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  1. Ryan Sherman says:

    Maybe the you should talk or eat together that would be nice !! and she getting bills after you eat maybe that girls like you :))

  2. Blow jobs are usually a sure sign.

  3. I have a colleague who used to work in my office whom I fell in love with. She used to wear a wonderful perfume. I never told her anything due to professional reasons.
    She was transferred to another office and we started regular chats via an internal communicator system. What used to be just professional became very personal.
    I ended up telling her that I loved her perfume and it was very feminine and nice….She told me “why don’t you buy it and give it to someone?” …I said…”how about if someone doesn’t like it ?”…she said….”you can buy it for your next someone”…….Hmmm…interesting conversation……what do you think ?

    • Matthew Ganz says:

      A sure interest indicator. Important to keep building up the attraction, and then move on to comfort phase.

  4. See, i like someone named sarah. And she does all of the above, besides #6. So, how would i know sf she still likes me?

    • Matthew Ganz says:

      All you need is just one or two of these signals. Then move on to build up attraction, and move on to comfort phase. Read SIBG.com religiously. :)

  5. StStephy says:

    Those are all signs that a girl is flirting with you, but they aren´t at all unconscious actions girls fall into when they like a guy. They use the same techniques on guys they want attention from, but they are not really interested on sleeping with, or dating at all.
    Girls use those techniques also to keep guys “friend-zoned” when they feel like they are drifting away.
    I´m sure you´re a super casanova, and might have mastered seduction techniques, but guys without your skill could be confused.
    When a girl is really into you, not just consciously flirting, you should look at the “mistakes” she makes while flirting (overflirting, trying too hard to keep her cool and stuff) If she gives you explanations you never asked for while telling you a story, about why she did something, it´s likely that she´s really into you, and doesn´t want you to think lower of her, those are the kind of signs that give her away. If she´s flirting, she may not be into you at all, she may just be flattering herself with your attention.

    • Matthew Ganz says:

      That’s a very valid point. A woman player will know these signs and then “fake” them in order to trap a guy.

      It takes experience to catch a woman player. Comes with practice! :)

      • There is no such thing as a woman player. Take this from a REAL PLAYA.. The only way to ensure you are not being played is by asking her to do things for you, and make sure that even if you are doing things for her, what she does for you is of higher worth. This is the ONLY way to identify a woman that is into you. Period dot.

        • this is actually pretty accurate. Now that you say that, when i hang out with this girl that i think she’s in to me, i sometimes act lazy and ask her to do pretty basic stuff for me, she would always act like bashing on me but in a funny way and would do it anyway while laughing to each other.

  6. Issac Roscow says:

    Ok so in school I have a crush on melody, I always tease her and normally in class she responds by calling names back at me But then ,Matthew my best bro had a crossword puzzle which she showed her name on it I called her that then she smiled slightly and stared at me which then she turned her head around. Does she like me?

    • okwudiri says:

      yes bro she really loves you

      • Dear,
        Please help me, how can i know, I have a crush on a girl at my school, she always smiles when looking at me, she always touchs her hair when looking at me, but i have no conversation with her, how cn i know does she likes or loves me….

  7. lawrence royce delos santos says:

    i know a girl, we live in one house with my cousin, she always make jokes that make me smile every time . . . XD .
    is that a sign?? 😀 .

  8. Hi there all, here every one is sharing these knowledge,
    thus it’s good to read this blog, and I used to
    visit this website all the time.

  9. If she walks with you without you really asking or suggesting it is that a sign? I mean I will be talking with her as we walk to her next class then once we are their she doesn’t peel off to go to the class or stop talking and say bye, so I just continue to walk around with her, at the same time there is a silent period and so I sit at a bench and she just stands next to me and listens to me and responds to my questions and comments, but completely forgets what she is or was supposed to be doing, so I reminder her and so I walk her back to her class but then she says bye before we get there and walks over to her friends. Is she just fuckin with me or am I not reading the signs? If so what do I do next?? Today I gave her her space and didn’t talk to her today but was in the same place as her sometimes, so I try not to notice or look at her but out of the corner of my eye I see her look back hearing my voice. I am confused on what to do next I mean I have looked at this site and done these techniques before but that was years ago, I had completely forgotten about this site until now. So i am here asking for help what do I do, Preferably Matt.

    Thanks, Ethan

  10. If the girl I like walks with you without you really asking or suggesting
    it is that a
    sign? I mean I will be talking with her as we walk to her next class then
    once we are their she doesn’t peel off to go to the class or stop talking
    and say bye, so I just continue to walk around with her, at the same time
    there is a silent period and so I sit at a bench and she just stands next
    to me and listens to me and responds to my questions and comments, but
    completely forgets what she is or was supposed to be doing, so I reminder
    her and so I walk her back to her class but then she says bye before we get
    there and walks over to her friends. Is she just fuckin with me or am I not
    reading the signs? If so what do I do next?? Today I gave her her space and
    didn’t talk to her today but was in the same place as her sometimes, so I
    try not to notice or look at her but out of the corner of my eye I see her
    look back hearing my voice. I am confused on what to do next I mean I have
    looked at this site and done these techniques before but that was years
    ago, I had completely forgotten about this site until now. So i am here
    asking for help what do I do, Preferably Matt.

