Good Questions to Ask a Girl

Introduction from Matthew (matt@sibg.com): I have asked Patrick Forest (our guest instructor from Australia) to talk about the questions to ask a woman when seducing her online. Now these are also useful in face-to-face situations: just adapt!

The following article has been transcribed from a talk given by Patrick Forest to Baltimore Seduction Lair in March. Patrick is an all-time hustler and seducer with a head full of hair even at 40!

So look here, my SIBG.com brothers. If you are interested in trying out online dating, then you need to know that it isn’t just about filling your profile page with little details and pictures about yourself. You will also have to learn how to interact with girls well. As such, you might want to learn some good questions to ask a girl online before actually asking her out.

Naturally, you will also need to keep in mind that the ultimate key to succeeding in online dating is to create attraction with a girl as soon as possible. Fortunately, girls are emotional creatures, so all you have to do is make an impact on their emotions and ask the right questions in order to get them to like you.

Here’s online dating 101. Before you try to win a girl over, though, you have to decide what kind of girl you want to meet online first. There wouldn’t be any point in running after all of them because girls won’t find that attractive. Since there are so many girls to choose for online, though, the best way to go about it would be to ask several girls certain questions that will tell you more about them. Make sure you have fun while you do this, though, so you can successfully create attraction while finding out more about each girl’s personality.

Question Number One: What do you do on weekends?

This question is pretty self-explanatory and you can change it as needed. If the girl’s profile page already mentions what she does on weekends, for example, you can ask her something about her favorite activities instead. The best thing about this question is that it is safe, but can still be a fun way to find some things that you have in common with a girl. It serves as a great icebreaker, too.

Question Number Two: Have you met any guys that you really don’t like online?

Make sure you add some playfulness into the mix here, so you can start up some good banter as time goes by. Asking this question won’t just make you stand out from the other guys that girls meet online, but it will also show girls that you think differently, in general. This will, in turn, create attraction in no time.

Question Number Three: Do you enjoy online dating?

As usual, make sure you add some playfulness into the mix here because the whole point is to come up with interesting and fun conversations. Make sure you pay close heed to her answers, too, since you could learn a lot from her previous experiences in online dating this way. Plus, you will be able to find out more about what she likes and what she dislikes through her answers.

Don’t think that it’s just online dating. A study shows that the most successful marriages are from online dating. As mentioned earlier, these three questions aren’t exactly set in stone or anything, so you can change them up anytime, as needed. As a matter of fact, it would be best to change them according to your current situation and your overall personality. Besides, using canned questions and lines that don’t suit your style might just throw girls off – remember that.

Bonus Tip: Use Covert Hypnosis

Finally, when you ask a girl these questions, insert some hypnotic phrases in order to build and deepen the attraction. Now if you’re already a senior member of SIBG then you should already know these covert tricks at the back of your hand. Matt told me that you guys worship at the altar of Derek Rake, and I can personally attest to the effectiveness of Derek Rake’s techniques… in particular, fractionation.

But before you delve into that technique, know this – I am convinced that there is a conspiracy to STOP newbies or people outside the ‘circle’  to learn about fractionation. We can understand this; the fact is that the less people know this then it’s better for the rest of us.

Matt is concerned that some guys misuse this technique and use it to mistreat women. So, if you are out there to “take revenge” on women who have been rejecting you, then don’t learn fractionation. I am serious. Don’t.

Now if you are one of the “good guys” then check this out.