled me but I just couldn’t help it…

    So guys, if you wanna hurt a woman then go ahead and try this. It works, no doubt. I’m an independent ambitious HOT woman with good self worth, and as much as I hate admitting it, it worked on me. And it hurt me really bad because he was just using me as an experiment.

  3. If I see I guy playing games like this, I kick him to the curb immediately. This is manipulative and an indication of an abusuve, unemotionally available male. No intelligent, decent, psychology developed woman will be attracted by this self centered, controlling behavior.


    Hahaha…… I’m a woman with 3 sisters and this is infuriatingly UNattractive behavior to most women. It’s odd so many men think it’s a turn on. Also nearly every guy I’ve dated has done this to some extent, and it was ALWAYS annoying, and started getting predictable.

    Now I’m so fed up I just get rid of men quickly as soon as they show signs of liking this game. I’ll be alone forever if I have to be.
    The only kind of women who are attracted to this type of behavior are unhealthy, and a lot of them are downright stalkerish, clingy and needy to the point they will not disappear even when you really want them to.

    Look at women’s favorite romance movies—like The Princess Bride, Bridges of Madison County, The Notebook, and you’ll see a common theme: The men have unwavering devotion towards her and only her.

    Go ahead and get your space when needed, but best to let her know “I’ll be busy for a while” or something instead of disappearing with the intent of making her wonder if you’ve lost interest in her.

    It’s also pretty mean if you think about it. Thanks for the laugh, though.

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