    Thanks, Ethan

  11. In my office there is a girl whom first unknowingly i saw her. then later that has turned so deep i was in love. but when i saw her she turns her head away, sometimes she sees me i can feel it.

    does she like me, shall i propose to her

    • Just ask her on a date first start with a lunch date then, if things go well at the end of your date tell her, “Hey I think your a pretty great woman, can I take some of your time for dinner some night?” And if she says yes to that your pretty much set. The thing I have learned is to take those leaps of faith and straight out ask her, if she says no just drop her off the radar, and if she says she’s busy constantly when you ask her she just doesn’t think your worth her time to open up an hour and a half of her time for you.

      Good luck and write back.
      Ethan

    • Don’t you think you should ask her out first, instead of going straight for the marriage? Just saying…

  12. khumalo nqobizitha says:

    if some loves you for real they will do something in their powerful to show. don’t. asume,don’t use emotions but use mind.

  13. I like this girl. She stares at me a lot, but we don’t really talk. But like I said before she stares so much. So what do I do?

  14. Those signs are not 100% sure that a girl like you. Some use to sign to draw attention of guys even if they dont like you. Especially those guys that are not sharp. In order to make demand request from a guy to cater for them. So u will think she like u not knowing that are lust. When u stop offering them help and satisfying their want they will change completely.

  15. I’m so in love with this girl named Xavia. I deeply truly am in love. Problem is we barely see each other in person, the only time we talk is usually at school or we would text. She said to me that she likes it when I’m around her then other guys. Does that mean she likes me?

  16. Stop looking for “signs” that she likes you. You will only get confused by the many users out there. Require her to take “actions” that “prove” she likes you. Make her cook for you, take you out, buy you gifts, make trips to see you. Etc. if she is not engaging in “actions” that “prove” she likes you, you are wasting your time.

    Women make men “prove” their feelings buy asking for dates, gifts, money, etc.

    Remember guys, you are a prize also!

    • Anonymous says:

      The hell, man? Women don’t have to buy you gifts to “prove themselves”, as long as she cares about you, that’s enough damned proof. Get some class, kid.

  17. So there’s a special woman that I like a lot, but I don’t think I have the balls to ask her out or tell her how I feel. I’m not really friend-zoned either. She pays more attention to me than other guys usually. Should I go for it or am I the one being a little baby? I’m just too scared of losing her as she is the perfect woman and all the guys I’ve talked to about her says she is a perfect 10/10.

  18. There is a girl who comes into where I work who I fancy. When she comes up to the counter she smiles and says hi. Sometimes she makes small conversations and sometimes when our eyes meet she smiles and looks away? Is she interested in me?

    • You should make your first impression with I notice we smile @ each other a lot can we have fun over dinner because I would really love to take you out….and cross your fingers because 9/10 your first instinct is right

  19. Well this girl has did all of those for me believe it or not but i dunno.. I’m still not sure. She’s comes to sit next to me in class and fidgets with stuff. I catch her looking at me and when I notice she looks a couple more seconds and she tries and make me laugh but she says I’m “so funny”.

    I guess if she likes me (it’s obvious now LOL) but how should I make the first move because she’s shy also? Yes, she’s hot LOL

    • If you are sure she likes you, then try to start a conversation about her favorite movie. Sometimes just start with a simple “hi”!

      Anyway, ask her about the movie, then say something like “Sounds like a good movie. Can I watch it with you sometime?”

  20. This woman works at a wholesaler I shop at. She has been he most beautiful woman I know since I met her 15 years ago. She was married up till about 2 1/2 years ago, so I just thought she was a pretty woman.
    1 year ago she changed jobs within the wholesaler so now she works at the counter and helps me directly. My Marriage started falling apart a year ago and I am separated now. At the time my marriage started deteriorating I started have huge feelings for the beautiful woman. She is very social and into fitness and so I have taken up running and lifting weights.
    She hugged me at the only social event (Christmas party hosted by her co-worker) and told me she was happy I came out and was having fun.
    I don’t know if I am in the friend zone and rely on this wholesaler for my business. I have seen her twirl her hair, laugh at my stupid jokes and she has shared some personal info with me. She touched me the other day and it almost sent me to the moon. I suppose I just need to ask her to dinner but am terrified to find she won’t accept or worse do it because she feels bad for my situation at home. Advice?

  21. Recently I went out with girl, and I had made the mistake of showing my hand too early. Then I realized I was being mind-fucked. I quickly backed off and told her I wasn’t as into her as I thought. In short, I left the ball in her court. Is it too late to recover?

  22. She gave me her number so I could contact her about something about work… and since then we message about 100 times a day (not every day though). She did messaged me when I was on holiday. So, is she into me or playing me?

  23. Does a girl like you if she occasionally pats you on the head or rustle with your hair in class when she walks by?

  24. Hi I have recently fell in love with a friend. We met about a year ago, but got closer recently. As far as I am concerned, she never rejected me if I ask her out to hangout (tennis, walks, dine, etc.). We do not see each other everyday but we communicate often via text. When we hang out, we can chat for hours…time flies when I am with her. I am terrible at identifying body languages but she does not mind if I touch her (appropriately). Last night, she insisted on paying for our dinner because ‘I taught her how to drive and I paied for the last dinner we had together.’ Do you think I have a good chance of confronting her successfully? This is sort of vague but any opinions will be greatly appreciated. Thanks! And we are both 20.

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