Just last week a newbie joined us here at the Baltimore Seduction Lair, and the first question he asked was, “Matthew, how do I make a woman want me? To be honest, I’m pretty desperate at this stage, and I’ll do almost anything.”
Indeed, any (straight) man out there will easily admit that they want to learn how to make women want them more often than not.
In fact, the desire to learn how to make a woman want you is probably deeply ingrained in your male psyche, no matter what you try to do to resist it. So here’s the bottom line: it’s inside your DNA! Don’t fight it! 😉
Unfortunately, the sad reality is that the vast majority of men in today’s day and age have lots of trouble doing this.
Now here’s the kicker…
A lot of guys end up in the dreaded friend zone or lose their girlfriends early on.
Why? It’s because they weren’t able to maintain that necessary spice in the relationship that women always crave.
So, what gives?
Of course, nothing can stop you from using a “seduction shortcut” like fractionation (free video guide here) to immediately hack into her mind and make her want you like how a fat boy desires a greasy hamburger with a side of fries…
…but as with everything here in SIBG.com, we recommend working your way up from the basics so that you have firm grip on what really works (without having to overly rely on a “Magic Seduction Pill” like fractionation.)
More on fractionation later below. Now let’s dive into the basics first, shall we?
How To Make Her Want You: The Basics
New joiners of the Baltimore Seduction Lair receive what we call the Foundations which contains the three “quick win” techniques that any guy can use to immediately see improvement in their dating lives.
So what we are sharing here are what we call the Stage 1 techniques that can help you make a woman want you in a sexual manner and turn her on for a long time to come.
Technique #1: Congruency
Now this might sound strange, but many guys fail to act like a real man when in the presence of women.
What they tend to do the most is do everything in their power to befriend women, not realizing that by doing so, they lose their masculine edge and fail at sexually attracting them. This, my dear amigo, is a bad, bad mistake.
OK, don’t get me wrong now. Keep in mind that there is nothing problematic with having things in common with a woman and being able to relate to one’s feminine side of the personality.
However, you should never lose your manly edge since that is what will actually make women sexually attracted to you in the long run.
In short: being a congruent man is a first step to seduction success. Don’t worry – we will whip you into shape in no time. 🙂 Continue reading!
Technique #2: Use Implanted Commands
Implanted Commands are tools used by Mind Control seductionists (like Derek Rake) to influence a woman’s subconscious to make her want a man.
Simply put, an Implanted Command is a phrase in a sentence which if spoken on its own, it would be a “direct” command.
Here’s the structure of a sample Implanted Command which you can use today:
Some examples (the Implanted Command is in bold):
- “Sure, I can tell you that I am the one you’re looking for, but I won’t.”
- “Sure, I can tell you that your boyfriend is a jerk and you should dump him today, but I won’t.”
- “Sure, I can tell you that you’ve always wanted me to be your boyfriend, but I won’t.”
Quite simple, isn’t it?
Here’s how an Implanted Command works:
An Implanted Command gets automatically accepted by a woman because it works on her subconscious, completely bypassing her rational mind.
In other words, it “sneaks” under her conscious mind and as such, she won’t be able to reject the suggestion.
Astonishing, isn’t it?
There’s something you need to be careful about when using Implanted Commands though…
You can use Implanted Commands to make a woman have sexual feelings for you – that’s for sure.
However, guys who are not skilled at using Implanted Commands make one particular mistake whenever they try to talk dirty to a woman, and it is this…
You see, instead of using the right Implanted Commands that will arouse her and fire up her imagination, they end up using the wrong ones and sounding like they want to be part of an adult movie – and a bad one at that!
For example: never say something like “Sure, I can tell you that licking my lollipop is an orgasmic experience, but I won’t.” and not expect to be kicked in, well, your lollipops. *grin*
With experience, you will know which words are acceptable in an Implanted Command and which ones aren’t first, so that you can arouse the woman that you are with instead of turning her off and looking like a complete jerk.
Even better: learn the full Implanted Commands technique inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method (there’s a list of 44 “pick and use” Implanted Commands as well as the pitfalls to avoid – highly recommended.)
Technique #3: Non-Verbal Attraction
A lot of guys who come up to the Baltimore Seduction Lair for the first time mistakenly believe that they know exactly how body language works and how to use it right in order to attract women.
If you currently aren’t getting the positive results that you have been hoping for in the dating game, then you probably have some space for improvements either way.
So here’s the deal: if you constantly portray the right body language to a woman, you shouldn’t have any trouble making her sexually attracted to you on a very primal level. With the right non-verbal technique, you can pretty much control and manipulate her mind at will.
Needless to say, the topic of body language seduction has been covered quite extensively. Indeed, it is quite impossible to be covered completely in this short guide.
However, here’s a shortcut Non-Verbal Attraction technique which you can use immediately: mirror her. This means that you should copy her movements as she talks to you.
There is a pitfall that you should be aware though. If you come across as too obvious, she might feel as if you’re mocking her.
Here’s how to avoid that pitfall: wait for THREE SECONDS before you mirror her particular movement. This way, you’ll completely slip under the radar as you continue to work on her subconscious.
And once you’ve done this correctly, she will feel that she has built an emotional rapport with you, and will feel comfortable even as you escalate your game to take things to the next level.
Pretty awesome, right?
Advanced Seduction: Mind Hacking
Many of our members are eager to use more powerful techniques in order to cut the chase and quickly attract women. We usually advise men to work on the basic techniques first however.
With that said, we do have access to “mind hacking” techniques which would give any guy the “seduction superpowers” to quickly hack into a woman’s mind and make her feel instant attraction.
We are, however, hesitant to share this technique with anyone because it can be dangerous if it falls into the hands of the irresponsible.
One of these “mind hack” techniques, fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love in as little as fifteen minutes from start till finish. Because of its effectiveness, I usually don’t share it with newbies for fear of abuse or misuse.
So, if you do want to learn this technique, you must promise me that you won’t use this technique to hurt women. Also, you agree to absolve SIBG.com from any liability – what you do with the technique is entirely up to you.
Click on this link below ONLY if you agree with the above conditions. Thank you for understanding.
Final note from me: use fractionation to seduce women like a champ… but remember to be responsible!
-Matthew Ganz, founder, Baltimore Seduction Lair (SIBG.com)
Last Updated: October 26th, 2016
PS: Leave me a message below if you need any help or clarification about this guide. Now go get ’em! 🙂